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How it was explained to me by other women in the business was some women are dating black men or their managers are black. They do not want their women around other black men because it could be another pimp. This happens especially with younger women. This isn't exactly an ideal business where someone can be slapped with a lawsuit for being discriminated against. The intracacies of this industry are endless. If you take into account that the services offered are that of an intimate nature, that is a definite game changer. It's an SP's body and it's her choice as to who she decides to see or not see. Many ladies have their reasons mostly due to bad experiences. I have a few clients that are black men and haven't had any issues. I've had issues with other men of other ethnicities,l and race. It's on a case by case basis and if anyone approaches me the wrong way regardless of their race or ethnicity, I won't be seeing them. The fact that many women are saying " no black gent" is beyond me. Obviously something must be going on to warrant those statements. It's too bad because there are nice black gentlemen out there who are given a hard time and they have no alterior motives. It's similar to SPs who rip off, rob and use fake pictures. Unfortunately women in this business get bumped into that same category by men who are initially cautious (and rightfully so!) until one can decide for themselves through time and experience.

There's actually a lot of different reasons why one might want to avoid a specific type of clients based on various criteria. Either for comfort reason, a traumatic experience or any other reasons. It's actually up to the SP to decide if losing clients because of her pickiness is okay or not. Like others said before, it is sometime better to filter what is getting out of our comfort. If they are not comfortable with black gentlemen, the "compromise" might actually be a non satisfying experience for the guest. I am personally not filtering on race or age, just because diversity makes everything much more interesting. I had my best experience with a black gentleman, but also my worst ever with another one. A bad experience can be traumatic and unfortunately it can sometimes affect a whole group reputation. Remember that some girl might have been beaten up, raped or anything else and they might not always want to share the exact reason why they are avoiding a group.

Caterina here. I am not recommending myself, only pointing out that not all SPs are the same and you shouldn't give up. I'm the complete opposite, I prefer advance bookings and am terrible with "right now" bookings. It's not easy navigating backpage, but I'm sure you will find someone reliable on there, just keep trying. I would assume that women who are generally Kingston permanents would handle advance bookings better than a travelling SP.

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I've only been with one SP and it was terrible. Mechanical and lifeless. With that, I had set out to redeem my experience for something better. I had set out to make an outcall for a specific date. For personal reasons, I needed a certain date in the late evening. I thought an outcall would be a little easier since I'm in my own habitat. I began my search two weeks in advance and I figured I'd aim towards locals or ones with strong reviews (at least to start). I'll take you through my failures: First choice was Sasha May. Read great things about her and she was prompt to respond through private messages on lyla. Unfortunately she had plans the weekend I was aiming for and was up front. After that, I kind of just sat on my hands and waited closer to the date. I then contacted ChanelStar who I had also read great things about. She responded within a couple of hours but couldn't confirm the date and told me she'd let me know the next day if she'd be around. Well the next day came and I asked her for an update but she told me to wait until the actual day. Well she never responded on the actual day period (even though at this point I had moved on). At this point I'm just going to risk it and pluck someone off BP based on gut feeling. On the night before my target date I went back looking through BP and contacted a few. One I like responds and is offering a 2 hour special but she had already left Kingston. She said she'd be back Monday so I asked if she'd come back sooner (Saturday), and I'd take her up on the 2 hour special. She said sure but when Saturday rolled around I tried to reach out to her and no reply back. I figured as much. And now it just get's silly. So Saturday has arrived, my target date. Again, looking through BP and I send out a few inquiries. One responds that I like. Her texts seemed engaging and not just basic replies. So we confirm an appointment. Later in the evening she texts me to check that we are still on for our appt. I was impressed. Finally the time rolls around. Nothing. So I text her and she said she was waiting for me to tell her to come. Ok, fine. But a minute later she tells me she's puppy sitting for her roommate who left and she doesn't know when she'll be back. We exchanged text for another 30 minutes while I waited. I was willing to wait it out. Eventually she just stopped responding lol. How sweet. I mean, what the hell? I tried to schedule in advance with a local and that didn't work out. One was busy, the other couldn't seem to confirm. That's understandable. But what about the last two to leave me hanging? At least let me know it's not going to happen. Bad customer service. Or maybe I'm expecting too much. Maybe some of these SPs are just looking to make a buck that very minute and can't be bothered booking in advance? I had to laugh though. I mean it's pretty bad when you can't even make a donation for someone to have sex with you.

You could have told this story without actually naming the providers. This is extremely disrespectful and potentially harmful to them. I feel your frustration and we too have many moments of despair but to post their work names just doesn't sit well with me. Hope you have better luck in the future because there are a lot of amazing ladies out there.

We all have the right to refuse, just because someone may pay for my time doesn't mean I have to see them I do what I feel is comfortable for me, I choose not to see guys younger than 25 for my own personal reasons If you see a lady that advertises No black gents or mature gentlemen 25+ and if that doesn't fit your description then just move along and find someone else who will be a better fit for you

Princ3ss was her previous Lyla handle, she is AKA Sasha May. https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=91123 Highly recommended!

I've been to the 'Fax a few times on Sunday night, and it gets reasonably busy from 9PM on.

The decision is entirely up to them and not for me to criticize or judge. Personally, I'd rather be excluded up front than the subject of an awkward meeting.

Hobbyists have the distinct advantage of being able to browse any web site and choose a lady based on any attributes (body type, tits size, butt size, race, hair colour, etc...) they desire, without any justification. Why should the ladies have to justify themselves when expressing similar preference before they open the door? All it does is prevent undesirable and awkward situations.

An Australian SP which may have stolen them from someone else. lol

Fake pics. Belong to an Australian SP.

I hit all the highlights yesterday: Tyra Trina Eva (twice) Trinity I was never disappointed in the performances or personal touches of each. I didn't stray from dancers I know, so I had a pretty good idea that I'd be having a great day. My bank account is suffering an enormous hit because I have a hard time saying no to my favourites. Some people don't care for dancers with eyeglasses, but I find it a different and distinctive look. It certainly didn't take anything away from Tyra. She's a real beauty in my books, and genuine in conversation. If you don't know Trina by now, set yourself up with a flashing sign to get her over. She certainly knows how to play for a couple of drinks and is a pleasure in the CR. Well worth the wait. Eva is an old buddy to whom I return often. We may spend a bit too much time gabbing about what is going on in our lives, but that's what buddies do. She is a long, cool drink of water and can turn me inside out with her passions. I can only say good things about her. Just as I was getting ready to leave, I spotted Trinity coming in so decided to stay a bit longer. We didn't get to talk much and went straight upstairs where she started her night off right. So. Lots and LOTS of drinks, so many girls at once that I had to peel off from my crew and take my own table, a fantastic afternoon filled with conversation and delight. My knees are a bit sore and my legs tired from all of the work we were doing upstairs.

It's Saturday night ... have you plan a meeting with someone:icon_question::icon_idea:

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Thanks for the links. For some reasons when I made the search , I found no results. I agree everyone got their preferences. If we could have a long discussion with those ladies, I'm pretty sure they would open up about past experiences justifying their request. And like I just read in some other threads, some reasons are genuine and not worth the embarrassment of a human right complaint. At the end of the day it's about two people agreeing on sharing intimacy under some conditions. If there no attraction, it simply end up as an awkward and expensive experience. Additional Comments: That's a weak explanation as there are "pimps"/procurers of different ethnicities and genders. So, not a great excuse. Also, being selective is not unique to Indy SP's.

How the hell is a coffee compare to a woman? My pube are naturals. I feel pressure to shave my legs, armpits and pube (even if I have a bush) Grow your beard while. its sexy #letthebushgrowfree

Pics come up from a magazine

Tin Eyed one of her pics, came up as a Playboy girl named Kristie Taylor.

Like Meg, I don't pay full retail for anything unless it's consumable and can't found anywhere else on sale. Skilled services; I call someone trusted and buy the materials needed myself on sale. If the materials aren't on sale, I wait until they are. Everything I own has been purchased used, found secondhand or reclaimed from life's discard pile. Quality is a must and retail is out of my league so I find the fabulous at prices that fit my budget. The truth is I love of finding something that has been deemed "unusable" and restore it back to it's former glory and fits my needs perfectly. It keeps it out of the landfills, seriously limits my contribution to the rabid consumerism of todays society and challenges my creativity. I just can't do retail, it gives me indigestion in the store that re-emerges every time I look at the item... smiles, cat

Yes it is unfortunate and happens to me a lot more recently and in my case it is not just an attempt to gouge me for extra song(s) but they actually do it as I pay and don't argue. Most often they start at the end of the song and charge for full (at Barbarellas specifically). That said it is best to boycott the dancer who does that rather than the club as the club has no role or fault in all this (make the one who gains $20 or $40 in short term to lose hundreds in long term as I for one boycott that dancer no matter how pretty she maybe). Dancers also moving from club to club. The dancer for which you boycotted the club may be next day in a club you have not boycotted. Beside this is not club specific and happens everywhere so you may be left with nowhere to go. I also don't feel comfortable to share the names of those dancers who gouge in public or private just in case for the one in a thousand possibility that I maybe mistaken.

Yes, I'd say that "dancer math" is very bad for a club and very harmful for the other girls who work at that club. It pisses me off when a dancer attempts to gouge me for an extra song. It's only an additional $20, but I find it highly offensive. When this occurs too often, I stop going to that club. And worse yet, when it occurs too often, it just encourages potential clients to go to an MA or SP rather than deal with the hassle of running into one of the few dishonest dancers.

If they don't specify in their ads or website, go ahead and contact them. Many of us love seeing all races.