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I meant to post this a few weeks ago after the "Rocketman" speech...

Some more scenic pictures Ive taken as a beginner..

You have mail. FRAL

Hello everyone :) I appreciate the good words! Admittedly, I have fallen a few days behind on emails as of late. A few reasons why: being away with crappy data/internet, travelling in general, a full schedule of bookings, personal and family commitments, as well as generally being an introvert who needed a big sleep and kitty cuddles once I returned from NL yesterday evening :P I've been playing catch up today, and shall finish tomorrow, if you've been waiting for a reply! Some things to make getting in contact easier: Messages are responded to in the order in which I've received them. Complete, no nonsense inquiries to the front of the line! *Especially when I'm busy, the most urgent and complete inquiries will receive the fastest responses. Check my calendar; am I available when you'd like to meet, or on the day you're messaging me? *If I know in advance that I'll be busy, it's posted on my calendar, as to not waste your time. Mind you, sometimes, my schedule can change very quickly, which is why I tend to prefer as much notice as possible to ensure that we can meet up :) Messaging me late at night for a date the next morning is a risky move, and assumes that I'm up late reading /replying to emails, as well as that I'll be available in the morning to respond to emails and/or be available to meet you. *A rested Manda is a happy Manda; give me notice to fully provide you with the attention you deserve :) Lastly, asking for explicit services, or disregarding preferences on my etiquette page, is likely to get you ignored, or bumped to the bottom of the pile at least. My apologies to those who've been waiting on a reply; I appreciate your patience while I catch up! Xoxo

Thread if gone but I think I know who you mean. Pictures have her in a black, tight getup with criss-cross across the front. I've seen her a few times. She is younger and she can be hard to schedule reliably, but she is real and provides a good service when you get to see her.

I would suggest that perhaps your inquiry just slipped through the cracks somehow. Perhaps a lot of mail and accidently deleted? Anything can happen. If it were me I would just re send and I bet you will be pleasantly surprised. :)

The delicious Nataly, an extremely petite Spinner, and a French, Canadian, Cambodian Sweetheart is back in Winnipeg today, Monday Oct 2 till Saturday. I was her first and I warmed her up for you boys, because her hands were still cold from flying in this morning! She had a wonderful condo, answered text immediately, and in 30 short minutes I was at her doorstep to see the most beautiful tiny body I have ever seen, very beautifully enhanced breasts, and sexy white lace lingerie just like the photos. She is cute, warm, sweet, and always smiling and giggling. I will definitely repeat again and again. So if you guys can't reach her it's cuz she is busy with me again ;-)

First saw Eliza's pics on here and she def intrigued me. Then we started conversing and finding out her interests and i just had to see her. We messaged back and forth and finally set something up. I have to admit, it's been awhile since i've been excited to meet someone and it was her. She was exactly what i had imagined, beautiful and fun...fun is an understatement. I had an outcall with her, when she arrived i was speechless. Very sexy and fit..very hot in yoga pants ;) Not going much into the session but she is very open and truly enjoys what she's doing, she's there to please you first and wants to make you happy. She just makes you feel so comfortable. I'm addicted and I plan to see her again, she is just awesome...and i don't just say that lightly. Thanks, Eliza :) c.

Just saw this amazing lady (and new member here at Lyla) last night. Been trying to see her for a while now..... I like fit bodies.....and this girl has just about the hottest body I've seen; and I once dated Ms. Hardbody Atlantic. So.....ya.... lol She doesn't post much on BP, and when she does it is just in the "Date" section, so finding her isn't always the easiest. She is also a cam girl, so she doesn't escort regularly. She is VERY skilled and oozes sexuality. She if definitely "present" when you see her. For sure a "hidden gem" - I could go into details more so here, but they might be a tad juicy - P.M. for detailed details. :)

After reading Danielle's thread about turn-offs for ladies ( https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=176753 ), I'm curious to see the pet peeves experienced by men. The ladies are also welcomed to comment and contribute to the conversation. I personally got a few and will start with three: Dressing inappropriately. Discretion is very important. So, when I invite a lady to an hotel, restaurant or my apartment building I don't want to see someone who screams SP in the way she dresses. I often seen tight leopard tank tops and very short skirts and it makes everyone uncomfortable. I'll take business casual or just plain casual, but I'm done with the walking stereotypes. Second, smokers. If she smokes and says she can hide the smell, I can give her a chance. But if she flicks her cigarette as she walks in, I'm already disinterested. And last, smartphones. If she uses it only to look at the time, I'm fine. But unless she tells me there a serious crisis, I don't want to see her use it on my time.

Maritime beauty..I keep seeing her add on BP. Someone must have seen her... anyone?

Due to a law suit in seattle they closed the escort section. http://www.spokesman.com/stories/2017/oct/03/backpagecom-settles-with-3-women-in-sex-traffickin/

Dear gentlemen's, Elite companion Angela French is available for incall in downtown Moncton this thursday night oct 5th and friday oct 6th!!! Imagine being completely pampered, all your worries being left far behind... Yourself having an indulgence relaxation massage & sensual session with a warm & passionate woman. Charming deep blue eyes and seducing petite thight body. TRUE SPINNER I want to bring you to my world of fantasy and sensuality. I set relaxing ambiance and pay attention to every details. I'm also a great companion for dinnerdate! Sexy, c;assy & delicate. Stats: 28yrs old Petite & fit body. (Spinner) 32B-22-32 5'4" 110lbs Long black hair Bleu eyes Special Donation ! Hh/140 45min/200 1hr/240 1.5hr/360 2hrs/480 4hrs dinnerdate 750 Contact: Email:[email protected] Website: http://www.yourfrenchlady.com (Text only) 438-985-4063 Twitter: https://twitter.com/Yourfrenchlady1

Ever tried a younger woman? You can lie to yourself, but not to your penis. LOL

No shenanigans here Gregsand. Mod recently posted a thread or sticky asking members to mind certain etiquette. I am respecting Mod's message, nothing more.

I smell shenanigan. More seriously, already sent him an email about the birds and the bees. We likely told him the same. lol

Very valid issues. For me, the first two are definitely a no-no. There are also some similar threads - Turn offs for a hobbyist- http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=181294&highlight=turn+off%2A or this - Pet Peeves -anything and everything -but respect CERB rules- http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=15250&page=42

I think I'd make a pretty tasty main dish..don't you think? Hello Gentlemen, I'm Chloe Kennedy, an outgoing sexy masseuse in the West. I'm a cute, petite, sensual massage artist in the west end of Ottawa. Call the spa to book an appointment with me 613-274-7074 Services Offered: Foot fetish Masseuse Slippery body slides Showers for two Reverse Massage Role play Submissive About Me: 5'2 Long platinum blonde hair Model looks *Very pretty* My Schedule October 5th-8th,2018 Thursday 11-4 Sunday 10-4

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I made waffles.

So I decided to check her out, TOFTT (just without the team) if you will... And I'm not writing a recommendation for a reason, PM for any details

Sipping a glass of Merlot and feeling the relaxation it produced working thru my brain and limbs

While my experience with Adora is fairly limited, I have found her CR demeanour to be quite consistent. She is rather liberal and "accomodating" in certain ways and yet surprisingly (at least to my mind) not so regarding one particular activity, this latter being both a fairly common accomodation at the 'Mate and something that is often allowed by many dancers who will not countenance the activities in which Adora seems to engage routinely. Having briefly discussed this with others who have 'Adora-experience', I'm pretty sure that this is not something limited to my own experience. However, there is always the possibility that I'm jumping to an unwarranted conclusion based on a small number of CR encounters with her.

Not a comment on MsManda but about a 50% response rate from providers is the norm. Don't know why. MsManda's been around in the biz a while, I assumed she be decent with responses. Lots of providers hate: - Thug talk - Not reading the ad (asking questions answered in the ad) - Being called names (bitch, etc) - Unsolicited dick pics as an introduction - haggling about services/prices - Being explicit on first contact Any of that sound like you?

Sexy Frenchie has it together nice girl very french doesn't speak much english, her pictures are 110 percent her. She's very normal acting and can ride on top with the best

I was going to post this in the DANCERS AND DEVOTEES social group, but felt it needed a larger audience. These aren't rules so much as they are guidelines. I'm going to point out a few truths (as I know them) and list some things that might make your exotic dance experience a bit better. Some of this may be a revelation and break down that barrier of fantasy. It shouldn't be. I'm about to destroy some walls with knowledge bombs. Put on your safety helmet and goggles because this is going to be a bumpy ride. I'm not trying to start a war with patrons on one side and dancers on the other, snarling at each other over twenty dollar bills. I've just seen and heard too many stories about bad things happening that could have easily been resolved or even avoided altogether with a little forethought or advance information. Some of these nuggets are things that should be obvious. Others are just things that I've found work for me. Still others are gathered from stories I've heard from other dancers. This is the most important piece of information you will read: The girls are not there to find a new boyfriend or relationship. They just aren't. They're there to make money. More specifically, they're there to earn YOUR money. Now, it isn't as crass and commercial as that, but they're at work. It isn't a sorority pillow fight where everyone gets along and they smile and giggle behind their hands coquettishly. Neither should you feel like an ATM. There is a middle ground there where civil conversation can lead to some fun for you and cash for her; an equitable arrangement. We all love the fantasy where you walk into a club and every woman in the place notices you and immediately wants you. They fight over who gets to buy you a beer and sit next to you, enraptured by your conversation and dizzy with the thought of being the one you choose to dance for them. Yeah. Sure. Look at it from her POV. She got to work at 11:30 and had to dance for an empty club. Then one guy came in and sat alone in the back, nursing a beer. He could use a shower and a shave. He's 10/20/30/40/+ years older than she. Her feet hurt from those stupid shoes and she's cold because the heating isn't keeping up with the weather. She goes to talk to him, hoping that he doesn't smell like beef and cheese and might give her 3 dances. She doesn't have a lot of hope, but has to pay her DJ fee. Please make an effort. Sure, sometimes you make a quick decision to stop in and have a beer and see some titties and your personal hygiene may not be at its peak. At least be polite, respectful, and a little bit interesting. Don't make her do all the work. Don't play games. Don't try to manipulate the girls socially or moralistically, through blackmail or coercion, or in any other way to try to gain advantage. This is real life and that's a real person you're talking to, with real feelings and real problems of her own. Don't try to negotiate with her. You're creating a disruptive scenario that affects everyone around you: the other dancers and patrons. You know the price. Pay the price. You came in to get a beer and a lap dance. Open your wallet and those things will just fall right out. It is bad form to waste anyone's time. If a dancer asks to sit with you, she is not offering to start a conversation because she's bored. She wants to create a short-term bond so that you'll hopefully feel like spending money on her. Even if it ends up being guilt for wasting so much of her time, her goal is to get you in the back room. It's better for everyone if that starts off on a good note. If you don't have any money to spend on her, or she isn't your type, or you're waiting for someone specific, or you just want to be alone ... let her know up front. She may decide to spend time with you anyway, banking that time for the next night you drop in. I like to tell a dancer up front if I DO plan to spend money on her. It makes conversation much easier. If I'm taking too long, she will find it easier to push me into the back. If you spend an hour chatting up a girl and then tell her that you have to go or don't want to spend on her right now, you may have just cost her a hundred dollars from another patron. Don't be a dick. Okay, you might not know that up front and that's fair. Let her know if you can. You are certainly welcome to sit at your table and pay too much for drinks and watch the ladies dance without paying a single one of them for anything. Nobody likes it, though. You've created a NO FLY zone around your table that may affect other patrons. It's certainly possible to make friends with dancers. They are a captive and very motivated audience. They have incentive to agree with you and carry on a civil conversation. They want you to think that they want to be your friend. In some cases, this means lying or ignoring truths. They may care nothing about sports or your new car or your failing marriage. Their profession is to be friendly, and sometimes compromises are made to achieve that end. However, if you are honest and show interest in your companion's views and look them in the goddamn eyes once in a while and are a decent human being, you can certainly make friends. Probably not the kind of friends who will help you move, but at least you'll get an honest smile out of them when they see you. This isn't always the case, but it is certainly possible. Lord knows I've had some awful conversations with people I just know socially and put up with them for my own reasons. STRIPPERS ARE ACTUALLY PEOPLE! I know that's hard to accept. They exist outside the club. They have lives that don't include you. In fact, they probably don't even think about you until the next time they see you. They don't sit at home thinking about how to please you or wondering what you're doing right now. I know that this will shatter some illusions, but the truth is a bitter pill to swallow. Take 5 minutes and think about it. They have family, rent, car payments, friends, responsibilities, interests, loves, hates, and everything else that you do. They don't evaporate in a puff of smoke the second you leave. Some guys get completely obsessed with a particular dancer, and that's great for her because he is going to go out of his way to spend money on her. The problem is that he will monopolize that girl completely if they are both in the club, being so jealous that he can't stand to see her with anyone else. This is unhealthy. If he thinks she's faithful to him after he walks out the door, there's a shock coming. Don't be that guy. I have a few regulars who like to spend time with me, just talking. I used to be a dancer, so I'm trained to scan the room. If I spot a guy in her rearview who is scoping her hard, I'll let her know. He may be a new client or another regular. She'll invariably get up to walk the floor and see if he's worthy of her time. Most of the time I lose a pretty companion for a while, but she'll be back or another one will come along. If you're friendly and personable, it isn't any trouble at all to attract someone to your table. Smile, for Christ's sake. Most of the time, that's all it takes to get a pretty young thing to come over. Show a little interest. Or, you know, get up and ask her. Do you feel bad because you've been rejected by women a lot? Like, you've asked 10 women on dates and they all said no? Multiply that by 10x EVERY DAY, and you'll begin to understand what it's like to dance for a living. Sure, they're all extremely attractive and you feel that they shouldn't feel as bad about it as you do, but the fact is that rejection is a huge part of being a dancer. Be kind, and mindful of the girls at work. If she says no, she means no. Not a playful yes. Not maybe. Hard no. That means stop. Stop doing what you're doing, whether it's trying to cajole her into a dance when she really doesn't want to, or doing something that she really feels uncomfortable with. If you're the kind of guy who doesn't accept no as no, you're a terrible human being and you must be stopped. Let's have the ugly talk. Some girls perform what are called 'extras'. I don't want to talk about that, because it's against the club rules and against the law (and I have no experience with it). If you go into a club and EXPECT a dancer to give this level of service, you're looking for trouble. It can be a real insult to ask for something that they won't (and lets face it, SHOULDN'T) do. I can't blame them. Don't expect to get ANY level of service after that. You may get blackballed for the rest of your stay, or longer. There is a place for that, and it isn't a strip club. I like to get the most for my money no matter where I go, no matter what I do. The same is true at a peeler bar. However, there are certain things to keep in mind. The waitress/barkeep/shooter girl wants a tip. Yes, you're paying a lot for your drinks already. Tip your server well and they'll remember you. Not everything can be measured by an immediate return on investment. When you walk into the club and the waitress remembers you and comes over with your drink without you asking, you're saving time. Most girls won't approach until you at least have a drink in front of you. I don't believe in tipping. I believe in OVERtipping. I try to give a decent amount every time I order. I also believe in over counting of songs. Was that 5? Yes? I counted 6. Not always, but I'm generous like that some days. Whatever you want to call it, it isn't getting the most for your money. However, that shouldn't be the only way you measure your fun. If you manage to convince a girl to spend some time in private with you, show her some basic respect. Sure, she is likely going to get completely naked for you very soon, but you're not an animal. I'd say to treat her like your sister, but that seems wrong somehow. You know the rules. You know what is allowed and what isn't. If not, ask for a refresher. If I'm with a lady I don't know yet, I like to inform her that I obey the club rules. This is a sure sign of respect and helps to build trust. Whatever happens after that is between you two (or three, or more). I'm not going to police how you behave. I will tell you that every girl I know trusts and respects me because of my behaviour. They're GLAD to see me. You don't have to get it all done in one song. If you do, you probably won't be approached or accepted again. Remember, just because you wave money at them doesn't mean that they have to take it. Don't get upset if the dancer you are with doesn't perform to your particular desires. She may move slowly, or quickly. She may not want to kiss you. She may not rub your little man through your slacks. She may not remove her panties for a number of reasons. Nothing in life is guaranteed. If you have a question or concern, mention it to her. If that doesn't change anything, you are free to curtail your activities, pay for your time and try again with someone else. Don't throw a fit. Don't scream. Don't refuse to pay. Don't be a dick. Drinks don't pay the rent. Having to take your clothes off in front of a room of relative strangers might require a little liquid courage to get you going. However, if all you plan to do is talk to a girl and buy her drinks all night, she's going home from work drunk, and broke. Offer to buy her a drink or a shot (or two) if you're having a good time, but for god's sake take the poor girl to the champagne room and spend some money on her ass. You can always keep a record of your activities. That way you'd have a better way to keep track of which girls you felt you had the best experience with. It's a bit embarassing to have a conversation with a young woman who seems to know everything about you, who you can't remember. It's actually an interesting conversation tool to have to pull out your notebook/phone and check your notes. A dancer, like anyone else, may have a particular type of person that they like. It may not be you. Remember that they have to be friendly with just about anyone who comes through the door. 18 years old, or 88 years old. Fat, slim, short, tall, beardy, moustached, bald, long hair, ugly, baby-faced, manly-kilt or just regular-Nancy-boy-pants wearing. The odds are against her dreaming about making passionate love to you, but she will likely be friendly enough for your needs at the moment. Just go into the exchange with your eyes open and your chance of happiness will be much higher. And to the ladies, I'm sorry if this ruined a few crushes, but it may reduce the number of creepy encounters.

Hi there, thank you for checking my ad. You will not be disappointed with my A+++ massage... My name is Vivian. I'm 28 years old. Gorgeous, I am a classy looking Lady with long black hair, seductive cat eyes ...., beautiful silky soft, tanned skin. workout body with all the right curves in the right places. You have finally met your dream girl... .I great you at the door with a lovely smile then lead you to the massage room...I will start with a deep soothing tissue massage to relax all your muscles then follow with a soft touch to invigorate your whole body then the fun time ... It will be the most relaxing, creative and passionate session for you ever. So amazing that you cannot help yourself from thinking about it and want to come back for more! http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92146 For relaxing massage $40/30m $50/45m $70/60m appointment only, call/text me at 6l3 7l2 l2OO mon to sat 10am to 7pm.

I saw her a short while ago and almost instantly regretted it. Over priced and over rated and will not be repeating. I do not recommend.

I am also looking for Tina that worked part-time with Mimi.

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Korean Sara would fit what you describe. She has a great menu and is well reviewed. Her ad: http://ottawa.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/best-in-town-sara-sara-sara-talented-korean-sara-11am-to-6pm/28418211 Her recos: https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=S&t=119652 WIR

For Asians, you can check out Sara who advertises on BP and has many recommendations and great reviews on this and other board. You'll not be disappointed.

Saw her several months ago. This is one of those instances where the site's TOS about not posting anything negative prevented me from posting a review.