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i have noticed reviews/ads/posts by maybe 2 or 3 over the years (and by 'years' i mean over 10 years, and still only a total of 2 or 3) who have provided sub services, and they were always with a 3rd person monitoring the encounters.; this is safest for you as a client, and the provider, imo. It is also my personal opinion that no sp should ever provides these services, because it would attract a violent predatory and incompetent dominant-curious person who is clueless about consent, boundaries and limits everything you see in porn is not necessarily something that should be acted upon in real life, and to me the absolute last thing any sp should be doing is offering it, advertising it, or going thru with it, unless they were the sub of a BDSM couple and the M part is there every step of the way.

Well gentlemen, I have known Sasha May for the last few years and she is my go to. I treated myself to a Christmas gift today which included Jessy Celeste who I have never met before. What an experience, two beautiful ladies into each other as well as myself. Spent a couple of hours together enjoying each other, Jessy is easy to talk to and is a pleasure to be around. She is quite skilled. Sasha is the girlfriend everyone would want in their life if possible. Together they are a wonderful treat and if you have a chance I would highly recommend. Merry Christmas to all.

Lycrathong, nobody is saying we do not enjoy our clients, especially our regulars. I think what is being said is that we as women who are MAs or SPs should not have to tolerate the blatant crossing of our boundaries or non consensual acts made upon us just to please a client and give him a good experience. If we are giving you the impression that we don't enjoy our work and it's all about the money by stating we won't tolerate non consensual acts, there's something wrong. With you, not us. I would never provide services that cross my VERY clear boundaries just because there's a connection with a regular. None of us should be worried about our income for being strong women with values and set boundaries. This board is not only for potential clients, it's for the women those clients may see too. Equating our restrictions and refusal to allow men to break them with losing business is disgusting on your part.

Those of us who have websites, twitter and instagram often post it in our ads. I don't want defensive clients who are nervous and "terrified" if I am real or not because they've made poor choices before. It's not a nice power dynamic having to convince and prove you are real to very skeptical and scared potential clients. If someone can't tell that I'm real when I have pro photos, selfies, my website, my twitter, and instagram in my ad then they aren't the client for me. I have plenty of gents who are happy to find that I am real and clicking another link in the ad really isn't that much work. Most people do not bother to look at every single photo in the ad either because they're browsing on their phone. So going out and buying a paper to take a pic every day to try and get the few lazy guys who won't click a website or be able to discern someone real vs a fake ad seems like a low ROI.

This thread was grossly hijacked. If you all would read the original post by "Lycrathong" as follows: "Looking for good recommendations on a massage with facesetting included. Preferably Asian." as posted in the massage section... CLEARLY stating he would like a massage in the massage section with a preferred additional service added. This used to be a heavily moderated act on this board what happened? I'm not disrespecting peoples arguments/points/narratives but why is Lycra being attacked here? The amount of projecting in this thread is unbelievable. DoM

I don't see a need too in my opinion. I work hard to keep my site, my twitter and my ads recent and accurate. I am not hunting down a paper to take a selfie with it daily. That is just too much. My opinion is, if you are that concerned, move on to another lady. I want my clients to feel comfortable, but I will only go so far. Some of that responsibility is on the client. Do tin-eye and google image searches, read reviews, etc. I put in my time and effort as much as I can, and I hope you do as well. I am actually very impressed and attracted to men who take the time to read my site and my ads. It shows me the appreciation for my efforts and I like that. Those guys are the ones who get the extra attention from me. Instead of a pic of BP with a paper that everyone sees, they get a private pic emailed to them out of the blue with a special little sexy note. Now I know not everyone is like me, but do you want generic or do you want something different. Sometimes taking the time yourself, brings about the greater reward.

It might make things easier if most clients actually read anything worded in a backpage ad. ;) Rather than chasing down a local newspaper, most of us thought a website would fix that pesky "Is she real?" wonderment. All teasing aside, some kind of verification would certainly help but the issue is that girls who don't have a website usually aren't inclined to do so... smiles, cat

Day 32 without smoking. It feels great to be free and I know this time I will succeed.

I am going to chime in once more on this subject. YOU may not think that you smell but others may think otherwise. Even having just showered most people start to develope perspiration within minutes. Now, back to the pheromones discussion. My life partner does not smell bad to me ever but he may absolutely disgust my best friend. let's face it, it's inexpensive and takes 2 seconds to apply. PLEASE!!!!!!!! Just do it

This thread is really upsetting, and I want to thank all of the service providers (both massage attendants and escorts) that have participated in it. What saddens (and enrages) me most is that what some of the clients in this thread have admitted to doing is something that happens all of the time, even by 'well-intentioned' and 'good' guys. So many men, in general, 'test their luck', push boundaries, and assume they can 'give us compliments' (cat calls), 'touch us' without our consent (a form of sexual assault), or 'have sex with us' because we 'were asking for it' (rape). My boundaries are clearly stated on my website. I don't offer anal play on me, ever. Yet quite frequently as a man is going down on me he will lick my asshole without asking me first, or try to stick a finger in my ass while we are doing 69. When I react badly, they say "oh, but your asshole looks so inviting" or "oh, I didn't realize that", or "but it looked like you were enjoying it." This has happened with clients who have amazing references sometimes. Guys simply don't realize that it is NOT OK to do this without asking first. Furthermore, sometimes, when I've reacted badly, they've actually tried to do it again. In the times that this has happened I have stopped the session and simply stated "if you continue doing this, even after I've said no multiple times, I want you to realize that what you're doing constitutes sexual assault." They lose their boner and go home feeling like I'm an angry feminist, and I don't give a fuck. Any sex worker can offer any service they'd like, as long as those services are negotiated in advance and consensual. Don't assume complacency is consent. On my website I say I don't offer anal play on me, but if I didn't stop the client they would continue, and this is still a violation of my boundaries and constitutes sexual assault. Not all sex workers feel comfortable saying no to clients because they fear reprisal, bad reviews, or an escalation in the assault (licking my asshole could turn into raping me, if I protest too loudly). Please seek out ENTHUSIASTIC consent from sex workers you meet. Never "test your luck" or assume you can do things without pre-negotiating first. Also, don't assume that all sex workers are good at negotiating consent face-to-face. Make ALL of your desires known BEFORE meeting with your sex worker of choice. It took me a long time to feel powerful enough to say 'no' to men who were doing things to me that made me feel uncomfortable. Women, in general, aren't taught how to do this. Keep that in mind.

There are comments in this thread that have me thinking me on a consensual level. I would like to add my thoughts as an MA. Services do vary with different providers and these questions should be asked beforehand. Once they have been discussed, they should always be respected. There is no debate to be had on this subject. I did have a non consensual experience while doing a reverse body slide when I first started, even though I outlined my limitations before meeting. This applies in person as well and never to be assumed. It's a violation I have not forgotten. You never know how it can affect someone if you just take your "chances".

It is no longer Donald Trump this or Donald Trump that. When you speak of him substitute the words the United States instead because he is being supported by both houses of Congress and a large percentage of the American public. I shall be interested to see what the people of Alabama decide on December 12th but apparently there is a good chance that an accused pedophile and stalker of young teenage girls will be elected as a senator of the United States. He is supported by the President of the United States. I am feeling very sad about the fact that so many millions of people are ready to throw women under the bus and the LGBTQ community along with them. I am perhaps more nervous that Trump will resign or be impeached and they will have Mike Pence in his place. A true hater. Just some musings.

Smiling at you !

Met her once over a year ago. She's a mature clean plus size lady with nice soft skin, large breasts and hosts in a small clean apartment. Her English is a bit limited with a thick Asian accent, but written communications are much better. Her massage skills are soft and basic but still quite relaxing. The choice of finishing touch varies from hj to fs and her rates are quite reasonable. If you're fine with her description, you'll likely enjoy her company.

I text last night and she said she was in port hawksburry

@waterat, I have one for a few months now, and I can't live without it! :)

Looks way too good to be true. She'd be a catch in a large city like Montreal, so what's she doing in rural Nova Scotia?

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Honestly, MANY service providers put a LOT of effort into writing ad copy, keeping up-to-date and information-ladden websites, posting regularly to social media, keeping up an online presence precisely for this reason - to cast away any doubt as to our authenticity. Rather than giving us yet another task - namely chasing down a local newspaper and taking a decent selfie daily - perhaps potential clients could make a small effort and do some research? It takes much less time to google "CITY escort NAME" than it does to go find a newspaper, doll oneself up (because yes taking photos requires a certain level of maintaining appearances), take a photo, and post it every day. Just my two cents...

The ignore function on this site.

Please note that Alisonxox currently doesn't have access to her Lyla account but indicates people can still reach her in the meantime by text at the number provided in her ad, or via her twitter account.

Sensous Katherine will be visiting your area next week . Would you like a massage ? Something a bit more perhaps? Your reliable and fiery redhead always delivers complete satisfaction . I don't have heavenly measurements, but ones that are downright devilish!!! Get in touch please to set up our time . Katherine www.sensouskatherine.com 902 410 8678

SPs: please respect our boundaries, don't rape/assault us. Lycrathong: but what about my ego though? HAS ANYONE THOUGHT ABOUT MY EGO IN THIS DISCUSSION?!

I believe this is her :) http://halifax.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/shantie-baby-best-review-squiirt-g-r-e-e-k-toys-outfit-new-number/3868022

I am fairly new to this board and hobby. And I just do not get this thread at all, I am an older guy, and my parents taught me to respect women. (they taught me to respect everyone, every race and every gender) Respect is very simple, listen and adhere to what is being told to you. If you respect women then crossing their boundaries should never ever happen! No matter what you may think, if it is discussed in previous exchanges and the answer is no, then quite frankly NO MEANS NO, and to violate that is akin to assault on any level. Even if it was not discussed, do not assume anything. Making assumptions simply means believing things are a certain way with little or no evidence that shows you are correct, and you can see at once how this can lead to terrible trouble. In Short, if not discussed don't do it, if discussed and not allowed, don't cross the line. SM007

The most triggering thing for bros who came up here with personal attacks is the realization that a rapist/sex offender is not the big boogey man hiding in dark alleys waiting for a prey. No darling, the bad guy is you who "test their luck" or who are "sorry after the fact". When you push/don't respect sexual boundaries: you are a sexual predator. When you engage in a certain sexual act without having first obtain permission: that is a sexual assault. When you insist on sexual favours by saying other ladies do, or "I'll give you a great review: that's sexual coercion. If you are going to fight me on this, at last please make an effort to not sound like a rapist apologist. Also, please try to make it not all about your ego.

My issue is not about who offers what in terms of services, obviously. I have been clear about that. My issue is the lack of explicit consent with your professional. You can stretch this as much as you want with mental gymnastic, the facts remains that's not ok to put your mouth on someone's genitals WITHOUT first obtaining their consent, REGARDLESS of their profession. Strippers, MAs or Escorts. Your post feels defensive. I understand that my words will force some to reflect on their own behaviour, which can be quite triggering once you realize a thing or two. That's ok, take all the time you need.

I offer massage with various extras and endings . I also offer full companionship. My massage packages are clearly spelled out to a client and my donation is less for massage that for companionship. When someone tries to get extra service in a massage that I don't offer I immediately think this person is trying to get more service for less donation. There is no muddy water here. You have chosen one experience and you know exactly what you are receiving . Luckily for me most clients are respectful. Those who come for massage usually want the luxury of laying back and being pampered, that's why they choose this service.

I offer body slides in my massage sessions . I can assure that I am not asking for anything. I am delivering service , to please you as we agreed upon. Why do you think or wonder if a lady is asking for anything more? What leads you to believe this I ask with all respect ?

It's really not so much about the woman "being pleased" as it is clients trying to get more services than they're paying for (you're paying for a massage afterall, not the intimacy of a GFE companion).. We really don't get into Sex Work solely so guys can try to give us orgasms you know, lol.

Someone can totally correct me if I'm wrong, but-- I'm pretty sure that's not your typical massage service and is something you'll probably have to look to an escort or fetish provider for.

So I saw Naomi. http://halifax.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/hot-and-tanned-tiny-little-waist-brunette-barbie-model-looks-playmate-bod-32ddd-bubble-butt/3666672 I have to say... she is stunning, in every way. I contacted her last week when I saw a post from her that she would be in town this week. I messaged her here on Lyla then through texting. She is easy to communicate with and was happy to answer my questions. We set a date for the following week and she said to call her a couple hrs before to confirm the morning of Day arrives, I give her a call and she gives me the address. I show up and text when I get there and she gives me the buzzer number and number of her condo. He place here in Halifax is high end in a good area. I get in the door and ...holy sh..t!! shes gorgeous. People always say things like "photos don't do her justice", I hate to fall in to cliche, but its true. The photos you see of her are accurate though in person she is just that much more beautiful when you add her voice her smile and the smell of her skin when she greets you with a hug. I take off my coat and shoes and she leads me to the bed room. She is in a sexy lil black outfit and sits on the bed. I sit next to her and we chat a little bit. The whole while she is touching and caressing my arm or leg or puts her hand up the back of my shirt and gently scratches my back. after a few minutes of 'getting to know each other' she takes my shirt off and moves her attention to my belt and so on ... As for the serious business ... I'll leave the details out on here. What I will say is that she is passionate and fun and sensual. Naomi certainly knows how to make you feel like a rockstar and the time she spends with you, she is completely there with you. Afterwards I had used up about 50mins of the hr booking, but she was in no hurry. We laid on the bed and caressed and chatted some more. I went over my time by out 10mins of talking to her about all kinds of stuff. I had a ton of fun with Naomi had some laughs and left knowing that any time she comes back to the city I will be a for sure returning client. If you want any more info PM me. Go see this woman. I know this may seem bold ... but she will be hard to top.