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I discovered a while ago that age and experience are not necessarily proportional. I met 19yo young women and SP's who displayed a lot of experience after being sexually active for many years, while some women in their 40's are just starting to experience more after being stuck in a marriage with years of passionless missionary sex. Same goes with the passion. No matter the attraction and experience, if the chemistry is not there, the session will be at best "average". But sometimes a revisit can spark a completely different experience. One example was with a 20yo SP I met. Her body was very fit and perfect(and I'm not, quite far from it) and on the first session it was a bit cold between us. We went through the motion, barely said a word and was a short session. Weeks later, seen her ad and pictures again and asked her if she did oil wrestling sessions. She wasn't sure and I provided her with video links and pictures and she actually got excited about the idea. So we set a few ground rules and met again. It was like being with a completely different woman. She was smiling, was excited and even kissed me as I was hugging her into submission. It was great. No matter the age, the chemistry and context can make all the difference between an average and great experience.

A client should never put his foot in his mouth and say idiotic or derogatory things to an SP. You can never unring a bell. I've gotten rid of some clients after they put their foot in their mouth out of the blue one day and my respect for them was lost forever. Get comfortable with an SP but not too comfortable. A client should never try to be funny in a mean spirited or demeaning way or pushing the boundaries by trying to give an SP advice particularly about our business and how "unsafe" it is. We are offering a service, not here to be lectured. In the end, these types of clients come off looking like foolish jerks.

Oh my god, if you ever want to redo that leave me a message lol. Wrestling and pinning down, I am going to soak the entire floor lol. I don't know if you will succeed pinning me down though, but it would be fun trying ;)

It is great that hobbyists can have girls for every tastes. Every providers offer a slightly different service as well :) It must also be hard to decide to go to see a SP or a MA. I don't know if I could make a choice, personally. So I thanks my regulars for picking me :)

Well, Someguy, your contributions to several discussions on Lyla are always great and I hope you'll continue to do so for many years :). I've been a member for around 4 years now and read a lot of your stuffs. At first, I stayed quiet for the vaste majority of it, read many threats without commentating. For me, Lyla is a "more secure" environment where I will look and valid infos took elsewhere about ladies. So Yeah, cudo to the ladies of Lyla, they made me feel comfortable in my decisions to contact one or another. I've only met nice/fantastic ladies through Lyla and will always keep a special spot about each of them in me. Cheers D. Enregistrer</span>

My sentiments, exactly. I can clearly tell when a client is not responding to something so I switch up my approach, only to see no change. I then ask, "does this feel good?" Only to be met with a blank nod and polite smile... Please show us what you like!! This is only one way porn has eroded intimate experiences; we are not mind readers!

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She was not the first SP to who I presented this. Most were either not on board or had a long list of restrictions sucking the fun out of it. That includes those who specializes in wrestling fetishes. In their case, I had to remain either passive or defensive and never wonder off the scenario or attempt to pin or dominate them. On top of that, their rate was insanely high. A sharp contrast from the young woman who had visible abs and didn't mind a good squeeze. She actually got aroused from the physicality and competitiveness of the experience. And her rate was the same as FS. The only thing she requested, was for me to bring old sheets to cover her mattress and absorb the oil. Finding someone who'll do it, that's easy. Finding someone who'll actually have fun from it and won't "phone it in", that's the hard part.

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just wanted to bump up this topic to see if anyone has any new opinions. I've met many woman of all ages. And have enjoyed my time with almost all of them. But with the older women comes experience and passion. But have had similar experiences with some of the younger ones also.

It's been over 7 years now. And I would like to raise another toast to the great women of Lyla. It hasn't been the same the last couple of years because of Bill 36. But people seem to be returning here, discussions are still happening here. New girls from the spa's are here, but most seem to be using twitter now. But I respect and appreciated the time that iI have spent here meeting women. They have all been very nice to meet and I have made very good friends here and have had many happy memories with the women I have met here. Not sure how much longer I will be doing this. But hope to have more fun as long as possible. Cheers :)

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Generally when ladies state they are perfect , flawless or just the best are B&S . Thing about it , how many perfect people do any of us know ?

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Thanks to you someguy for another well written post, it was a good idea to bump it so new members have an easy access to it. Everyone requesting services should read this before booking their first appointment :)

If anyone hasn't already... read this thread. If you have, read it again.

Though this is my first post, this post caught my attention. I have been seeing Independents as I hope they are receiving the full amount i donate. In my experience, as Raven said, Do not waste their time and they do not waste yours. Show up. take care of your hygiene (shower, brush teeth, smelling fresh). Respect the amounts requested or do not contact if you do not agree to the prices. Show respect to expect respect. Much love and respect to all you beauties.

This is rare and doesn't include most men out there but don't harass an SP non stop all day long asking if she's available. When she doesn't return someone's messages, there is an obvious reason as to why the person doesn't hear back. That's a major red flag right there and there is no way I would invite someone like that into my location who has no awareness of social boundaries. If an SP doesn't return a person's messages, it's best to move on and find someone else. Harassing her even if the person's intentions aren't nefarious will scare her away even more. When a potential client's attitude screams that of desperation and being too overly eager, I go in the opposite direction.

*IF* a lady is okay with you giving her name/contact info out to others... pleeeeease tell the person who you give the info to... that it's ok to also use YOUR name (or at least your username)... I just spent the last 45 minutes of a lovely sunny day.. trying to extract basic information from a an who claims a 'friend' gave him my email.... but was unaware of all i offer, or my website...(sketchy...) I asked the friends name.. he wouldn't give it.... I explained why I want that name.... he wouldn't give it.... several emails back and forth later.. all I get is 'Joe'..... and the man msging me still hasn't offered me *his* name... which I had asked a few times already..... (what day/time/type of session are you looking for... what is your name, and how did you come by my info... pretty basic stuff I'd think) may not agree to see him... as I pride myself on discretion and am verrrrry careful as to who has my contact info, and how they get it... so fellas.... as a favor to not only us.. but to anyone you may refer.... tell them to offer a lady your username if you aren't comfy giving your real one... 'so and so from lyla' works amazingly well ;) I do have many other fun ways to spend my day rather than pulling teeth out of rock ;) couldn't decide whether this should go in turn offs for a lady, or how to be a decent client but hehe ;)

Don't forget to be a gentleman. The woman always cum's first :) Remember companionship is a two way trip. If she enjoys herself, she will return the favour many times over. It's a time of mutual pleasure.

Take shoes off when entering an SP's location. I tell new clients to remind them just in case. Imo, this is a first sign of respect. Discretion and privacy for SPs - Have some boundaries and don't cross them like showing up at a lady's location unannounced or other shady practices such as being indiscreet when seeing them in public, spying on them , etc. Reputable ladies will respect your privacy so please respect ours. Follow protocol when visiting and being discreet upon entering the location or when buzzing up. These things aren't the norm when it comes to more service oriented type details on how to be a good client but they all make a lasting impression and can be a deal breaker in choosing not to see someone again. Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries are a huge thing with me. If someone doesn't respect them, I'm done.

Myself, I actually ask outright. ..for information on things a perrrrson likes/dislikes....and in a manner that keeps things relaxed and comfortable...usually via emails when we start communicating. I've found.that most people, even if nervous....are considerably more.confident with a.screen between us <gein> I fancy myself a 'fantasy facilitator'...have been called that so <grin>...but if I don't get into those lovely little secret corners of your brain....hard.to 'facilitate' what I don't know ;) I'm fairly certain that most of us, given our chosen professions <grin> are fairly comfortable talking about anything....mundane or taboo <grin>...and I at least would.hope that whoever chosen to communicate with me.would feel secure.enough to really talk to me ;) .......so far...so good <wink>....with purrrrhaps one exception. ..but the individual in question has still chosen to communicate with me...and admitted that it may have been better had he.simply opened up to me :) ...and now both of us are looking forward to getting together again on a much clearer.playing field ;)

TELL US WHAT YOU WANT! I am surly not the only escort who has had a mediocre session with someone who refused to give any clue or indication as to if they enjoyed something or not. The blank stare and "Yup" or "okay" to every question... To be honest it gives me the creeps! If you are nervous or inexperienced, let us know! I personally will slow things down a bit for a shy, nervous or inexperienced client, make them feel more comfortable and relaxed... If you look like you are in a state of silent perpetual terror it kind of ruins the mood. If I am giving verbal prompts "Do you like that" or "Want to do this instead"... I'm likely searching for a clue as to what you would like to do most... I won't be offended if a client says "I would really like to do X instead of Y" I want you to have an amazing time! Outside of that arrive clean, on time (NOT 15 early!!!) and respect the rules! Never, ever, EVER, arrive without a confirmed (discussed how long and a set time) appointment...

It all boils down to respect. Respect others, as you would like them to respect you.

DICTIONARY : o·pen-mind·ed adjective willing to consider new ideas; unprejudiced. synonyms: unbiased, unprejudiced, nonpartisan, neutral, nonjudgmental, nondiscriminatory; objective, dispassionate, disinterested; tolerant, liberal, permissive, broad-minded: "open-minded attitudes" receptive, open to suggestions, open to new ideas, amenable, flexible, willing to listen "it was a progressive school that appealed to parents who were open-minded" __________ I think, especially in this industry, that yes, it is most often misunderstood as 'bare'... or 'risky'.... when all it *actually* means, is open to non-judgemental discussion of ideas ;) ...just because I will listen..... does not mean I will change my habits/ways/brain ;)

Regrettably , the majority of men will take this as a cue to try to push the envelope well past the provider's advertised services. Men are from Mars women are from Venus. It's really in your best interest not to use the phrase.

Often a throw away line. Chemistry decides most every thing. Peace MG

I've never really paid much attention to "open minded". I figured if she works in this field, she's pretty open minded... but I suppose that it means she will listen to you and try to please you in the way you want her to treat you, rather then just mechanically doing her thing. One of my big preference is I love to gently run my hands through a woman hair, especially while kissing or in cowgirl (not unrelatedly I also particularly like long hair). I guess I have a hair fetish. Her willingness to let me gently play with her hair has a huge impact on if I repeat or not. So I always hope she open minded about her hair, lol. As for Girl Friend Experience. I do think that does mean something as I've been with ladies in Austria who made no attempt to engage in conversation, or was not affectionate or friendly during the session... and only partly because of the language barrier... I do enjoy the GFE but some lady's create the illusion better then others. and of course after a few repeats and a genuine connection is formed... its not really an illusion.

As with a lot of things.. in this business, and with life in general I think <grin>... I seem to have a different take on this as well.... To me, being 'open-minded' isn't solely relating to sex... but to keep it in properrr context for here.... To me, being a sexually open-minded person simply means I inquire listen, discuss anything you wish, with no judgement, ridicule... embarrassment... and yes, decide for myself if it something I am willing to engage in. If I enjoy it.. I not only continue, but will certainly repeat.. if not, then I simply don't... or find an eloquent way to change the activity ;) and not bother repeating that activity <grin> And I cannot believe someone (provider) would say they were 'open-minded'.. and then have a mile-long list of *don'ts* and NOT discuss them beforehand..... parrrrdon my characteristic bluntness here, but.... that's a bit f*cked up and cannot be good for business ;) My own thirst for new experiences makes me one is is most definitely open-minded...free-spirited no matter the context....sex and sensuality is just another way to explore/enjoy it ;)

^ THIS When inevitably asked by clients about my "menu" I remind them that I am a sensual and carnal woman who enjoys her work ... but their attitude, hygiene and level of respect are what really determine how our time goes. I make no promises how our time goes in advance because how am I to know for sure you will not treat me like an object rather than a person, have poor hygiene or are otherwise a turn-off? I don't know, therefor I don't tell. I understand the need for many to know as they are paying a considerable amount of money for a companion's company. However, I decline to discuss proclivities as the real determining factor is not what I enjoy, but whether I enjoy it with a specific partner.

When I first started doing this, I would get the question 'are you open-minded?'. I would say yes (for all the reasons the ladies here said) and I even started putting it in ad because I was asked so often. After a while, when they asked that question, I would say 'i'm doing this aren't I'. And the response would be 'that's not what I mean'. Later still, I learned that open-minded means something totally different. So now I just say 'no' and skip all the hassle. It IS code for something! Now it seems to mean some unsafe offerings so 'no' just about covers it. But when a girl offers it in ad, she may just be doing what i initially did and respond to the many requests. Until she realizes that it is code for something else, she could just be innocent of the actual meaning.

There are so many new companions out there that I would like to meet. And new one's keep appearing every week. But I have met so many women that I would like to repeat with. Do I keep with regulars that I know that I will have a great time, or do I go with some new woman that could be the next best thing, or someone that I would have no connection with? Choosing a proven woman of Lyla.com has never failed me yet :) So if they are new I usually wait till they have a few recommendations or two. So if they have an account, I usually Pm them for a while to see if we have anything in common. And if I find them interesting and friendly, I usually will try to see them eventually.

There are so many tempting New MA's these days, but I have met so many women that i want to repeat with also. It's getting very hard to decide on who to see next. Some one I know that I have great chemistry or to take a chance that the next session won't be fun or could be the best thing? Life is hard enough already without having to make these hard decisions. Women of Cerb are all great and you really can't go wrong with any of these well recommended women. So I just go with my guts when I have the time and so far lady luck has been good to me. Just about all my choices have been great, which in itself leads to making the next decision harder lol.

I think the answer to that question will be different for everybody, but probably does come down simply to what you can afford. Whether you see somebody one a year or once a week there is no objective right answer. For me, if I spent $5000 in a year let alone a month I'd be being irresponsible and spending more than I should based on what I can reasonably set aside for this. I know I'm not able to budget as much as many can but no doubt it's also more than others. I wouldn't say this is much different than most other activities in this regard. You've got to decide what it is worth to you and what you can afford. Admittedly this can be trickier than it sounds because it can certainly be oh so addictive. Now...how do you maintain the discipline to keep to any budget, whatever that may be? That could be it's own discussion! :)

I feel the same way as Someguy. Too many ladies to choose from and I feel somewhat obligated to keep in touch with old friends. That, and some _ _'s will text, PM or email me asking if they will see me soon. The toughest part I find is when attending a spa and the hostess that greets you at the door or answers the phone is not the girl you are there to see. I've been asked a few times ''Are you here to see me?'' and it is very awkward to say no, because I have seen several of them before and I love them all. At which point/frequency does it become awkward to see someone? By the way, I am curious as to what kind of budget guys devote to this. I am sure everyone is different, but at what point should one seek help? :icon_lol: Is $4,000-$5,000 in a month too much? (even if you can afford it) I'm starting to think that I might have to do more duos or trios just to see all those ladies each month. :icon_razz:

Couple ladies I have yet to meet, but there is a certain comfort and enjoyment in meeting a certain regular lady. The excitement isn't the surprise in meeting someone new. The excitement is in meeting a lady and friend after a period of time not seeing her. There are just things shared between us that can't be shared with someone you don't know. A certain magic comes from having shared memories As they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder LOL A rambling RG

So many sexy providers! I agree. I'm glad I'm on the opposite side of the table myself, because if I was a hobbyist, I would for sure have difficulty choosing too. LOL

So interesting how people think in different cities, I am known for being open minded but only once was I ever asked for BBFS. I do advertise as open minded and a fantasy granter. Almost all my requests that some would consider "out of the norm " are mostly role play that hurts no one and can really be a lot of fun. I am not sure if geography, big cities or many more providers per capita brings out the rudeness and Gaul, lol perhaps a study someday is in order.

All I can to add my two cents worth is that the term has become very confusing and I hate when I ask a SP if she does this and that and she says she does only to arrive and find out she doesn't! No restrictions is also bizarre? What is up with that?

Maybe it's because of the particular women I have seen but I don't see "open minded" with the same cynicism some others do. I mentally translate it to "let's talk". If I'm in the mood for something she hasn't mentioned or specifically ruled out this is an encouragement to a discussion where she may agree or demure without judging me for asking.

Exactly! This is what I mean when I say open minded. I want anyone reading my ads to know they could approach and ask me anything without fear of "feeling stupid" or uninformed. Its not a "phrase of the day" as I only state what I mean and have been saying it for a while. I didn't think being open could be interpreted in so many ways but for those reading this know that I think it means I'm willing to hear any all of your polite suggestions and that you can be assured that when you ask me about any scenario I'll clearly and specifically explain my do's and don'ts:) and possibilities, because I'm open minded:)

It always seemed to me that "open minded" in an ad was a bit of a red flag, and can often be attached to B&S and other scams. OF course, I could be wrong, and am willing to reassess, since I'm, errrrr, open minded :D

LOL...Or she just may want to sell tickets to that one! That would be some kind of a perfect landing while maintaining a boner, IMHO! ;)

Open minded can mean many different things in this business. I would recommend getting in contact with the lady and getting some idea as to what may be on the menu. Remember though, just because it is on the menu does not mean it will be offered to you. It is always your millage may vary.