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People who are CONSTANTLY trying to one up you. Holy shit it's exhausting. When the hell did I ever enter a race? I wasn't looking to compete. Everything I do, they do and take credit for it with their friends. It's getting weird now. I'm going to tell them my newest hobby is being a furry friend wearing those weird costumes. Let's see what happens next...lmao! Imitation is the highest form of flattery but these one uppers are mentally exhausting. Time to exit the building!

It can't be easy doing what providers do. It has it's benefits sure but I know I would not want to be judged like they are. Providers are judged on every level: Their ad, physical appearance, services offered, donations, response time, website, personality, quality of services, location, cleanliness of the location and other aspects. Personally, I couldn't imagine and I respect them for it. WIR

I have talked about this with a fine young black lady before and she told me that the reason why she does not want to see black gents is simply because she is afraid to run into someone of her age and that she knows, she would be uncomfortable.

Wings.... *muah* Dropping by to let my friends know I'm once again available to add pleasure and worship to your life with an added smile and giggle. Available Monday - Friday 10am -2pm. Can't wait to enjoy you again. Why not drop by my blog for a little extra stimulation *rawr*

Cerb is comprised of so many interesting, intelligent people, yet we all have more to learn. So I thought a fun and interesting thread might be for anyone to post a little know fact-or one they think is little known,lol. I'll start- Atlantic salmon aren't necessarily from the atlantic ocean, that is to say -atlantic salmon is a species-their name doesn't denote their location.

So, I just turned 20 and am still a virgin and have been itching to get it on with someone. I've been browsing backpagesand seen some amazing girls. The problem is I want to find someone that doesn't mind my inexperience , so I was just wondering if anyone thinks its just a bad idea to do it at all, or if there are any girls you know of that might be a good match for me.

So what...? Ultimately, if a SP/MA doesn't wish to meet with people from a certain group and you fit the description (Like I do as a Black man), it doesn't matter if it's right or wrong, just walk away. It did happen to me a few time, here on this site... I don't care! My second question to a SP/MP when contact her is and will always be something like: "I'm Black, do you care?" If she says "YES", I go with a "Ok, No worries... have a great day/life!!!" End of the conversation. There are so many beautiful ladies on LYLA, these days, why bother with one who doesn't wish to meet me? I don't get it.... This is not a government service where agents (likely here the SP/MA) are obligate to serve me. If the provider is not comfrotable with me simply because of the color of my skin, ya it's better that we don't meet - Where's my fun in it? And since I am the type of guy who has more fun when I feel that she also enjoys our time, there is a whole part that will be missing by seing her. So I prefer to simply contact someone else. We are in 2017... although a lot had been made, there are still a lot of work to do, in terms of equality toward race (like other things - gender, sexual orientation, handicap, etc...). Racisme will not desepear tomorrow. Unfortunately, we will die before and never see total equality in this world. Cheers The Black Bass

I have to agree with Lily... find someone real and special for your first time. When you meet her you'll know... Also, pick a moment when you'll both be able to spend at least a few hours together. I'm sure you'll be very excited at first ( we ALL were.... ). After 'the first time' is over, just make sure you take time to show appreciation, love and respect. Hopefully you'll make sure there is time for a second intercourse (at least...:)). You'll be so much more relaxed the second time round. And every other time for that matter. You WILL find your way just fine... As for myself, I'm not ashamed to admit that my first time WAS with an SP. She was a girl named 'Andi' that I had met in Toronto. I was lucky as she could not have been kinder to me. I only ever loved her that one night..... but I will NEVER forget her beauty, kindness and grace...

Again, there plenty of good reasons for refusing service to someone. The top are: Safety, hygiene, incompatibility and plain conflict of interest. I read plenty of stories of student SP's who awkwardly ended up with a teacher or other uncomfortable situations. But there a large difference between refusing someone in a case by case situation and to plainly ban an entire ethnic group. Sometimes it's justified, but in others it's hard to not call it straight racism.

I am not sure how the picture could go either way... Definately LOOKS to be a dude!

He's a man. This Kijiji ad pic makes it a bit clearer: https://www.kijiji.ca/v-health-beauty/gatineau/benifits-of-massage/1296095021?enableSearchNavigationFlag=true I never met him but received a few Thai massages from a mature Asian MA. I was in my underwear and she would partially cover me with a blanket during the massage. A real "Thai" massage is not sexual and massages and stretches every muscles of your body. I remember being sore for a few days after the first session. For a straight massage, I don't think male or female therapist really matters.

Some good advice here, although I'm not sure I agree with suggesting the "real girl route" as the only option. I don't think that there is anything wrong with choosing this direction. Admittedly it isn't for everyone, but there is a lot of pressure on young guys to loose the v status. This can create a lot of nervousness and anxiousness around the whole idea. It can make dating awkward, as most ladies you meet in there 20's have more experience in this department, which can be embarrassing for some guys. Sometimes just 'getting it over with' in a controlled setting can be just the thing they need to move on to healthy relationships. Not speaking for the op of course, just saying that I can see how this may be the right option for some people. My first would have been a lot less awkward and clumsy had I done it this way ;) I agree wholeheartedly about choosing an independent lady. This site is ideal, as most ladies you can chat with a bit with through the pm system in order to decide if it is the right fit for both of you. Be honest about everything. Your v status, any nervousness you might have, etc. Many ladies here would be more than willing to show you the ropes. (A figure of speech, you don't have to use ropes ;) ) You still want to make sure you find the right lady to make this memorable. Good luck

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Dear Gentleman, everyone are looking for this unique person who will bring us what's missing in our live. Come and live with me a moment of escape where the pleasures of the senses are at the Rendez-Vous. BiancaLove XOX:icon_wink: Text me 819 500 3073

Dear Gentleman, everyone are looking for this unique person who will bring us what's missing in our live. Come and live with me a moment of escape where the pleasures of the senses are at the Rendez-Vous. BiancaLove XOX:smileysmontrefesse: Text me 819 500 3073

Can I advise you NOT to browse Backpages? You've done the right thing by joining Lyla, which gives you the chance to find out much more information about a provider than a Backpages ad would. Read the ads here, then read recommendations, and you will probably be able to narrow down your choices. I can't say whether this is true of Backpages, but my sense is that *none* of the providers I have met through Lyla would in any way have a problem with your lack of experience. Whether seeing a provider is the best choice for you is up to you, but if you find someone through this site, you should be able to set aside concerns about the provider's reaction as one of the considerations.

Did you know that ADHD is a different brain pattern, not a trouble? People with ADHD tend to have a lot more cerebral activities than said "regular" people. Their brains is always racing and they don't have much control over their thoughts. It is actually this brain hyperactivity that creates the physical hyperactivity, when present, and the attention deficits. Try to focus when you constantly have 30 concious ideas in your head! Because their brain is working so hard all the time on multiple subjects at a time, people with ADHD will usually have a better overview of a situation and find solutions to problems that nobody would have thought about before. It is also causing those constant subjects moving and at the same time the "popping" of random ideas. They will also have trouble to explain you their ideas in a clear structured way, but it is simply because they are already thinking about their next idea. They will find the answer to a problem quicker than most, but don't ask them for the solution ;) Finally, a group of people with ADHD can have a conversation together without anyone around being able to follow a single bit of it. It's pretty cool to feel like you're part of a secret community with encrypted communication lol

I agree this is a legit reason for the same reason some Asian SP's prefer not to cater to Asian men.

Its all bout the effort. Would you post a full recco ? Safe is good btw.

If you want to take the chance, you can send an e-transfer and only give the password in person. If she won't agree to that, it's definitely a scam.

Through many fine visits to Sophia's, I had not tried the hot stones treatment. Sophia mentioned it to me once, but I just thought, Ho boy, another gimmicky new-agey type treatment. Boy, was I wrong! The Lady has offered this treatment for the cooler months, and at a very reasonable price, and I'm glad I checked it out. You can see her promo in the massage announcements section of LYLA. She doesn't really rave about how fabulous the treatment is under her capable hands, but I will. She is trained and highly skilled at this, and keeps these smooth, polished lava stones moving, so that the sensation isn't hot, but the perfect degree of comforting, de-knottifying, relaxifying warm aaahhhhhhh. I chose the 75 minute jacuuzi and massage with happy ending. Yep, Sophia is accomplished in all those areas, as well. Plus, she pampers the heck out of you. I will be back to see her, no doubt whatsoever.

Looks like a scam, check this out ... https://independent.com.hamilton.escortbabylon.com/post/23119029/ https://alligator.com.hamilton.listcrawler.com/post/23129072/ just to do a google image search.... Be careful out there. Additional Comments: Unless of course it's the same lady who's changed her name and has moved to Ottawa!

Saw her tonight pictures are real and accurate. Service is 100% safe

She is still around. A few days ago she was offering one day only bjs, or 15 min fs, for $60.

There's actually a lot of different reasons why one might want to avoid a specific type of clients based on various criteria. Either for comfort reason, a traumatic experience or any other reasons. It's actually up to the SP to decide if losing clients because of her pickiness is okay or not. Like others said before, it is sometime better to filter what is getting out of our comfort. If they are not comfortable with black gentlemen, the "compromise" might actually be a non satisfying experience for the guest. I am personally not filtering on race or age, just because diversity makes everything much more interesting. I had my best experience with a black gentleman, but also my worst ever with another one. A bad experience can be traumatic and unfortunately it can sometimes affect a whole group reputation. Remember that some girl might have been beaten up, raped or anything else and they might not always want to share the exact reason why they are avoiding a group.

Come and play with me at Barbarella's this Saturday, September 9, from 2pm to 7pm. With my long auburn hair hiding us from the rest of the world, we can share a sensual escape of eskimo kisses and soft caresses. XO

No luck with Asian girls. They are almost always part of an escort service, with fake names and pics so bait and switch is just part of the way they operate. Once they get hold of the donation, that's when all the "I don't do"s" start to come out. The texts mean crap to get the guys in. Save your hard earned moola for non-Asians.

If it isn't mentioned, just go ahead and contact her. If you're really unsure, just ask. Privilege: never having to identify your race to a provider. The reason no white guy has ever said "hey I'm white, are you ok with that" is because whiteness is the invisible standard by which all difference is measured. It doesn't need to be stated because it's assumed. (*cough*socialjusticenerd*cough*)

Did you know... a 1 minute kiss burns 26 calories.... So anyone up for a workout? ;-)

Did you know the most expensive coffee in the world comes from Indonesia. It costs between 600-1000$ a lb. This special coffee is a product of the excrement of the civet. This little animal eats the coffee cherry and digests the soft outer part but can't digest the inner coffee bean, The bean is then collected and processed into Kopi Luwak-the worlds most expensive coffee.

Wellington Street in Ottawa is more awesome than most people give it credit for. And here's why. If you've ever been to Parliament Hill, you may have noticed a beautiful building across the street along side Elgin. It's currently the Prime Minister's office, and over the last century has been used for various government offices. Langevin Block Now I'm more interested in the architecture of it. It was designed in a style that was prominent at the time called Second Empire. Originally from France, buildings were designed in that manner because it was fashionable. That's right, buildings were a fashion statement. Ottawa, specifically downtown Ottawa is a great time line of architectural styles that have been prominent over our nation's short history. Parliament Hill was constructed in a Gothic Revival style, partly to show the world our difference from the United States. Compared to Capitol Hill And while there isn't an example of American Neoclassic design on Wellington Street, there is another great building which has a style very prominent in US. And when I found out what it's original purpose was, it made perfect sense. Located at 100 Wellington Street, it's proposed use was a National Portrait Gallery before the Conservatives came in and scrapped the idea. But it's original use - The American Embassy; the only embassy ever on Wellington Street. Now the last stop is the Bank of Canada. Between Elgin Street and Bay Street, it is the only glass tower to grace Wellington. And again, it is an excellent representation of Canada's history. Almost like layers of soil overlapping the previous one as centuries pass by. The original building was designed in the Neoclassical style so commonly used by banks in that time. In the 70s, much needed additions were constructed, but in a very different approach. And here is the result. Not my favourite, but apparently made it to the top 500 list of Canadian buildings of the 20th century. So if you didn't read all of that, I'll try to sum it up as best I can. Ottawa is new, but has some awesome buildings if you're into that sorta stuff.

Also, the word "Fuck" comes from an acronym that was used in the British legal system in the 19th century. It stands for "For Unlawful Carnal Knowledge."

The inventor of the modern foundation garment that we women wear today was a German scientist and opera lover by the name of Otto Titsling!

Did you know that squids fly or at least glide out of water like flying fish? http://phys.org/news/2013-02-bird-plane-squid.html Water jet propulsion!