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This thread has been thought provoking. I will add my thoughts as a provider that has been on this board for about 7 years now. I speak from my own experience. In the beginning I had reviews that were updated consistently. It was very helpful in building my reputation. After a few years, I noticed comments along the lines of "not much more to add" but the updates were still made. Over the years I have met many more members whom have thanked me personally by email, but did not make a recommendation. Now that I have been in the industry long term, it really doesn't make a difference anymore. However, it always appreciated and never fails to make me smile. I have seen members whom rely on these recommendations, but are not inclined to recommend. These reasons have varied from a need to remain private, or perhaps not being interested in sharing the details of a personal encounter, or simply just not having any interest in being a contributor. I respect these reasons as everyone has a choice. At the end of the day, I stay consistent and that is what matters. Taking the time to recommend someone new that you enjoyed your time with, is a wonderful gesture to help build her reputation. It really does make a difference in the beginning. I have always enjoyed getting to know someone that takes the time to reach out and allow me to get a feel for them, whether they recommend or not. This builds a nice rapport, and helps in the both of us feeling comfortable enough to proceed in meeting. I would recommend that a new provider make contributions to the board, and take the time to respond to pm's to members that are interested. In fact, this is my first post in the general area since who knows when. So you can add me to the quiet list of contributers on board. : )

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if she is in your area you should visit her... a non-rushed encounter & really knows how 2 treat you! I look forward 2 her visit again...1 hour wasn't long enough....

The conection is defi etely the key. .. i think massage should be something very espontaneous... sometimes asking too much information before starting a session can kill the mood... i believe in exploring without expectations.. makong it feel more natural ... althou there is a business transaction it should not feel like one

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Some days you just have to TOFTT. I noticed this ad the other day on BP http://kingston.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/sexy-and-petite-looking-for-fun/91232652 and after some research which turned up nothing, I decided to check her out myself. The pics are real. In fact they don't do her justice. She's small, just over 5', nice firm body, well proportioned and a beautiful face. She's got lovely perky breasts and nipples and is amazingly tight. She knows how to use her mouth very well and we had a good time together (she makes the cutest faces!). The down side (if there is one) is that she's new. She was a bit shy, and not really completely set up. I won't go into details (nothing really serious) but there were a few awkward moments. That said, I would recommend and will likely repeat.

Alex is always so inviting and friendly that I can never resist. We. took our time and enjoyed each other as much as the club rules allow. Then she got her massage. Next, Tiffany and Tasha were cold so I took them up to warm on the couch. That was a whole lot of fun. That couch really needs to be replaced, though. Not because of me, but it's seen a lot of use and is disintegrating.

Good morning and welcome to the board. :)

Just wanted to say hi.. i m new on the site.. looking forward to amazing times together... xo isa

Welcome aboard, Looking forward to see more about you. That ass looks good .:-)

A big part of the girls in parlors are using text app and write text only in their ads. I don't know for the other girls, but I manage my inquiries and scheduling on my own :) It is a good way to avoid having 2 phones when a burner phone is not needed (when you are the only one using the phone)

Hi and welcome to Lyla Isa !

Know it all..... hate that person who has the gift of BSing his way into any conversation on any topic... and completely controlling it.

Welcome to Lyla, Isa :)

I pride myself on being sincere, warm, outgoing, personable, compassionate, and down-to-earth. With a genuine interest in learning about others, this makes me a natural conversationalist. Gentlemen from various backgrounds will find themselves completely relaxed and comfortable during our time spent together. It would be my pleasure to show you a world of sensual bliss that you won't soon forget... Me, My Sessions, And I... Respected and well-reviewed Independent MA Nuru massage & lap dance massage appointments Private studio in center-town, walking distance from Bank & Elgin street Available Monday to Friday: 10:00 - 10:00 Text: 613-604-3175 [email protected] @jackiegilcrest Jackiegilcrest.ca

I've recently seen a couple of woman that are > 30 and > 40. But from their bodies and personality they could easily pass for late 20's. But there is some to say about experience and maturity. They have been thru it all and now can explore and experience whatever they want now. Both young and older women are fun. But older women seem to bring more sensuality and when you have conversations with them, they know what you are talking about :) lol

A friend of mine who goes hunting placed a camera for the deer in the woods this past summer only to see this... lmao Additional Comments: A text this morning from one of my most favourite gentlemen friends.

I don't have many clients who do the reverse massage but that's their loss because it really turns me on and I feel much more inclined to reward them even more for their efforts.. My idea of receiving a massage these days is going to a male RMT a couple of times a month who tortures the hell out of me with trigger point therapy and goes for the knots but I always feel amazing after! In fact I can still feel his thumbprint in my back from the other day! Lol

This morning, I texted Meghan as I was getting positive vibe from Meghan so I set up a lunch rendezvous with her for HH. Location was easily accessible for 417 and as Meghan opened door, I was shocked to see how DDG she is and I knew that I am in for a treat. She was polite and carried intelligent conversation. My session with her was sensual and kissing was awesome. She is a model type material and I was seeing such a cool lady for the first time since my regular moved on last year. Highly recommended lady, treat her nice. Repeat: Definitely

I would say that kissing on the lips, or deeper, or on other intimate parts of the body, is something very personal. Some MA's love to share this; others do not. Kisses on the neck, shoulder, back, bum and breasts may be enjoyable for her:) It's up to her. Actually, everything is up to her! You are a guest in her world, and the woman you are with deserves the greatest respect! If you are both well, that's what is great ;) p.s. I love kissing women who enjoy kissing and being kissed ;) bellafan

How could it not! I have met some really great women that otherwise I don't think our paths would have ever crossed. Some that I would consider friends and I know we will still keep in touch after one of us retires from this business. And like I mentioned in a few threads, after a rough end of the year this business has brought me back to happy :) I love all you wonderful ladies for what you do. You don't even realize the impact you have on some of us.

Hello Cerb..!! I would like to have your opinion about a subject that I would like to share with you for a long moment. I know that a similar thread has been do in another forum from another province but I thought it was important to make one for Ottawa. I have been solicited, Im sure Im not the only one, for ''only this service'' and not being offered the respect for my time or sessions. As well, the fact of underpricing, cutting price for these '' onlys''. There's a lot of users who asked me ''Whats your rate only for a BJ'' or ''I want one hour but not intercourse...'' Maybe Im wrong, but I dont see a difference between having intercourse or not in my session. So, what happen to our time?? Why ''just'' a BJ doesnt worth the same thing than intercourse ???? Probably some girls offering a '' BJ price '' and I respect that but some users have to respect girls who doesnt. I think that we are not offering ''just this'' or ''that service'' but a COMPLETE service even if you are SP or MA. Should we reduce our rates but start to ask extra for everything?? If you want to kiss here, its +x$... if you want to touch here its +x$... sounds ridiculous no? I think its the same thing for us when we are solicited like this. Maybe Im wrong, so that is why I asked for you opinion and I think we need to talk about it if we want to inform new users. Ps: Sorry For my english..... ;)

is not acceptable! This isn't a flea market. Take the time to find out what options a lady offers (ie length of time and corresponding donations) and either book with her or continue your search! BTW "can you do x amount of time for x amount of donation?" is akin to negotiating!

Thanks Meg, this is an issue we seem to deal with on a regular basis, and it is so frustrating. For those that wonder why the lady will not respond to further inquiries after asking "I only have $100", or what will $50 get me" or my favorite "wow, your prices are way out there, I will give you $30 less then you want", you are on her permanent do not book list. Don't ever lowball her rates, if you can't afford her fees, move on, save up or go down town and find a streetwalker that will give a bj for $20. For those that say "hey its only a question", you are insulting her and she does not appreciate it. Now, on the flip side of the coin, I really appreciate the guys who not only pay her rate, but give a generous tip on top of it. You are the true gems and we really appreciate this. Our time together is special and I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Again, thanks Meg.