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I'm happy either way, as I tend to appreciate variety. Mostly I want someone to be comfortable and confident. For some ladies that will mean make-up and I can appreciate that; for others it will be the natural look and that is also fun! But frankly I think that our opinions are all besides the point. Whatever you do, you'll have some guys telling you that's great and some making a fuss. If you wear more make-up you'll no doubt then have just as many guys who criticize you for that. So don't stress about trying to turn yourself into something that will please every guy because there is no such magic formula and you'll just make yourself stressed trying. Instead, do what makes you most comfortable and happy. Whatever your style you'll attract the clients that are drawn to that style. Seems easier and happier for everyone! (As an aside, since I assume you aren't promising to the guys who ask for a discount due to no make up that you were going to wear it, I suspect they are just jerks looking to find a reason to save a buck and rip you off. If it hadn't been the make-up they probably would have found some other excuse to ask for a discount.)

I had the enjoyment of seeing this lady tonight. she travels and so is only here a few times but nice to see someone in napanee so those of us between belleville and Kingston have an option. the pics she uses are not her but the real one is a little better in my mind! I went for the HH as this was my first visit but I'll repeat when I see shes in town again. PM me if you want particulars. I should say she travels with a dog - he is pretty scary looking but we hung out after the visit and he was a real sweet heart.

Tick Tock MISTER Tock Tickity! The time is NOW to PLAY HARD with ME. Im a FIERY TRUTH TELLING QUIRKY SLURPY ROARING BEACON and it's truly NOW or NEVER for me (and consequently YOU as well) to consider. ... (or jump on) the opportunity to experience ECSTACY thru MUTUAL EXPLORATION. The 'challange' to satiate my fellow INSATIABLE HEDONISTS like myself, is the entirety of my EROTIC EMPIRE'S existence. RATES & SERVICES : ***140-30mins, 180-45mins & 220-60mins*** RATES ARE ALL INCLUSIVE OF WHATEVER WE MUTALLY DESIRE AND CONSENT TO. NO PAID SERVICES-Just compensation for time. . ......LOCATED off RIDEAU STREET near one of the embassies. ... idk which one. LOL JK. ;-) IN HEAVEN... ANYTHING is possible, but, NOTHING is promised. AVAILABILITY: ANYTIME I'm in the mood for hosting or going out ;-) Generally MONDAY thru SATURDAY 10AM TIL 2AM (HOURS available to book- NOT hours ACTUALLY working !) TEXT 613-899-5879 OUT OF ORDER at the moment TEXT 613-366-9832 NEW # PLEASE include your name, handle, whether or not we have met before and your preferred days / times in your message please and thankya! RRRROAR C.HEAVEN FOLLOW ME ON TWITTER @ CLAIREHEAVENS EMAIL [email protected] TEXT ME FOR FASTEST RESPONSE 6138995879 envoyer un texto à (et ou appeler si nécessaire)613-366-9832 Will be switching to this number that's already in my use ;)

I broke the tradition of Barbarerllas and Barefax this Friday afternoon and decided to head to Pigale and see for myself what the fuss is all about (Pigale voted number 1 in a recent poll). I was disappointed for the first hour. Long breaks, two ebony ladies on stage the second was a topless stage dancer only and then as the clock approached 5 pm (only two ladies on stage between 4 to 5 pm) it started getting better with a young blonde lady named Ashley performing an exotic and energetic stage dance in her third song. Ashley clearly demonstrated that she cares about customer satisfaction rather than just walking on stage with her panties on as did the second dancer. Ashley is therefore recommended for private dance. Ashley is a pretty tall blonde. Ashley was followed by an even more exotic stage dance by another lady named Eva. Eva came to me before her stage dance started. Eva's stage dances was very exotic too as she climbed the pole and then widely opening her legs to turn on the audience. So I had no doubt that I wanted her in the Champagne room and reward her for her energetic exotic stage dance I went back to my car conveniently parked outside Pigale and took off my tie and jacket and came back casual and sat on a table (not on stage where I was before). Eva recognized me when I came back and being a very smart girl she realized the sign means ready for some private fun and only seconds passed that she was on my table and saying all the right things to turn me on, like how handsome I am and how exotic she is in the Champagne room. Well she was telling the truth about the latter as I took Eva downstairs and I wasn't disappointed. A very exotic private dance clearly demoing her kitty and limitless number of kisses on her cute face and lots of hugs too. She overtook Natalia at Barefax by thousand miles for private exotic dance while lying on her back and front widely opening her legs as my heart was pounding like a bird in a cage. Eva is highly recommended for those who enjoy exotic private dance and open mindedness. I wanted to reward Ashley too with private dances for her exotic stage dance but she disappeared. At the end I still would vote for Barbarellas and Barefax to be first followed now as a second choice by Pigale which btw was very quiet this Friday afternoon much quieter than both Barbs and Barefax for a Friday afternoon. Also the free buffet was good but did not much that of Barefax. Too bad they stopped serving buffet at the latter. However Pigale remains to be the only bar which serves free buffet (Supper) between 4:30 to 6:30 pm.

:) GO SEE HER YOU WON'T B DISAPPOINTED!! have fun

I personally prefer no make-up, especially no perfumes. As for outfits, nothing beats a birthday suit! :p

Shit. Now my shirt smells funny.

I love the girl next door look... natural beauty is where it's at, for me anyway. I not a big fan of too much make-up etc.. After all, why try to improve on perfection?

I originally posted this as a response to an existing thread - it really should have been in the reco section. In a word - "Yummy". She has many virtues: shy, honest, curvy, willing to please (YMMV) and above all; genuine. French background but speaks English very well. Communication was not a problem for me. I'm smiling just thinking about her. I am very happy with my experience because it wasn't assembly-line. She is a shy person by nature, but she provided a warm, relaxed and welcoming atmosphere. That meant a lot to me. I had some requests which she happily accepted. She isn't a spinner, but man - there's a wonderful gfe feeling about her. She is someone who you can really like, trust and develop a very nice rapport. She is not a high-intensity, movie-groaning, PSE lady. She's all natural. For those who are looking for long labia - she's got 'em. For those gents who are looking for a gentle, and sensual experience, I strongly encourage you to book some time with Rebecca. Recommended - Yep Clean - Yep Attentive - Yep Non Enhanced - Yep Sensitive to your needs (unless you're an AH) - Yep

I met Angela last evening in Halifax. Sort of an impulse, I contacted her while I was in a meeting and as luck would have it she had some room in her schedule. She has set the bar quite high and would be a tough act to follow. From start to finish nothing but the best. Started with a hot shower and ended with a hot shower. What happened in between was quite pleasant. Thanks Angela, I had no idea seeing an SP could be like that!

So, I boast that I am the type of SP who provides comfort from both ends: Yours, and Mine. That being said, I do so because not only do I not like lingerie, but I don't like sitting around all day in something that is making me uncomfortable. Using this to my advantage, I opted for hosting in a tshirt and sexy panties, which seemed to really be working for in the whole "Girl next door" type of vibe which is exactly what I am (Depends where you lived really lol), and wanted. My question comes now, do you care if your SP's are wearing makeup? I've had clients set up plans with me, confirm times and then cancel or ask for a discount because I wasn't wearing make up. I've been feeling extremely beautiful lately, and with summer right around the corner I try to avoid make up as much as possible due to my sensitive skin mixing with the UV rays and all the other bad stuff in summer. I've attached some photos to this thread, I think I look great, but again. The question is: Do you care if your SP's have make up on, does it make a difference if they boast a very relaxed, been friends for a while type setting? --- --- All input is welcomed and deemed important.

Business idea - stripper bibs Or ... to keep the theme ... Bring back the DICKIE !

I definitely recommend Gina on BP. Amazing massage skills and many options.

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Hmm, I think we are glossing over an important point here. The question isn't whether or not you look good with or without makeup, nor is it about what the majority of clients prefer. The question is, are you advertising wearing makeup or not? If you are advertising photos wearing makeup, then you should strive to deliver what you are advertising. If you are advertising photos without makeup, then you should strive to deliver what you are advertising. This doesn't apply to all situations, some providers don't post face pics for example, and this way there are no expectations. At the end of the day, what you are advertising to us is what we believe we are getting. I think you look fine without makeup, as many women do, if you are advertising without makeup and some guys are getting upset about that, then they really aren't worth your time. I have personally encountered a mature 40-50 year old sp in the past that chose to heavily apply makeup in her ad and then showed up with none of it on. Of course her advertised age also matched the makeup she had applied at the time, rather than her actual face, needless to say I did not repeat.

Okay this one made me laugh out loud probably my neighbors could hear lol Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Yes I have tried the room at the end of the walkway past the smaller stalls upstairs about a year ago. You enter through a door and you sit down on a couch facing a large window looking across to Obsession. If you stand up you can look down on the Nuden bar area. It is private if you are in there by yourself with a dancer. No one else entered while I was in there. Maybe an unspoken rule....

Greetings, Gents: I am Angela, a younger looking 50+ year old who is attractive, down to earth, playful, articulate, passionate, friendly and sensuous, with a trimmed kitty. I stand 5'7" with thick luxurious light brown hair and green eyes. I have a fair complexion, long legs and I am built for comfort (40B-36-40). I prefer mature gentlemen over the age of 30 who are clean, courteous and adventurous. I appreciate men who desire and appreciate the company of a youthful, mature lady who is playful, seductive and passionate with a great sense of humour. Whatever your pleasure is, I will do my utmost to accommodate you. I guarantee you, you will be glad you made the call. I will be hosting in Orleans for one day only, Friday, May 19th from 9 am until 7 pm. Rates (firm): Chez-moi: (min. 30 minutes notice) $120 half hour $160 45 mins $200 hour My phone will be on from 8:00 a.m. Please text/call: 613-315-2210 NO BLOCKED NUMBERS

You have all been very affirming and quite lovely, thank you so much for answering my question!

Damn. Trina came by while another girl was getting a back massage, pulled up my kilt to have a look and laughed so loud it almost hurt my feelings. Then she made up for it upstairs, so we're okay now. I think she fell in love with me. I mean, who could blame her? I'm fucking awesome! #curiosity

Natalia turns in another amazing stage show. Skyler is looking stellar. So is Grace. Wow.

I think you look great without makeup and do look like a 'sexy girl next door' casual attitude. Don't need a tidy place but do like it clean. Some guys do like makeup, maybe just for hiding a blemish to give an illusion of what they think of as 'perfect skin'. Some guys prefer lots of makeup either for a glamorous or perhaps even a slutty look. Some guys really get excited for certain outfits while other prefer naked. If don't mind the extra time to ask people what they like in advance then go for it or just do your own thing at your pleasure and surprise your visitors...my two cents

and here I thought MSOG was Mean Streets of Gander or Guelph

Hi there, thank you for checking my ad. You will not be disappointed with my A+++ massage... My name is Vivian. I'm 28 years old. Gorgeous, i am a classy looking Lady with long black hair, seductive cat eyes ...., beautiful silky soft, tanned skin. work out body with all the right curves in the right places. You have finally met your dream girl... .I great you at the door with a lovely smile then lead you to the massage room...I will start with a deep soothing tissue massage to relax all your muscles then follow with a soft touch to invigorate your whole body then the fun time ... It will be the most relaxing, creative and passionate session for you ever. So amazing that you cannot help yourself from thinking about it and want to come back for more ! http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92146 For relaxing massage $40/30m $50/45m $70/60m appointment only, call/text me at 6l3 7l2 l2OO mon to sat 10am to 7pm

Hi! I'm available near downtown (just a step south) now until early Saturday (20th) morning. I will also return next week from Wed-Sat as usual. As always, I'm in a discreet, smoke-free environment with ample street and lot parking available. During my visit, both day time and night sessions are available. (Late night visits by advance booking only, unless we already know each other.) Also, I'm an early bird so don't be shy if early mornings are a good time for you (some advance notice needed (1hr if very early), unless PJs, bleary eyes and a teddy bear being dragged by his paw is your thing) It never hurts to ask though =-) For those of you I have yet the pleasure of meeting, here's a bit more about myself. I'm someone who is open-minded & enjoys romance as well as the wild loss of control where chemistry causes a lack of inhibitions and even for those who wish to explore; the darker world of fetish, bdsm, role playing & domination etc. I'm a slim & athletic but curvy 5'7, (5'11 with heels) 36D 24 34 with long dark hair (Pls note my hair is now shorter than in the photos, although still long. The price of natural hair is it needs to be cut occasionally. New pix coming soon) and big blue/green eyes. I invite you to visit my profile to learn more about me and see some of my pix. I just added a bunch of new ones again! You can also view my new website http://www.JessyCeleste.weebly.com Planning ahead is recommended but not necessary. I am available for over-night companionship and dinner dates (obviously we'd have to plan ahead for that lol) as well.I'm educated, worldly, well cultured, unassuming and have eclectic taste in everything from music to hobbies to philosophy. I think versatility is the spice of life. So I can be soft and delicate, wild and eager to please, impish and Fun or assertive, domineering and nasty. I'm a passionate person and not afraid to dive deep into someone I am with.. So don't be shy to tell me what mood you are in and I can tap into that part of my psyche and have a great time doing it. =) I LOVE getting all dressed up and requests are more than welcome. I have a vast array of outfits, (school girl, sexy stripper, romantic lingerie & domina (PVC,Latex etc), regular/secretary) as well as tools for the more daring of adventurers. I aim to please because I want to see you again when I next visit. Chez moi: $240h $160hh (multiple hours work on declining scale. Benefits to on-going relationship/frequent visits.) 90min $340 2hr $440 3hr $600 Please contact me if interested in Overnights, 24hr and Multi-Day-Get-Away packages. Chez vous $290h (within reasonable distance) For Dom, Fetish & BDSM, please see below. Women and Couples also, very very welcome (additional contribution for additional companion Fetishes, BDSM and/or domination, are by hobbyist specific request only and further contributions may or may not be requested, depending on several factors. IE the nature of the subject, frequency of visits, appointment length, number of extra specialties within one appointment and so on. I pride myself on being very fair to both of us in my pricing. For those who are interested in such ventures; I am very well versed in this world and have a great selection of equipment/toys/attire etc. As for fetishes, many have been surprised that I was the one girl who actually heard of "it" before. =) To see what others have to say about the time they've spent with me, please check out my recos via the link below. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=53018 And don't forget you can check out my profile for pics and a bit more about me. My face, Tattoos & piercings are hidden for discretion's sake but photos are otherwise unaltered. Please allow a few days for reply via PM. Text is best for prompt reply.. Please note, nowhere near all my interests are listed here. Im very versatile and um... creative *giggle* No private numbers please. Hope to hear from you soon! Kisses, JessyCeleste ( 438 ) 274-3853 (Now, finally on Twitter) @JessyCeleste1

Thought for the day:

I have had wonderful experiences at ALO and CMJ and Brass Club! We are so lucky to have such great choices here in Ottawa ;)

I got into my car with the intention of heading to Pigale (as why I waited until 8:00 pm as Pigale is closed Saturday day time) but strangely enough my car decided to drive right into Wellington street rather than left into Portage bridge once I reached at the intersection!!!!. By doing so I broke my day time tradition and decided to try Barbarellas at night time and I am glad that I did. It was easy to find a parking in spite of construction so a good start. I arrived at 8:00 pm and was greeted by a beautiful blonde waitress with friendly smiling face. Then a beautiful young lady came over and sat with me. I am highly recommending the following Barbarellas evening ladies most of who I met for the first time (I am a day time person): Georgia - A very friendly young lady with a very pretty face with dimples and very soft fair skin and very soft relatively short hair with beautiful color and originally from Montreal. We chatted for a while before heading to Champagne Room and in the Champagne room as it is typical of almost all Barb evening dancers she was on the conservative side in the CR however when on stage when I put a small tip for her she gave me an exotic demo of herself all nude and beautiful with smiling face. Great young lady. Highly recommended. Maria - She is very cute with a unique face. She is originally from Egypt and is not shy approaching people. She well qualifies as a spinner (small and sweet) and very very friendly with very cute face and lovely black hair and soft fair skin (yes she does have fair skin and she is from Egypt!!!!). She maybe quite conservative in the Champagne room (the panties stayed on even after 3 songs in the CR!!!!) but very friendly and gave exotic stage dance in her third song. I loved my time with her in the CR. She reminded me a lot of Phoenix in the beauty department and complexion who I looked for but didn't see tonight. Maria is Highly recommended. Anna - Portuguese originally and a bit darker in skin department. She is very friendly and chatted with me for a long time so I took her to the CR for a brief private dance. Nice small cute boobs and nice stage dance too. Alexis - The best of the best certainly in the skin department. Snow white spotless and tattooless skin and very soft like velvet and very beautiful tall brunette. Maybe somewhat conservative in the Champagne room but who can blame her with those looks. Very pretty face, beautiful soft long black hair in combination with snow white soft skin made her shining even from a distance. Alexis wins the Platinum among all other Gold medalists this evening in my book in the looks department ahead of all the beauties this evening. I stole a few kisses on her lovely skin and face and lots of hugs as well. Very highly recommended if you love beauty and don't mind relative conservatism in the CR. Leyla - She was the only day time dancer and the only girl I knew tonight. Originally Lebanese, she has soft relatively fair skin, cute face. Not a spinner but not fat either. Friendly and the only evening dancer allowing lots of kisses and only one who took her panties off in the CR in second song. I looked for Sammie the total sweetheart (the beautiful very friendly long hair natural blonde who loved hugs and kisses) but she wasn't in tonight. I have reviewed Sammie in a separate thread asking for her. She is like Cinderella to me. We were very compatible. Any info on her is highly appreciated. Someone in the thread asked for Katrina. Yes she arrived just after 8 pm and was there until mid night when I left. I can see why many may be looking for her as she is a lovely brunette. Barbarellas got crowded after 11:00 pm. At midnight there was no vacant table or even a chair if you arrive then. Stage dancing were exotic by most and without breaks. More than half (likely as much as two-thirds) entertained audience with nude stage dancing though not so in the Champagne rooms (among those who danced for me) unless you wish to keep them for 3 songs or more (except Layla). All ladies were young, classy and beautiful and they are all recommended. Barbarellas can (for whatever reason) attract the most attractive ladies in town. I personally don't mind too much the panties on in the CR for 2-3 songs by some likely most evening ladies when they can so decisively make up for it with their absolute beauties. I had a great time tonight and being a fan of variety it was also great to meet new ladies. If you love beauty and youth then you would love Barbarellas day time or night time. Barbarellas and Barefax are both as close as one can get to heaven in living life.

Sol, Francesca, Malika, Maya, Gia, Selina, Kilanie, Vanessa, Andrea Evidently Saturday night the place was busy like no other time; Mmmm, all those soldiers in town I bet.

Very mature for a 20 yr old. Tight body that looks even better then her pics. Stop hesitating and go for it. The best I've seen so far. Your new fan from Delta.

Bill C-36 passed on September 29, 2014 and since then the number of websites involving the E word that the police have cracked down on equals ZERO! The police don't have the resources to deal with this idiotic bible thumper law the Conservatives brought in to please their base supporters. The Liberals are in power now and there is no political will to enforce this legislation. If the police were really going to do anything BP would be long gone by now. The only thing the police will ever enforce is street level activities and this is because the people who live in those areas complain to the police about it (and rightly so). People need to abide by the rules of this website, so listen to Parker. Just my 2 cents about this legislation and its consequences.

I think it was decided that kissing could be considered 'non-sexual' ('cause you can kiss your kids and your mother and it's definitely not sexual, lol.) It's because technically a person could advertise they sell sexual services legally, but according to the law any third party (like this website,) who allows them to advertise 'through' them said sexual services is breaking the law, just as those wishing to buy the legal and legally advertised sexual service would be breaking the law... That hurt my head a little just trying to think it out. Hopefully some logical and level headed Liberals will look at these convoluted and ridiculously useless laws and, at the very least, write something clear, understandable and constitutional.

There's a little box right above that says: Ottawa DISCUSSION - Escorts Beneath that you'll see, "Also keep in mind that before November 2014 prostitution was legal but now only escorting is legal (No prostitution services) so please do not discuss prostitution related things here any more as we no longer have this area for courtesans and escorts it is not just for escorts." Someone can correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm pretty sure that means we're not supposed to openly talk about or discus such 'services' here.. at least for now anyways.

This was my review of her last year towards November, she went under a different alias named Jasmine: "Ok first off, one of the best escorts in town when she is around. And i love her features, short, big and soft boobs, nice firm and tight ass! She is one of the most calmest and nicest escorts i've been with in a hotel (most escorts i see here in Moncton are local and have their own home). I first texted her a few months ago but i took another girl at that time instead and damn am i ever stupid for doing so, because if i would have gone to her before i would have been over to see her at least 20 times since then no joke! I feel that i could repeat with her until the day i die, she is sweet, hot and a fantastic escort! Only downside is her hotel room doesn't have a outside door to access her room quickly and safely. Which isn't really her problem or mine it's just the choice of hotel she picked. Also noted, she is very quite, not sure if it's just because i was a new customer to her or that she was tired or something (which she wasn't cuz damn she could ride!), but if you really like escorts who don't talk much but is still friendly and down to earth, call or text up Jasmine when she is in your area, you will not regret your time with her i swear it! Thank you so much Jasmine, you will be seeing me alot throughout the next couple of months"

I remember seeing her as a stripper at Playmate a few years ago. She was very sexy in the CR and, although I can't comment on her skills as a SP, I remember thinking she was hot as a puppy and cute as a barnfire... or is it the other way around? Anyways... Her pictures are definitely real.

That's disgusting. I can count the couple times I double booked and it took place during my introduction to then industry AND whole at a spa once upon time so it truly came down to too many cooks in the kitchen (doing my own advertising & booking at the same time as the secretary doing that job too) Now fully INDEPENDENT My mistakes aren't double booking but can be felt or affected by the same way- and that's when I am late due to allergy to clocks and that's great when you're with me but not if it happens to be when I'm eating chocolate Or in the shower or flipping a record and lost in my head or looking for it. WITH THAT SAID - I have NEVER ever made a mistake that I didn't offer attempts made to redeem myself and the entirety of that shit luck fuckery- whether by extending time, reducing rate/refunding prepay/rescheduling to suit their schedule/ etc etc . But keeping focus on the fact that a business is a business is a business you can treat even unfortunate circumstance as such business minded redemptions and at the end of the day - you have smoothed out a potential soured client and all the bad word of mouth that can come from just one negative experience OR worse- NOTHING EVER SAID OF YOUR NAME, and by taking ownership it can lead to a real possibility of a regular friend and a heightened appreciation/respect for yourself AS WELL AS THE CLIENT - IF IT AFFECTS YOUR INCOME/TIME /CONSCIENCE by making it right - YOU'LL MAKE BETTER MISTAKES TOMORROW! :) KK GTG .... he's been waiting for me while I write this. Bahahahahaha jusssst kiddddding...... {ish} ha! ;)

I have heard back from this MIA SP. She is alright and assured me that I don't need to worry about her.

I feel for you WhereIRoam, when I first started this lifestyle I met a gorgeous lady who stole my heart and we became good friends. We still communicate on here once in a while and I always love to hear(read) what she has to say. I can say that from the spring to the fall of that year(2009 if my memory does not fell me) was the most beautiful time I had ever had with a lady, beside my wife. My reason for mentioning this on your thread is simply because their might have been a year or 2 where we did not communicated and I thought I did something wrong but that was not the case. Fast forward to 2016/17 I met a young lady and we have become close friends too. She is way too young to be a partner in life(27 years difference) but she is more mature then her age and prefers older man. We often find ourselves talking about anything and I love spending my time with her when we meet. She went on a vacation and I was not aware of it but I respect her even though she did it that way. It took 2 months before I got a text from her. Keep calm and things will turn out fine.

I don't think anyone's saying that.. But, generally, escorting is not and cannot make up for 'normal' dating or having an actual girlfriend. Sometimes clients see me and it's clear that they aren't looking for a companion, they're looking for a girlfriend- and this is not the place to be looking for a girlfriend. Girlfriend Experience, sure.. but you can't start a real dating relationship based on fake names and paid for time and attention. While we might do our job too well at times, it is still a job.

You're more than welcome to get close to an SP- sorry, I guess my advice was too basic. To agree with Claire- On the one side; this sucks. You don't know what happened. You haven't heard what happened. You may never hear what happened. We all know this game. I've had clients (known ones, even) drop off the face of the earth and never heard from them again. Upsetting. Did he hate me? Did he die? Did someone find out? Etc etc... all answers I'll never get. But that's the nature of such a discrete industry- you don't get to know. And while it sucks, On side number 2- for starters, she could be fine. And about getting "close" to an SP... I'd say you should continue to do so. It's worth it. I worry about getting close to clients (I have many dear client friends) but I'd think it'd hurt me ( & you !) a lot more if we acted like this was something similar to purchasing carrots at the self check-out at loblaws. Let yourself feel the good and the bad. The good more than makes up for it :)

As mentioned by those who have already posted, there are so many reasons why you may not get a reply. From leaving the business to vacations, family emergencies and even new relationships. But another common reason is feelings. Not everyone is "out" when it comes to working in this industry. For some, it's a totally secret, hidden and separate part of their lives- I could see how feelings going in either direction could seriously complicate things, (in a life that might already be full of complications.) While I tell those I don't want contact with anymore why, some people just aren't good with confrontation.. and though I know you genuinely had the best of intentions, messages like "even if you don't want to see me, please reply" tend to make those who dislike confrontation even more uncomfortable. Just to be clear, I don't think there's anything wrong with caring about/for a companion, (I have clients I've become close friends with over the years.) I just feel that, in many instances, it has to be approached and handled different than with someone who you're not paying. You might get a reply in the future with apologies for the delay and making you worry, or you might never hear from her again.. Either way, the best thing to do is try to not worry or dwell on it. /hugs

You know what they say: "if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with!" ..c..

I love the responses to this thread! The fact that there has been so much caring and thought put into the replies, shows the tenderness at hand. Many of you realize that I don?t really fit into the SP box that most think of when one pictures the role of the SP in someone?s life, so I have a bit of a different take on the emotional aspects in this realm. This post is long, and on the reread I can?t find anything to delete, so accept my apology in advance for the length of this conscious stream of thought that follows. That said, what I say here may or may not apply to any and all. Playing devil?s advocate, I would like to ask, what is wrong with a broken heart? In our society we shun the things that have been labeled painful or hurtful. What is missed is that true emotional growth only comes from the challenges that we call pain. Loving, in my opinion, is always a good thing, even when I know it is going to end. Emotionally, as a society we are closed off most of the time. We shield our personal lives from our work, and vice versa. We keep our friends at arm?s length and build walls to ensure that we don?t have to deal with anything ?painful?. The answer is that we are programmed from childhood that anything negative is to be avoided at all costs. Children are soothed in a hurry when something normal and natural happens, instead of being allowed to experience the emotions and learn to process them. They become adults and spend their lives avoiding anything painful instead of experiencing life as it was meant to be lived. I love to watch the reactions when someone cries in public. Adults squirm in their seats and try and vacate as quickly as possible. Why? There is no reason to shift in our seats unless we intentionally caused the tears, and even then, unless it was a malicious intention why the discomfort? We all experience the broad range of emotions we are designed to feel. Without the hurt, how would we know what made us feel good? If it doesn?t rain, how do we truly learn to appreciate the sunshine? Why are we so afraid to love? I thrive on loving; it?s why I do what I do. I love the guests I have the honor of getting to know. Not the ?you need to leave your wife? kind of love, but the kind that is there unconditionally. Liking the qualities of someone, but loving the faults and watching as someone realizes how truly lovable they are, is my favorite aspect of what I do. I am usually the rebound girl, my guests come to me when the realization hits that life goes on after a D has hit, (death, divorce, desertion) and they are feeling lost and out of touch. Hobbyists make up a small portion of my day, the rest is filled with men who are moving forward and figuring out what?s next. They are the monogamous souls that really want a long term relationship but are not ready. They come to me to reassure themselves they can lie with another woman other than the one that is gone. What they learn is that the world continues to turn and they are going to be fine. I am not a traditional SP, I sometimes develop very intimate relationships with my guests. I give as much as they do. I never utter the words, because I know the effect words like that have, but it doesn?t change the emotions that are felt, and I have heard the precious words more often than I can count. Would I change it? Not a chance! It is needed to allow them to realize that they can still love. People confuse the chemical reaction of falling in love with real love and we are all susceptible. In my career I have two guests that I fell in love with. Both are still close friends that I maintain contact with almost daily. Fortunately common sense prevailed as we realized that the chemicals had taken over and were governing us. Were there tears? Of course! But we rode them out and the relationships morphed into something much deeper and dearer than the heart pounding, mind boggling sense that comes with the ?in love? mantra. I have had numerous marriage proposals, ring and financial statement in hand. They were the White Knights who were looking to save me from ?this life?, when I did not need saving. The other guests, I watch with wonder as they gain confidence and start to move towards finding what makes them happy. I have had the privilege of attending weddings that happened after guests reached the realization that they can love again, and move on. I govern myself with one rule, tell the truth about myself. The emotions that follow will happen; I experience them, learn from them and continue to grow. Don?t be afraid to cry or to laugh, to love and most important don?t be afraid to lose. It is an integral part of who we are as human beings and it is what makes us what we are. Catherine

many years ago i was not in this industry full time but did have one client.after a couple of months i felt i had fallen in love with him and told him i would not take payment anymore.it was a mistake i made with this person as i really did not know who he was.my heart was broken by him many times.what attracted me to him was that he was older and that he made me feel safe and taken care of.once i stopped taking payment all that changed...i will not even tell you what i lost but it was alot.my world was turned upside down.we went into business together and it was a nightmare.which is how i found myself in this industry fulltime a little over a year ago. perhaps the same thing has happened to other girls.i know for myself because of this past experience i never make the mistake of mixing business with personal pleasure.i choose to stay unattached until my time in this industry is done.i find that is the best way as i am not prepared to stop escorting at this time.there have been times when i felt a client of mine was perhaps liking me too much and if i feel that i run,as i feel it would be hard to have a relationship and also escort. so i believe that unless the girl stops taking money from you the feeling is not reciprocated.always remember it is a business transaction with hopefully both parties still having fun with each other.i think if someone was falling in love with their sp perhaps they should either talk to her about it if you are willing to accept her profession but if you are not the best thing would be to put some distance between you so your heart or hers will not be broken i hope this helps from an sp's point of you. ps.i myself could have easily fallen in love with a client of mine but after past experience am the wiser regards alex grenyait ox