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I just wanted to take the time to wish each of you a joyous and peaceful holiday season, however you choose to celebrate it. I hope it brings everything that makes it special for you!

1973 Mach 1 Mustang My I do not have cancer present to myself :)

To all the workers out there, much love from one of your sisters ;) Not much to say on this topic, at least not share publicly... I will say though the fact that there's a specific day dedicated to this speaks volumes ...the wake of Weinstein has spread awareness to something that has been quite obvious to a select few for some time... Nothing but good vibes ladies !!! Love and Light!!! Please Share and Donate if possible: http://www.december17.org

"For me, if I was trying to decide between two ads, I would definitely go with the one that let me immediately confirm the most information." Sigh... this is the problem right here ^^^ I don't spend 500$ on photo shoots and 1000's more on web design, banners, and graphic design, hosting, twitter and instagram apps and paid advertising, just to go out and buy newspapers to prove I'm established. A simple look at my website, quality of my content and my reviews with a simple google search will show that. Problem solved in LITERALLY three clicks... Not to mention all the time I spend writing ads, answering phone calls, texts and pm's and actually spending time with my treasured guests, I really don't have time to do that everyday, nor am I inclined. I've been a provider for over a decade and not to sound blunt, but I don't need to prove myself. My work and reviews speak for themselves. What kills me is there is a variety of established ladies, right here on Lyla. If you actually take them to research and find someone with a reputation, then you'll get your money's worth plain and simple. If we were bad providers, we wouldn't be around as long as we have. Consider the following two scenarios: Provider A: Add on backpage. Selfies, no website or reviews. Prices are low range 15 min rates and specials. Explicit with Acronyms. Phone number in ad with rates and contact number. Provider B: Add on backpage as well. Professional pictures, with few selfies for legitimacy thrown in. Links to website, has reviews, long and strong internet presence. Rates are higher range. Discreet ad with an intro, has a link to a website posted to for further info. Which do you choose? The smart hobbyist knows that even though it's "easier" to contact provider A as she requires no further research, probably doesn't screen, is ready asap and costs less, Provider B is the best bet. Why? Because Provider B takes her business= her lively hood seriously. She invested time and effort into her presentation, which naturally carries over to her clientele and her service. She has a reputation to protect, and the small sum she may make by ripping a gent off or rushing him isn't worth the backlash or cost to her bottom line. Happy clients =happy bank account. It's simple economics. Provider A can do virtually whatever she wants with literally no consequence. Some new selfies or pics stolen from IG (very popular new method) and 5$ text me app and she's back in business. There's virtually no consequence for bad behaviour. Sure, you may feel she costs less it's a better deal ;it's just too much work to actually read a 1 page website and she doesn't make you do that, however, if you are receiving poor service, a bad experience and/or bait and switch, was the 50-80$ you save and 15 mins of time to research really worth it? The reason there's no effort put in is SHE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT ANYTHING OTHER THAN THE $$$. Look how a provider promotes herself, stop and think "If her business is run with the least effort possible, how does that translate over to the effort she will place on me? " Therefore, is the time and $ you saved worth it? Not really because you just wasted whatever you did spend and now you feel less than great....and threads like this get started. "Imagine that a pawn shop buys a Rolex, complete with the original box and all the papers. I guarantee the pawn shop would put everything out together in the display case.They wouldn't display only the watch and say "The customer should be responsible to do their research to determine that this is authentic. It's not up to me to prove it, or do their research for them." Established providers already do this, that's why we spend so much $, time and effort on our websites, all the info is there, in one convenient place at your fingertips. We've done our due diligence in providing the info, it's your job to read it. If the pawnshop provides the Rolex papers/booklet for you read, then you actually have to read it. You wouldn't say, "Oh that's going to take too long. Please provide me a picture of the previous owner wearing it holding 5000$ to prove its real." You'd have to read the papers, authenticate them, double check the serial numbers with Rolex to confirm legitimacy and if it all checks out, then you'd purchase it. Otherwise, you'd know the pawn shop could print out any old papers, stick them with the watch, and some poor sucker would buy it. It's up to you to actually fact check and verify the info provided as the consumer. If you bought it without said research and you ended up buying a fake watch, then it's no one's fault but your own, as the adage goes, "buyer beware." All these problems can be SIMPLY avoided with a small investment of a bit of time into research, communication and a little extra $ to find someone who has a proven history of stellar experiences. Don't scrimp out or cut yourself short due lack of due diligence. You deserve better...

Hmm, Ashlee was happy to provide towlettes for me, and let me wash off the equipment afterward. A shower is the best, but the afore-mentioned might suffice for some of us, in the right circumstance. Ashley is a pretty sweetie, and much preferable to some of the unknowns showing up on Bp.

Just a little advice 'Ontherideau' because you are new and your type of general query comes up often with new members. First of all, before making your query, you should have gathered and provided more information about the provider, to make it easier for another member to assist you. Providing the name of the site where the ad was placed along, the title of the ad and the providers name is often insufficient information for another member be able to assist you. Ideally, you could copy the ad and attach it to your query. But often ads disappear along with their links so you should also include as detailed a description of the provider from the ad as you can, as well as the last four digits of her phone number. So even if the link to the ad ceases to exist, someone trying to help you will have something to go on to do so. You really can't expect another member to go fishing on Craigslist for you, to try to determine which specific ad and Jessica you are referring to. Ad titles change, many providers use the same names or change their names frequently, so I hope you can see my point. A lot of contributing members to the board have stopped responding to these type of queries. They expect ,with reason, that the individual will have done their own research and homework first, before making their plea for information on the board. You would therefore be expected to check pictures from the ad using Google image or Tineye, as well as using the phone number to conduct a search on Google for other ads and contradictory information, or links to well known porn stars for instance. If this search points you towards misrepresentation or fraud you know what to do. If the images and phone number point to a potentially legitimate provider, you should then search on Lyla to see if the provider is a member or if a recommendation exists for the same person. If there is no information on Lyla, it may very well be that members will be unlikely to help you, but I guess you could make a query to confirm that. Lastly, because of the extremely high percentage of fake ads, fraudulent pictures and descriptions and Bait & Switch cons, on both Craigslist and Backpage, you should really consider going solely for providers who already have a web presence, have a website, are members of Lyla or have been recommended on Lyla. Few Lyla service providers would advertise on Craigslist, but a few reputable ones do continue to advertize on BP because a lot of potential clients continue to use BP as their primary source of information, and these clients are probably not Lyla members. Some clients may think they will get a better deal on Craigslist or BP, but that is rarely the case and low cost providers often provide poor service. While not an absolute truth, it is almost always true, as they say, that: ''You get what you pay for!''. Many tears and much ink is spilled on the subject of negative experiences on those sites, not mentioning the hundreds and hundreds of dollars flushed down the drain due to Bait & Switch situations or other types of fraud. Buyer Beware! If you really want to have a good time with a lovely women, I suggests you stick with the wonderful and reputable women of Lyla, who have all have track records of satisfied clients and who assist clients by posting much usefulinformation about themselves on their Lyla profile and posts and often on personal websites, Twitter and other such sites. Lyla also has recommendation type reviews you can look at to guide your selection of your SP or MP. Or you can contact the provider directly through the site if you have any questions her ads, profile and websites do not answer. But read those sources carefully first to learn about the provider and her services, so as not to annoy the provider from your first communication. Providers must do a million things to keep their businesses running smoothly, and they don't like having their time wasted, just like you! And the more energy they spend fielding unnecessary queries, the less time they have to prepare for and offer their unique and very special services. Hope this helps!

I think Dave's suggestion is aimed uniquely at new or unknown providers who have no web presence, reviews etc and where Google searchs of photos and phone numbers either come up empty or are inconclusive. The proverbial ''diamond in the rough'' does exist on Lyla and this rare and legit breed would do well to prove their identity in one way or another. Many clients will not risk a trip to an unknown provider who can not prove her identity, which means that even those who are legit in real life will be mostly ignored until they acquire a reputation tooth and nail. So the suggestion about running out for a newspaper on a daily basis may be too time-consuming, but the tried and true selfie method is an easier alternative. The provider writes her current location, name and phone number on a piece of paper held in front of her and takes her picture and posts it on BP. With this information posted, at least you know that the pictures and physical description are legit. If the client wants to find out more about the provider, he can always speak to her on the phone, which can give some feel for the type of service and personality of the provider. Not having unlimited time or money, I prefer to go with providers who have a presence on the internet including twitter, their own website or a profile on a reputable site like Lyla. Those that have excellent reviews on Lyla, a detailed profile as well as a decent website get 5 stars and are as close as you can get to a sure thing as you can get in this crazy world. I rarely go for someone who doesn't have a glowing review. My personal experience has led me to avoid BP except for known providers who have a web presence, reviews or other means to provide credibility about their identity, description, type of service and personality. Without that kind of basic information a client is flying blind and would as well throw his money out the window as drive out to a dive on Montreal Road. My second comment about BP, based on a number of years of close observation and research about their daily listings, is that it is a minefield with about 10% of the ads being legitimate and that slim percentage is declining. As BP does nothing to eliminate the trash and there is no way to call the fraudsters and liars out on BP, it will never become a reliable site for clients seeking legit providers. Except the proven ones as previously mentioned, because they need to advertise somewhere that remains mysteriously popular with men. My hunch is that some men would rather pick through the wasteland that BP has mostly become in search of that rare and elusive diamond. For the others, I believe the saying is: ''Never give a sucker an even break!''... or is it ''BBB: Bullshit Baffles Brains''.. or is it ''Never Act solely with your Little Brain -- You know, the one with one eye!'' There are several different categories of false, misleading or questionable ads that proliferate like weeds on BP, each in their own ugly patch: 1. There are providers who have not updated their photos or description for three or more years, so their information is unreliable at best. 2. There are many others who are fraudulently using photos of well known and stunning escorts, cam models, actrices or porn stars and yet they have the gall to say their photos as 1000% accurate and whine about time-wasters and cheap-skates. 3. Others work for disreputable ''non-agencies'', share similar phone numbers and often engage in documented B&S fraud. 4. Almost all repeat ads for asian providers have proven time and time again to use phony pictures and cite 20'some ages for providers who are 10-15 years older and as many pounds heavier in real life. 5. There are providers who change their names and phone numbers so frequently it is next to near impossible to authenticate them. 6. There are also some names that seem to be especially popular on BP, it is hard to tell one Chloe or Tiffany from another, especially when a name is chosen because there has been a recent positive recommendation for a legitimate provider with that same name. 7. And there are a large number of providers who have advertised on BP daily since the French first discovered Upper Canada and for whom there has never been a review or they have had reviews that have wailed about their lacklustre service etc. 8. Others have concurrent ads in Ottawa, Brisbane, Pretoria, Paris and Timbuctoo (OK I'm exaggerating!) 9. Bla bla Bla 10. More BS. Yeah I have a list of 10!

I don't see a need too in my opinion. I work hard to keep my site, my twitter and my ads recent and accurate. I am not hunting down a paper to take a selfie with it daily. That is just too much. My opinion is, if you are that concerned, move on to another lady. I want my clients to feel comfortable, but I will only go so far. Some of that responsibility is on the client. Do tin-eye and google image searches, read reviews, etc. I put in my time and effort as much as I can, and I hope you do as well. I am actually very impressed and attracted to men who take the time to read my site and my ads. It shows me the appreciation for my efforts and I like that. Those guys are the ones who get the extra attention from me. Instead of a pic of BP with a paper that everyone sees, they get a private pic emailed to them out of the blue with a special little sexy note. Now I know not everyone is like me, but do you want generic or do you want something different. Sometimes taking the time yourself, brings about the greater reward.

It might make things easier if most clients actually read anything worded in a backpage ad. ;) Rather than chasing down a local newspaper, most of us thought a website would fix that pesky "Is she real?" wonderment. All teasing aside, some kind of verification would certainly help but the issue is that girls who don't have a website usually aren't inclined to do so... smiles, cat

ime if you're the person giving oral in a shower its always better to have the person receiving with their back to the shower spray otherwise it's kinda like getting waterboarded when you're down there !

I made an appointment with this Asian cutie early in the morning. I was surprised to actually talk to her and she was awake. :icon_lol: Made the appointment for later in the morning, and she showed up more or less on time and highly pretty. Although I saw her pictures here, you don't really have an idea of how tall or short they are from those pictures. I was pleasantly surprised to find out that she is a tiny little spinner, probably doesn't even weigh more than 100 lbs soaking wet. As you can tell, I like tiny girls. Asian fans should also take note. Vivian provides erotic massage. She works out of two locations in the west end. One is near Meadowlands, somewhere between Woodroffe & Merivale, which is where I saw her. Her other location is in Kanata. She is pretty easy to talk to, and quite open.

Gents who read my website and know everything about me and my service when they contact me, and when they do reach out, they mention all the details I need to know to book them ( date, time, location, outfit requests, atmosphere requests etc)... Right off the bat I give them a little extra time as a reward for making my life easier... Coming in showered and groomed with a great attitude also scores points... A small token of appreciation always makes you stand out ( roses, chocolates, gift cards for stuff I actually need, samosas and mango lassies (you know who you are xo) origami money flowers ( you know who you are too xo ))I've honestly never forgot anyone who took the time to do this, it really touches me and shows me you care about my well being... even if years have gone by since our paths have crossed... definitely a great way to make a lasting first impression... I love when I'm riding a gent or giving him oral and he moans and/or whispers something under his breath... "Oh fuck" Yesss" "Holy Shit that's amazing..." "Don't stop" "You're so fucking hot" "Omg where'd you learn that" "You're so good" It gets me off to know I'm pleasuring him and he loves what I'm doing.... enthusiasm begets enthusiasm... What can I say I love what I do...

To echo the two previous comments, you definitely need to ask for permission first.

I tried to see here again and did experience experience another no-show. She did return my text a bit later when I asked if everything was ok, and she apologized. However, she's off my list for now. She was very nice the first time I saw her, and can't help feel a bit concerned. I hope she's ok and gets everything figured out.

Some may allow it, and may or may not charge extra for the service... but I suspect most would refuse. You can always ask, but don't try to argue or haggle if the answer is no.

Glad to report that Honey Man had a scare, but found nothing as serious as first thought. See his post on another thread- https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=109271&page=388

HAPPY HOLIDAYS LOVELIES!! I will be working here and there (and have a couple sexy dinners planned) this month and will be staying at home in the city.. My pleasure pad is warm, cozy and just a hop, skip and a jump from Chinatown and Centretown where there are lots of places to eat, drink and be merry over the holidays! On a completely random side note; I've also decided I want to adopt an older dog in the new year and will be saving up the $600 needed to get the necessary items and adopt! Though I can be charming, interesting and all kinds of fun- I'm far more likely to be so when I get to be my down-to-earth self. (And while I'm passionate about many things, I prefer to focus on my date and keep the conversation light, fun and sexy when possible.) I'm an empathetic, open-minded and overly loyal person who loves animals, people and life in general.. It gives me great, personal pleasure to be helpful or make a positive difference in someone's life, even if it's not a big difference. Introductory Dates: Whether we meet in a little coffee shop, a quiet & tucked away diner or a hidden restaurant in Chinatown, you can expect to meet a discreet, yet friendly and non-judgmental woman who's genuinely interested in getting to know you a bit. Should we be compatible and a good fit, I'll be more than happy to set up a more private, Companion Date with you. Fees: Basic Introductory Date - $40 Breakfast or Lunch Date - $50 Dinner/Drinks & Nibbles Date - $60 Sensual Companion Dates: A Sweetly Soft & Sexy Surrogate Girlfriend Experience. I aim for a mutually beneficial and pleasing experience that leaves my clients wishing they had met me sooner! Attentive, caring, affectionate and naturally curious-- I'm an excellent surrogate girlfriend and offer an experience that's as close to an organic relationship as possible without actually being one. All the fun, closeness and experience of a casual relationship without the inevitable changing expectations and evolution you can typically expect from a "real" relationship.. The only thing you'll have to worry about is becoming addicted to me. ;) Fees: Fees are by the hour and are decided on a case by case/negotiable. Contact Info: [email protected] In case you missed it, my previous ad can be found here; http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=257952 (Nov. 15) https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=258184 (Nov. 21) http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=806240#post806240 (Nov. 26) Blog: https://miss-s-xo.tumblr.com

I've been a naughty girl this year, but luckily there's no coal in my stockings :p I've missed you, Moncton folks, and so I shall be back just in time to treat yourself for the holidays :p I couldn't leave you without one last try at joining me on the naughty list! I invite you to join me at my downtown suite for an unforgettable tryst, or limited outcalls to verifiable Moncton area hotels are also available. Safety, hygiene, & discretion are assured/expected Request And Fetish Friendly! Twitter @MsMandaHfx Instagram @msmanda.hfx Pm, email or visit http://www.MsManda.com for more info! xx

We are fortunate to have some wonderful ladies offering GFE call Halifax home. Certainly some wonderful ladies noted above. I would also add Savannah Sol as well as Nikki Menage and the fine lades of Halifax Playmates.

Each person has different things they like better than others in body types and personalities. One size does not fit all. So, until you get to know some of the ladies around here that provide GFE, you won't know which one is the best for you.

1) Very subjective - YMMV 2) Are you really suggesting that we choose a best and upset someone in the process? Who is going to piss off a lady by suggesting someone else is "better" 3) Go find out for yourself. One of those questions that I feel is inappropriate! However, just my opinion.

My advice is to stick with one of the many well reviewed SPs here first. Hotels not that odd. You don't pay. You get room number and sometimes the actual hotel 1-3 hrs before as an average. I would not ask for photos of face. Most SPs here have a gallery on their profile page that will give you a rough idea of their look. Jube polite and respectful with your inquiries

I totally agree have been an SP for many years off and on. But in the last year this negotiations and or asking for Bare everything has become out of control. I have never been asked these two questions so much but in the past year. My guess to why is once one lady offered it than it all began to fall apart. This industry was a diamond on a ruff before it became so main stream. Now i do understand if a SP wants to give a regular client a deal once and a while but for someone you never seen before to ask you to cut your already reasonable rate in half is ridiculous. It really is becoming so frustrating but hopefully as time goes on we can fix things to accommodate the rest of us who still take pride in what we offer and do a good job at it. Sorry rant over!

Those of us who have websites, twitter and instagram often post it in our ads. I don't want defensive clients who are nervous and "terrified" if I am real or not because they've made poor choices before. It's not a nice power dynamic having to convince and prove you are real to very skeptical and scared potential clients. If someone can't tell that I'm real when I have pro photos, selfies, my website, my twitter, and instagram in my ad then they aren't the client for me. I have plenty of gents who are happy to find that I am real and clicking another link in the ad really isn't that much work. Most people do not bother to look at every single photo in the ad either because they're browsing on their phone. So going out and buying a paper to take a pic every day to try and get the few lazy guys who won't click a website or be able to discern someone real vs a fake ad seems like a low ROI.

Finally bit the bullet. TOFTT. Sorry I did. Works out of the spa in PA. If they are her pics (which I doubt) they are from many years ago. Super rushed and mechanical. Won't repeat. http://thunderbay.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/french-canadien-babe-chloe-quirt3r-w-t-and-wild-24-7-local-girl/96754847

Honestly, MANY service providers put a LOT of effort into writing ad copy, keeping up-to-date and information-ladden websites, posting regularly to social media, keeping up an online presence precisely for this reason - to cast away any doubt as to our authenticity. Rather than giving us yet another task - namely chasing down a local newspaper and taking a decent selfie daily - perhaps potential clients could make a small effort and do some research? It takes much less time to google "CITY escort NAME" than it does to go find a newspaper, doll oneself up (because yes taking photos requires a certain level of maintaining appearances), take a photo, and post it every day. Just my two cents...

"not just something to rush through before work" was really all I meant. A lot of guys don't like being rushed through a date, makes them feel like we're only doing it for the money, and I'm just not a fan of being rushed through a date either. Personally, it makes me feel kinda whoreish (& while I don't mind being one, I'm not so much into spending time with people who make me feel like one.. well, in a bad way anyways, lol.) ;) Those are obviously just my personal feelings and preferences though- and I'm not claiming or assuming other Companions/Sex Workers share my thoughts or feelings on such, I only 100% know my own feelings and what's best for me.

I'm a simple man. With someone new to me, when she kisses me first and/or when she kisses me more often than me kissing her. With a regular, simple. All it takes are those first seconds when she opens the door with a smile and I lay eyes on her. I feel that moment of relief and forgetting everything else in life, the easiness of knowing what is to come.

You'd figure if they were simply expecting women to take the risk of getting HIV and being unable to work- they would actually offer more money for such a taboo service, but as I've experienced (& heard from other girls) the more common 'unprotected-sex-requester' is likely to actually offer less than our rates.. Such leads me to believe that they're not so much 'just' looking for unsafe services as they are looking for desperate women they can take advantage of, which is probably why most ladies instantly block and report those asking for this.

Now that is a tall drink of water, and I'm thirsty !