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Ya i am a barefoot tippy toe gal unless a request is made lol. Spent many years in the corporate world wearing heels. Now, whenever possible i am barefoot!!! Stiĺl own some killer heels though.

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Just got home from spending 6 days in Punta Cana at one of the Secrets Resorts.. The weather was rainy upon arrival but got better as time went on. Relaxed and ready to meet my gentlemen friends again!

ust noticed that today is my 7th year on Lyla. 7 years ago I signed up as a member. Spent the first several months, reading the various threads and discussions. Finally got the nerve to meet a SP. Very nervous about it. I was only going to try it one time. I picked a highly reviewed girl. I was nervous when i met her, but she was great and had a lot of fun, so much that I saw her again. This got my confidence up so I met another one, which did not go so well. I did not give up and met another one that I connected with, so much that I am still seeing her 7 years later. This was meant to be a one time experience. But I was addicted. Being a shy guy for most of my life. And been able to spend sexy time with beautiful gorgeous women just built my confidence. I soon started meeting new women and repeating with them. Many of them I had become friends with. Then I tried some MA's at the spas, and enjoyed the experiences. Some of them left to become independent and I met them at their incalls. Several of them became friends with me, they gave me extra time and special treats. One of them even made me dinner and lunch a few times. I got to know many of them by their real names and heard their life stories. Most were students or ex-wifes with children that they were trying to support, some were in pretty bad situations. But many that I met really did enjoy their jobs and great at it. I learnt a lot from them and respect them and their life experiences. It is their experiences that make them the strong independent women that they are today. I spent the first several years making friends in the chat rooms. would spend hours each night chatting away. Too bad people don't use the chat rooms anymore. I then started participating in the threads and started posting many of my own. I was happy to start topics of all sorts. Many of which are still being viewed. But then came Bill c36 which changed the whole mood of the board, censorship came and less people were posting. But soon life went on, but not as openly as fun as before. Thankfully not much had changed. I still continue meeting women and having fun. In the last 7 years I have met many of most reviewed women. I have managed to meet many of the legends of Ottawa. Some which are still around, but many have retired and left the business. Hopefully with happy lives. However some I have heard had passed away . I have found in the last 2 years that many women have been joining the business and many beautiful young women have been joining the spa as MA's. I've started to meet many of them. Most are very beautiful and sexy. And I have been enjoying myself meeting them. Just wanted to thank all the men and women here for making Lyla a great community I've enjoyed myself here and have met many great women and chatted and pm'ed with many of the great gentlemen here who have made Lyla the great community that it has become. Hopefully with the new future owners of Lyla, we can keep this a positive community. 7 years here has made me a older more confident man. Have had many great experiences with beautiful sexy women. Hope to meet many more.

SOD it's rare these days to read something that makes you pause, reread for nuance, and rethink. These boards are the last place I would look for intellectual stimulation, but happily you haven't disappointed me yet ;) Cheers !

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Soo many sexy pictures!!! Makes me want to look at different sexy lingerie online and just shop shop shop!! :P I love finding sexy different outfits theres so many. Love the pictures <3

I normally only meet providers that have a website. It shows that you are serious and it also has all the information I'm looking for. I find it there is less chance of mishaps if I can find the information and also see a variety of clear photos of the provider, not just the cell phone selfie boob shot :) So for me a website does make a difference when it comes to selecting.

Hello Everyone First I would like to thank everyone for their condolences,they are appreciated by her many friends and family. This isnt good news,but it is somehow better news than what we were given before.It doesnt bring Summer back,and it still causes a great deal of pain, but different. And here is why...the detectives found security footage in her building.She was NOT assaulted.Fortunately,she was not assaulted,BUT,I suspect she was in a tremendous pain.It shows Summer taking two winter tires into a stair well(to store for summer).A few minutes later,she is shown in the elevator holding her head and in obvious distress.The tires were found in the stairwell and a radiator at the foot of the stairs had Summers hair on it.So she must have fallen down the stairs with the tires and hit her head on the radiator so hard that it fractured the back of her skull, and caused an enormous brain bleed in the front of the brain.She was found half on and off the couch.She had to have been in terrible pain with these types of injuries.So I am glad she wasnt fighting for her life but the pain had to have been blinding.So Summer doesnt come back....but now we know Written by Summers sister If ppl are wondering why I have posted this,we close friends decided her family needs the help and people would like to know Summer had three children and they could desperately use the help Here is the link http://www.gofundme.com/funeral-expenses-for-penny-sherwood Any help is appreciated Alex

This British lady is everything I wanted in one. Bookings is easy, her text messages might fool u into thinking she is cold and has an attitude, which I did, but when I finally saw her today, I found her to be a very friendly and sincere lady. The way she threw her heels on the floor made me feel like being in a movie, seductive and natural. Speaking of which she definitely has a movie star character, gorgeous face, and the smile. She also threw her panties later which was another sexy move. Her body is smooth, soft, and in great shape, a few delicate tattoos. I'm a feet guy and she definitely has a pair of cute and sexy feet, it's hard to find a perfect pair of feet like that. I can't emphasize enough on how natural our time was, she meant everything she did and I enjoyed everything she did. Soft tongue, soft lips, with a side of willingness, dangerous combination. The rest can be summed up in: ultimate gfe. I'm always cautious about the time cuz I don't want stay longer than the set time. When we are done I said "I wish we didn't go over time", she said no way with a big smile, but then we saw it was literally right on time. I don't think anything speaks louder of "no clock watching" than that, she enjoys the time with you, which honestly is the reason why we do this and ultimately that's the hardest thing to get. Hugs and goodbyes, until next time, Charlotte Quinn.

I loved these pictures this agency does with all its 25 companions. They each have different poses with Teddy as well as their own pictures and each has a video. All are in their 20's and stats shown. If only we could do this in the U.S. and I'd love to be their Teddy. Hourly rate is $CDN200/hour = about $US150/hour Attached is an image I put together of my favorite 5 shots, each is a different gal but they kind of look similar. AHHHH... why can't I attach jpg....manage attachment clicking makes like its trying open something (spinning blue thingy) but doesn't vs posting rule says I may. Ok it was a collage of 5 of my favorite pics of 5 of the 25 agency gals at the Montreal agency mojo. Each gal has a different pose with a HUGE Teddy - some quote provocative and cute. http://www.mojoescorts.ca/mojogirls

In my view the best known clubs in NCR are Barbarellas, Barefax, Pigale, Playmates, NuDen and Taboo. There could be two more I haven't been past 10 years and they are not well known. So what is the best one in terms of (these are my factors to consider as assets but you may have different factors) 1 - Quality of ladies (looks and age are number 1 factor in my book) 2 - Quality of Champagne room dances (open or private Champagne rooms, panties on (or off) policy till the end of first/second song). 3 - Quality of stage dances (visibility of dancers and panties on/off policy). 4 - The environment (friendly, staff attitudes, family club feeling) 5 - Cost but it is all almost the same in all these clubs like $20 private dance and drinks more or less same but free buffet helps. And base on above factors this is my ranking 1 - Barefax (having young beautiful ladies with private Champagne rooms and good environment and good to very good qualify of Private dances and good quality of stage dances. The daily free buffet (twice a day) helps scoring high on environment). 2 - Barbarellas (having young even more beautiful ladies but with open Champagne rooms and a passing environment though not so cool staff in my view and fair quality of private dances in spite of open Champagne rooms with cameras in it but good quality of stage dances in spite of few keeping panties on and daily noon buffet once daily. Buffet is not as free as barefax cost very little). 3 - Playmates (having older not as beautiful ladies as above two bars but much higher mileage in semi-private Champaign rooms but good to very good quality of private dances (not to mention the upstairs option for those who wish more, but for me this is no advantage). Good to very good quality of stage dancing too. Also Scores high on environment as most patrons and girls know each other for years but not the classiest bar so scores low on the latter. Free buffet once a week on Wednesday noon time only). 4 - Pigale (They score high on quality of dancers though in my view not as high as Barbs, Fax or NuDen. The Champagne room dancers are very good quality and private so scoring real high there and stage dancing is fair as recently some dancers keep panties on especially on second stage which opens up after 10:00 pm. The environment is fair as nobody knows nobody really though too noisy late at night. Free buffet every weekday. The fact that they are closed Saturday daytime makes me to rank them lower than they deserve). 5 - NuDen (I can't really judge this one well but they do have young beautiful ladies so score high on this but quality of stage dances and private dances are real low in my view because of up-the-hill stage and the very open Champagne rooms. I boycotted this club about 7-8 years ago when the bouncer asked me to stop kissing (and the kissing was mutual with complete dancer's seal of approval. I also never like the environment). 6 - Taboo (scoring below average on quality of dancers though you may find exceptions sometimes and not as many stage dancing as other clubs because it is not busy most of the time so scoring low on stage dances even though it is panties off club during stage dance as yet but quality of Champagne room dances the likely the highest in NCR. Environment is fair to poor not classy. I personalty don't like the big bearded guy who was a bouncer a decade ago and is back as the DJ now. Slightly cheaper drinks). I like to conduct a poll so that we all see how you feel. I made the poll a single choice as there can be only one best but if you wish to also rank a second and third best then like myself above you can post in this thread with your choices and reasons. So my vote goes with Barefax but a very close second is Barbarellas. Thank you in advance for your participation.

There appears to be a new trend in Ottawa strip bars that some dancers come on stage sometimes after a long break and a long wait by patrons around the stage and they still keep their panties on after three songs. This is not for sure going to help with dying strip bar business as it can be sometimes frustrating and bores the audience enough that they leave. After all these bars are not topless bars but STRIP bars!!!!!. . Correct me if I am wrong but I do not believe the new laws as stupid as they are, they do not ban strip dancing on stage or watching nude dancers as long as there is no contact with patrons. Pigale and Barbarellas appear to be mostly the bars that some dancers are allowed to keep the panties on while on stage for all three songs. I think Barefax and Playmates and Taboo still enforce the rule (I don't know about NuDen as I haven't been there for Years). Even in these bars quite a few wait until the last few seconds to partially take off the panties!!!!. When I asked a few dancers for the reason they told me they wish to keep the audience curious and one told me if they wish to see more they have to take us to the Champagne rooms!!. To make the matter worse most dancers now even keep their panties on for the first song in the Champagne room as well and a few even to the end of second song so yeah if you wish to see more then you have to pay at least $60 for some dancers. The reason being that they wish to keep the patron curious so that they are kept for more songs. So it is the economics in most cases if not all and not a shyness factor or personal choice otherwise in latter case I would have had no objection. I personally don't mind too much for the the first song panties on policy but those few who keep the panties on till the third song I boycott them for private dance no matter how much I may like them. How do you feel about this new trend? My vote as my post shows goes for agreeing that panties should come off on stage in a strip club in the last song at the latest. Thank you in advance for taking part in the poll and your vote.

Hello lovely people! As both an escort and a doula here in Ottawa, I often get asked how I manage to keep up both personas. I wrote a blog post about it here! https://www.lilithdelacour.com/single-post/2017/05/04/Sex-Work-and-Birth-Work-Go-Hand-in-Hand Cheers! Lilith xo

got three documents finished today

Gentlemen.... I know I promised to announce the winner today. Unfortunately, I havent been able to reviewe all my entries. My backyard is a lake and I am afraid my house will float away any minute. I wish I was joking, but I am not. On the bright side.... I will extend my contest until Monday.... You may text or email your entries to.... 612.315.9969 or [email protected]. May the best man win.! Sacha

Making a perfectly good plan but having to wait to execute it.

Congratulations and thank you for all great treads and information you have shared with us.

Happy Belated Birthday! xoxo

Happy Belated birthday Mikey! Hope you had a good one!

Congrats someguy. Thanks for 7 years of great posts. Keep them comming.

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I guess I'm in the minority on this one. I could not care less if a dancer removes her panties on stage. A free vaginal inspection is the least important factor to me when looking for a CR partner.

I agree!! Heels all the way. They make legs and booty look amazing on any lady. They are a definite must.

I voted Pigales because it's the last SC in the Ottawa area that I have visited and i agree with others about parking and fine ladies. I wish I could have voted for a bar on the Ontario side of the river but only been to the playmate once and the Den once since it moved(20 years ago?).

Heels for sure, makes a lady's legs and bum look much better.

Yes she is legit She is the real deal I have seen her many times in the past I have been trying to convince her to come to T bay

Thank you everyone for the Birthday wishes. Unfortunately I worked most of it. (My suggestion of a 'MikeyDay' national holiday has not yet caught on.) I will make sure to treat myself soon though. I appreciate all of the kind words. You guys are the best ;)

I also believe guilt is a taught/learned behavior. Through generations we have been taught a long list of things we should feel guilty about and many of these things are judgements from others on how we should behave. I believe we have to honestly look at many of the things we feel guilty about and determine if it is programmed/learned or if it IS truly coming from within ourselves as a guiding point. So many people feel guilty when they "self care" yet this is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves. Life is not black or white. There are so many nuances and intricacies to it and every situation is unique to the people involved. if we approach our lives with love and respect and in doing what's best for ourselves and those involved, I feel there will be a lot less guilt and a lot more love and happiness. In regard to the aspects pertaining to this industry, there is SO much judgement and guilt flung about from so many sources. If it adds to your life, makes you happy, fulfills a need and isn't hurting anyone, why feel guilty? If someone is guilty because of someone else's opinion or judgement, the true issue is why does someone else's opinion have the ability to steal power and make them feel that way. If it's because of a relationship, where does the guilt stem from and is it because we should or shouldn't do this or that (learned behavior) or are we ignoring something we are not open and honest about looking at. Having the thought of a Universal Standard is a learned concept. It implies everyone has to fit into the box and everyone is the same when that's very far from the truth. Each and every person is unique and what bothers one, doesn't bother another. If both have the same experience and society judges that experience as negative or bad and something you should feel guilty about, if one feels guilt and the other doesn't, what does that say? It says that it's a taught/learned behavior. I think we unnecessarily suffer a LOT due to learned behaviors and limiting beliefs.. including guilt!

Looking for recommendations for Ottawa Agencies please and Thank you.

Mirage is a reliable agency in Ottawa. BLE, body language entertainment, and explore-her are options as well.

I found Essence at the Brassclub to be an amazingly, natural, enthusiastic and generous kisser. Can't wait to see her again for that talent and many more.

I enjoy seeing women naked and it's something I look forward to before I ask for a private dance. I've asked some dancers why they didn't and it was simply that they did not feel like getting completely nude when the place is slow, when there's only a few people with no clapping or cheering, when the crowd doesn't seem to be into it. While I am somewhat disappointed when it doesn't happen, I would rather dancers do what they are comfortable with then having to do something just because it's a rule. It seems that some places already have enough rules for them to follow.

My schedule for the week of Tuesday May 2 to Sat May 6. Please text 902-221-2920 or email elitecharlotte1 at gmail dot com. Tues.. May 2 Incall in Halifax 1pm to 12am Wend. May 3 off Thurs. May 4 Incall in Halifax 1pm to 12am. Duos available with Kylie Fri... . May 5 off Sat.... May 6 evening Outcall only Do you want an elite exotic lady who will pamper you, allow you to finally be you, too live your fantasies, to amaze you with her beauty, skills, smile and attitude then do yourself a favor and come spend time with me, Charlotte Quinn. I always provide a clean location with a sultry erotic atmosphere that will set the mood just right. I will do my best to honor dress requests as my attire is always at its best. Yours always, Charlotte xo

Lilith is a great kisser. I saw her a few weeks ago and she has lips like velvet.

I know I may get bashed my Club Lovers but the scene is slowly dying out. If you look back at just over the last 20 years, it has been on a decline. Yes, the panties rule would not be a good thing at all for the dancers industry, but I don't think they should come off at all. Let's face it, clubs are not the most sanitary places. I think a thong or g-string is still very nice to look at and leaves a little to the imagination. It is called a strip club but that doesn't mean you have to strip naked. Love camel-toe! Just my opinion.

i bet that everyone on here is being honest. I believe that the people that post here are a small percentage of the total people that play in town. Im willing to bet she is busy/double booking/ first come first serve and thats why theres so many reported no-shows. shes probably seeing a lot of people. That said im not going to try with this one at the moment unless i see more positive feedback/details, as although she is attractive i wouldnt put her as my type and im afraid of getting to know local ladies/ i know people on her facebook friends list

Yeah..as a general rule of thumb for myself personally I never bring my wallet or valuables with me to an encounter..especially meeting someone for the first time..i bring only the donation i do bring my phone but i keep it really close by me along with my keys at all times.

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As a dancer I do offer prepaid sessions with my gents, I.E. Give me x amount I will stay in the champagne room with you for x time. This is because the club I started out dancing back in the day was a room for rent type deal. The guys had to rent their own champagne rooms , they were about the size of a living room with couches and they had one way glass, so you could see outside the room but people outside couldn't see in . The rooms were rented nightly (meaning the room was yours until the club closed at 4 am) and all your booze was included in the purchase. Gents would come in and rent their rooms, you could either go up and say hi, or a bouncer would come find you and tell you so-and-so is waiting for you in room x. I'd always charge them a flat rate, as it was easier to just to get a lump sum at the beginning and focus on the fun , much like escorting. Then we could drink and play and wouldnt have to worry about finding cash and credit cards when my gent is not in the proper state to search for such things. They liked it too because they weren't being charged by the song, and could relax and enjoy me. Im sure I lost a bit of $ doing this, but the time was much more enjoyable this way for both of us, and we didn't have to worry about keeping track of where we were dance wise. That being said, I'd never expect payment upfront for nothing and i certainly would never bully someone into giving it to me. There was the guy who handed me 200$ at the bar just being "the most beautiful woman I've ever seen", and when I asked him to go for dances, he winked , lifted his shot and with his New Jersey accent said " here's looking at you sweetheart" took the shot turned and left. I loved that club. I still offer this service while dancing, guys seem genuinely surprised as in Ottawa this seems to be an unheard of practice. As a client though, this is the only way I could see prepaying work, or if for example shes your regular lady, giving her a gift or saying "this is for next time". I have gents who do this, and they definitely get special treatment ( extra dances just slip in ;) and priority over others. They built a rep with me and I know they are looking out for me and my well-being therefore I make they are rewarded accordingly for their generosity. This lady, unless she's a total scammer, will remember what you did and you are probably on her "golden list" now. She probably wanted to dance for YOU specifically (yes we have favourites) that's why she was waiting for you and turning away other guests. Not saying what she did is right, or necessarily wrong, just uncommon practice. Certain gents get offers that others don't, they just have prove they are in that league. She gave you that opportunity, and you obliged. See how it pans out, you might be genuinely surprised...

Hey guardian; I know it is not easy some times but after reading your experience let me share my approach to strip clubs. Go into the club with a plan and a cash limit in mind and stick to it. I try to set my own expectations by gathering intel on any ATFs that might be working (or not) that day. I only use cash and refuse to use the machine. Ok, I admit I have broken the rule but only a couple of times over the last few years. I have a couple of dancers I see regularly. One ATF I pay a fixed rate for about an hour of time that sometimes is only 55 mins but many times 10-20 mins over the hour depending upon circumstances and whether or not someone else might be waiting. The other dancer takes it for granted that I am committed to an established pattern/habit of 15 to 20 dances; which is the way more expensive way to go. She is young, and on one occasion after we shared many tequila shots she tried to take advantage of my amiable disposition to entice (almost bully) me to stay for more. This annoyed me as it dawned on me that she sees a large ��� stamped on my forehead. I got somewhat short/annoyed with her and she later apologized. We are still "friends" and I still pay lol. It is easy to forget sometimes as we tend to get lost in the moment and fall prey to our own (maybe delusional) fantasies and forget that it is "work" for the women, and although this may sound crass, many dancers use what ever tactic or approach on you to win your interest/loyalty to maximize profit. I realize this is a generalization and some do not target us for maximum profit but try to establish a "friendship" and what comes naturally usually happens over the long term. As long as we remind ourselves of this fact and keep the reins on our discretional funds that we put aside for SPs/MAs/Dancers, it is all good. If I have no intention of taking someone to the CR, or have other plans, I let them know within five minutes of conversation by either saying that "I am waiting for someone", "I have spent my quota for the evening", or "I am just enjoying a drink and I may look you up later". If an ATF (regular) is involved I tell her I don't have the time right now or I am tapped out tonight and I will likely see her the next time I am in the club. Bottom line is, you are the consumer; you have control; it is your hard earned cash and you should make the choices to ensure your time is enjoyable, fun and respectful for all parties involved.

If you prefer to 'cut to the chase' I wholeheartedly recommend Delicious, or Angela who only works Friday's.

On both sides this is a matter of great trust . It doesn't matter how long the visit , you need to have a very established friendship to feel comfortable in another's private residence . I have visited very few personal residences , once I did for someone I though I knew quite well . This man was very different in his own home and I did not feel at all good even though nothing out of the ordinary happened . It's all about the level of comfort . I see people in my home on a regular basics when I am there . However I have had only one overnight guest in my home . There is something about falling asleep with someone that may and does have secrets . On the other side of the coin I have done one overnight to a gents house that was perfect . I was his guest , he wined and dined me and it was a perfect night. Again he had faith in me and I in him. You just have to be 100 percent sure ! Good luck.

I have had very bad experiences in the past so be careful. It can be fabulous with the right lady. With the wrong lady it can be worse than you can imagine. If you really are new to this I would say absolutely no way! I do have SPs visit but they are ladies that I have known for years and trust completely. One of them has keys to my house, in fact. Nothing beats coming home from a crap day at work to your dream girl waiting for you!