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You will find beautiful and nice ladies pretty much everywhere. Each spa in the Capital region has its strength and weakness. Yes, some ladies will have an edge on others but never under estimate the power of the chemistry between you and the provider. It's not all about if the girl is good or not. After a few years of meeting MA/SP around here, I can say that I met a number of fantastic ladies, well reviewed and pleasant providers. But with some of them (not a lot, but still...), the chemistry was just not there and/or I didn't find all what I was looking for in my quest for fun with a provider. I have in mind a girl that was a top reviewed in a good spa, I went to see her twice and it was my two worst experiences. On the other hand, I went to see other providers that had mixed reviews but for some reasons I felt that they may have something that I was looking for, something that attracted me and decided to go see myself; ending up with a great/awesome experience just because the chemistry was at rendez-vous between her and me. I am thinking of a girl that I repeated something like 7-8 time in the last few years; she has mixed reviews over the years on this board and elsewhere, but man, between me and her, the pleasure is mutual... nothing more to say! To answer your question, sirsmitty69, I think you need to test several places to find your cup of tea, here in Ottawa. Spas around here have similarities and differences, I believe there is a lot about: 1) what you are looking for (what turns you on); 2) what the lady offers; and ultimately 3) how the encounter between the lady and you goes, the chemistry between the two of you. I like your final comment : "Also, remember to support these ladies as much as you can. The better we are, the better they are. ". I think this is also a key to every experience. Some OP need to understand that the provider is not alone in the encounter. When a session is not good, some OP have the tendency to blame it right away on the provider "she's not good", "she's mechanical", "she doesn't like to be there" and blablabla... all those sorry excuses we hear/see on a regular basis. That affects them! That is a lack of respect! When a lady walks in a room to meet a new client, she doesn't know what to expect, she doesn't know what kind of guy she is facing, she doesn't even know if she is going to be attracted to that guy. It doesn't mean that she will be 100% comfortable with all what he is. But, the OP is there too in the session, maybe the chemistry in the two is just not there because the OP is bad himself, has bad behaviour, is not a good lover or the lady is just not attracted to him, it can be anything. I'm a Black guy... some providers don't want to meet black guys, period. Racism, not attracted to blacks, afraid of blacks, anything is possible. If a lady doesn't want to meet black guys but I'm already sitting on her massage table when she walks on the room, chemistry will not be there. When a session doesn't go the way I like with a girl that I met for the first time, I don't blame the lady cause there may have tone of reasons (and I never play the racism card although I know it's possible). Yes, these ladies need our support. Yes, these ladies need our respect. Yes, without these ladies, there is no encounter (well,... in these days... if some OP want to see other OP, that's their problem... but that's another story and I wish them to have fun between them... lolll). So anyway, sirsmitty69, I welcome you in the Capital Region and I wish you the best luck in your searches. Check on all these great institutions CMJ, Brass Club, Vibe, Paradise, Angel Touch, BodyBasic 3000, just to name a few, there are many more as the choice is there. Plus, all these wonderful and fantastic Indies of Ottawa. Enjoy. The Black Bass

And I'm adding my voice to this one, Eliza is a passionate kisser. I just did a one hour session with her, earlier this week, where we spend almost the entire time just kissing. I think none of us wanted to stop kissing the other one. And when she noticed: "I didn't even massaged you", I said "I don't care, I got enough fun!". loll. My worst experiences with MA/SP (not a lot, but still there are) are with providers that didn't demonstrate that kissing was part of the menu. I understand that some providers had mentioned they don't like the "try it and see" approach, but I prefer to let the girl set her boundaries and to let her come to me. Now, if a lady, in this "parallel world", is not comfortable enough to kiss me during a full one hour session as we are getting closer, with us taking a shower together, with me being naked on the massage table, with her doing naked body slide on me, with her touching me in the most intimate spots of my body and me touching her too on some intimate spots of her body, I don't know man, I don't know! It sounds abnormal for me to do all that and not allow kissing. Well... I welcome all opinion but in such case, as far as I am concern, I don't think it worth to come back at all.

My comment was not directed to you and was more a personal opinion while agreeing with Sensual Erin's comment. I also love kissing. But when it feels forced and awkward from the lack of chemistry, I rather not do at all. Doesn't matter if a massage or full GFE. If things don't click face to face, not much can be done. Some are better than other to hide their true feelings, but in deeper intimacy the reality tends to surface. Again, it's something that should happen spontaneously and not be dealt as a checkmark on a list of options.

I very much enjoying kissing to enhance the connection during an encounter. However once in person, there have been times I have not been able to fulfill these wishes. When asked, I can only be honest in my reply that I prefer to have the opportunity to see how we connect. There are so many variables that we are all aware of and I do not need to repeat. Especially, when two strangers meet for the first time.

Havanna...na na na My heart is in Havanna! My continued love affair with Cuba is still going on! She has tempted me with her Caribbean breeze, coconut aroma's and the sounds of salsa! While I am away, enjoy your own paradise with Tiffany as she hosts in the HOT SPA. I should return the 16th, but may even stay a bit longer! YOu may contact her from my phone or her own number. see my site for her new pics!!! OMG! Adios Mi Amigos! MUAH! 506 261 7313 ladysophiaclassic.com

It has been closed since the end of summer. Gone and missed

Ok, my apology. I think I did not express what I was really thinking. Can I please blame it on the language barrier :-?... I think I took a short cut at one point on my post that made it sounds another way then originally :sad:. Allow me to correct the impression of it: I fully agree that a provider has the right to accept or to refuse to kiss me or any client. What I wanted to say was that, for me, I find it strange to do all what we do in a meeting and not kissing. It just me, in my mind, probably because I prefer GFE. I know it can happen, I know a provider has that right, I have always highly valued all the rights of the providers. Ultimately, I agree with you 100% that if chemistry, sincerity and other conditions are right, the experience will feel much more real. In such case, kisses may be at RDV. But if I have a session with a girl and kisses are not part of it, personally I don't think that I will feel any connection. But, initially, it is that connection that I am looking for. So, if it's not there, I will not want to repeat with her. And for me, repeating is a way to thanks the provider and to express to her that I did appreciate her service (but again, that's me, nobody has to agree with me, I know some people don't want to repeat...). Anyway, I love to kiss and wish to only meet providers who are ready to kiss me :grin:.

Turning on the shower fan and having all the snow that blew up into the vent melt and make a pool on the tiles so I almost killed myself when I stepped out. The same thing happened later with the kitchen fan and it pissed all over my stove. Grrrrr.

Considering attraction, chemistry and hygiene will make kissing welcomed and enjoyable, I'm not sure it should be considered a normal "extra". I really enjoy doing it. But if it feels more awkward than mutual, I rather not do it at all. And with MA's it should be more of a surprise than the norm. With so many SP's posing as MA's, it blurs the lines on what should be considered normal in a massage session. Unless made clear upfront, reciprocation, kissing and happy finishes should not be expected. I rather go blind and be surprised by unexpected intimacy, than plan everything in detail and end up disappointed. Even in a context of adult services, some things can't be faked and should be dealt with behind closed doors.

Thanks for the mention WIR. I know you can't recommend any of us personally but I know that everyone mentioned is a great provider and all offer unique experiences. I've worked with Kylie and currently work with Karma. I can safely recommend BOTH my former duo partner and my current. There is a small but great group of Kingston providers if you look. We need to stick together and not be petty. Taylor Maid here on Lyla is a Kingston provider who offers massage only as well.

Army Rations?! Just buy some boxes of KD and a couple tins of canned tuna or chicken. :-) Butane Stove, great idea. My winter setup is 2 rechargable led flashlights. 2 regular AAA led flashlights. Propane single burner. Propane radiant heater with a 30lb tank. Normal pantry of pasta, rice and canned food and several 10l jugs of water for toilet and drinking. I can keep the house above zero and warm the bedroom right up, enough meals for the family for 3-4 day's and enough light for same 3-4 days.

HI this is Ciara and it is my ads sweety . I have had a couple different numbers before over the years. You can still reach me at either number on the ad. Although flattering to think that someone would use my photos I'm sure it would be more advantageous to use some hot not a nothing moving out of place 20 year old super models pics. ) lol That being said if u have me before you know Im truly one of a kind ! not sure which of my clients wrote bit thanks so much for looking out and hope you come to see me soon! Xoxo ������

Visited again.very good technique. Left pleased.thanks

Well, welcome here Jasta I suggest you to look at several/different providers profile to make yourself an idea of what is offer. It depends what you are looking for, what turns you on. Different ladies, different services, different prices. Make yourself an idea. Many providers post on their profile every info you need to know. Some prefer you to text, call, email or to send them a personal message (PM) through Lyla. Read the profile, you will find the proper direction to reach the lady. Some will put their website on the profile (check on the contact section); I suggest you to go through the website if there is one and read all the info on it. Also if she has a Twitter or something else of social media. Also, to make yourself an idea of the different ladies, read the recommendation section, if someone you want to know had been reviewed. You will find tone of great stories that will excite your day. Best advice I would give you, don't negotiate rates, don't argue with her, be respectful and enjoy yourself. Good luck on Lyla The Black Bass

Sounds inviting Violet. I invite you to please share so we can admire these images.

I know there is Touch of Class in Kingston. Haven't seen any of them but they all have reccos and reviews (in no particular order). Not local but there off and on: Sasha May Monique Mathison Malika Fantasy Local (I think): Caterina Karma Kiss Kylie Jayde Hope this helps.

I have seen Sensual Erin and she is absolutely amazing. I have only seen her once but she is definately a repeat when i can w9rk it in. So many beautiful women out there, i have to be careful of the too good to be true.

I dropped by Barb's for the turning of the year. A fairly quiet night, but great roster! I noticed Seven, Rachelle, Steph, Devan, Enigma and Via. Ashley was behind the bar. Barely any more customers than dancers plus staff - although I didn't stay late, and I imagine more coming in later. Barb's management provided a free supper.

Dbass34 is bang on. There are licensed RMTs that will provide a lot more fun on the side. Unfortunately none comes to mind who are working right now but they are out there.

You received two responses telling you that she is using another woman's pictures and you are still trying to set up an appointment. So many men complain about the use of fake pictures but still support the business of these so called scammers. There wouldn't be so many, making it more difficult for us real women and real clients alike if you, the client, stopped supporting them. Why even bother starting a thread if you won't take the responses into consideration? There is such a huge amount of distrust between escorts and new clients because of fakes. Fake escorts, fake clients. One way to begin change is to stop seeing women who steal pictures and pass them off as their own. It seems like no matter what anyone tells you, you will pursue this ad, so good luck.

Just wanted to say hi.. i m new on the site.. looking forward to amazing times together... xo isa

The investment for me was definitely a pay off. Its both an investment and a choice that each person makes. What is good for one may not be for the next person. I like natural and enhanced. I however am a former competitive bodybuilder. All that dieting leaves not much more that a saggy envelope. My choice was to re fill my envelope. Easy!! :)

Always good to ask in room, text or email if the MA kisses or not that way your not disappointed in session when they don't kiss. My personal opionion I love kissing, I'm not a huge fan of using tounge too much( all depends on hygiene) but I find kissing makes me feel more passionate in session and building a bond with the client. That being said, I will use more tongue if I feel like I have good chemistry with the client. I also love body kissing I find it incredibly sensual. Every MA is differnt though, some are not comfortable at all with kissing their clients and never will but thats up to them to decide. I know some MAs who don't kiss but they still provide an amazing experience.

The best way to be sure is to ask that's for sure :) a little text/email is easy and being behind the keyboard prevent from getting too shy about it. I like to give a few hints to my guest, so they have an idea about what they can or can't do. I love kissing and without it... I just don't feel as much passion. I like to be the one initiating the kissing, it is a good way to break the ice and get everyone comfortable :).

So far most of the girls I've met so far kiss. But a few didn't, I still had a good time, but if they had kissed it would have been a great time :). If I have contact with them, I ask thru email or pm. But sometimes I will take a chance and upon a recommendation will see a girl that knows nothing about me. These are the girls that usually don't kiss much. If you go in for a kiss, they turn and give you a cheek. sometimes they are a lot of fun anyways.

I would like to share my personal experience with an MA who did not allow kissing on the lips and intimate areas. The trickiest part is that I asked her during the duo shower but my polite question wasn't explicitly answered. My first thought was that she was rather shy. As I attempted to kiss her gently, she would turn her cheek and her body. I took this as a no and I accepted it wholeheartedly. I felt a dilemma in her as she valued me as a good and gentle client. At the same time, she probably didn't want to "lose" me too soon. I read her mind to find out that she was hoping that I would still enjoy to receive some of her other`skills' during the session. This turns out to be very true! I put a serious thought and I decided to let her know how much I appreciated her. As I had the opportunity while she was massaging me in front, what I actually did was performing some light gentle kissing on her neck and shoulder (pecking) while making long inhale of deep breath like you were enjoying the smell of her body. Then, I brought my lips closer to her chin (don't kiss) while giving her another slow and long inhale. The next move is the most critical. I gradually moved my nose slowly to her lower lips and to the angle part and again, making a sensual slow inhale as long as you want (be careful not to touch your lips on hers). She seemed to enjoy what I did to her. I sensed that she felt more comfortable to know that I was respecting her boundary. She reacted to this by voluntarily open her mouth a little with a heavy breathing which allowed me to smell her entire lips and mouth with my lips closed. I loved the smell of her lips and mouth which was warm and moist. And these fun moments continued with a periodic soft moanings and whispering compliments. I can assure you that this experience is equally tantalizing. The best part, she gave me a wonderful compliment that I was one of her best "boyfriend" whom she have ever met. That was really sweet and lovely! Having this unique experience will definitely make me want to repeat with her again.

I am upfront on my website about what I offer and do not offer, and I remind my guests during our first session together. If at any point a gentleman is unclear about something, I find it very respectful when he asks me. I dislike the "I'll just go for it and see if she stops me" approach. Please, just ask. Communication is key to a wonderful experience together!

I'm a bit shy about asking or to pucker up and approach a kiss in the event of a refusal, it's a tough turn down to accept and I don't like the rejection. I always appreciate the lady to do the first move or I will only do it if I have read in her review that she loved kissing.