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Each club got a surprise bill of $7,500 to have an entertainment license to operate in Ottawa for 2018 with hints it may be higher in 2019. That is a jump from the $2,500 paid in 2017 . A 200% increase with no warning. That is a flat fee...regardless of seating or size. I am not a strip club owner, but I am a business man and to have a bill of that size come in to just operate would sting. Let alone the other hurdles of being in business as a strip club that many of us do not realize. Like most fees, these get past down to the paying customer. $5 CR charge, .50 cent hike in drinks, $1 increase in door fee. Whatever the case, people will bitch about it. The Fax...I am unsure if its $7,500 flat or $7,500 x 2 as I believe upstairs is a separate license when they put in the stairs in the middle. The owner at the Mate said he needed a license for the Mate and the other for Suite 300.....$15,000.00 license fee. Compound this with increase in minimum wages. In either case, I enjoy going to SC's. I generally go with "x" amount in my pocket. I budget "x" amount for dances, the rest on drinks and anywhere else, the $5 is in that now....big deal....if I whine about $5 I should not be going to a SC. Maybe it is a bad and sour taste to have an extra fee, but to be honest, raising drink prices would be worse and I am not sure how an increase in door fee be taken. Enjoy the clubs guys. Have some drinks, enjoy the scenery and have fun.

My New Year's Resolution was/is to loose weight. So far I have lost 15 pounds and I have another 25 pounds to go. I hope to reach my goal by the beginning of May. I think I am doing pretty good so far. Soon I will be a lean sexy love machine again.... lol

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For me, less is more. The best ladies I met had more of a girl next door or tomboyish look. The type I can go to a restaurant or any other public place and nobody would stare or whisper a dumb comment. And once in the bedroom, there's a natural flow and doesn't feel like an attempt to recreate a porno or go through a check list of options. Nothing against a little eye candy and out of the box experiences. But for long term, the best remains simple and low key.

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The coles note version of bill c36 is: Providers can sell sexual services Clients cannot purchase sexual services Third parties cannot sell sexual services It used to be providers could sell their services openly, just not in a public place. This is still true, however with the third party rules, advertiser, agencies and spas cannot allow any type of sexual services to be sold. No matter how the communication is done. So, not just outside is illegal but any type of communication (text, email, voice) to purchase sexual services is illegal. So, asking if you can get a bbbj, or anal, or multiple rounds of intercourse, even when given in code is illegal. You can be charged. Are police agencies actively going after clients right now? No, they are mainly going after underage, exploited and outside workers. Going to a spa (unless they are licenced by the city) does not protect you. Trying to ask for specific services in a coded fashion does not protect you. Clarifying that the services advertised are in fact available can land you on the front page if and when the legal entities decide to start prosecuting clients purchasing sexual services. So, most providers that understand the laws do not advertise sexual services to protect their clients. That's the part of the new laws I hate. I at least do not want to have a paper trail for law enforcement to be able to clearly show I provide sexual services for consideration of money. I always cringe when I see hobbyists clearly specifying what transpired during their encounter AND how much they spent. The Seattle board had a number of hobbyists arrested for prostitution based ONLY what they posted online. Yes, it's the states , where the laws are different, but these things go weirdly wrong if someone in authority chooses to go after someone. https://www.google.ca/amp/s/reason.com/blog/2016/12/13/12-more-charges-in-trb-prostitution-case/amp If you would like to understand the laws, here's a great starting point. In order to understand the law, it's important to read it. http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/other-autre/c36fs_fi/ Now, back to our regularly scheduled programming.

Wanted to post a clarification. Cause I got a PM suggesting there might be some confusion. The person I was referring to as 'Jasmine on Kijiji' and I believe the other poster was referring to her as well as she did have a six hour old ad up at the time of posting is an individual, NOT Jasmine's/Studio 553. Sorry for any confusion. JASMINES IN HOME MASSAGE $60

Hello I'm Karina, sexy Philippina. Offering you a great unrushed massage and very satisfying sensual experience. . I absolutely love to please and I'm a great companion. I receive privately in luxurious beautiful ambiance for your extra comfort. Call or text for more info .No Blocked, private calls and no e mail please. 4389377745 Thanks

Hi there, thank you for checking my ad. You will not be disappointed with my A+++ massage... My name is Vivian. I'm 28 years old. Gorgeous, I am a classy looking Lady with long black hair, seductive cat eyes ...., beautiful silky soft, tanned skin. workout body with all the right curves in the right places. You have finally met your dream girl .I great you at the door with a lovely smile then lead you to the massage room...I will start with a deep soothing tissue massage to relax all your muscles then follow with a soft touch to invigorate your whole body then the fun time ... It will be the most relaxing, creative and passionate session for you ever. So amazing that you cannot help yourself from thinking about it and want to come back for more! http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92146 For relaxing massage $40/30m $50/45m $70/60m breathtakingvivian.com appointment only, call/text me at 6137121200 mon to sat 10am to 7pm.

This thread is about sharing our preferences and own definition of an ideal companion. Doesn't matter if about physical attributes, education, culture, attitude or openness to experiment, learn and explore. I'm not sure how this could be interpreted as misogynistic, degrading or disturbing. Judging from your comments, I seriously wonder if you actually took the time to read and understand the topic.

Although she will be missed, it's great for her that she can turn out the lights, close the door and leave Felina behind. I have no idea what kind of toll this line of work takes on providers, but seeing some over the years, it can be heavy. If the fun and enjoyment aspect of the job disappears, then it should be time to bow out. It's just a reminder to Carpe Diem with those that bring you happiness. Everything is fleeting. Adios Felina. Besos y abrazos.

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You must be right on the "not even debatable" part as you never made a single argument on why it was. It's a website about the sex industry and adult entertainment. Considering the majority of workers are women and the vast variety of topics, opinions and members present here, it's mindboggling how you can single out this thread and the people behind it. If you want to celebrate this day, go hug your mom, wife, sister or else. But don't come on a website most feminists would consider exploitative to lecture us on what's appropriate or not.

Olivia, Stephanie, Trinity, Natasha (brunette not blond), Maya, Tasha, Margarita, Ava.

Saw her once. She was okay, nice and all. Scheduled second meeting and was scammed out of EMT (my fault, but did only because of previous meet and conversation)

Hello gentlemen Daniella Blanc here looking to host generous gentlemen in the south end of Ottawa Friday, March 9th from 8 am to 10 pm 1/2 hour: $120 1 hour: $180 90 minutes: $250 Come play with a sexy blonde doll with killer curves and intelligent, witty and fun conversation. 5"3, 140 lbs, 36B-28-38 (yep, got a booty!). Please text 613-714-5305 for booking inquiries :)

Keep in mind the pics are not real and the stated age is lower than reality. This is par for the course for this place but does not mean the girls are not worth seeing. I have posted some things on her if you do a search, I like her a lot and have seen her 3 times so far this trip. Like most of the girls at this place she is a mature provider but maybe a bit younger than most, I would guess late 30s/early40s. Pretty IMO with nice features and a real need to please attitude. Good skills. The more you see her the better it gets, same as most. I asked how long she will remain in Kingston but didn't get a solid answer. I would not dawdle as she has been here almost a month and that is usually around the time they rotate. Additional Comments: Forgot i did this reco in 2016, still applies. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=A&t=244324

We can go around this tree all day long. I think its best to leave this thread alone until someone has something concrete, based on their actual experience, to add.

Maybe they didn't receive the text. Some don't accept texting & sometimes texts don't go through. just check the ad and see if there is anything you are missing in the way they wanted to be contacted. Also time of contact is important, if you are waiting until midnight for first contact, you might be sending the wrong message.

First of all, most ladies pay for advertising a month at a time. Just because their ad is up, doesn't mean they're available. Secondly, many ladies use these forums to vet new clients. You have only 3 posts, which will ward off most reputable providers. Thirdly, most reputable providers I've talked to will not respond to one line texts like "hi" or "are you available". Introduce yourself and tell her a little about yourself and be polite and respectful. If she asks for certain requirements when you contact her, then provide that information. If you prefer to use a texting app, that will limit your chances.

Only showers downstairs other than one room upstairs that has one

I love them both, but recognise who's actually in control here.

Wait, wait, wait. Sorry, I know I am becoming the bain of your existence here but I can't just let this ridiculousness go on. Jumping on the bandwagon? So anyone who does not agree with you is "demonizing you"? Really? Can't be that you are behaving the way people are saying. You have how many people in this thread alone telling you how your attitude towards us is arrogant, passive aggressive and in some case just downright rude and condescending and yet you say you are being demonized? No sweetie, you are being called out. There is a difference. Secondly, no you don't respect the screening process at all and you do object to it. The first part of ALL screening is getting personal information such as real name and real phone number. The reference, board handle, work verification, that is all a choice for the escort to extend her screening, but the screening starts with PERSONAL INFORMATION. Debating that, saying that personal information sharing should be a last resort, when in fact it is the FIRST, is objecting to it. How does that not compute? Third, you are also giving those rubbish excuses. You are a good client because got invited back to see other escorts? I am sorry to say but I personally, and I am not alone, have you on my Do Not Book list. Simply from your post history. You are a person, I would decline. That is how screening works. You say you are a good guy, would be a good client but I personally do not think so. Maybe you are with others, but you would not be with me. Escorting and screening are not just about physical safety. It is about emotional and mental health, safety and comfortability. I think you are arrogant, misogynistic and I truly feel you are or have some type of narcissistic personality issues. Reading your post on this and other topics as given me a glimpse into your mind and I would never book with you. Don't worry, you don't have tell me you would not book with me either. I already know. You don't like me. You don't like strong women who counter you. So it is equal in that regard. It is just proof that the "but I am good guy" line is a rubbish excuse, just like the author of the article said. I would get into the rest, but Cat covered it. She hit the nail on the head with your lack of providing anything relative other than your objections and disdain.

I've read your comments, word for word and you never once gave logical and viable alternatives to providing personal information that has actual accountability in any of your posts that you claim to have. You actually never provide anything asked of you to further the conversation, like statistics of violence against clients (which you claim is a genuine risk in todays industry) or ways to facilitate business transactions in this industry that meets both sides needs which you again, claimed to have. The fact you reiterate you get invited back screams "I'm a good guy!!!" Men who need to tell women they're good guys usually aren't so I do question your statement of respect and appreciation of women. You prefer women that are willing to negate keeping themselves safe which indicates you target women that probably struggle with self worth and self respect. Typical nice guy behaviour. ;) From what I can see, waterat doesn't quote you at all, let alone misquote or take you out of context. He obviously read your comments, doesn't demonize you; he simply disagreed with you. Telling him "you better post something better than a few misinterpreted or out of context comments!" is again not furthering the conversation given it didn't apply to his actual post but attacked him for simply speaking his truth. Once again, the insight is fascinating... smiles, cat

YMMV means that certain aspects of the encounter are up in the air until a provider meets the client. It can certainly apply to specific services when taking into account oral hygiene, overall hygiene etc. Poor dental care rules out kissing, dfk and *** for me. There are several other activities that I will not consent to until I meet someone. I've always said that there isn't a game I don't like to play, just people I won't play them with. I won't know whether or not they are a worthy play partner until I meet them so YMMV is always a factor. It's why I refuse to engage in menu type discussions prior to a visit. If all the boxes are checked in terms of hygiene and the chemistry is there, an intense session could very well happen depending on an SP's head space. If she's genuinely professional, you will have an intense session regardless of her mental focus or even if she doesn't like you. This is a job and "liking" isn't a prerequisite for doing it well. smiles, cat

You are entirely correct Gregsand. This board does not guarantee anything . However its the best dice roll gentlemen have . Ladies profit as well . If someone inquires here I immediately look at his post history, what he has to say and well, make an initial decision . Gentleman have the same benefit. A personal example for me is that I am opinionated and sometimes loud. Some gents want quiet and demure . By reading my posts they get to know me pretty concisely and make an informed decision . A short ad with a few pictures doesn't tell a lot. Other places you do you best and trust your judgement. By many accounts here lots are getting burned . I might be mistaken but I think years ago we had to refer to Backpage as the "other place ". Now its been pointed out to me by WIR that Backpage is a fine site . ( don't quote me on this exactly. ) I advertise there and so do many other ladies that are long standing . One of the problems is with all these Hollywood starlets that claim perfection , 100 percent satisfaction , etc, etc. Perhaps some claims are true , but mostly not. What do we do to change all this ? I have no idea. I do long for the days when I received nice letters of introduction from gents and I was mostly certain they were going to be fine guests. I joined this board in 2009 and you hardly ever heard of the scandals that now occur to someone everyday. Things have changed a lot since the Bill and censorship came. Lots of old members left or don't contribute anymore. You can never turn time back so we will continue to struggle with the issue of who is "legit " and who is not. Or we could re invent ourselves here and enjoy the community we once had. Senior people led and helped new ladies and new members carve their way. I am very proud to say Lyla gave me the reputation I have today. ( Good or Bad) I earned it and where else can we have an opportunity like that and for free ?

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Glad to hear it

Will you be coming back to ktown at all?

THEY'RE COMIN' RIGHT FOR US!

Whenever I think I have had a great session or met a great woman. I always seem to have even better sessions :) Sometimes with same woman and sometimes with new women. So I still haven't met the "Best" yet, but still finding better ones lol. The problem is if once I find the "Best". I won't have the fun of looking for the "Best". But I'm sure she is out there. And I will keep looking. May take a while :)