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Dear Friends, I haven't been very active lately, on the board or in my social activities:), but this is due to some changes in my life that I think are very positive. I'm not sure how long this will last, but it's good for now. I will be checking in and keeping in touch though. Let me take this opportunity to wish each of you the best for Christmastime and New Year. I hold you all in my affection, and some of you in more than that :). It's been a good year for me, and I hope for you too. May 2018 be even better! Merry Christmas to all.

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to everyone. However you celebrate the Holidays and the merry season I wish everyone the best. 2017 was a great year. I met so many wonderful people and had many great experiences. I'm looking forward to a great 2018. I'm excited to meet new people and to continue to see the amazing people I've already met once again. I will continue to be the best I can be for you and I will always keep trying to improve. Whether it's keeping my body in top shape, my always friendly and fun demeanor, my skills and pleasure abilities, you will continue to get all this and more in new year. My donations and what I offer will stay the same in 2018. I'll be back Jan 5 I look forward to a great 2018, Kylie Jane xo

I'm not sure if many of you know about the particulars of strip clubs but many of them tend to have a Black Girl Rule. A Black Girl Rule is basically the cap they put on how many woman of colour are allowed to work in an establishment. ( usually 5) There is no white Girl Rule and that is made very clear. There's something about this Rule that makes me feel as if we're in the mid 1900's. I had called the club I normally work at and asked if I could come in early ( I start at 6 ) however there is a friend of mine on here that I wanted to see and could make it in at 2:00. I asked if I could come in early and the response was we're full and have no room for black girls. However, a "white girl" does not have to call in as they will never be too full. Why should I feel sad, guilty for being who I am ? It really hit me today. Racism sucks! What are your thoughts on this ? Shouldn't we all be equal? I mean we are in Canada shouldn't I have an equal opportunity to work? Please I'd love to hear your inputs and thoughts on this touchy subject

First saw Eliza's pics on here and she def intrigued me. Then we started conversing and finding out her interests and i just had to see her. We messaged back and forth and finally set something up. I have to admit, it's been awhile since i've been excited to meet someone and it was her. She was exactly what i had imagined, beautiful and fun...fun is an understatement. I had an outcall with her, when she arrived i was speechless. Very sexy and fit..very hot in yoga pants ;) Not going much into the session but she is very open and truly enjoys what she's doing, she's there to please you first and wants to make you happy. She just makes you feel so comfortable. I'm addicted and I plan to see her again, she is just awesome...and i don't just say that lightly. Thanks, Eliza :) c.

Happy Birthday Notch have a good one

they will address stuff like this with the new update that is being worked on.

Hi All, I am heading out for vacation on Boxing day for 2 weeks. I will have very limited internet access so I will not be able to upload banners or do much from a remote terminal. I will do what I can and I think the another moderator will be here a little (not sure) and a system admin will also be checking in. If you send me a PM it may be a few weeks before we get back. Our billing department will also be taking 2 weeks off so if you send a payment in it will be processed after January 8th

Happy Birthday Notch Johnson; I appreciate all your work here esp. social groups.

Have a very Happy Birthday and a Merry Christmas.

Happy Birthday, Notch, and many thanks for all those up-lifting and beautiful posts!

All the Best Notch! I'm almost feeling guilty due to the fact that you provide me with a gift virtually every day.

Happy Birthday Notch! Have yourself a fantastic day!!! :D

I have been very quiet this year. It has been a year with a lot of good changes. The highlight of the year is my 18 year old son is with me now and will be here tomorrow for the very first Christmas with me since he was 5 years old. I never stopped hoping he would come around and decide to spend time with me. It is the best Christmas present ever.

In Texas it would be ECCIE.

Happy Birthday Notch Johnson! I have you have a wonderful day!

Happy Birthday NJ. Thanks for everything you do here. You're a classy stand up Gent! Hope you have a great day.

usasexguide.info works for me, at least for Florida. I never used them in other areas, but I'd expect the same. Additional Comments: And by the way, they have a sister site, Internationalsexguide, you can click on it from the USA site. Info from places all over the world. Some destinations have plenty intel, but others are very poor.

Best wishes to Cato, 1963Kennedy, and everyone else here at Lyla. 2017 has been a good year. Wishing all of you the best in 2018! toine

Thanks a lot WhereIRoam. That does actually help to put things in perspective. I've got to remember the big picture. Thank you for sharing this experience with me. I hope her words of wisdom help me as much as they helped you. Glad things worked out for you in the long run. All the best of the holidays to you as well. Cheers Mikey

I agree with Manluvsex's point #2 about possible infections. Nearly nine years ago now I had a terrible ski accident where I broke four ribs, punctured my left lung in two places which caused it to deflate. I was sent by ambulance to the Ottawa General and had a chest tube inserted which was later hooked up to a suction machine. During my first week there, on the lung cancer floor, I had daily X-Rays in my room. My Doctor came to see me two days before I was scheduled to be released to inform me of a chest infection which appeared in my most recent X-ray. He informed me that I now required surgery, which he had already booked me for, in three days. This wasn't an option for me. It was difficult to accept, looking for something/someone to blame. Luckily I had family and more importantly an amazing GF who was there to lift my spirits and help me accept what needed to be done. Three days later I had this surgery where they opened me up 12" long and removed a 4" section of a rib to clean out this now nasty infection. I was recovering well but within a week into recovery my Doctor again came to see me to inform me the surgery was not a success and he recommended I have this surgery again or have these now two new chest tubes remain for an undetermined amount of time to allow the infection to drain. I was devastated, this was a very difficult time for me. I became a little depressed and my family and GF noticed, they did their very best to help me but it was no use. I refused to have another surgery and opted to keep these tubes instead. A couple days later I was able to make my way to the X-ray machine on another floor by means of a wheelchair. A caregiver saw me and asked me to come with her for a minute. She was familiar with my case and had noticed my sad state of spirits. This is what she said, "I see you're sad, don't be. You see the other people sitting around you in there waiting their turn? Most of those people will likely die here but you, you'll recover. You'll be fine one day soon and walk out of this hospital and carry on with your life. You should be happy, cheer up young man." Those true words hit my like a ton of bricks. I knew she was right and it changed my perspective about how I should be feeling. I will never forget that this person, a stranger to me, took her time to care about how I was feeling, how I looked. That one minute helped me more than what anyone else had said to me to try and lift my spirits, the reality of it all that she expressed worked. After three and a half weeks of being in the hospital I was released. These tubes remained for another four and a half months. I am glad to say I am fine now, have fully recovered and lead a normal and healthy life and I try to never look back. Mikeyboy, I can somewhat relate to what you may be going through. As difficult as it may be at the moment, in a few short months you will look back on this and be able to smile about it all. You will have family and friends around to share your experience with, to help you every step of the way. It's in these moments that we often reprioritize our lives, when you decipher what is truly important in life and thank God for family and friends, there is nothing more important! Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays Mikeyboy, my thoughts are with you. I wish you the very best to a quick and healthy recovery.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you too my friend. May 2018 be even better than 2017.

Happy Holidays everyone!

Lili (or Lily) is in Kingston now, she has been here before. If you search I am sure there is info here, maybe even in this thread. Summary .... Older but excellent service. Thin and not the prettiest, but not ugly. If service is most important to you she will rock your world. I saw her a couple days ago, says she will be here a month. I will repeat a lot.

I hope everyone has a safe and happy holiday season!

Happy Holidays to all, hope your new year will be filled with much Joy. SM

I hope everyone has a safe, loving and pleasurable holiday.

I've hit this in the past. It's because consecutive posts in the same thread get auto-merged, but the post size count isn't done until after that. Mind you, you get 10k characters (I think) so it's not a common problem. There's two workarounds: 1) if someone else posts after your initial post, your second one won't get merged as they aren't consecutive. 2) Failing that, if the two posts are 24h apart (I think) they're also treated as separate, and don't get merged.

Got a reply with details. She asked for an etransfer for booking. I said I don't do etransfers. No further replies from her.

Maggie Gyllenhaal is interviewed in the Elle magazine of Nov. 27th and discusses her role as a sex worker in the series The Deuce, co-starring James Franco. The series is produced by the creative team behind The Wire, David Simon and George Pelecarios). One such thing she (Gyllenhaal) felt strongly about was to show her character masturbating or having sex off the clock. 'I thought that would be, in some ways, an opening into her needs, her desire, her agency,' she says. 'I didn't hear anything about it for a long time. David Simon sort of joked with me, like,"'What? Really?"' But he delivered a script with a story line about Candy's own love life, and even includes her masturbating and having an orgasm that's both vulnerable and profound. It shouldn't, but somehow it feels radical to watch a woman whose job is a sex worker focusing on her own pleasure. In the same article, Gyllenhaal also states her clear support for the decriminalization of sex work: 'Who needs a union more than a prostitute?' Maggie asks of sex workers today. 'I'm quoting David Simon actually, and I agree with him. My instinct is to say decriminalize it and make sure everybody's safe, healthy and taken care of.' In her research, she found that many former sex workers go into nursing. 'They're so comfortable with bodies, and bodily fluids,' she says with a wry laugh. (Maggie Gyllenhaal, Elle Magazine, Nov. 2017) http://www.elleuk.com/life-and-culture/culture/longform/a40131/maggie-gyllenhaal-honourable-woman/

If you're new to the hobby, my strong suggestion would be to avoid Backpage and check out some of the established regulars, especially the ones here on Cerb. If you do try someone new, there's a free site called Tiny Eye which does a reverse search on images (or, use google image search at the very least). If they give a cell phone number, google it to see if comes up as a scam. If multiple ladies are using the same phone number, that's a big warning flag usually. An excellent rule of thumb = if it seems to good to be true, there's a decent chance it probably isn't true. Don't take any one person's review, good or bad, as being gospel. Also remember Cerb rules only allow people to post good reviews, ie recommendations. I can share some of your concerns, as I just recently moved to Halifax and had to leave some of my favourite ladies back west. To me, Halifax had (has) a reputation for underage trafficking, so I was hyper-cautious. While I enjoy a young 20 year old as much as the next red-blooded male, I have zero desire for a 16 year old and "child molester" would probably look bad on my resume at work. That's my biggest caution with Backpage. Luckily for you, Halifax has lots of established ladies. In absolutely no particular order, here's several that have multiple excellent reviews... Exotic Touch Danielle, MsManda, Addictive Barbie, Kylie Jane, Cristycurves, Savannah Sol, Dirty Blonde Maria, Bad Ass Bella, Littleprincessemma... any of those would likely be an amazing time. Read their reviews, look at their albums, see if it matches what you are looking for. If Asians are your thing, the agency VIPOTG is usually the way to go, but they can be a challenge for new clients to deal with. Three last pieces of advice, young grasshopper... (1) even if the lady offers it for an extra price, never ever ever do BB FS. (2) Remember that you are only donating towards time and companionship, period. If you want to avoid legal problems, do not go in to "I'll pay you $X if you do Y" on the phone or in emails. (3) Treat the ladies like gems. Be nice to them, they'll be nice to you. Grab a shower before you go, be polite, and absolutely respect their limits. Good luck, my friend. Fire me a PM if you need any more help.