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Taffer, you certainly have inspired a conversation and that's never a bad thing. The key to getting started is to listen to what the ladies here are saying because it is actually very good advice if you're serious. You may see their words as princess statements but every one of them offered you valuable insight into moving forward if you would just step outside your perspective for a moment. I actually do believe there is a small demand for straight male providers, there is just no market. I have a couple of friends who would willing pay regularly for a truly extraordinary experience. They're single and tired of dating, tired of trying to find someone who rocks their world. But that experience would have to be so exquisite in itself because women know the difference and are not satisfied with an orgasm, they can do that for themselves and won't pay for it. Satisfying a woman is so much more than looking good, being friendly and dominant/submissive depending on her mood. They want connection, they want the details and they want the fireworks. Women are far more demanding consumers, just ask anyone who deals with $$$ type services for women. We pay but we want premium service for it. If the handful of responses here try your patience then you're going to have to learn to have a little more because female clients would be all over the tone/voice of your communications. While providers are slightly more aware than our civilian sisters, don't think that we are in any way different in sensibilities. Your desired client demographic would pick up on this quickly once the communication commences. You can espouse Red Pill perceptions but your clients would run because they are the customer and wouldn't want to be intimate with someone who used the word princess in any way other than a genuine fairytale reference. We don't make double their salary, we don't have union benefits nor do we have their employment/income stability. And most providers do work as hard as nurses do, especially the under 35 providers. This aspect of the industry will give you initial sticker shock, trust me. I understand that until you've actually lived the numbers of being a provider it's difficult to fathom but you will understand if you actually follow thru. This is an aspect that experience will correct. These words are a hole in the hull of the ship. Please understand, your targeted demographic will not understand the use of the word princess as a derogatory thing. You are comparing a male clients perspective to female client and it doesn't wash. Women do care about the details, the sheets had better be scented and ironed, the candles had better be scented with something she likes, beverages need to be something she wants, the hotel/incall location must be safe, your grooming must be immaculate, your talents honed and your conversation skills need to be impeccable. You need to understand the art of seduction from every viewpoint, intuit her energy voids and masterfully deliver the fantasy. You also need to be prepared to listen to women espouse vitriol towards men. Female providers constantly listen to what pieces of shit the wife/girlfriend/women in general are from clients. You will need to be prepared to listen empathetically and it needs to be genuine because if you're faking it, she'll figure it out. Separating your personal opinions from what your client needs is paramount. The point I'm trying to make is that it isn't impossible nor is it improbable that women would pay for it. What I'm trying to say is that the amount of self awareness as it relates to the feminine energies would be a tremendous challenge for most men. Women paying for it don't do the "fast food" experience that men prefer. They want a 5 star experience and that is only learned trial and error. The same as men don't want a "wife experience", women don't want a "boyfriend experience"; they want "the fantasy lover" to show up at their door. Could you deliver this? I don't know, only you can assess that. The us vs them gender aspect doesn't serve either side of this industry, providers know this and every time they end up in a room with someone that has resentment towards women; they smile, listen, empathize and then get to work but it's a long term challenge to manage that on a daily basis. A male provider would need to find his center on this as we do. This kind of negativity will kill you if you don't learn to handle it. This is just my opinion, I'm not trolling you or in any way trying to put you down. Every provider on this thread contributed immensely valuable information if someone simply chooses to see it... smiles, cat

Joining the business assuming that it is relatively less mental and/or physical work will get you extremely disappointed. This is NOT an easy profession. As for 50 Shades of Grey, the BDSM community strongly disapprove that this story was ever affiliated to their practice given the abusive, boundary pushing behavior of the main protagonist. Therefore if I were you I would avoid comparing my services to this movie...

Wow. I can't even... just stop. Stop blaming women for your problems. I won't even address the idiocy of blaming women for the world's problems when the world is and has been run by men exclusively. As a white male I understand the privilege I was born into. If that makes me "whipped" in your eyes then that is a great compliment. Call me a whipped self sacrificing idiot who actually respects women and sees them as human beings. Please.

Crash and burns are always predictable... I just didn't expect it to happen so quickly. Thanks for proving me right , Taffer. Best of luck to you and the palm sisters.

Wow! I just signed in and see this thread has doubled today. As Meg said something along the lines of..., "Why do people keep feeding him?"

My time to work is over and now enjoying the sights on my cottage deck in PEI .

I will nominate you for starting the most entertaining thread and drama of the year. Thank you for making me laugh so much when I've had the time to read here. This thread is a joke. You would NEVER have what it would take to be a real Dom because professional doms will always respect their participant. Clearly you don't respect women at all. I would run from you.

Here you go, wear it with pride, right up until she signs the divorce papers and takes the armor right off your back: Additional Comments:

Well she does have a crown next to her name above and so do I. We are definitely princesses in our right. Lol. Honey you belong on the red pill site over on Reddit. You will have more sympathy from the women haters over there. Have a wonderful weekend!

I am sad.... So very sad!

Taffer, you inititially asked for tips and advice . Ladies and gentlemen have responded . Now you are becoming insulting and extremely rude. It's time to stop.

#abs #cutoffs #fit

Until you actually entertain as any sort of companion please don't make assumptions . I love what I do , I have entertained for over 10 years. I have also held other positions from labour to management . Let me assure you I put a lot more effort into this than any position I have ever held . I live the same sort of ordinary life as most . I have (echo ) , never ending laundry and cleaning . My home is cleaner than most high end hotels and my linens are line dried and ironed . When you walk in, you step into perfection, all this takes a lot of time . Morning starts for me around 5 AM , by 8:00 everything is ready for the day . Then the phone is ringing , Twitter beeping and texts coming in . I travel a couple of times a month . I have to advertise , ( more calls and inquiries ) . Hotels and transportation needs to be arranged . People put in place to take care of my home . There are family needs/emergencies that top everything . As professional companions we may make it look easy, it's far from that . I do everything in my power to make you the happiest man from arrival to the last good by . Today I am in PEI, it's a fabulous day and I could be at the beach . I have bookings that I accepted last week . I wouldn't cancel , (call in sick ) as that would disappoint people . Most ladies would agree that our job is special, we work very hard in all areas and I don't believe anyone who understands would think it's easier for less work.

There is two males Dom in Toronto that I know of personaly. 90% of their business is male. Maxime Durocher http://www.maximedurocher.com/ Is the only male escort that I know of that work exclusively with women, it took him years to built his reputation

A high school graduation gift for a special young lady who was accepted into various top ranked universities in Canada and other parts of the world for pre med. I'm very proud of her!!

I had the pleasure of visiting Kimora last week for my first vist for this type of service. I am glad Kimora introduced me to the world of naked body massage. She was very pretty and the pictures displayed on backpage are accurate and shows what she look like. She made me feel very comfortable, the massage was very relaxing. Her beautiful body was truly sensual to look at, touch and feel while getting a body slide. Her beautiful natural breast truly send electrifying sensation along my back as she was sliding up and down my back. Her hand were very talented and her intimate part mesmerizing. Being a newbie to this type of service i did not do much but i can tell you the time i spent with her really opened up new posibilities for me to experiment, enjoy and experiment. The shower for two was very special as i got to feel her beautiful breast in my hands, her hard nipples, her soft neck and caress her beautiful body, hips and booty. I was ready to enjoy more of her but i decided to save some for next time and respected her restrictions. I was able to meet her friend Alison and received a very nice welcoming hug from the beautiful Alison. I will definetly take up Kimora's recommendations in trying a duo with Alison and if it is anything like my session with Kimora it will be a very nice, specual, sensual session. They have a very discreet, clean, new condo with lots of parking, beautiful massage table and shower in the room. Looking forward to my next session with Kimora and learnig about new secrects she has to offer.

I made a big bowl of traditional Caesar salad to bring in for some of my favourite girls at my regular club (by request). I told them that the garlic would be strong. One clove just about killed me. It made enough for 4 giant salads. Now I have to go get some Listerine for them ...

Ummm further to my comment on your last post I know many women who raised kids etc only to have their men leave them with nothing for a younger woman. So....cry me a fucking river

The majority of your comments after the first few posts are malicious attempts to incite negative comments to feed your real inner hatred....ahh I fed the troll. Perhaps you SHOULD consider batting for the other team. No judgement there, but maybe some happiness for you! Many members supplied informed and positive information and you decided to go off on an anti woman tangent. I wonder what in your life has affected your view of women; not even escorts, just women in general. You seem to be resentful and I really truly feel sorry for you, and others like you. I hope you find a fulfilling path in life and learn to rejoice in the wonderful splendours that the female population have brought to our modern world. One last thought, without a woman you wouldn't exist.

It is a hard road that men like you walk. Just like some of us woman who are looked at like we are drooling for a man's wallet, when reality is completely different. There are great men and women out there. It truly is a great time to be had by all when those great men meet up with those great women. My neighbours might not agree because of the noise but .... LOL. ;-)

I think most people use the actual Webster's dictionary, but you are completely entitled to go down the coo-coo rabbit hole. We just don't have to go down with you. Or at least I don't. I am happy with my life, you are not. There are reasons why, and vagina is not the issue on either of our sides. Just sayin'. I leave you to your little thread now. You can't afford the time I have spent on this thread and nothing in life is free. Good bye and good luck to sir.

There are some seriously nice breasts in this thread. Like holy shit! LOL

I employ people and am responsible for their financial lifestyle. That ain't greed and entitlement buddy. I was not taking about sex work. I was talking about my mainstream job. I don't escort because I have to. I escort because I like NSA sex and don't want to be roped into a relationship with a leech. Which has been my experience. I have dated guys who make double my 6 figures and yet I am paying for everything so I can prove I am not a gold digger. So I got smartER and started charging for my time and getting a good ol' banging in the process. Nothing like it in the world, so I get why you are jealous of my vagina. But since you think sex is owed to you, there is no point in discussing anything further. That is just wrong on so many levels, I can't even think of where to begin.

I have not read the whole thread admittedly. I was a little taken back by the OP and huge misconceptions at play in his first post. However, I will say this..... There is no demand for sex work from men by women, because that is not what rules us. I am sure one of the many brilliant ladies have already stated that. Just a couple of my own personal ramblings over my coffee break..... For true Dom work, from a professional male dom to female civie sub, there is more trust required then a regular civie relationship. At least for what I want. So I will not be paying a stranger (who is twice as strong as me) to tie me down and blind fold me. Sorry but it just ain't happening. That is not even adding in anything to do with pain play, or even just minor things like spanking, etc. I learned you can't even always trust a BF with this stuff as one thought he would see what my nipples would do when he took scissors to them. He was cutting away clothing, which was fine and agreed too, but I guess the extra wine we had made him think "hmmm... I wonder...." So that was the last time I was blindfolded with him and we were together for 7 years at that point. Women have trust issues that supersede their sexual fantasies, men don't. Now I know my case extreme but the taboo surrounding men in the hobby would be even worse for a woman. Most women I have met have a hard time opening themselves up completely to their sexual wants and desires because society has told them for centuries that women who like sex are sluts. You want them to start paying for that exploration now... LOL - Sorry, but we need to get out of the women liking sex = slut first. Just as a start. Then women need to feel the need for sex or sexual experiences like men seem to "need" it. Thennnnnnn.... women need to get turned down freely for it Thennnnnnnnnn...... maybe there will be a higher market. MAYBE...LOL

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I have tried to set something up a few times ut it just never seems to work out. I am hoping to TOFTT ASAP.

Maya, Chanelle, Aliah, Skyla, Tasha, Natasha, Gia, Trinity, Stacey, Nala, Melania, Shala and Jessica (6'3" stunning redhead from Montreal). At least 5-6 others whose names I did not get.

Mr Hugs and Kisses, When a dancer tries to over-charge you at Pigale or any other club I would suggest you pay the correct amount and if the dancer argues, you should say that you will report her to the manager for trying to over-charge you. The dancer will be afraid that the management will not allow them in the club if many customers complain about over charging. The management really does not want dancers to over-charge because it pisses off the customers and many will stop going to that club.

Resentful of women here, hating on women specifically service providers and misogyny all in your last post. Could you be any more blatant about it? You hate women who make more money than you. Cry me a river and get over it! You like submissive women and can't handle the fact that there are women who do have opinions and a voice especially in this business. I feel sorry for you. ..personally your opinions don't matter to me. The fact that you have gone out of your way to put down members here speaks volumes. Dont be upset when you find yourself alone in threads that you decide to generate. No one will want to partake because you're not capable of having a civil discussion without having to resort to name calling, etc. Don't get so riled up about it. Life is too short for being hateful and envious. Peace out sweetheart. Sincerely, Princess J ( my alter ego)

I don't need to convince you of anything. Nor do I need to justify anything to you. Having been in business for years, I can tell you that there isn't a demand for male escorts. Now if you were to try your hand at massage, women enjoy that. Comparing a male escort's demand to a female escort's demand is like comparing apples and oranges. They are completely different. You are not going to have the same type of demand. No one is stopping you and you don't need anyone's approval. It's a niche market. No one is focusing on the negative. The point I was trying to make was that we wear many hats just as other people in other jobs deal with as well. I have many great clients but remember that there is also a trade off as we put our health and safety at risk. Obviously I am still here because of the freedom this line of works gives me and I am my own boss. I also minimize my risk as much as I can. I have spent countless hours building and maintaining a clientele. Yes it is rewarding but building a clientele takes time, money and effort. I didn't start off that way. Are you going to tell me just because I'm an escort that it's sooo easy because it really doesn't take a lot of effort? Our job doesn't end when the client leaves. Also remember the stigma attached to our job? You never took that into consideration or the way some men behave towards women disrespectfully or in a condescending way? But you know what? There are many more great guys out that I've met in comparison to those who secretly hate women and resent us. This is why I'm still here. The tone of your post sounds resentful almost as if we are living this high life without having to put much effort in and that we are complaining about it. I consciously chose many years ago to get into this line of work and it has helped me in many ways and for that I am grateful so don't insinuate that I'm complaining which is very offensive. Until you walk in our shoes for a day, you have no idea. It's not your typical type of job and I don't mean that in a negative way. Best of luck to you.

The difference between men and women is that we don't have a penis that dominates us! Lol. Men in general are definitely critical of women's appearances so how would it feel to deal with someone in a session that you didn't feel attracted to? There really isn't a market for male escorts because women can get it for free whenever they want. This is the reality. Women are built differently than men in all aspects especially when it comes to sex. They are not out looking to get a "release" for lack of better words. I agree with the other ladies. This business isn't easy and although I have great clients and let some go along the way for whatever reason, it certainly isnt a cakewalk. Laundry is my second job along with housekeeper. When people think we just lay on our backs and make lots of money, it's laughable. There is so much that goes into just being a companion. And not just a companion where you just grab their money and treat the client like a product in a factory line and gone in 10 minutes. I'm taking about building a clientele that keeps returning and that can go on for years. We also sacrifice a lot of things and deal with a lot of bullshit as well. That's why we get paid the big bucks. I enjoy what I do but just to point out, nothing is ever easy.

I've been on here for a few years now. I'll vouch for British Brunette being a fantastic provider. I promised I'd write her a recommendation once she made an account here (which she is planning to do). I've seen her a number of times now and I will confirm the pics are 100% accurate. Again, once she makes an account I'll do a proper reco in the recommendation area.

Pheromones work in mysterious ways. You may not smell to lady A but lady B may feel differently!

Words escape me on the rest of your post. However, here are some options to consider: Mechanic Housekeeper Snow plow/landscaper Carpenter Painter I'm sure there are other things, but this is the only thing I would pay for. Other the gay for pay, women can get it for free if they want. Sorry to be blunt, but to suggest this an easy occupation, you are seriously wrong.

I don't know....words escape me at this moment! Wow! Ya super easy job!

I have visited her multiple times in the past. She was top notch and was very submissive and fun. Will definitely be going back soon.

Looks like Lou Simone on BP is visiting Sydney soon. She has solid reviews. I'd like to be able to see her but can't raise the $400 per hour rate at this time.

Thank you everyone for giving me tips advices and letting me know I'm not the only one with those apprehensions! Did my homework and booked, I'll leave a review later. Thanks again!

Im always amazed by how many people engage in DFK with high risk partners which is pretty much everyone on here. There is no STD that your genitals can get that your mouth can't. The opposite is in fact the case if you include mononucleosis - the kissing disease - which is extremely contagious and highly debilitating. I just don't get it.

http://calgary.ctvnews.ca/mobile/sex-trade-workers-in-calgary-and-edmonton-handcuffed-and-robbed-by-man-impersonating-police-officer-1.3461553 Please share this article with anyone you know who tour or reside in Alberta. I'm sure he did more victims than the one mentioned in this article. Posted via Mobile Device

I want to congratulate my bestie Charlotte Quinn on her new adventure as she leaves the escort world. I know you will be great and will rock. I'm proud of you and you worked hard to move on. Love you. I will miss our working times together and you are and always will be the best. Even though you were in NS working a short time you set it on fire. Your legendary in my mind all over. You are the best duo partner anyone could ask for. Love Kylie Jane

To the OPs question; If you're really worried or nervous; stick with the established, known, well-reviewed ladies who have websites/posting history/etc.. and politely mention that you are new to using companion services and a little anxious about such- we appreciate knowing if you're new & nervous as nerves can sometimes come across very similar to those who waste our time for fun. Though I believe it's been said before, I also wanted to mention.. Aside from the amount for her rates (& any tip if you plan on giving one,) you do not have to bring your wallet or anything of value to a booking. You can show up with nothing other than the amount required for your booking and she won't be offended. ;) A Professional Service Provider should be more than happy to send you links to their site, profile, twitter, blog and/or reviews. It's safe to assume that these ladies are not going to rob or scam you as we care way too much about our reputations, clients and their businesses. While I'm not a client personally, I've had more than a few tell me that they typically see ladies who have at least some sort of screening requirements. (But never the kind of screening that makes you go to some weird site and enter credit card information! I've never heard of a genuine provider asking for something like that.) Every newbie who's interested in seeing a Professional should read stillopensdoors' post, which should be called '12 Tips to a Rewarding Experience with a Professional Service Provider.' If I could nominate it more than once I would, because if you follow those tips, you're pretty much guaranteed a good time with a professional provider. Combine those tips with excellent hygiene and most Pros will be more than happy to see you, refer you, make time for you, wear extra special lingerie for you, lol.. Treating us with respect, like the professionals we are is a massive turn on. It's a great way to have us treating you like a King!

As mentioned before, you are at the right place, Lyla is the place to be to find the right match for you. Just go through the list of recommendation, read about the great times that others had with a lady and if this is something you would like to get then get in touch with that lady. This is plain and simple. Don't be worried about getting scammed or robbed or else, no one as ever been with any of the ladies recommended on this site. Best of all have fun, relax and enjoy your time with them.

Get in touch with one of the ladies that advertise here and who have good reviews. Pick one you find attractive to you and go book an hour. When you meet at her location, tell her it's your first time in the hobby and you're excited and a little nervous. Treat her with respect. Bring your sense of humour and make sure you are clean, have well manicured nails and smell nice and fresh. Have fun! Oh and report back, tell us how it went!

yes do seek out someone who is well reviewed and has a good online presence. There are a lot of greeat ladies to choose form in Ottawa :) If you have specific things you are looking for post those and there's a good chance members can provide recommendations and for sake of the ladies please do not book and no show PS welcome!

If what she charges her clients bothers you that much- then yes, walk away. No one needs someone messaging them because they have issues with how someone else does business, just move along. Also, as sad as it is, some guys lie all the time, about everything. Some want to seem more special, some want others to feel less special, and some think it'll get back at the girl if they send waves of clients she doesn't want by claiming they got a special rate. Just as there are less than reputable escorts, there are less than reputable review sites, (ie. places where bitter people who were tossed off of other sites gather to mope, places that steal/repost ads to try and get traffic they didn't earn, etc,) and you're more likely to run into reviews and reviewers who are trying to be anything other than honest and helpful there.. If you're the type who has difficulty sorting the genuine information from the muck, it's best to avoid these types of places.

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