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Hi! Been with Lyla for a year and a half but am mostly a lurker. Anyhow, I thought I would pipe up here and lend my experience and knowledge - happy to answer questions! In addition to being a provider, i'm also a Registered Nurse and have worked in Family Medicine and sexual health for years. There are a number of misconceptions about HSV. HSV has 2 different 'strains' basically - Type I and Type II. HSV also has 2 different sites that it can affect - the oral area and ant-genital area. *Either* type can affect either region. That said, *most* cases of oral HSV are Type I strains and about 60% of genital cases are Type II (meaning 40% are Type I). Generally speaking, break-outs associated with Type I HSV tend to be shorter and less severe (fewer lesions, less pain, etc...). Prevalence rates for HSV are about 75% orally and 25% ano-genitally (for Type I and Type II) meaning MOST of US have HSV. If you've EVER had a cold sore you have HSV. There is no way to absolutely prevent HSV however some general ways to reduce the risk of transmission. You can abstain from kissing (and oral sex) if you have cold sores or if you feel them coming on (as transmission risk is greatest right before it becomes visible)! If you have recurrent outbreaks you can take anti-viral medications such as acyclovir on a daily basis to reduce the "asymptomatic shedding" that occurs. Generally speaking the more outbreaks you have the more asymptomatic shedding there is. So reducing the outbreaks not only increases your comfort but also reduces the risk of transmission. There is no way to definitely TEST for HSV either. The only test readily available under OHIP/Public Health system is to swab a lesion and send the swab off for testing. The challenge of this is that testing can only be done when symptoms are active. HSV is a lifelong condition - it never leaves your system however it can be very well managed and a non-issue in most cases. The issue that often arises for patients (and lovers) with HSV is when to disclose (or to disclose at all to partners). For those of us who have had cold sores (I haven't, thankfully and I let partners know this so that if they feel symptoms coming on then they can refrain from kissing me or from any oral to genital contact (as ORAL - i.e. Type I - can be spread to the ant-genital area - i.e. Type I in the ano-gential area if one were to contract HSV thru oral sex). Anyhow - putting this out there if folks have questions! Happy to answer as I don't want to overload y'all! Additional Comments: As a nurse and provider, I STRONGLY encourage all fellow providers to get the HPV vaccine if they haven't already. There is a newer nonavalent (i.e. 9-strain) vaccine (Gardasil-9) that is available and covers the 7 most common strains of HPV that cause cervical and other HPV-related cancers (including penile cancer, anal cancer, throat cancer, etc...) and the 2 most common types that cause warts! It takes 3 shots over 6 months and you're basically immune to HPV! Because condoms do VERY LITTLE to protect us from HPV, if we have frequent partners, we're at risk for acquiring HPV. Over 95% (likely more) of people have had at least one strain of HPV at some point in our lives. Basically if you have sex with people who have sex you're going to get HPV. So I suggest to women working especially to get the HPV vaccine. It's a health expense and can even be a business expense as well (not sure if it can be both - hunch is no but talk to your accountant)! Guys too can get the HPV vaccine so I would definitely encourage y'all to get it too to protect yourself and all your lovers. Because none of us ever get tested for HPV (exception if we have an abnormal Pap test and we are over 30 then sometimes the cells are "typed" for the specific strain of HPV. But generally speaking, an abnormal Pap test is a "positive" test for HPV as almost universally this is the cause of cell changes on our cervixes. Anyhow, be happy to discuss further and answer questions! Your nurse/provider Rebecca Winter

I want to congratulate my bestie Charlotte Quinn on her new adventure as she leaves the escort world. I know you will be great and will rock. I'm proud of you and you worked hard to move on. Love you. I will miss our working times together and you are and always will be the best. Even though you were in NS working a short time you set it on fire. Your legendary in my mind all over. You are the best duo partner anyone could ask for. Love Kylie Jane

I forgot to mention that Ariel told me to check out the barmaid. It was Jenny! We had once had a memorable time together in the cr, the three of us... Jenny says she's loving the new job, and she was looking good.

As a nurse, what I would counsel people to do is to know the guidelines and, if they really want to donate, they can make the decision to tell the truth or not. The fact of the matter is that all the blood is tested for HIV and HCV. I would strongly suggest that anyone who is actively an injection drug user or having unprotected high-risk (i.e. vaginal or anal) sex with multiple partners to not donate as they could be within the window period for testing. But otherwise, for most of us, if we donate blood and are HIV positive then they would find it. The restrictions, imho are unfairly prejudicial and not adequately evidence-based.

It is with heavy heart that I will announce my retirement from the wonderful world of escorting. As I start my new quest in the mainstream world. I've been in the area for a short time but have thoroughly enjoyed this. I want to thank all the wonderful people I have met and been with, all of you have been amazing in your own way. I've learned so much from every one of you, and whether good or bad I will always feel you as a part of me. I've had fun, struggles, ups and downs and some weird adventures lol, but wouldn't trade any of them. To my regulars I hope you understand and there are a lot of amazing girls on here to take you on. Thank you to Lyla.com , great site with alot of opportunities. I will miss working with my best friend Kylie Jane most of all, we have had some wild times you sexy girl. I wish you all the best and will keep memories of all of you. Love Charlotte Quinn xo

I'm curious what the general knowledge is on Herpes/Hsv around here, as I've been with a provider in the past who was unaware of the prevalence of it and the ease of infection, which was quite surprising. There seems to be a lot of stigma surrounding hsv particularly directed at the unlucky individuals that actually show symptoms of genital herpes (sores). People seem to think that as long as they don't show symptoms they are "clean". Some facts: 1) Herpes (type 1) is present in upwards of 80% of the adult population, it's difficult to get a precise number, for the following reason. 2) Many people who carry herpes never have a full blown outbreak, they may occasionally shed the virus/infect others, but they never have typical symptoms such as sores. This is why it's difficult to get an exact number of infected individuals, when so many are asymptomatic carriers. 3) There are 2 types of herpes, hsv 1 and hsv 2. They were once thought to be localized to different parts of the body, with hsv 1 infecting the mouth/face region, and hsv 2 infecting the genitals. We no know the 2 are very similar, and hsv 1 can present on any part of the body with mucous membranes, including the genitals. 4) Condoms are minimally effective. The virus is transferred via skin to skin contact of mucous membranes, not fluids, so condoms only protect what they cover. Hsv can often present in areas that condoms have no effect on, such as inner thighs. So there you have it, odds are you have herpes and don't even know it, even as you pass it on. Hsv 2 is significantly less common, at about 20% of the adult population, but as the 2 are so similar I personally don't think it makes much sense to be alarmed about Hsv 2 while accepting Hsv 1 as minor. I'm sure most of the wonderful providers here already know this information, but I figure it doesn't hurt to put it out there, particularly for new hobbyists.

I had an amazing time with Barbie on Saturday evening! She's a lovely, petite woman, very friendly and exactly what I expected to see when meeting her. Her Halifax location is quiet, easily accessible, and clean. I enjoyed our hour together and will repeat many times to come. From the thread posted in the discussion page I was a little leery meeting her but I know now what she says is true. I hope she keeps it up and continues to provide the excellent service I received. Happily pleased, Thanks Barbie!

Good day fellow community members, today I'd like to talk about porn. I am of an age wherein porn has made up the vast majority of my sexual release, fantasy development, etc, I've been watching porn since I was ~14, and continue to do so 10 years later. I hear occasional mention of porn on this forum, some people are very liberal in their outlook, drawing inspiration from it, others believe it is having a potentially detrimental affect on young men, particularly their attitudes toward women and sex, what better place to gather as many diverse opinions as possible? This isn't going to be another obviously biased rant either pushing porn or condemning it, I've read many of them, and I've come to the conclusion that it is best to keep an open mind, and have an honest discussion. I myself am deeply conflicted on the issue for many reasons, all of which I will go over in this post. My own journey with porn started out innocently enough. I started with softcore and gradually worked my way up over the years to hardcore, then into various fetishes, then eventually into bdsm and extreme varieties of bdsm. Basically if there is legal porn out there for a particular fantasy/fetish, I've watched it. My evolving tastes were limited by various aspects of my upbringing. When I first started watching I felt very isolated and deviant, even though it was light softcore porn. I was still harboring irrational beliefs up until a year or 2 ago (i.e religion), and so my fear of god put a leash on some of the fantasies I was willing to explore through porn, well temporarily anyways. As I developed a better understanding of the negative effects religion had on my life, my fear of god gradually subsided, and I am now able to live by my own values and make my own choices based on reason and evidence alone. I have found my porn use problematic and disturbing for reasons aside from religion however. My first problem is that I am susceptible to spending far too much time with porn and shirking other responsibilities (a hallmark of addiction), though I can't entirely blame porn for my general lack of ambition and procrastination. I am also susceptible to watching porn that I am morally conflicted on, because I'm not always thinking clearly once I am on a pornsite, and the "videos you might enjoy" section is always drawing my attention with exciting new things. Bdsm was very difficult to come to terms with, I've always known that I get off on the idea of submitting to women and having pain inflicted on me, as well as dominating women and inflicting pain on them (consensually of course), but another part of my brain (other than the part that controls my raging hard ons) has difficulty coming to terms with witnessing violent acts, or carrying out violent acts, even when entirely consensual. So here I am trying to reconcile something that both gets me off more than anything else, and makes me feel depressed and alienated at the same time. This conflict is even stronger for more extreme varieties of bdsm porn, in which "performers" are often visibly in obvious excruciating pain/distress, crying, screaming, etc. It's an incredible sexual rush to see someone in pain, and to imagine having that pain inflicted on me, but it also triggers that protective male instinct in me whenever I see a woman crying or in pain, making me feel guilty and depressed. I would never have imagined just how extreme and easily available this genre of porn could be when I was a naive 14 year old gaping at the sight of bare breasts. So in a way I've felt deceived at times, exposed to genres of porn that I could never have hoped to process correctly at a young age, I was only 16 when I first started watching the light/moderate bdsm on offer by the production company Kink. I hear a lot of speculation on porn's effect, that men and women are being indoctrinated into a certain outlook on sex, I'm not sure how much of this is true. A lot of people who believe that porn is programming men and women, like to use examples of bad sex they have had, where people haven't respected their boundaries. They will say that they felt pressured into certain sex acts, or even had certain sex acts performed on them without consent. To me that is just not acceptable under any circumstance, I always respect boundaries and ensure that the other party knows that my suggestions/ideas for activities we might enjoy are in fact suggestions, not demands. I can see where this argument is coming from though, some people may not be quite as evolved as the rest of us, and a lot of porn doesn't seem to focus on the consent aspect so much as the acts themselves. Kink for example will show before and after interviews where it is clear that the sex is entirely consensual, but for a lot of other porn consent is to be assumed by the viewer, even when the performers are being pressured into an act as part of the "role-play" on set. If we don't see the consent occurring between the performers, how are we supposed to feel about that as consumers? When a woman is in obvious pain during an anal sex scene for example, and the guys are pressuring her into continuing even when she backs down, that really bothers me, and it's far more common than most of us porn enthusiasts would like to admit. We push consent in sex ed and elsewhere as one of the core tenants of healthy sex, but then there is the murky grey area of porn where consent is the default assumption, even when there is quite a bit of porn floating around out there that is not consensual (Revenge porn, sketchy studios, some amateur porn). A lot of people have fantasies surrounding a lack of consent, and I think on some level many people are turned on when consent isn't clear, when there is that small flicker of doubt what they are watching is something that everyone involved consented to. Porn producers seem to be capitalizing on that element, why would revenge porn be so popular if there wasn't a market for it after all. I'm not really sure where to go from here, I don't want to stop watching porn entirely, I've tried that and failed on multiple occasions. I don't want to keep watching porn on tube sites like pornhub either, I pay a subscription so technically I am paying for the porn, but not enough to really support the performers. The problem I have is finding a pay site with enough variety, which is why I always end up back on pornhub and watching things I'd really rather not be watching. I've also hit a wall with bdsm, I'm so conflicted on it and I can't see how anyone can draw a clear line between what is kinky fun and what is abuse. Sure the line is technically consent, but some people consent to giving up safe words and/or living their entire lives as someone else's "slave", how can that be considered "sane" consent? When someone no longer appears to be enjoying the pain they are receiving from bdsm play, doesn't that indicate some sort of mental health problem? If they are really having a good time why are they crying/screaming? Aren't they just addicted to the pain/endorphin high and should be treated like any other case of addiction? Looking at porn from a broader perspective, I think perhaps steps could be taken to restrict access to minors and to solidify the concept of consent. I would agree that it is dangerous to have pornhub as the only tool teaching people what sex should be, and I think it could be addressed better via education. Of course the shaming doesn't really help either, it's important to encourage open discussion of these topics to prevent feelings of shame and isolation among young people. Looking forward to hearing any and all opinions on the topic.

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Had my first session with Kimora. A beautiful, classy young lady who provided a an excellent service in an upscale apartment. I asked for an "edging" session and I was not disappointed. I will definitely repeat.

HSV transmission is not limited to mucous membranes. Prior to gloves being a standard in medical care, herpes on the hands (herpes whitlow) was not uncommon. Re HSV testing, it will vary from province to province. Manitoba does have a herpes blood test, however they will not serotype except in very specific circumstances, rendering the value of asymptomatic testing pretty much nil. Even where serotyped blood tests are available, there isn't evidence to suggest that asymptomatic testing results in changed behaviour or better outcomes, so it's not recommended as part of standard STI testing.

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Ariel is back. There are beautiful women. There are spectacularly beautiful women. Then there's Ariel. She's one of a kind, to my mind, a genuine stunner with a flawless, athletic body and gorgeous face, gleamingly intelligent eyes, long dark hair (once it was auburn), and a heart-melting smile. I haven't seen her in over a year, but I did tonight. What a reunion! She's been working out, and is even fitter than before. Her bum is even firmer--unbelievably sexy; maybe, just maybe, Best on Planet??? Her legs and arms and abs are toned and her back is defined, to the exactly right degree. What a sight! She's elegant and confident and alluring in her style. And the smile, and the laughter, and the conversation, and the catching up with a scorchingly hot woman. Awesome Ariel! To be savoured and appreciated.

My views: Ella is a sophisticated, sensual person. She is a confident lady, who knows what she wants and is going to get it! It's just not her beauty and body that I admire, but her brains and personality as well. Ella is very active on twitter, her website is easy to navigate and a good screening form. She responds quickly and professionally. Booking and Dates: I have seen Ella twice now, both times it was dinner date. The first time it was 4 hour date and the second time it was a 6 hour date. She is a wonderful dinner companion, with great conversation, well dressed and a wonderful presence. I must admit she is absolutely a dream, she has an excellent body with a really pretty face. The act and experience: In our first date, we directly met at the restaurant. I must admit it was a nice surprise to see a lady as beautiful as her, she was dressed elegantly, and appropriately sexy (it was a black dress, of course). I love her mesmerizing bright blue eyes and pleasurable smile (I can keep staring at her eyes all day long). After dinner, we went to her apartment (which is a central and new condo). She is definitely a very passionate kisser. She has amazing boobs, they are perfectly shaped I must say and really lovely, and amazing curves. I would go as far as to say that she is a sex angel when it comes to intimacy. She provides a fantastic service and made me feel very comfortable. She provides a non-rushed and very intimate experience. She is very open-minded, friendly and really sexy. All in all, she is an amazing provider. She has enchanting beauty and a very intelligent mind (to whom one can talk freely). She is fun, easy to talk to, and a sex angel. My wish ;-) She is definitely my favorite provider and I just love to see her again and again. I would keep seeing her until I can't.

You don't offer, you don't negotiate If you want to know the sp rate for that, ask and they or she tells you, and you either pay the rate or move on to ask about another sp. kind of how this works. Knowing going in what is the lowest someone else paid isn't really going to help you, and besides that, isn't it better to take a week with an sp you already have met and seen several times than a complete stranger?

In keeping with the spirit of this board, I don't think it's appropriate to post this because you will have people messaging you to find out who this is. Having been there yourself, you should know that until someone is ready to quit, there is not much you can really do.

maggie grace and kristen bell both so hot

Hi I'm Catherine. Found this forum a while ago to be honest. I lurked for a few days as another moderated user and found the people on this site really nice and super helpful. So far being an SP doesn't leave much room for me to make friends outside of clients. not to say they're not awesome of course :) I'm just really looking forward to talking to you all. Have a nice day everyone <3

This is a very common thing with the ladies... Always looking for the "Reason" the business gets slow at times and always looking for answers as to why they get no shows and cancellation more at different times of the year. Most NO SHOWS can be stopped by screening your calls properly. Use the Caller ID and CALL BACK the number to verify it. Most guys will not pull a NO SHOW on someone without having the decency to call and properly cancel if you have their number. They know that come appointment time one very upset SP is going to give them a call asking WTF! It's not 100% but it sure helps for those who screen calls. It also makes the call a little more safer as that phone number is now a connection between the guy and the lady... I doubt someone dangerous is going to want to leave a number that can be traced back to them. Most of the ladies look for reasons when things are slow. I guess most of us do that when the business we are in takes a drop in sales/traffic/work load/etc.... You can spend a good portion of your day trying to figure this one out but it's not really worth the effort. It's WAY easier to just plan for these lows (Put some money aside for the slow periods) and just accept that this is part of EVERY business and it will happen. Stop stressing out and trying to point a finger at what you think is causing the slowness as your just going to convince yourself of something that is probably not correct. We have been tracking patterns in this industry since 1996 and the answer for this is... (Drum roll please)... It has no pattern EXCEPT for a few obvious LOW spots. 1) The end of Aug is SLOW every year! (Kids out of school, getting ready to go back to school, family summer vacations, etc...) This is the most popular summer weekend in the tourist industry!! 2) 1 week before and 1 week after Xmass (No need to explain this one right?) New years day too? NOT... 3) January/February for 2 weeks every year (We sum this up to winter blues and getting your credit card statements from Xmass! but we never know what two weeks it will be but for sure 2 weeks around this time it does drop... one year we did not see this and come April we saw a real low drop for 2 weeks and that was obvious weather patterns (Long winter/early spring ... warm winter/cold spring etc...) it does effect this business and you never know when this is coming exactly... so just put some cash aside for these times. 4) First nice weekend of spring (A lot of the ladies take this time off too) 5) Thanksgiving, Easter, Valentines, long weekends, really large sporting events (etc)... they also effect the business. The rest has NO identifiable pattern. You can try to blame it on the economy as a low economy brings more people into this business causing more competition and the overall amount of "Recreational money" the guys have gets a lot smaller so yes the economy does effect it but a low economy BUT it also brings more guys (New guys) in to the mix as well so it's not hit as hard as one would assume. Remember money and sex are the two big things couples fight about... When the economy drops and the money gets tight the stress levels go up, the fighting between couples goes up and the sex stops!! FACT OF LIFE... and I hate to admit it but that is good for this business for all you ladies!! When economy starts to get good again business will decrease a little at first! It's OPPOSITE of what everyone ASSUMES! As for NO SHOWS... This time of year it will obviously be higher. Kids are still home from school, Family vacations, relatives coming for visits, back to school shopping, etc.. etc... and all those people taking time OFF work for family vacations makes other people have to work more (Overtime to cover shifts, higher work loads, etc) it's all relevant.... A lot of LAST MINUTE things come up this time of the year for the "Family Man" and well... kids and family (for most people) come first so recreational visits take a back seat so stuff will get canceled more this time of year. Picture this... The guy is all ready to come see the lady he has chosen and the door bell rings and it's his brother or uncle or who knows who just "DROPS BY" for a visit... URH!? Probably with his annoying kids and wife... (Many of us have been in similar situations) This happens EVERY YEAR... Come September 17th (Or around that time) once the kids are back in school and the routine is back... things will pick up. Summer sucks as a lot more things can get in the way or throw a guys schedule off. Don't spend all your time looking for reasons why the business slows down.... it happens to EVERY PROVIDER & EVERY BUSINESS ... It can not be busy 100% of the time and it does take a little planning and anticipation.