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2 pointsA client I have met once showed up at my place without an appointment. Thankfully I was outside at the time. Told him very clearly this was not ok. Claimed he was in the area and lost my number. What would he have done if I was inside with a client...A family member...would he have knocked? If I was with a client, he would be freaking if someone was knocking on my door during our time. The dreaded boyfriend telling him to get the f*uck out or hes dead meat. If a family member who doesn't know what I do, how would I explain him? Discretion goes both ways. I was livid. I am not a spa, do drop inn or open 24/7. Not cool at all.
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2 pointshad my second visit with keissy tonight the first time i met with her she was amazing and now this time just wow even better then the last i will be visiting her every chance i get :)
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2 pointsI PMD you. I had no messages yesterday that I didn't reply too. unless they are rude, asking for B B F S. or asking for 40$ service.If I didn't reply there must have been a reason. I pride myself on my excellent customer service and I reply to everyone if I'm not being disrespected. Im a busy girl and I don't text during appointments. That is very rude, you as a client should respect that the most. Have a great day
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1 pointWhen you book an appointment please arrive at that time not half hour before or half hour after!
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1 pointI think someone said before that Adora is the very definition of YMMV. So she can be very accommodating if you hit it off with her. Or she may even refuse to go for private dances with those who fail to meet her standard. That being said, my impression and understanding is that she considers herself strictly a dancer. So I would be extremely surprised if she would be willing to do anything more than provide private dances in the Champagne Room.
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1 pointSexy Frenchie has it together nice girl very french doesn't speak much english, her pictures are 110 percent her. She's very normal acting and can ride on top with the best
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1 pointI was going to post this in the DANCERS AND DEVOTEES social group, but felt it needed a larger audience. These aren't rules so much as they are guidelines. I'm going to point out a few truths (as I know them) and list some things that might make your exotic dance experience a bit better. Some of this may be a revelation and break down that barrier of fantasy. It shouldn't be. I'm about to destroy some walls with knowledge bombs. Put on your safety helmet and goggles because this is going to be a bumpy ride. I'm not trying to start a war with patrons on one side and dancers on the other, snarling at each other over twenty dollar bills. I've just seen and heard too many stories about bad things happening that could have easily been resolved or even avoided altogether with a little forethought or advance information. Some of these nuggets are things that should be obvious. Others are just things that I've found work for me. Still others are gathered from stories I've heard from other dancers. This is the most important piece of information you will read: The girls are not there to find a new boyfriend or relationship. They just aren't. They're there to make money. More specifically, they're there to earn YOUR money. Now, it isn't as crass and commercial as that, but they're at work. It isn't a sorority pillow fight where everyone gets along and they smile and giggle behind their hands coquettishly. Neither should you feel like an ATM. There is a middle ground there where civil conversation can lead to some fun for you and cash for her; an equitable arrangement. We all love the fantasy where you walk into a club and every woman in the place notices you and immediately wants you. They fight over who gets to buy you a beer and sit next to you, enraptured by your conversation and dizzy with the thought of being the one you choose to dance for them. Yeah. Sure. Look at it from her POV. She got to work at 11:30 and had to dance for an empty club. Then one guy came in and sat alone in the back, nursing a beer. He could use a shower and a shave. He's 10/20/30/40/+ years older than she. Her feet hurt from those stupid shoes and she's cold because the heating isn't keeping up with the weather. She goes to talk to him, hoping that he doesn't smell like beef and cheese and might give her 3 dances. She doesn't have a lot of hope, but has to pay her DJ fee. Please make an effort. Sure, sometimes you make a quick decision to stop in and have a beer and see some titties and your personal hygiene may not be at its peak. At least be polite, respectful, and a little bit interesting. Don't make her do all the work. Don't play games. Don't try to manipulate the girls socially or moralistically, through blackmail or coercion, or in any other way to try to gain advantage. This is real life and that's a real person you're talking to, with real feelings and real problems of her own. Don't try to negotiate with her. You're creating a disruptive scenario that affects everyone around you: the other dancers and patrons. You know the price. Pay the price. You came in to get a beer and a lap dance. Open your wallet and those things will just fall right out. It is bad form to waste anyone's time. If a dancer asks to sit with you, she is not offering to start a conversation because she's bored. She wants to create a short-term bond so that you'll hopefully feel like spending money on her. Even if it ends up being guilt for wasting so much of her time, her goal is to get you in the back room. It's better for everyone if that starts off on a good note. If you don't have any money to spend on her, or she isn't your type, or you're waiting for someone specific, or you just want to be alone ... let her know up front. She may decide to spend time with you anyway, banking that time for the next night you drop in. I like to tell a dancer up front if I DO plan to spend money on her. It makes conversation much easier. If I'm taking too long, she will find it easier to push me into the back. If you spend an hour chatting up a girl and then tell her that you have to go or don't want to spend on her right now, you may have just cost her a hundred dollars from another patron. Don't be a dick. Okay, you might not know that up front and that's fair. Let her know if you can. You are certainly welcome to sit at your table and pay too much for drinks and watch the ladies dance without paying a single one of them for anything. Nobody likes it, though. You've created a NO FLY zone around your table that may affect other patrons. It's certainly possible to make friends with dancers. They are a captive and very motivated audience. They have incentive to agree with you and carry on a civil conversation. They want you to think that they want to be your friend. In some cases, this means lying or ignoring truths. They may care nothing about sports or your new car or your failing marriage. Their profession is to be friendly, and sometimes compromises are made to achieve that end. However, if you are honest and show interest in your companion's views and look them in the goddamn eyes once in a while and are a decent human being, you can certainly make friends. Probably not the kind of friends who will help you move, but at least you'll get an honest smile out of them when they see you. This isn't always the case, but it is certainly possible. Lord knows I've had some awful conversations with people I just know socially and put up with them for my own reasons. STRIPPERS ARE ACTUALLY PEOPLE! I know that's hard to accept. They exist outside the club. They have lives that don't include you. In fact, they probably don't even think about you until the next time they see you. They don't sit at home thinking about how to please you or wondering what you're doing right now. I know that this will shatter some illusions, but the truth is a bitter pill to swallow. Take 5 minutes and think about it. They have family, rent, car payments, friends, responsibilities, interests, loves, hates, and everything else that you do. They don't evaporate in a puff of smoke the second you leave. Some guys get completely obsessed with a particular dancer, and that's great for her because he is going to go out of his way to spend money on her. The problem is that he will monopolize that girl completely if they are both in the club, being so jealous that he can't stand to see her with anyone else. This is unhealthy. If he thinks she's faithful to him after he walks out the door, there's a shock coming. Don't be that guy. I have a few regulars who like to spend time with me, just talking. I used to be a dancer, so I'm trained to scan the room. If I spot a guy in her rearview who is scoping her hard, I'll let her know. He may be a new client or another regular. She'll invariably get up to walk the floor and see if he's worthy of her time. Most of the time I lose a pretty companion for a while, but she'll be back or another one will come along. If you're friendly and personable, it isn't any trouble at all to attract someone to your table. Smile, for Christ's sake. Most of the time, that's all it takes to get a pretty young thing to come over. Show a little interest. Or, you know, get up and ask her. Do you feel bad because you've been rejected by women a lot? Like, you've asked 10 women on dates and they all said no? Multiply that by 10x EVERY DAY, and you'll begin to understand what it's like to dance for a living. Sure, they're all extremely attractive and you feel that they shouldn't feel as bad about it as you do, but the fact is that rejection is a huge part of being a dancer. Be kind, and mindful of the girls at work. If she says no, she means no. Not a playful yes. Not maybe. Hard no. That means stop. Stop doing what you're doing, whether it's trying to cajole her into a dance when she really doesn't want to, or doing something that she really feels uncomfortable with. If you're the kind of guy who doesn't accept no as no, you're a terrible human being and you must be stopped. Let's have the ugly talk. Some girls perform what are called 'extras'. I don't want to talk about that, because it's against the club rules and against the law (and I have no experience with it). If you go into a club and EXPECT a dancer to give this level of service, you're looking for trouble. It can be a real insult to ask for something that they won't (and lets face it, SHOULDN'T) do. I can't blame them. Don't expect to get ANY level of service after that. You may get blackballed for the rest of your stay, or longer. There is a place for that, and it isn't a strip club. I like to get the most for my money no matter where I go, no matter what I do. The same is true at a peeler bar. However, there are certain things to keep in mind. The waitress/barkeep/shooter girl wants a tip. Yes, you're paying a lot for your drinks already. Tip your server well and they'll remember you. Not everything can be measured by an immediate return on investment. When you walk into the club and the waitress remembers you and comes over with your drink without you asking, you're saving time. Most girls won't approach until you at least have a drink in front of you. I don't believe in tipping. I believe in OVERtipping. I try to give a decent amount every time I order. I also believe in over counting of songs. Was that 5? Yes? I counted 6. Not always, but I'm generous like that some days. Whatever you want to call it, it isn't getting the most for your money. However, that shouldn't be the only way you measure your fun. If you manage to convince a girl to spend some time in private with you, show her some basic respect. Sure, she is likely going to get completely naked for you very soon, but you're not an animal. I'd say to treat her like your sister, but that seems wrong somehow. You know the rules. You know what is allowed and what isn't. If not, ask for a refresher. If I'm with a lady I don't know yet, I like to inform her that I obey the club rules. This is a sure sign of respect and helps to build trust. Whatever happens after that is between you two (or three, or more). I'm not going to police how you behave. I will tell you that every girl I know trusts and respects me because of my behaviour. They're GLAD to see me. You don't have to get it all done in one song. If you do, you probably won't be approached or accepted again. Remember, just because you wave money at them doesn't mean that they have to take it. Don't get upset if the dancer you are with doesn't perform to your particular desires. She may move slowly, or quickly. She may not want to kiss you. She may not rub your little man through your slacks. She may not remove her panties for a number of reasons. Nothing in life is guaranteed. If you have a question or concern, mention it to her. If that doesn't change anything, you are free to curtail your activities, pay for your time and try again with someone else. Don't throw a fit. Don't scream. Don't refuse to pay. Don't be a dick. Drinks don't pay the rent. Having to take your clothes off in front of a room of relative strangers might require a little liquid courage to get you going. However, if all you plan to do is talk to a girl and buy her drinks all night, she's going home from work drunk, and broke. Offer to buy her a drink or a shot (or two) if you're having a good time, but for god's sake take the poor girl to the champagne room and spend some money on her ass. You can always keep a record of your activities. That way you'd have a better way to keep track of which girls you felt you had the best experience with. It's a bit embarassing to have a conversation with a young woman who seems to know everything about you, who you can't remember. It's actually an interesting conversation tool to have to pull out your notebook/phone and check your notes. A dancer, like anyone else, may have a particular type of person that they like. It may not be you. Remember that they have to be friendly with just about anyone who comes through the door. 18 years old, or 88 years old. Fat, slim, short, tall, beardy, moustached, bald, long hair, ugly, baby-faced, manly-kilt or just regular-Nancy-boy-pants wearing. The odds are against her dreaming about making passionate love to you, but she will likely be friendly enough for your needs at the moment. Just go into the exchange with your eyes open and your chance of happiness will be much higher. And to the ladies, I'm sorry if this ruined a few crushes, but it may reduce the number of creepy encounters.
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1 pointAFAIK, her pics are real. Rates are norm for BP/affordable and she has been around since Sep/Oct 2016.
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1 pointExpanding foam. Not my first rodeo, and you'd think I would have learned by now to wear gloves. Note to others, if you get it on your skin, DO NOT USE SOAP AND WATER. It simply cures it. Becomes this hard layer that can only come off with a razor blade, picking it off or some other form of torture. At least I didn't get it in my hair.
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1 pointSaw her over a year ago. Talented, nice and the pictures were real but cannot say how much she may have changed over time.
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1 pointThose pictures have been stolen, I found dozens of websites using Google Images. Here is one of them: http://www.juicechan.net/magrinha-bem-deliciosa/
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1 pointI believe the same person has 2 to 3 ads. If it was the one that I saw, you won't get what she is advertising.
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1 pointOh my god, if you ever want to redo that leave me a message lol. Wrestling and pinning down, I am going to soak the entire floor lol. I don't know if you will succeed pinning me down though, but it would be fun trying ;)
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1 pointNot an acronym - more of a double entendre but I kind of get a sly chuckle out of beauty salons/spas offering specials on "facials". Before I'm reminded yes, I know I need to grow up.
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1 pointI also will be starting back in Brockville weekly in the next couple weeks. Always available to travel to you. Xo
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1 pointThis /\ When you're mad because I am busy with another person when you arrive 1h late at your appointment.
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1 pointNo. It screens out those that only look at the pictures and don't read. If they can't follow my basic ad, then they can become nightmares behind closed doors. Not always, but usually. Most of us have no issue with those that want to clarify rates or services, however if they just send a random inquiry that is already stated... Next please. It's so frustrating.
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1 pointWell then, we all now know how often you brush and use mouthwash, lol.. Some of us are a little more considerate to the people we share our body parts with though... Just sayin'.
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1 pointI parked a little bit away from the apartment, told her I was there, she was "on the way out" for a good 15-20 mins. Meanwhile a couple other vehicles seemed to be watching me, maybe I'm just paranoid but it was late and unusual. I bailed soon after that. Seems to be working with this one, I had talked to her at the same number earlier: http://thunderbay.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/sexy-curvy-22-year-old-blond-with-blue-eyes/82779028
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1 pointAfter a long wait I finally met this lovely lady and I am glad I did. We have texted back and forth a few times but because of scheduling I haven't been able to meet her until now. She does this part time and has limited availability, but I will be sure to make my schedule changes to see her again soon. I will not go into details but her photos are accurate and if you are into a curvy lady and amazing breasts, she is for you.
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1 pointI had a similar thing on messenger. I replied to the wrong person... and thought I was sending my best friend a message, but actually sent it to a woman that I had a flirtatious relationship with... and the message was about her... but thank god I didn't say anything too revealing. Since then every time I send a message I double check to make sure that doesn't happen... cause next time could be serious.
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