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Just had the pleasure of meeting Kylie tonight. Set up was easy, she responded promptly and the location was pretty nice. Actually the location was a little too nice, it was odd. We laughed about that. Kylie's pics are accurate and I can say she's one of the most attractive SP's I've seen. Service is safe only which didn't bother me but I know it may bother others. Service was great and what she claims in the add is absolutely true. I plan to repeat and you should check her out.

Pleasure can be an elusive concept; some people enjoy experiencing the fullness of the moment while others feel a strong sense of temporary completeness. I experienced both today with Ashley quite vividly. The candles and soft music set the tone, but the combination of her beauty, personality, charm, wit and sensuality lingered throughout the session. Sometimes the pace was slow and drawn out; alternatively, the pace rapidly escalated. It was hard to identify where one phase ended and another started. Time with a strikingly beautiful woman like Ashley can be remarkable, especially one who can heighten all of your senses for pleasure in an imaginative and most unforgettable way.

Here is a list of pointers I have gathered from experience and from reading threads here since I have started this lifestyle. If there is a woman that interest you and she has an ad. Read the ad and follow her instructions. If there is a website listed, please go to it and read what she has written. In most cases, the website has most of the information that you need, so don't waste her time texting her for the information that is already available. When you are ready to contact her, follow her contact instructions. If you text her, don't just say 'Hey' or are you available. Introduce yourself with a full sentence. Tell her a bit about yourself and ask your questions. If you can pm or email her. Do so, you can type in a paragraph introducing yourself and ask your questions and request. After receiving her reply. If you want to book her her, make your request ask to time and confirm the rates. You may want to confirm with her what services she offers. Remember, these services are not guaranteed, YMMV. Once your apt is book. you need to follow her protocol for giving you her address. You may need to confirm your appointment, the same day or several hours before your time. She will give you the address or a location close to her incall. When you get there, you may need to call, and she will give you a buzz code and tell you her room number. Don't be late and don't be too early. Before you show up. You should check your hygiene, make sure you have taken a shower and shaved and brushed your teeth or use mouth wash. Most women do not want you to use a cologne. If you have any allergies to any products, you may want to let her know. I like to kiss, so I usually ask if she kisses, this is usually based on chemistry. Or if she does not kiss at all. When she has let you into her apartment. I usually let her make the first move as to a hug and maybe a kiss. Maybe chat for a few minutes to get comfortable. Place her donation in an envelop where she can see it. If you need a shower, you can ask her or if she ask you take a shower, do so. She has her own way and has met many men already. So I usually let her lead the way. But others may want you to lead the way. You have to adjust to the situation. Take your time to get to know each other. don't rush and don't force her to do anything she doesn't want to. Not every session may go the way you expect. May not have the chemistry or maybe a bad day for her. Nothing is guaranteed. But if you are a gentleman and show her respect, you should have a good time. But if you don't behave you may be shown the door. Remember she is a human being that is sharing a very intimate and personal time with you. Respect her limits. After your time is up. Leave, unless she has asked you to stay a bit longer, because she enjoyed herself. If you both had a good time, hopefully you leave with a nice hug and kiss and a feeling that you return. If you were happy with your session. You should also write her a nice recommendation. This helps her meet new clients and new clients can have confidence that she is the real deal. If I have missed anything, please add to this thread.

I believe the same person has 2 to 3 ads. If it was the one that I saw, you won't get what she is advertising.

Good Day Gentlemen of St John It's been way too long... I will be visiting Oct 12th and hosting downtown St John My name is Bianca Jaguar, a youthful looking mature over 50 companion. There is much more to me than meets the eyes (mine being blue). I can be classy, sassy or demure, but also friendly, outgoing, well spoken (je parle egalement francais), passionate and playful. If we haven't had the pleasure of meeting yet, you can reach me through email (preferred method) or my booking form. Please include: -Your name, age and a little bit about you - Date, time and length of appointement requested - A reference from a reputable lady from Lyla preferably ;) If we have met before, you can simply text me for pre booking. [email protected] 514-825-9248 400/h Please visit my website for further instructions and extended dates at Biancajaguar.com Bianca xxx Your Exquisite Companion

Hello I'm Asian Linda Lin a beautiful BBW service provider. I have long black hair, about 5'3, D38, 180 pound.I have a charming personality that you sure will adore and I'm always eager to please. I can be very submissive. I am open to all fetishes, roleplay and light domination. I enjoy spending time and get to know you so you are assured your service won't be rushed. I'm located downtown Ottawa close to bank and argyle. Close to eglin. Special rates for only lyla members Phone or text: 613 808 9582 Email: [email protected] Website: https://lindalin2017.wixsite.com/mysite http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=23m4s3l&s=9

Hi there, thank you for checking my ad. You will not be disappointed with my A+++ massage... My name is Vivian. I'm 28 years old. Gorgeous, I am a classy looking Lady with long black hair, seductive cat eyes ...., beautiful silky soft, tanned skin. workout body with all the right curves in the right places. You have finally met your dream girl... .I great you at the door with a lovely smile then lead you to the massage room...I will start with a deep soothing tissue massage to relax all your muscles then follow with a soft touch to invigorate your whole body then the fun time ... It will be the most relaxing, creative and passionate session for you ever. So amazing that you cannot help yourself from thinking about it and want to come back for more! http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92146 For relaxing massage $40/30m $50/45m $70/60m appointment only, call/text me at 6l3 7l2 l2OO mon to sat 10am to 7pm.

My handsome. I found him as a kitten. He appeared to be in good health but looked as though someone simply dumped him. Found him one Sunday morning near the Ottawa River and took him home. The rest is history. My two older cats at the time HATED him! Lol Total tomcat in every way. Lol. He loves the outdoors.

I PMD you. I had no messages yesterday that I didn't reply too. unless they are rude, asking for B B F S. or asking for 40$ service.If I didn't reply there must have been a reason. I pride myself on my excellent customer service and I reply to everyone if I'm not being disrespected. Im a busy girl and I don't text during appointments. That is very rude, you as a client should respect that the most. Have a great day

Some more scenic pictures Ive taken as a beginner..

Not sure if she is traveling to halifax as often as she used to. I've been watching ;) I've read that she is exploring other endevours lately. I hope that she treats us with a visit soon. Definitely worth the visit if she does. She is a special person. Beautiful and sensual. I very much enjoyed spending time with her. Fingers crossed. :)

I will really have to get you for a session one of these days. I would gladly take the massage ;)

I saw her quite a few times years ago. Excellent woman. If she was still in Hali I would be a regular.

http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=35208 Still around and as beautiful as ever. Based in Truro and part time.

Not a faux on my part, but I was caught in the crossfire once. About 12 years ago I was working in a smaller IT firm as a network administrator, and just about anything else connected to it. I came in one Monday morning and the VP asked me to come see him once I got settled in. I walk into his office and there's a stack on SP ads printed out from Montreal. He pushes them across the desk. I pick em up and ask him if we are going to Montreal for a business trip and if I get my pick.... He laughs and says he wants me to find out who it was. Turns out the person was VPN's to our network at night after a few cognacs and was printing SP's adds out. They weren't printing at his house so he thought something was wrong and just kept hitting "print.. print" on these adds. They were printing just fine... off the office's main printer! I found out who it was easily (in fact my guess was right) but made up some story about how they were using a proxy and its not worth putting our other objectives on hold while I dig further. I convinced him to just let it go and if it comes up again we'll pull whoever it is in for a chat. Word of this spread through the office, and that person was careful from then on... I got a lot of respect for the way I handled it. Im no rat. No one was getting hurt and its not worth blemishing a solid career for something that should be legal.

I would not be worrying right now wondering if this is cheating. That is just the ego part of your brain speaking now because you are hurt. You feel this is cheating on her part because you feel betrayed since she lied to you. She lied to you about something that is a big part of her life which is her job and what she does for a living. You need to confront her about this and decide for yourself if this is the road you wish to go down. You may not be able to trust her again. Ask yourself do you have a problem with her seeing men in what she does for a living? If so, end the relationship immediately. As someone who has been in relationships with men while doing this line of work, there needs to be full disclosure from the beginning which includes trust, honesty and communication. Right now the issue at hand is she lied to you and it happened to be about a job that already has a large stigma attached to it. If you don't feel you can trust her as this is a huge red flag, walk away because there will be resentment and I can tell you this type of work can be very difficult and if she feels she is going to be put down for it, the relationship will never work and you will both come to resent each other.

The initial lie is a problem given the need for trust in a relationship but understandable given the stigma and potential harm that could come if the relationship ends. Providers are most at risk from people close to them; physically, mentally and socially. We are outed by "less than loved ones" 95% of the time so I'm inclined to believe lying about our work is a much needed survival instinct. It's a job, all be it a more challenging occupation for relationships. My gentle suggestion is if the work bothers you in any way, walk away now. It's never going to sit right and will taint the relationship in ways you don't realize yet. Men who can participate in relationships with sex workers either need to be completely neutral or completely supportive internally for the relationship to have a chance. There is no room for a negative gut reaction and you need to be honest with yourself about how you are feeling. This is indeed work, it can be incredibly empowering and gratifying in so many ways. There is aspect of service that most people don't consciously relate to but it's the foundation of this industry. We help people smile and feel better about the world, every time we provide service. It offers us the opportunity for independence and control in our lives which breeds confidence and strength. It gives us the permission, experience and time to grow as people; faster than any other occupation imo as long as she has genuine support from her partner and loved ones or at least a neutral home environment. If she doesn't, it creates an inner conflict that will influence her very soul in devastating ways. I went thru the same thing with my husband when I decided to go back to work. The deception was where the damage came initially but we worked thru that aspect quickly. The next several years were difficult because I could work as long as I didn't enjoy it. I was forced to continue living a lie at home because I couldn't take pride in the work I was doing, I couldn't have a great day or an experience that fed my soul without it turning into a problem. I can count on one hand the number of truly positive relationships I've seen in the industry. As I've said before, it's like finding a diamond in the Gatineau river. I can't even count the number of relationships where the partner uses the work as leverage to guilt and manipulate the provider into paying all the bills, support unhealthy habits, buy him toys and spoil him, all to keep him happy because he has to share his pussy. It's a finely honed form of extortion because if she were a lawyer or an engineer at the same pay grade, he wouldn't feel entitled to such things. The provider ends up wasting the money she should be investing for her future because she wants someone to love her when in fact she's been turned into the most lucrative client and he has become the most insidious prostitute. The man who seemingly supports but contributes nothing is playing the "I love you" con at its worst; it's the traditional pimps most successful business model... smiles, cat

I love all animals and have a dog. He's not what I ever pictured myself having, as he is a poodle (18 lbs) and I tend to gravitate towards bigger to mi-sized dogs. He's a rescue who pretty much fell into my lap 10 years ago and I just celebrated his 14th birthday In November. He's a real diva sometimes and too smart for his own good. He's not just a pet to me though, he's part of my family and I love the little bugger!

I have taught tantric couples workshops over the years.. one focusing on yoni (female), the other on lingam (male)... and they are always fun... am actually being prompted by a group of friends to do another one soon... (and find it was very difficult to attempt online... hehe tried it with one couple.. didn't translate well)....but.. in the interest of this thread... I have also found that some people (boyfriends/partners)...are 'hesitant' to massage me...simply because they are not of the same skill....especially, and perrrrrhaps oddly enough, my feet - I am a certified foot reflexologist so hehe.... well let me tell you.. what I think has already been mentioned... we don't care about the *skill*! lol... what human doesn't loooove being softly/intently touched... str0ked... admired.... taken in...? short answer... NONE ;) so long as the person isn't 'pinching'/poking as a method of massage (have had that before.. was strange hehe).. it is aaaaall good :) massage away folks! After all, our skin is our largest erogenous zone... why not enjoy every single lovely millimetre of it, right? ;)