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Ok, my apology. I think I did not express what I was really thinking. Can I please blame it on the language barrier :-?... I think I took a short cut at one point on my post that made it sounds another way then originally :sad:. Allow me to correct the impression of it: I fully agree that a provider has the right to accept or to refuse to kiss me or any client. What I wanted to say was that, for me, I find it strange to do all what we do in a meeting and not kissing. It just me, in my mind, probably because I prefer GFE. I know it can happen, I know a provider has that right, I have always highly valued all the rights of the providers. Ultimately, I agree with you 100% that if chemistry, sincerity and other conditions are right, the experience will feel much more real. In such case, kisses may be at RDV. But if I have a session with a girl and kisses are not part of it, personally I don't think that I will feel any connection. But, initially, it is that connection that I am looking for. So, if it's not there, I will not want to repeat with her. And for me, repeating is a way to thanks the provider and to express to her that I did appreciate her service (but again, that's me, nobody has to agree with me, I know some people don't want to repeat...). Anyway, I love to kiss and wish to only meet providers who are ready to kiss me :grin:.

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Finally decided to go independent...at my new west end location you will have all the same amenities as before just a more private setting and no door fee! I look forward to seeing you and thank those who have already shown their support in my new adventure. My schedule this week... Monday to Friday 9-7 & Saturday 10-4, as always if requested I may take later appointments for special clients;) XO Chasity

My comment was not directed to you and was more a personal opinion while agreeing with Sensual Erin's comment. I also love kissing. But when it feels forced and awkward from the lack of chemistry, I rather not do at all. Doesn't matter if a massage or full GFE. If things don't click face to face, not much can be done. Some are better than other to hide their true feelings, but in deeper intimacy the reality tends to surface. Again, it's something that should happen spontaneously and not be dealt as a checkmark on a list of options.

"The increase in STIs is baffling, given the amount of public education about the risks of unprotected sex." http://ottawacitizen.com/health/sexual-health/spike-in-gonorrhea-cases-worries-ottawa-public-health

Happy Birthday to SexxxyRebecca! Have yourself a fantastic day!!! :D

OK, OK!! I will start a hair growing campaign so you guys can be happy. By spring, hair to my knees ! :)

Why not ... its hot as hell and the way women were created !

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Happy birthday Beautiful! I hope you enjoy your day xo

Dear Friends, I haven't been very active lately, on the board or in my social activities:), but this is due to some changes in my life that I think are very positive. I'm not sure how long this will last, but it's good for now. I will be checking in and keeping in touch though. Let me take this opportunity to wish each of you the best for Christmastime and New Year. I hold you all in my affection, and some of you in more than that :). It's been a good year for me, and I hope for you too. May 2018 be even better! Merry Christmas to all.

Happy Birthday, Rebecca! You are a lovely person. Hope today and the coming year go well for you.

Have a very Happy Birthday, Rebecca!

I do have to say that kissing is something I look for. The passion and intimacy is just not the same without it.

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Happy Birthday Rebecca.. Have a wonderful day !

Happy Birthday Rebecca, I hope you have a wonderful day !

Happy Birthday SexxxyRebecca have a good one

Dude. What the fuck are you on? I've tried to read all of your posts and they are just nonsensical drivel. Seriously. What the fuck?

We can never be too prepared. Good idea HS. My elderly mother was without power in CB from Thursday afternoon until around 6 this evening. A long time when you are not prepared.

I very much enjoying kissing to enhance the connection during an encounter. However once in person, there have been times I have not been able to fulfill these wishes. When asked, I can only be honest in my reply that I prefer to have the opportunity to see how we connect. There are so many variables that we are all aware of and I do not need to repeat. Especially, when two strangers meet for the first time.

J-Smooth perhaps you need to go find out for yourself and let us all know how it went ?

I believe Mary posts independently as Freddigirl on here now. Highly recommend her.

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Sounds inviting Violet. I invite you to please share so we can admire these images.

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Some may allow it, and may or may not charge extra for the service... but I suspect most would refuse. You can always ask, but don't try to argue or haggle if the answer is no.

I agree with Misha 223 respect goes a long way. The provider has set her rate and that should be what she is paid. If she wants to offer you a discounted for what ever reason that is her decision...

you are known Mystique, although i never had yet the pleasure of seeing you. i considered lately but only saw adds in the rub section. It is unfortunate that some..hmmm, how shall i say..hagglers, cheapskates? try to barter your wages. This industry is not a dollarama. I've heard some dudes try to get as little as 20$ off??? really, if you are so strung out that you have to barter for 20$ then you have no business seeking SP's. I've always been of the thought that rates should not be negotiable. If you want to see a lady, then accept her restrictions and rates and be respectful. It's really puzzling to me to try to figure out why one would barter rates. Seems to me that if you manage it then you set yourself up for an hour (or HH) that will only bring the minimal out of the lady because she will feel demeaned or worse that you are just cheap and don't deserve much attention. If on the other hand, you respect all she asks, are nice, clean, presentable etc...you might find on occasion that a little extra TLC will go your way. Just my 2 cents. But i digress, i've heard often that Ottawa appears to be the city of hagglers which is unfortunate and puts us in a dim light. Are guys here that cheap? Or maybe they are thinking of the next 2 beers they'll buy at the strip club, who knows.

As a service provider pre-bookings make sense, particularly for those of us with careers and busy lives...I'm sure we all have lives and organizing a time away a little bit of fun and excitement is the only way we can make it work :)

Just wanted to say hi to all the members here on Lyla. I am not new to the industry, but am new to the site and am loving every minute of interacting with such a diverse group of people! I can't believe that I never took the plunge of joining this community in the past. So many great resources here and just overall fun discussions! So hello to all!

I don't think it's SO's ( same regular partner) that puts sp's at risk, just as in the civilian population. Stds don't just appear, they have to be introduced by sexual contact by someone who is infected. Unless the sp's partner is out having unprotected oral or fs, (and please believe our SO's are just as particular and educated about their sexual health as we are, they are in relationships with sp's after all) the risk is virtually non-existent. It's new multiple partners participating in unprotected services (bbbj and bbfs) that introduce the risk of being infected. It's simple math, the more times you roll the dice, the higher the odds of you hitting. If you're that worried about sp's private lives, the onus on you to protect your sexual health, don't ask for unprotected services or see ladies that offer them. I can't believe in 2017 this still comes up

It's really sad how this is still an issue with all of the resources available and education out there. Nothing is worth risking your health for, no matter what. There is an old saying "You play with fire, you get burnt." I think there is no better saying for those who choose to engage in such risky behaviour.

What doesn't help is people like Sue McGarvie and her "Ducklings" group. She presents herself as a world renown sex therapist but to a crowd of more than hundreds, she completely dismissed the seriousness of STI! She's like: ok, for the paranoia surrounding swinging and open relationships: there's only 79 cases of Syphilis (or similar figures) per year, so your chances to catch it are what, Ottawa's population is almost a million now so... And if you had it, its super easy to treat. Talk about disinformation and creating reckless beliefs! And that obviates chlamydia which often goes without symptoms but has terrible consequences on reproduction health. Or herpes which is uncurable, painful loaded with stigma. Ok controlable in many cases but still a gift one could do without. Unfortunately, many people think that because their house was never flooded, they should not take the insurance option and lament they are ruined when it rains for 10 days straight and sewer backup fload their basement.

When we clicked "accept" on the Facebook aps, we all agreed to this. We gave them the right to spy on us in order to bundle us and sell us to their advertisers. It's amazing how easily we as a society have signed away all of our rights to privacy.

http://www.cbc.ca/beta/news/health/gonorrhea-resistance-1.4193646

Can't really add more! I also LOVE kissing as part of the building up but.. Bad breathe is a killing for me. Especialy smokers one... Please rinse your mouth and dont smoke right before appointment! I dont smoke so I dont have pleasure kissing a ashtray.. Lol