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From Twitter Playboy: American Icon and Playboy Founder, Hugh M. Hefner passed away today. He was 91. So sad to hear this. He helped to make my world. RIP Hugh, and thank you.

If you can afford it, sure. But rates for overnight and weekends are not cheap. Expect to pay in the four or five figures depending on the lady. Would recommend doing with someone you seen a few times in order to built some trust and be sure of the chemistry. Last thing you want is being stuck for days with an obnoxious princess you can't have a decent conversation with. Good looks and bed manners don't always make up for it. A simple dinner date before booking can make the difference between a dream week and a very bad and expensive experience. Also, it would make it easier to negotiate a long weekend/week deal. https://www.genevievemarceau.com/packages http://giawren.com/ottawa-escort-rates/ http://wildecompanion.com/rates/ This should give you an idea.

Natalie and nina serving . Claire , jenna ,joy ,natasha , marissa ( blknde from nuden i dont know her ) , catalina , carmella , carmel? All here now

I'm not actually on board with this concept of "she lied to you so you need to question her integrity". Here's why... Being outed this industry can destroy families and reputations causing irreparable long term unrepairable damage. In the future it can cost them their children, future jobs, volunteer positions, friendships and family members. They may not be allowed to participate in school activities with their children or become foster parents, they may not be allowed to volunteer at women's shelters or be employed in the health care industry. They may be denied access to the US or denied for any number of activities. One has no idea how being outed will impact their future. I know because all of the above have happened to me personally. Choosing who to share this fact of our lives with is fraught with very real danger. If it's disclosed at the beginning of a dynamic, the chances of the relationship succeeding are slim anyway; adding this to the mix means the man has power over a provider if she isn't already out. He knows where she lives, what her government name is and probably who her friends/family are. He's seen her Facebook and social media, he now has access to all aspects of her life. All it takes is a single email to blow her life out of the water. It happens all the time with loved ones we've known for years and we've all witnessed the slut shaming women go thru when they break up with someone for valid reasons who aren't sex workers. Disclosing you're a sex worker is a huge leap of faith and to think any woman in her right mind would disclose this up front is absurd and I don't believe any provider should be expected to. A man needs to earn that trust, he needs to prove to her that he is safe and won't hurt her with the information the first time they hit a pot hole in the relationship. She needs to feel safe with him, see how he reacts when he's angry. Is he petty or revenge oriented when he's furious, does he act like a 2 year old or hold grudges? Does he throw things in her face and fight dirty? She owes him nothing when it comes to disclosure until she knows the relationship is first and foremost safe and is going somewhere. Why is it deemed a wrong to protect yourself? I argue it isn't, it's a strong, gut survival instinct that women need to listen to and know they aren't in the wrong because they are trying to take care of themselves. And once she's decided to share this aspect of herself with a man, he should have the wisdom to realize her motivations and accept that it wasn't him, it was necessary for her protection. Then he should thank his lucky stars he has a found himself an honest to goodness firecracker that has a backbone and the ambition to want more out of life and is willing to make the hard decisions and sacrifices to get it. And the cherry on top is... she wants him. smiles, cat

The big question should be to yourself; how do you feel being in a relationship with a sex worker? Since you posted this thread here I would assume you know a bit about the industry so you should know the answer to that question. If you truly don't have an issue with her line of work then good for you, talk with her, and re-assure her that you understood why she didn't tell you at first but that her possible fears were unfounded. However, if you do have an issue with being in a relationship with a sex worker that is a different story. Judging from how you phrased the question (cheating) I suspect you do have an issue. If that is the case then do yourself and her a favour and cut your losses and walk away from the relationship. At a minimum you are going to continually be suspicious and jealous and if you try to change her or challenge her she is going to be resentful. It will do nothing but cause you grief. You will become paranoid and she will be forced to lie to you more. I can't see a happy outcome.

I would not be worrying right now wondering if this is cheating. That is just the ego part of your brain speaking now because you are hurt. You feel this is cheating on her part because you feel betrayed since she lied to you. She lied to you about something that is a big part of her life which is her job and what she does for a living. You need to confront her about this and decide for yourself if this is the road you wish to go down. You may not be able to trust her again. Ask yourself do you have a problem with her seeing men in what she does for a living? If so, end the relationship immediately. As someone who has been in relationships with men while doing this line of work, there needs to be full disclosure from the beginning which includes trust, honesty and communication. Right now the issue at hand is she lied to you and it happened to be about a job that already has a large stigma attached to it. If you don't feel you can trust her as this is a huge red flag, walk away because there will be resentment and I can tell you this type of work can be very difficult and if she feels she is going to be put down for it, the relationship will never work and you will both come to resent each other.

If you ever encounter any sort of problems with anyone while working, anything ranging from sexual assault to theft, intimidation, abuse, harassment, threats, stalking or anything else, and want to talk directly to a female officer who will listen and help (if you want it), here is the name of an Ottawa officer who has been helpful to sex workers in the past: Sergeant Patricia Ferguson Sexual Assault Section Tel. 613-236-1222, ext. 5463 Or, to anonymously report to the police any kind of bad behaviour you've experienced: Bad Date Line Call 1-800-303-5407 - anonymously. http://www.ottawapolice.ca/en/ServingOttawa/SectionsAndUnits/saca/baddateline.aspx From Ottawa Police Services: Working in the sex trade can make you a vulnerable target, and predators count on the fact that you may not report crimes against you. We need your help to identify and track serial and predatory offenders. The anonymous reporting system is for individuals victimized while engaging in the sex trade. By calling the toll free number (1-800-303-5407), you will be prompted to leave a message regarding the details of your assault along with as much of an offender description as possible. Information gathered could be the missing link needed in identifying a serial predator. The anonymous and free Bad Date Line gives you an opportunity to report sexual and physical assault without revealing your identity. For more information about the Ottawa Bad Date Line, download their pamphlet (PDF, 206k). The Ottawa Police Service understands the desire of victims to remain anonymous and supports the Bad Date Line in an effort to identify potential serial offenders preying upon victims who they believe will not report the attack to police. The Bad Date Line does not subscribe to caller ID and no attempts will be made to identify callers. It is preferred that victims contact police directly to report an assault so that a proper investigation can be conducted and ensure a predator is removed from the street. Ottawa Police treat all victims fairly and equitably. If you wish to speak with an officer regarding an assault or receive more information regarding the investigation process, you may contact the Sexual Assault Unit directly at 613-236-1222, ext. 5944.

This fake SP http://moncton.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/the-sexiest-phonesex-nudes-videos-and-skype-facetime-the-best-the-one-and-only-jessica/2436873 She claims to do skype and facetime sessions over the phone, and she asked me for 65$ for a 30min session and since i gave her the password for the etransfer she did not respond to me after. This is a scam and these people need to be reported and exposed. Please be careful out there and never fall for the etransfer scam, UNLESS you already have an established SP that you have seen before and can trust them, then its up to you. But really just stick to cash, and dont fall for those phone sex over skype girls, they are mostly fake.

Has anyone taken one of these wonderful women on an vacation. I am looking to go away on business and would like a companion for the week / weekend. Is this done or am i asking too much?

I don't trust any ads where they list most of Nova Scotia as their location.

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Every lady that post the 'No Black Men' or 'No AA Men' may not do so for the same reason. I asked some of the providers I know in the States and I got different answers ranging from 'pushy' to 'pimps on the prowl'. One Latino provider told me that some of them turn into uncontrollable beasts once the hormones get flowing. Racism? Not sure about that either because some AA providers don't want to have anything to do with AA clients. I know another US provider that's Russian by birth and wants nothing to do with Latinos, justifying herself by many low-balling experiences and bargaining the agreed upon price. There may be many reasons, to each her own, I figure.

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Generally when ladies state they are perfect , flawless or just the best are B&S . Thing about it , how many perfect people do any of us know ?

I've seen the first multiple times she is great. And going to see the other tomorrow, from what I'm seeing and reading, she is completely worth it. That Body looks incredible.

Skyla, Maya, Mickey, Autumn, Velinda, Ashley, Gia, Alex, Trinity, Zia plus at least 4-6 others whose names I know not.

He blended together all the things I adore in life. I guess it was time for a rest. RIP Heff'

Tipping is definitely not mandatory. I think if anyone was to tip 20-40 is more then enough. The gentlemen are already donating a fair bit. I appreciate chocolates myself.

No question Hef was the envy of one-handed magazine readers worldwide !

My mama said if you cant say something nice then say nothing at all. Nothing at all.

Reading the previous posts I will consider myself lucky as I found my father's Playboy collection at the age of 7. When I was a young teen my older cousin showed me my godfather's collection. It was enough to fill every shelf of a double sliding door closet in the basement bedroom, a slice of Heaven I thought at the time. He also told me there were a few in the bathroom vanities. When visiting that uncle we all know what I was doing as a teen when locking myself in the basement bathroom a few times a day. Hugh Hefner had a wonderful vision and he made it happen, creating what became the most successful men's magazine in the world. He lead one of the most iconic lives of the American Dream making millions with what most boys and men still daydream about today, gorgeous women. There is no doubt Playboy played some type of roll in breaking down sexual conservative walls. For that we should all be thankful, both men and women alike. Tip of the hat and a big thank you to Hugh Hefner. May he rest in peace. WIR

They've finally gotten rid of that monstrosity in the front and opened it back up for parking. YAY!

cat and rocky racoon said it best. "We all hide things about ourselves at first." I highly doubt any one of us is exempted from this. Even depending on the length of the relationship at this point does not necessarily determine if she was lying or even deceived you since all relationships move at a different pace. If she is the one who informed you then I feel she must truly care for you and is willing to face you judging her no matter the outcome. Keep this in mind when making a decision. If such is the case you need to not only be honest with her but just as importantly with yourself. IMO, this is the most crucial part of this situation. Perhaps she is willing to take this relationship to the next level. We don't know, only you do. There are too many 'what ifs' involved here with not one of us who are posting knowing full details, nor is all of it our business. For this, we can only assume and/or presume. On the question...is it cheating? "My" final answer remains, NO. As I have read here before, "We are all human, no matter our profession. We all have the desire to love and be loved."

like the other post read, what type of services is she offering. I would like to know how you found out. Were you looking for an MA and came across her add, if so then are you cheating?

It sounds like you're bothered more by the fact she deceived you rather than her line of work. Not a very good foundation for an honest relationship. You might be asking yourself what other stuff is she lying to (or will lie to) me about. These are the seeds of discontent. I've been there too. This is who she is. Can you live with that? Although, I have a feeling you've already made up your mind, overall I would say follow your heart of hearts in good judgement. Good luck to you both.

I think cheating has nothing to do with the fact that she is a MA (or any kind of sex worker for that matter). So your question:"My GF is a MA, is it cheating?" is misleading. She's not cheating BECAUSE she's a MA. I believe some MA have perfectly healthy relationship and it doesn't necessarily means they're cheating, even when they're providing extras to their clients. The fact that she hid it from you, though, might be the problematic part. To me, cheating is simply lying to the other. Some couples are perfectly happy to be in an open relationship. This doesn't even have to be symmetrical. In some couples, one of the persons is sleeping with other partner(s), while the other is not. For this to work, everybody involved need to be consenting to the specific terms of their relationship. And, to be truly consenting, one needs to know every aspect of that relationship. Now, Cat makes some very good point about the lies in the initial relationship. I think we all do it when we start going out with someone, consciously and unconsciously. We want to look good so we present the best side of ourselves. We dress up, we hide the dirty clothes under the bed, we don't swear, or burp, etc... Basically, we keep secret a lot of the things we feel might be detrimental to what is originally a fragile relationship. It's not dishonesty, just a desire to convince the other that we can be worthy. It's fine, as long as the true personality come out eventually. If one of the person is a sex worker, she/he has a much bigger secret, and she/he will likely hide it at first. The personal and social risks involved with telling the truth are much bigger when your secret is that you're a sex worker, then if it's that you don't floss everyday. The thing is, once the relationship gets past the initial phase and trust is being built, at one point or the other, this secret should be shared. You don't say how long you've been going out with her, but since you say you live together, I'll assume you're past that initial phase of your relationship and, since you "just found out", I'm tempted to say she cheated on you by actively lying to you. Now, does that mean you should dump her? Not necessarily. It's not because someone cheated that the relationship is irreparably broken. I think you should definitely talk with her about it, not so you can intrude in her professional life, but to make sure you're on the same page on how each other feels about the situation. Communication is key here. Then, figure out whether or not you feel comfortable living with someone who's a sex worker. Only you can decide that.

The initial lie is a problem given the need for trust in a relationship but understandable given the stigma and potential harm that could come if the relationship ends. Providers are most at risk from people close to them; physically, mentally and socially. We are outed by "less than loved ones" 95% of the time so I'm inclined to believe lying about our work is a much needed survival instinct. It's a job, all be it a more challenging occupation for relationships. My gentle suggestion is if the work bothers you in any way, walk away now. It's never going to sit right and will taint the relationship in ways you don't realize yet. Men who can participate in relationships with sex workers either need to be completely neutral or completely supportive internally for the relationship to have a chance. There is no room for a negative gut reaction and you need to be honest with yourself about how you are feeling. This is indeed work, it can be incredibly empowering and gratifying in so many ways. There is aspect of service that most people don't consciously relate to but it's the foundation of this industry. We help people smile and feel better about the world, every time we provide service. It offers us the opportunity for independence and control in our lives which breeds confidence and strength. It gives us the permission, experience and time to grow as people; faster than any other occupation imo as long as she has genuine support from her partner and loved ones or at least a neutral home environment. If she doesn't, it creates an inner conflict that will influence her very soul in devastating ways. I went thru the same thing with my husband when I decided to go back to work. The deception was where the damage came initially but we worked thru that aspect quickly. The next several years were difficult because I could work as long as I didn't enjoy it. I was forced to continue living a lie at home because I couldn't take pride in the work I was doing, I couldn't have a great day or an experience that fed my soul without it turning into a problem. I can count on one hand the number of truly positive relationships I've seen in the industry. As I've said before, it's like finding a diamond in the Gatineau river. I can't even count the number of relationships where the partner uses the work as leverage to guilt and manipulate the provider into paying all the bills, support unhealthy habits, buy him toys and spoil him, all to keep him happy because he has to share his pussy. It's a finely honed form of extortion because if she were a lawyer or an engineer at the same pay grade, he wouldn't feel entitled to such things. The provider ends up wasting the money she should be investing for her future because she wants someone to love her when in fact she's been turned into the most lucrative client and he has become the most insidious prostitute. The man who seemingly supports but contributes nothing is playing the "I love you" con at its worst; it's the traditional pimps most successful business model... smiles, cat

Is it cheating? This will all depends on how you feel about it. It is her job after all and if she comes home and does not seem happy then it's not for her. You have to support her in her decision if you love her but first you have to accept that it's her JOB. So she lied about it, she said she was a barmaid/waitress, did you accept that she was doing that as a job? If it's too hard for you to accept it then best to leave her alone and let her do what she wants to do.

I've posted this before. I've dated a couple SPs and a Dancer, even lived with an SP for a while. I don't look at it as cheating, it's their business. It's not for everyone nor is it the easiest to accept. Not everyone will agree with what I'm saying here so I'm not expecting that. Don't overthink it or talk about it. If she has something she wishes to discuss with you in regards to her work simply let her initiate the conversation. Don't ask what you don't really want to hear the answer to. Obviously, if it's too much for you to handle you need to do what is best for you. Never use what she does against her, you can't do that. The ultimate choice is yours. Best of luck no matter the choice you make.

So what...? Ultimately, if a SP/MA doesn't wish to meet with people from a certain group and you fit the description (Like I do as a Black man), it doesn't matter if it's right or wrong, just walk away. It did happen to me a few time, here on this site... I don't care! My second question to a SP/MP when contact her is and will always be something like: "I'm Black, do you care?" If she says "YES", I go with a "Ok, No worries... have a great day/life!!!" End of the conversation. There are so many beautiful ladies on LYLA, these days, why bother with one who doesn't wish to meet me? I don't get it.... This is not a government service where agents (likely here the SP/MA) are obligate to serve me. If the provider is not comfrotable with me simply because of the color of my skin, ya it's better that we don't meet - Where's my fun in it? And since I am the type of guy who has more fun when I feel that she also enjoys our time, there is a whole part that will be missing by seing her. So I prefer to simply contact someone else. We are in 2017... although a lot had been made, there are still a lot of work to do, in terms of equality toward race (like other things - gender, sexual orientation, handicap, etc...). Racisme will not desepear tomorrow. Unfortunately, we will die before and never see total equality in this world. Cheers The Black Bass

It can't be easy doing what providers do. It has it's benefits sure but I know I would not want to be judged like they are. Providers are judged on every level: Their ad, physical appearance, services offered, donations, response time, website, personality, quality of services, location, cleanliness of the location and other aspects. Personally, I couldn't imagine and I respect them for it. WIR

Through many fine visits to Sophia's, I had not tried the hot stones treatment. Sophia mentioned it to me once, but I just thought, Ho boy, another gimmicky new-agey type treatment. Boy, was I wrong! The Lady has offered this treatment for the cooler months, and at a very reasonable price, and I'm glad I checked it out. You can see her promo in the massage announcements section of LYLA. She doesn't really rave about how fabulous the treatment is under her capable hands, but I will. She is trained and highly skilled at this, and keeps these smooth, polished lava stones moving, so that the sensation isn't hot, but the perfect degree of comforting, de-knottifying, relaxifying warm aaahhhhhhh. I chose the 75 minute jacuuzi and massage with happy ending. Yep, Sophia is accomplished in all those areas, as well. Plus, she pampers the heck out of you. I will be back to see her, no doubt whatsoever.

Wr met already and you are amazing !

Pics are of asian model Vyvan Le - I doubt she is escorting in Kingston on the side. :) Fake.

Sadly, the majority of guys that do this do so without letting us know and then just don't show up.. it's very annoying and costly. I use to not see guys who do this, but now that I require deposits for bookings it really makes no difference/doesn't bother me anymore. xx

That's funny, I've never experience a lady who was possessive. Though recently I was chatting with a lady who've I've been seeing for 5 years who is very pro marriage... she is my relationship counsellors... she'd actually make a great marriage counsellor, lol... anyway, I was saying something to her about my wife and she said to me in a very gentle manner while putting a condom on me, that perhaps we should stop talking about my wife for a while. LOL.

To answer Notch...no lol. But then again I always answer an email in a timely manner. If I am not available at the requested time I would let you know as soon as I could. If you sent a text during a time when I wasn't available, I would not respond after an hour or so for purposes of discretion unless you specified that I could text back at any time. My two cents

Hello Cerb..!! I would like to have your opinion about a subject that I would like to share with you for a long moment. I know that a similar thread has been do in another forum from another province but I thought it was important to make one for Ottawa. I have been solicited, Im sure Im not the only one, for ''only this service'' and not being offered the respect for my time or sessions. As well, the fact of underpricing, cutting price for these '' onlys''. There's a lot of users who asked me ''Whats your rate only for a BJ'' or ''I want one hour but not intercourse...'' Maybe Im wrong, but I dont see a difference between having intercourse or not in my session. So, what happen to our time?? Why ''just'' a BJ doesnt worth the same thing than intercourse ???? Probably some girls offering a '' BJ price '' and I respect that but some users have to respect girls who doesnt. I think that we are not offering ''just this'' or ''that service'' but a COMPLETE service even if you are SP or MA. Should we reduce our rates but start to ask extra for everything?? If you want to kiss here, its +x$... if you want to touch here its +x$... sounds ridiculous no? I think its the same thing for us when we are solicited like this. Maybe Im wrong, so that is why I asked for you opinion and I think we need to talk about it if we want to inform new users. Ps: Sorry For my english..... ;)