I see it as a confirmed appointment, and based on his reply, he did too.
You did nothing wrong. Except maybe waste more time trying to explain to someone something that they will never understand. His mentality is clear.
You are a hooker. You don't deserve his respect. You don't deserve the same respect as a wife, or GF, or any other business entity.
Hookers are meant to be there when requested and required and if he can't make it, well too bad, so sad. That is the business. That is your whoring business that you choose. Not his fault.
Fucking ass, is my opinion.
The passive aggressive way he was writing. The bigging up of himself while trying to put you down, the deflection, the protection. It is all a recipe for disaster. The threat to book you another way, the BS about his phone and anonymous nature of it. Triple Portaled??? Give me a fucking break. I bet he just googled that to say it in text.
My advice, list him in the BCL and move on. I have 3 other sites I list on other this board. If you want to PM, I can share.
Also, as most people know by now since I have just a loud mouth about it, screen. Screen, screen, screen.
I know screening is scary. Women are afraid they will not get business, and I will admit, there may be a bit of slow period in the beginning when you make your adjustments. But it is soooooooooo worth it in the end.
Men can't even talk to me without going through my site first. I list no email addressed, phone numbers, etc. The one email address I have listed for BP ads has an auto-responder that gives men directions on how to communicate with me since they clearly didn't read the ad. By the time the person gets to me, actually talking to me, I have weeded out 80% of the time wasters, non-compatible clients, etc. 80% of my work is done and I haven't done a thing.
It takes away the frustration that builds over time with dealing all that BS. That in itself is worth screening. In my opinion. I don't text with anyone other than established regulars.
Also, I find that because I screen, I take up to a week or two, to screen. I can take that time to get to know likes and dislikes with the client. Makes 95% of my appointment to never feel like "work".
Sorry, this happened to you. In my opinion, you were not wrong at all.