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I'm not actually on board with this concept of "she lied to you so you need to question her integrity". Here's why... Being outed this industry can destroy families and reputations causing irreparable long term unrepairable damage. In the future it can cost them their children, future jobs, volunteer positions, friendships and family members. They may not be allowed to participate in school activities with their children or become foster parents, they may not be allowed to volunteer at women's shelters or be employed in the health care industry. They may be denied access to the US or denied for any number of activities. One has no idea how being outed will impact their future. I know because all of the above have happened to me personally. Choosing who to share this fact of our lives with is fraught with very real danger. If it's disclosed at the beginning of a dynamic, the chances of the relationship succeeding are slim anyway; adding this to the mix means the man has power over a provider if she isn't already out. He knows where she lives, what her government name is and probably who her friends/family are. He's seen her Facebook and social media, he now has access to all aspects of her life. All it takes is a single email to blow her life out of the water. It happens all the time with loved ones we've known for years and we've all witnessed the slut shaming women go thru when they break up with someone for valid reasons who aren't sex workers. Disclosing you're a sex worker is a huge leap of faith and to think any woman in her right mind would disclose this up front is absurd and I don't believe any provider should be expected to. A man needs to earn that trust, he needs to prove to her that he is safe and won't hurt her with the information the first time they hit a pot hole in the relationship. She needs to feel safe with him, see how he reacts when he's angry. Is he petty or revenge oriented when he's furious, does he act like a 2 year old or hold grudges? Does he throw things in her face and fight dirty? She owes him nothing when it comes to disclosure until she knows the relationship is first and foremost safe and is going somewhere. Why is it deemed a wrong to protect yourself? I argue it isn't, it's a strong, gut survival instinct that women need to listen to and know they aren't in the wrong because they are trying to take care of themselves. And once she's decided to share this aspect of herself with a man, he should have the wisdom to realize her motivations and accept that it wasn't him, it was necessary for her protection. Then he should thank his lucky stars he has a found himself an honest to goodness firecracker that has a backbone and the ambition to want more out of life and is willing to make the hard decisions and sacrifices to get it. And the cherry on top is... she wants him. smiles, cat

The initial lie is a problem given the need for trust in a relationship but understandable given the stigma and potential harm that could come if the relationship ends. Providers are most at risk from people close to them; physically, mentally and socially. We are outed by "less than loved ones" 95% of the time so I'm inclined to believe lying about our work is a much needed survival instinct. It's a job, all be it a more challenging occupation for relationships. My gentle suggestion is if the work bothers you in any way, walk away now. It's never going to sit right and will taint the relationship in ways you don't realize yet. Men who can participate in relationships with sex workers either need to be completely neutral or completely supportive internally for the relationship to have a chance. There is no room for a negative gut reaction and you need to be honest with yourself about how you are feeling. This is indeed work, it can be incredibly empowering and gratifying in so many ways. There is aspect of service that most people don't consciously relate to but it's the foundation of this industry. We help people smile and feel better about the world, every time we provide service. It offers us the opportunity for independence and control in our lives which breeds confidence and strength. It gives us the permission, experience and time to grow as people; faster than any other occupation imo as long as she has genuine support from her partner and loved ones or at least a neutral home environment. If she doesn't, it creates an inner conflict that will influence her very soul in devastating ways. I went thru the same thing with my husband when I decided to go back to work. The deception was where the damage came initially but we worked thru that aspect quickly. The next several years were difficult because I could work as long as I didn't enjoy it. I was forced to continue living a lie at home because I couldn't take pride in the work I was doing, I couldn't have a great day or an experience that fed my soul without it turning into a problem. I can count on one hand the number of truly positive relationships I've seen in the industry. As I've said before, it's like finding a diamond in the Gatineau river. I can't even count the number of relationships where the partner uses the work as leverage to guilt and manipulate the provider into paying all the bills, support unhealthy habits, buy him toys and spoil him, all to keep him happy because he has to share his pussy. It's a finely honed form of extortion because if she were a lawyer or an engineer at the same pay grade, he wouldn't feel entitled to such things. The provider ends up wasting the money she should be investing for her future because she wants someone to love her when in fact she's been turned into the most lucrative client and he has become the most insidious prostitute. The man who seemingly supports but contributes nothing is playing the "I love you" con at its worst; it's the traditional pimps most successful business model... smiles, cat

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Please give generously to any girls you know who have family in affected regions. Earthquakes, too. Ask if they are sending money back home to help with rebuilding efforts. That's just me. There are many others who have big hearts. Don't expect a tax receipt. I don't even expect preferential treatment. That isn't why I do it. I have it. They need it. Give.

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It's sad but probably inevitable to see a lot of pettiness come out on social media after Hugh Hefner's passing. No doubt he had failings, but let's celebrate his achievements and his contributions to sexual liberation. Respect and admiration! He lived life fully and on his own terms. Who could ask for more?

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I've posted this before. I've dated a couple SPs and a Dancer, even lived with an SP for a while. I don't look at it as cheating, it's their business. It's not for everyone nor is it the easiest to accept. Not everyone will agree with what I'm saying here so I'm not expecting that. Don't overthink it or talk about it. If she has something she wishes to discuss with you in regards to her work simply let her initiate the conversation. Don't ask what you don't really want to hear the answer to. Obviously, if it's too much for you to handle you need to do what is best for you. Never use what she does against her, you can't do that. The ultimate choice is yours. Best of luck no matter the choice you make.

I had the privilege of meeting Savannah recently. I don't often visit someone until I see a positive Lyla recommendation, but in this case I'm very glad that I took the chance to meet this amazing young woman. Savannah greeted me at the door with a smile, and she has a friendly personality that makes you feel welcome from the moment you meet her. She's very intelligent and easy to talk to. Savannah has a slender yet curvy figure and one of the prettiest faces you'll ever see. Safe services only, just the way I like it. :) In call was in a nice neighbourhood in the Dartmouth/Cole Harbour area; basement apartment of a private residence with a discrete entrance at the back. She does have pets but they were very friendly and clean. I'll definitely be visiting her again.

Once in a while you come to realize that so many of our members really don't "get" the whole hobby experience, or rather, they understand that there are rules but believe they are somehow exempt. So let's help them. Let's give some handy tips to make this a more wonderful experience for all. This is a pleasant place so let's keep it constructive... and be aware that the rules shouldn't just be for clients, you can also add some helpful tips that may help a new provider too! Here goes: 1. Appointment time is at 2:00 pm, what time do I arrive? Ummmmm. Hmmmmm. What part of 2:00 pm is ambiguous? A 2 o'clock appointment means you are at her door at 2. Not 1:55, not 2:10. It's seems petty but when you screw up her schedule, you may be screwing up MY schedule. I may be the appointment at 3. I have things to do... and my schedule may not be as loosey goosey as yours. I may be using a very small window of time or I may have "commitments" that see me arriving like clockwork elsewhere. Regardless, when the little hand is at 2 and the big hand is at 12, be where you are supposed to be. 2. "I am awesomely wicked good in bed, and I often masturbate to pictures of myself nude, because I am that good looking. Can we negotiate a better rate?" In a word, No. Would you go to a restaurant and say, "I am a really good eater, can I get a better price on that steak?" Would you go to a lawyer and say, "I am an awesome criminal, can you represent me for free?" Would you go to the dentist and say, "My teeth are so bad that you should fix them all for $50!" A service provider gets paid at a set rate because she is a professional. She is good... no, not just good... wickedly awesome good, at what she does. Your part is the compensation, her part is the wicked awesome part. Pay the pretty lady and be happy. 3. Cleanliness is next to godliness. Ever step into an elevator and stand next to someone who smells like they have never met a bar of soap they liked? Ever met someone that looked like they were an extra in the Walking Dead? Have you ever gone into a bathroom after someone and wondered if they ate something dead? Step one. Go to the potty. Do your business. Wipe. Wipe again. Wipe again. and then, wipe again. Do the optical test. Last wipe. Is there any residue? If yes, start over. If no, then proceed to step two. Step Two. Shower. Clean EVERYWHERE. Rinse. Repeat. Did you pay attention to anywhere in particular??? Hmmm??? Go back to those places. Make em sparkle. (at this point I do suggest that artificial glitter is NOT necessary.) Get out of the shower. Towel dry (for pete's sake use a clean towel!)... apply a generous amount of deodorant/anti-perspirant. Brush your teeth. (if additional grooming is required, please do that too.) Step three. Clothing. Go to the place where you keep your clean clothes. No. Not the place where you put the stuff that you THINK you can wear again. The CLEAN clothes. You know that stuff that you just took from the dryer and folded nicely?? That's the stuff. Wear that shit. Uh oh... what if I have to do step one again?? Then repeat ALL the steps. Cuz skidmarks are not sexy. Febreeze showers are not acceptable. 4. I have to cancel, what do I do? Give your head a smack. With a hammer. Stop. Now take a pointy thing and stick it with great force into your upper thigh, avoiding the artery. Now, go to your car. Start it. Open the door, put your foot beneath a tire and have someone put that car in reverse. Cancellations? NOT COOL. We all know that shit happens. A death in the family. A sick kid. Decapitation with farm machinery. Thermonuclear war. Explosion of your planet from a death star ray. That shit is acceptable.... but you still owe the pretty lady an explanation AND a cancellation fee. When you cancel, providers don't eat. When providers don't eat they get distended bellies and look like kids from the CARE commercials. When you cancel, providers give not only you, but also your city, a bad reputation. This makes you masturbate more. Because you will never get laid again. Ever. You will over develop muscles in only one arm. Your clothes will fit poorly. People will figure it out and suspect you are the notorious masturbating king of cancellations. They will hunt you down and kill your family. Let's keep little Bobby and Joanie safe. If you make an appointment, keep that appointment. Your family will love you for it. 5. "I'm a little short on cash. Do you think she will notice if the envelope is a bit short?" In a word, yes. She will also point out that your penis is a bit short.... and that your skill level is a bit short... and that you cry like a bitch when you have your pathetic little man-gasm. Do you want that??? Do YOU WANT THAT, bitch??? Wow. That was a bit over-emphatic. Gonna step away from the computer and take a valium. BACK!!!! Where were we... yes. Shorting your provider. Not COOL. Remember, providers have special powers. They communicate telepathically. As soon as you walk out that door, she will know and so will all of her allies in the super friends. They will combine their superpowers and make sure that you never get wood again.... and if you do, it will be at inappropriate times... like at funerals or family gatherings or when talking to your grandfather or something like that. Seriously?? Give your head a shake. If you are short then GET the money and make sure you have it set aside BEFORE you book. You will have a wickedly awesome good time... just pay the pretty lady what you agreed to and enjoy! 6. Can I pay her in drugs? Hmmmm. Does your banker take drugs in lieu of money? Have you offered Rogers drugs in return for their cable/home phone/cell phone/internet bundle? When you get groceries at Loblaws, do they have a special drawer that says "financial equivalent in drugs?" You know the answer. "No, you addled-pated simpleton." Remember the distended belly part from above? Providers take cash because cash buys groceries, pays bills and looks pretty. Carrying cash will not get you arrested. Using cash is the engine that runs our capitalist society. "All you need is cash, cash is all you need." The Beatles sang that, I think. Your turn....

There have been some discussions about this young lady, but no formal recommendation. So I figured I'd change that! Communication was easy, and the appointment was quickly set up. She's a beautiful woman, and very friendly. I had a great time, and will definitely repeat. I will give a heads-up though...when she's giving directions, it's...well, it's odd. It made me nervous, but I proceeded. Her incall location is an apartment, and one that's not easily found if you don't know where you're going. Just figured it was worth a heads-up.

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Here goes ole darkside again with a hot topic. Worst case scenario I think is to go see a lovely lady and all you can taste is cigarettes. For me that's the end of a good time right there. What do you ladies who smoke do to ensure that this doesn't happen?

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As some have pointed out, being an MA isn't cheating in and of itself. The word "cheating" implies some form of deception. The fact that she lied about it is the problematic part here. Then again, maybe not. But I have a question, when you say you found out she was an MA, did you find out by some other means or did she break the news to you herself? If she was eventually honest with you about it then I'd cut her some slack... she might have had her reasons (such as waiting until the relationship was on solid, sturdy ground) before revealing that part of her life to you. As Cat points out, discretion is paramount in this line of work, a lot of times a girl's livelihood (and her safety) depends on it. Maybe she needed to first make sure that you weren't the type of guy to show up at her place of work and start a scene or "out" her to her friends and family before revealing this to you. If this is a relatively new relationship, then I can honestly say I wouldn't blame her for not disclosing this to you right away for the reasons of discretion as I previously noted. If you've been together for a long time and she still felt she couldn't tell you about this, then there may be some trust issues to work through there. Being a MA is a non-issue IMO, it's the lack of honesty and transparency that raises more serious questions (depending on how long you've been together and how serious this relationship is). Long story short, there is no clear-cut "yes" or "no" answer to this question of cheating.

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Not a faux on my part, but I was caught in the crossfire once. About 12 years ago I was working in a smaller IT firm as a network administrator, and just about anything else connected to it. I came in one Monday morning and the VP asked me to come see him once I got settled in. I walk into his office and there's a stack on SP ads printed out from Montreal. He pushes them across the desk. I pick em up and ask him if we are going to Montreal for a business trip and if I get my pick.... He laughs and says he wants me to find out who it was. Turns out the person was VPN's to our network at night after a few cognacs and was printing SP's adds out. They weren't printing at his house so he thought something was wrong and just kept hitting "print.. print" on these adds. They were printing just fine... off the office's main printer! I found out who it was easily (in fact my guess was right) but made up some story about how they were using a proxy and its not worth putting our other objectives on hold while I dig further. I convinced him to just let it go and if it comes up again we'll pull whoever it is in for a chat. Word of this spread through the office, and that person was careful from then on... I got a lot of respect for the way I handled it. Im no rat. No one was getting hurt and its not worth blemishing a solid career for something that should be legal.

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Tipping is definitely not mandatory. I think if anyone was to tip 20-40 is more then enough. The gentlemen are already donating a fair bit. I appreciate chocolates myself.

I still can't bear to dispose of my Playboy collection, although sporadic over the years (70s onward). I actually subscribed for a couple years to "read the articles". Now they rest in a box down in the basement although some are on a shelf in "the library". The Playboy interviews were widely acclaimed and yes the occasional pinup adorned my high school locker (all boys school). I took notice of the passage of time by the birth dates of the centerfolds changing from one decade to the next. They seemed to get younger all the time LOL. Oh wait I am getting older....

May he rest in peace. I often envied his life, the mansion the ladies and the parties. You guys were lucky to have the NG and the Sears catalogue all we got at home was the Reader's Digest and let me tell you there was not much viewing pleasure in those, although I did enjoy the laughter page.

You would be surprised. I know many ladies particularly more mature ones who don't advertise and some other women might want to string them up if they knew how much they made all because they cultivated regular clients and actually kept them without even having to advertise. They pick and choose who they want to see. Myself, I don't see men under 30 because I'm not comfortable with that age group. I have never had to change this decision because the phone wasn't ringing. Your views regarding the industry are skewed on this subject. In fact, I am someone who defies that. I am not 20 years old, I am not model slim but I consider myself attractive with a personality and very skilled. I have many repeat clients. There are plenty of men out there who view women in this business differently and age or lost youth has nothing to do with it. Nor does having to do things we don't want to because the "client pool" is drying up. Not everyone wants a 20 year old. Yes, there is a difference between women who don't market themselves well and those who brand themselves but if they have certain convictions they stand by, the amount of money they make or not make doesn't really come into play where choices are concerned. I don't accept blocked calls/texting apps when I advertise as many other women don't either. Sometimes I will find other ways to screen them via reference etc but I stick to what I feel comfortable with. I realize I'm probably losing out on some good clients but my safety comes first. Money isn't the first priority and I don't feel I'm missing anything. I prefer quality and not some Joe Blow who may or may not have an agenda. I cultivate one client at a time and not thinking of getting fast cash in the moment. Not everyone is comfortable with certain ethnic groups. Just as some men don't like bigger women or vice versa, young or mature. It could be a cultural difference and that's their prerogative just as it is with clients who have specific preferences. I could whine about how some men don't like me because I'm full figured but then I'd be wasting my time focusing on the negative. Instead I focus on men who prefer my body type.

The big question should be to yourself; how do you feel being in a relationship with a sex worker? Since you posted this thread here I would assume you know a bit about the industry so you should know the answer to that question. If you truly don't have an issue with her line of work then good for you, talk with her, and re-assure her that you understood why she didn't tell you at first but that her possible fears were unfounded. However, if you do have an issue with being in a relationship with a sex worker that is a different story. Judging from how you phrased the question (cheating) I suspect you do have an issue. If that is the case then do yourself and her a favour and cut your losses and walk away from the relationship. At a minimum you are going to continually be suspicious and jealous and if you try to change her or challenge her she is going to be resentful. It will do nothing but cause you grief. You will become paranoid and she will be forced to lie to you more. I can't see a happy outcome.

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I would not be worrying right now wondering if this is cheating. That is just the ego part of your brain speaking now because you are hurt. You feel this is cheating on her part because you feel betrayed since she lied to you. She lied to you about something that is a big part of her life which is her job and what she does for a living. You need to confront her about this and decide for yourself if this is the road you wish to go down. You may not be able to trust her again. Ask yourself do you have a problem with her seeing men in what she does for a living? If so, end the relationship immediately. As someone who has been in relationships with men while doing this line of work, there needs to be full disclosure from the beginning which includes trust, honesty and communication. Right now the issue at hand is she lied to you and it happened to be about a job that already has a large stigma attached to it. If you don't feel you can trust her as this is a huge red flag, walk away because there will be resentment and I can tell you this type of work can be very difficult and if she feels she is going to be put down for it, the relationship will never work and you will both come to resent each other.

This reminds me of a post on this board. She posted "my husband is cheating with providers and I just found out". People chimed in, offering various opinions. He was a prolific reviewer, and I guess didn't close out his computer. So, she discovered by logging into his account. However, when he offered his opinion, the thread went dead. He didn't realize he was replying to his wife. They both sort of stopped posting and I've wondered how they made out. So, to the op. Is it OK if you see providers behind her back? Are you upset she is providing services, or that she didn't disclose this up front. Was she doing this before you got together or did she start after your relationship started and you just found out now. Everyone has a tolerance of what constitutes cheating. Their opinion doesn't matter, it's what you feel comfortable with. Only you know the answer. Good luck.

I think cheating has nothing to do with the fact that she is a MA (or any kind of sex worker for that matter). So your question:"My GF is a MA, is it cheating?" is misleading. She's not cheating BECAUSE she's a MA. I believe some MA have perfectly healthy relationship and it doesn't necessarily means they're cheating, even when they're providing extras to their clients. The fact that she hid it from you, though, might be the problematic part. To me, cheating is simply lying to the other. Some couples are perfectly happy to be in an open relationship. This doesn't even have to be symmetrical. In some couples, one of the persons is sleeping with other partner(s), while the other is not. For this to work, everybody involved need to be consenting to the specific terms of their relationship. And, to be truly consenting, one needs to know every aspect of that relationship. Now, Cat makes some very good point about the lies in the initial relationship. I think we all do it when we start going out with someone, consciously and unconsciously. We want to look good so we present the best side of ourselves. We dress up, we hide the dirty clothes under the bed, we don't swear, or burp, etc... Basically, we keep secret a lot of the things we feel might be detrimental to what is originally a fragile relationship. It's not dishonesty, just a desire to convince the other that we can be worthy. It's fine, as long as the true personality come out eventually. If one of the person is a sex worker, she/he has a much bigger secret, and she/he will likely hide it at first. The personal and social risks involved with telling the truth are much bigger when your secret is that you're a sex worker, then if it's that you don't floss everyday. The thing is, once the relationship gets past the initial phase and trust is being built, at one point or the other, this secret should be shared. You don't say how long you've been going out with her, but since you say you live together, I'll assume you're past that initial phase of your relationship and, since you "just found out", I'm tempted to say she cheated on you by actively lying to you. Now, does that mean you should dump her? Not necessarily. It's not because someone cheated that the relationship is irreparably broken. I think you should definitely talk with her about it, not so you can intrude in her professional life, but to make sure you're on the same page on how each other feels about the situation. Communication is key here. Then, figure out whether or not you feel comfortable living with someone who's a sex worker. Only you can decide that.

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Haven't seen her squirt. She's always high energy. Good looking girl, sex is on the sofa though, no bed.

My issue with EB reviews is not knowing who made it, there is no post count. If it is a good review is it the Provider herself who did it? If it is a bad review is it another unfriendly provider or upset BF who did it? I look for reviews on a few more reliable boards. You should take most of those reviews with a grain of salt IMO. WIR

I find myself looking at both BP and EB for selection, then coming here to validate in the reco section.

Perhaps ask ahead of booking :)

The safest bet is to avoid any and all skin-skin contact where mucous membranes are involved (I.e. Genitals, mouth, etc). While typical oral has a statistically negligible risk for things such as HIV, the risk is increased for herpes, HPV/warts, etc or even an oral yeast infection. You are correct about your stomach acid being a good defence (hydrochloric acid), but there are less protected mucous membranes on your way to the stomach (like your mouth!). Brushing your teeth immediately before a situation where your mouth may be exposed to pathogens is one of the worst things you can do as the bristles on your toothbrush create tiny tears in your gums and other surfaces. Most responsible SPs will be tested regularly, and never provide any 'bare' services (ie BBBJ). My concern wouldn't be with the cleanliness of those SPs, but what her clients previous to you may or may not have. Use barriers.

I'm not a doctor (although I do play one in bars ;) ) but the reasearch I did myself suggested that this is a less dangerous practice than other forms of activities for the most common sti's. The reason? stomach acid is an extremly hostile environment to most invasive bacteria and viruses. The simple suggestion I read for increasing your safety is: "Swallow or spit, just don't let it sit." (I didn't write that horrible rhyme but you get the point.) Some listerine afterwords can't hurt eather, but maybe I'm kidding myself on that one. Less dangerous does not however equal safe. There is no such thing as a 100% safe form of sexual contact no matter what precautions you take. We all have to mitigate our own risks. Factors that would increase the risk with this activity would be if you have some sort of sore or open wound in your mouth. I've also read suggestions for not flossing immediately prior for the same reasons. (Small cuts in the gums). There is also a new buzz on the role HPV may play in some forms of throat cancer, which was brought into the spotlight by Michael Douglas after he got cancer. He bacame quite vocal trying to create awareness on this subject and the possible relation to oral sex. Lots of food for thought. Again we all need to make our own decisions here based on our own levels of comfort. As far as answering the op's first question goes, this activity is often one of the items that is implied when advertising "GFE" encounters. It isn't a guarentee as it is a subjective term that means different things to different providers, but it is far more likely to be on the menu in these cases. Sometimes it's included, sometimes it is an addition. It's a good place to start anyway if that is your interest. If the ad reads "safe play only" however, or something to that effect, then she is likely saying she does not partake. Hope this helps.

Isn't this a bit unsafe? This is risky for both parties. Personally, I just can't see how this could be beneficial to anyone. Your health and the health of our favourite people are at risk. I am curious to know how people on the Board feel about this. I am not preaching, but I am concerned. Has anyone tried a dental dam. I might consider it if it doesn't break the mood. Posted via Mobile Device

13. Rescue Me. You are Prince Valiant. You are Captain Courageous. You are a schmuck. You see a provider and become a regular, and then it dawns on you. I LOVE her. I frickin' love her. I am going to rescue that wanton woman from this life of abject misery and make her an honest woman!!!! I will shower her with stuff I can't afford and leave my wife and kids for her... because I know she loves me. She just had great sex with me, didn't she? (it was great for me, and I am sure once she woke up, it was great for her too!) Schmuck. Schmuck!!! Double Schmuck. You let the "fantasy" take hold of your reality and forgot that what you just shared was something that you just paid for. Over there. On the table. In that unsealed envelope. Providers are verrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry good at making you feel fantastic - that's what they do, that's the JOB. Whoops did I just say that? Why yes, yes I did. Forget what you see on TV. Forget what the moral majority says in the propaganda. Providers are real women who live in the real world and the job that they perform provides an income. Many providers could blow you away with their talents outside of CERB. They are interior designers, computer programmers, actors, writers, teachers, health care workers, office managers and artists doing this... so if you THINK you know better, think again. Enjoy the fantasy. If she wants you in her life in another capacity, that's her call... not yours. 14. Did I mention bacon sandwiches? Providers - I know I did mention it but I forgot to add that I like it on lightly toasted white bread. Easy on the butter. Remember that well constructed bacon sandwiches will make you rich. 15. The Menu. Now that we are fully aware that ALL providers wishing to be considered to be ELITE will have a supply of homemade delicious bacon sandwiches at hand, please be aware that there is another menu. You know what I am talking about. The menu is there for your edification and for your adherence. In other words, special orders may not be available, or if they are available, there may be an upcharge. If it's not available, it's just plain not available. Don't push for it, don't try to sneak it in there, don't go there. In short, don't be a dick. Now before you get all whiny like a little bitch that fell in the playground and skinned their knee, think. When you took the time to read the list of services available did it say that she had a penguin suit and was willing to feed you like a mama penguin feeds her chick? (really don't think about that, it's kinda gross.) Did it say that she would use a feather duster to clean your place WITHOUT using her hands??? No... it did not. (but if you find one like that, PM me, cuz that would be interesting to see.) In all cases, Your Mileage May Vary. Nobody (except for me because I am special) gets everything they want. Be happy that you get to spend time with someone that special... because she will rock your world with stuff that is on the menu! 16. Appreciate her. You have just spent time with the MOST incredible woman you have ever met. You are walking on a cloud. She just did things with you that you only dreamed about and you pinch yourself to see if this is all a dream. It's NOT a dream. It's REAL. Why not up the ante a bit? I mean she did make you a bacon sandwich for God's sake. She did things with you that you have wanted to do for eons. She smelled amazing. It is not inappropriate to buy her a little gift. Like a yacht. Or a Ferrari. Or a mansion with a suite that I could live in. Okay... forget the yacht. Why not a little something something for her? Check her website. Many will give you ideas of her tastes. Oh... and say thank you. Mean it. Respect her. If she approves of your review, post it. Let her know that she rocked your world. It's late now... I must sleep.... but we are not done... yet.