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I think we should boycott this. First, if it's a .ca domain, it's owned by a Canadian citizen who is simply trying to capitalize on the Backpage online traffic. Backpage, while excellent at SEO was a predatory pricing ad platform that continually raised rates simply because they could. It gutted our quality Canadian ad platforms and we as an industry need to recognize our power to influence the sites that consistently give support to the industry. I also think that as an industry, we need to self regulate platforms that develop when it comes to pricing. Any site that charges unreasonable rate increases that are not cost driven need to be boycotted. $300/month for an ad on a single site is ridiculous and I know providers that were spending over $1000 a month on backpage in Ottawa which is one of the lower costing cities in NA. I would appreciate a site that had some transparency concerning costs/profit ratio. When I stopped paying for advertising consistently in 2011, my gross income dropped insignificantly but I carved almost $2500 off my monthly overhead creating a significantly higher net profit at years end. This needs to apply to review board advertising as well. Any site that promotes detailed reviews that can negatively target providers should be avoided. It's simply putting money in the pockets of those that support bullies and predators. Stick with platforms in Canada that have a track record and help build traffic to those sites. Clients went to backpage because providers advertised there. If we carefully choose where to leave our advertising dollars, we effectively control pricing. Let's do something worthy with the demise of the Backpage empire and keep our Canadian sites at the top of the SEO. smiles, cat

I thought this was an interesting read From another Sp's Blog so I added the link here. I know I felt the same pressures as what this SP is talking about when I first started up again after 15 years of not doing this. I started without offering specific services that i now offer because of feeling this pressure. I think a lot of women new to the industry do feel this pressure as well as women that have been in the industry for a while now. I definitely think this lady has a very good point. https://courtesanfashion.wordpress.com/2018/04/16/the-sex-industry-cannot-go-forward-by-repeating-the-mistakes-of-the-past/

A lot of my favorite providers have updated their lyla profiles with all the websites they are listed on - this makes it easy to keep in contact with them, as well as help other ladies find places to post (besides Lyla, of course). Check yours, they may have already done that. You can add their URLs and contact#s to the "My Notes" tab in Lyla for safekeeping. Above all, no matter what sites we use, we need to ensure we treat this hobby with integrity and respect.

This is a very good overview and I agree with all of it. Another aspect that I'd like to add to Sophia's words is the impact offering unsafe services has had on public opinion on the industry. The fact that uncovered services are promoted by providers and preferred by many clients has undermined support from the very people we need to vote for our industry legislation. Public support is key in getting our laws changed. The very idea of our indoor industry willingly providing unsafe services triggers the Righteous Mind of the square population and without their support at the polls, we will never get the decriminalization laws we need. I remember heated conversations in the private SP area concerning this and all safe providers were vilified for standing their ground and calling out unsafe providers. The "I am woman hear me roar" mentality of providers who were ass kissing to reviewers adopted the mantra "I don't like how a condom tastes/feels in my mouth" as if that was up for discussion. Construction workers must wear steel toed boots and a hard hat. Drs and nurses must scrub in for surgeries, firemen wear oxygen tanks and fire retardant equipment. Safety is an inarguable labour right which sex workers who are financially unstable will forego and predatory, brain dead hobbyists know this. The thing about rights is people don't think too much about losing them until they need them. And funny enough, those vocal proponents of unsafe services have all pretty much disappeared. I'm not sure if the correlation can be made but I find it curious. I'm well aware that we can't control what goes on behind closed doors but I believe that the review culture is the main factor in where our industry currently stands both in the US and Canada. Reviews and blatant service listing advertisements were used extensively to influence MP's into the passing of C36 and I believe helped pass FOSTA/SESTA. I hope the emergence of antibiotic resistant gonorrhea might help self correct this situation. Moving forward we need to readopt the safety standards and discretion of years past... smiles, cat

Ariel appears to be back!

Not sure if anyone else has more information but I will add what I know. I seen that backpagecanada had added me on Twitter and it says coming soon. Anyone else have any information? Thanks I found this URL http://www.backpagecanada.ca Update: I was just speaking with BackPageCanada and they are definitely in the process of building a website which will include a section for SP's to advertise and they are going to inform me of a launch date once they know more.

https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-companions/new-brunswick/fredericton_ready_to_play-3565150 This is one of the same girls that was robbing people on the northside with baseball bats and masks once they showed up. They are still around. Says she has cleaned up her act .... but do you realy want to take the chance ? Additional Comments: The add has changed but the email didn't. Here are the links to the two adds now. https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-companions/new-brunswick/fredericton_hot_and_ready_3-3572018 https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-companions/new-brunswick/fredericton_ready_to_play-3565150 Additional Comments: New adds. Same email. https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-companions/new-brunswick/fredericton_ready_to_play-3565150 https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-companions/new-brunswick/fredericton_hot_and_ready_3-3572018

Leolist is definitely booming in Toronto and it seem so from OTtawa. Ill assume it will catch up in the eastern provinces. They jack up the cost of a "bump" form 0.25$ to 3$ overnight in Toronto which is a 1200% increase without warning anyone, which is kinda shitty. However they are doing some great promo on twitter, offering 50$ credits if you retweet them and smoe share privately only I think. They also fix right away from shemale, which is a horrible slur to transgenders at the request of people, the word French was block, I DM them and they switch it. So for now cant complain about their management

It looks promising and would definitely fill a void. Thanks for sharing.

Been sober for 37 years, but memory still serves: Amber Rum, slightly warmed in a snifter while sitting on a Jamaican beach at sunset. Ahhh. Cradling the face while kissing or hands off ma face while kissing?

For those of you who don't know me, I am a mature, sensual, elegant and sassy lady who will lead you astray with all the experience that only maturity brings. I bring an intelligent yet exciting approach to our time together but can also turn up the heat when the moment arises! From soft and sensuous to mildly wild and uninhibited, I am a woman who likes our encounter to escalate to wonderful heights! My schedule (unless otherwise advertised) Please allow 1hr notice. Monday 10am-3pm Tuesday and Thursday 2pm-8pm Wednesday 10am-4pm Saturday - 10am-5pm Evening appointments and encounters at downtown hotels are possible but only if pre-booked. 140hh/240h Check out the about me tab on my profile page for more info! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=27470 Kisses, Meg Please note that I only answer the phone when expecting a call and therefore request that you either text me at 613-282-1560 or email me at [email protected] in order to get the ball rolling.

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Hi there, thank you for checking my ad. You will not be disappointed with my A+++ massage... My name is Vivian. I'm 28 years old. Gorgeous, I am a classy looking Lady with long black hair, seductive cat eyes ...., beautiful silky soft, tanned skin. workout body with all the right curves in the right places. You have finally met your dream girl .I great you at the door with a lovely smile then lead you to the massage room...I will start with a deep soothing tissue massage to relax all your muscles then follow with a soft touch to invigorate your whole body then the fun time ... It will be the most relaxing, creative and passionate session for you ever. So amazing that you cannot help yourself from thinking about it and want to come back for more! http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92146 For relaxing massage $40/30m $50/45m $70/60m breathtakingvivian.com appointment only, call/text me at 6137121200 mon to sat 10am to 7pm.

Good morning Ottawa, I will be visiting April 25th (4pm and on) until morning of April 28th am and I would love to get reacquainted with old friends and meet new one! I am bless with curves that are reminiscent of Renaissance women, a derriere that makes the angels weep (36D-32-44). My skin is decorated of tasteful work of art, while not for everyone, they make for a good way to start exploring my body... Tousled brown hair to a mischievous smile and lets not forget my impish eyes that will make you wonder what I will do to you next. My personality could be describe as free-spirited, generous, down-to-earth and easy to get along with. Most have describe me as "real". I love to create long lasting impression, either for a quick embrace during your lunch time or during a weekend getaway I am sure we can find a lot in common to get along with in the bedroom , I am incredibly versatile Feel free to ask me in a respectful manner and dont rattle a mile long list of acronyms. I do not travel to exotic islands. All the amenities you may need will be provided. I am hosting from an upscale condo in the Westboro area with plenty of ample free parking. One woman isnt enough? Ask me about my friends ! Schedule: Wednesday April 25th 4pm-11pm Thursday April 26th 8am-11pm Friday April 27th 8am-11pm Saturday April 28th 8am-1pm Rates for incall: 140/30 minutues 250/60 minutes 350/1.5 hours 450/2 hours 650/3 hours When contacting me by email please included the following: -Your name and phone number -A little bit about yourself -What time, date and lenght youd like to see me -Any request you may have -(If applicable) your board handle/twitter -Where you found my ad If by text , please no just "hey bb" " u avail" wont be answer. http://www.malika-fantasy.com email: [email protected] text only: 647-696-5066 https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DaDCEwTUQAAoXhu.jpg

Hi, this is my 3rd year on Cerb, 1st year was mostly lurking and reading the various post and threads and getting to know the SP's/MA's and gentlemen on the board thru their postings. It was almost a year before I took the plunge to meet my 1st SP. She was a kind young woman that gave a great first experience and second experience. I met my second SP in the following year, and she was a great experience and I have seen many times since, and we have become good friends. After that I had my first GFE Massage and it was great which then lead to many more GFE Massages, Now in my third year of hobbying, I have started to meet many more Cerb women and each experience seems to get better and better. I even had my first duo last week :). It was exceptional :) This is a summary of what I've learnt from being on Cerb and my experiences with Cerb women :). What I've learnt from the Cerb Community: - it is a community of caring Men and Women. - it is a source of useful information - is a source of recommended women that have had proven reputations. - it is a place where information can be asked and answered - it is a social community where members have helped each other in need. - it is a place where discussions can be debated. - There are senior members that give good advice to the Newbie's - Also thanks the CERB MOD, he has does a great job, keeping the board running and moderating the members and post. - without the Mod there would be no Cerb. What I have learnt from the Cerb Chat Room: - This is a great place to make friends and meet the other members. - I have spent hours in chat, talking to the men and women of Cerb. - Have met people from around Canada. - I have helped and been helped with other members. - Some night we have a lot of laughs. - Other nights meaningful discussions. What I have learnt from the Cerb Gentlemen: - They are here to help others with information about the industry - They are kind and thoughtful men and know how to show respect to the women of Cerb. - Established gentlemen are proven safe men for the Cerb Women. - Some of them have a great sense of humour. - They have come to the assistance of other members in need. - Without the gentlemen, there would be no Cerb. What I have learnt from Cerb Women: - They are kind and sexy women. - They except people for who they are , regardless of race or colour or size. - All they expect is for them to be clean, smell good and show them with respect. - Please respect their time and limitations. - Arrive on time with the proper donations. - No negotiation of donations. - If you can't make it please call to cancel. - It takes a special woman to be able to do this job. - The women who really enjoy this job and pleasing men give the best service. - Beauty and sexuality is shown from within the person. What I have learnt from myself: - When I started I was a shy man around women. - Now I have more confidence and have no problem being naked with strange women :) - I enjoy spending intimate time with Cerb women. - I enjoy chatting with learning about the real person. - I have become friends with several of the women and keep in contact with them. - Women seem to actually like me for some reason. - As with all meetings, YMMV, But I've learnt to be a gentleman and have in general received better services then I expected :) - Always please the women first, and they will return the favour :) - As I always say, I'm a gentleman and the woman cum first :) Advice to Newbies: - Read the above facts :) - Respect the women. - Be a gentleman. - Women with recommendations are a good choice, but in all cases YMMV. - Participate and become part of the Cerb Community. In closing. I love being on CERB, it has become a daily part of my life. and Thank you to all you women for being sexy, kind, beautiful and emotionally strong to be able to provide the services that you do. I am grateful for the exceptional times that I have spent with Cerb women, they know who they are :). And I hope to have many more great experiences. Gentlemen and women, let's hear what you have learnt from your experiences on Cerb.

Truly bizarre! It's like everything is reset back to the Wild West frontier. My thinking is that some guys and competitors see it as an opportunity to re-write the rules now. With the absence of a large marketplace like BP, everything is up for grabs like a free trade zone. Feel free to poke holes - I'm just scratching my head trying to figure out the psychology.

Just lost power at my place because of this awful weather. If that wasnt enough, one of my phones has water damage as it fell out of the car this morning. Thankfully I have a second iPhone that I bought a few months ago.

Trust your gut. https://www.pinterest.ca/meganos100/a-maria-martskaya/

I pride myself on being sincere, warm, outgoing, personable, compassionate, and down-to-earth. With a genuine interest in learning about others, this makes me a natural conversationalist. Gentlemen from various backgrounds will find themselves completely relaxed and comfortable during our time spent together. It would be my pleasure to show you a world of sensual bliss that you won't soon forget... Me, My Sessions, And I... Respected and well-reviewed Independent MA Massage & lap dance massage appointments Private studio in center-town, walking distance from Bank & Elgin street Available Monday to Friday: 10:00 - 10:00 Text: 613-604-3175 [email protected] @jackiegilcrest

Rebecca Neals: Your Very Personal Assistant Exclusive Bespoke Services for the Busy Gentleman "Catering to your every need!" Available April 19-25. Prebooking recommended. Screening required. Do your demanding responsibilities leave you with little time to take care of personal business? Do your responsibilities leave you stressed out and looking for a better way to relax? Offering truly personal services for the busy professional: From taking dictation to alleviating frustration, your satisfaction is guaranteed! When you pass me on the street, I come across as a "girl next door," or maybe a quiet librarian. When you get me behind closed doors, however... well, let's just say that the naughty librarian stereotype exists for a reason! I'm 5'6", 115lbs, with beautiful all natural 32D breasts and little pink nipples that like to be pinched, a perfect bum, long chestnut brown hair, and hazel eyes. Everyone loves my body! Want to encourage that uptight librarian to let down her hair? Or maybe you have a sexy, innocent secretary who really needs to keep her job... To book a personalized consultation, please visit http://www.RebeccaNeals.com Follow me on Twitter for instant updates and lots of selfies: @RebeccaNeals

At least one well-reviewed provider here in Halifax does (or used to) require a picture in order to book. I get why she wants that, it's her prerogative, but I'm sure it means she misses out on some clients as a result. Certainly that's why I never attempted to book an appointment with her. It doesn't mean she's wrong to do it, and I'm sure she's weighed the advantages and disadvantages.

Hello Gorgeous! I welcome you to your new salacious sanctuary, the devious den of the lovely Nora Brighton (formerly Lilith Delacour). My witty charm and enchanting gaze will lure you in to your paradise. Allow me to seduce you with my soft curly tresses, my wickedly sweet perfume, and the warm embrace of my ample bosom. Together we can plan a passionate tryst, a lasting memory. You will find my spirit to be uninhibited and joyous, while my allure is tantalizing and sensual. I live for the intimacy we share, the flirtatious looks we exchange, and the passionate moments in which we indulge. Don't you? I cater to people of all genders, sexualities, expressions, races, ethnicities, (dis)abilities, and disorders. I have personal experience with a wide range of mental health conditions, and I am happy to accommodate as necessary. I have a warm, therapeutic touch, and a very open soul. My incall is conveniently located downtown, and is accessible only by 2 flights of stairs. I also have cats on-site, but not in the room where we will spend the most time. Text me at 613-900-3251 or email me at [email protected]! Want to read a recommendation? Click Here! Spring Special(Individuals and Couples) 4 hours - $600 3 Hours - $500 2 Hours - $360 1.5 Hours - $280 1 Hour - $200 30 Mins - $120 Looking for a lingering encounter? Inquire about my special rates for extended dates, overnight stays, and other pleasureful rendez-vous! Feeling Extra Naughty? Book a Duo with my IRL Girlfriend, Wren Stone, and I! Details on my duos page Read a Recommendation HERE http://www.norabrighton.site Email: [email protected] Text: 613-900-3251 Follow my Twitter! @NoraSwitch Finalement, je communique aisément en français donc n'hésitez pas à me contacter dans la langue de votre choix! Je serais choyée de vous rencontrer.

Elite companion Mia French is available for incall in Kanata in a upscale location this April 17-18th (had to change dates because of the bad weather this morning) Gorgeous, perfect thight body. Fitness model. Warm & passionate, comfortable with sexuality. Love to please and be please. Refined, sophisticated & sensual. Smiling & cheerful. Love to enjoy divine pleasure that life offer us, exceptional moment fill with sensuality, erotism and be the devoted accomplice of your pleasure. Service: Sensual, passionate & open minded Stats: French-Latina Bi sexual 29 yrs old 5'4" 120lbs 34C Brunette mid long hair Contact: Text only: 438-985-4063 Email: [email protected] Website: http://www.yourfrenchlady

A KIWI DELIGHT CONTACT ME FOR MY "NEW TO OTTAWA" RATE Hello Gentlemen I'm your wild girl from down under. New Zealand concubine with the face of an angel and a body you're going to love having pressed against you. My Stats! 30 Years Old Blonde w/ Blue Eyes 185 lbs | 6' tall 34DD-25-36 What you need to know about me: I'm going to make you feel a certain way, sir. The kind of way that never really leaves you. From the top of your head to the tips of your toes I'm the type of Kiwi girl who gets under a man's skin. When you're looking for something not just out of the ordinary but completely extraordinary look no further. My name is Giselle, and I'm the tall, lithe, blonde you've been dreaming of. If I had to choose a body type I'd say more like a beach volleyball player than a ballerina. Not delicate, but curved and soft in all the right places. Educated, polished, with the type of body that makes men do triple takes; I'm the gi rl you mother warned you about but the one she'd love if you brought home to dinner. I can fit into any social situation, and trust me, you'll never lose me in a crowd. I stand 6 feet tall barefoot and it just depends on how high you'd like my heels to go, handsome. I am well traveled and would say that vacationing is not only my favorite pasttime, but also a respite for me away from the cares of the world. I've too many stamps on my passport, but that's not slowing me down. I'm adventurous, considerate, dedicated to your happiness, and a true artist when it comes to providing my gentleman friends with an amazing experience. If you're looking for a petite miss you should scroll on by. I am a healthy american size 12 and athletic, firm and stretch mark free. I have smooth tan skin, dark blonde hair, and blue eyes that will drown you half as well as my smile will captivate you. Don't hesitate to get in touch with me, I guarantee you won't regret it. Kisses Giselle PH:6475347588 Check me out on twitter https://twitter.com/VIPMcpherson

Not saying all the girls on the northside do this. But this add is one of the same girls who were running the Hawkins street robberies with baseball bats. Just a little heads up to stay with the girls who have a great reputation and a proven track record. https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-companions/new-brunswick/fredericton_ready_to_play-3565150

Allow me to introduce myself. Im Rebecca, the cute girl next door you have dream about, once in your life. Im 28 years old, french Canadian from Montréal with an adorable accent. I stand 5'4 with curvy build, long dark hair and nice handful of perky tits. My juicy pink lipz will amaze you in more than one way. My warm and friendly personality will put you at ease just with a smile by opening the door. Kiss? Cuddle? Light caress? Or something a little more spicy? I love it all. Take a look at what others have to say about me.. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=40938 Located in the SOUTHEND by the airport... Follow me on IG: rebeccaottawa Twitter; rebeccaottawa 613-315-6354

I hear Studio Aura is now providing more services. I do hope so and I will be checking this out for myself. There is no good in calling as the ladies don't seem to discuss much on the phone. Expect an update. I will share my experience.

I would second the recommendation on Monique Matheson. Not only is she tall and insanely sexy, she loves her work and while you are with her, she makes you feel like you are the only guy in her life. Great toned body, an ass to die for, mesmerizing eyes, and a wonderful mouth and lips that shout excitement. According to this board and others, one of the best in Ottawa.

How about Monique Matheson, she's tall and insanely sexy! http://moniquematheson.com/ https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=88392

Welcome back my friend; I greatly miss all of your good work here especially in Social Groups.

It's just a matter of time. Someone else will take the empty sit and things will roll again. Just a problem for a few weeks, both side, providers and hobbyists, are looking everywhere now. People just need to come out of their comfort zone. We say "C'est le plus vieux métier du monde!!!" It will never die and will be always fun.

leolist and vipfavours are free/low cost for now. You cant relay on Lyla only if you tour basically outside of Ottawa. Backpage is the most know site to find ads. Ive been around since Craiglist removed its erotic section, but the full shut down of BP (and also craiglist classfied) is incredibly detrimental to our income and safety TER in the US also shut down if you live in the us as of today/dont use a vpn

There is nothing more romantic to me than a hand written note on paper. Rum or rye?

A client should never put his foot in his mouth and say idiotic or derogatory things to an SP. You can never unring a bell. I've gotten rid of some clients after they put their foot in their mouth out of the blue one day and my respect for them was lost forever. Get comfortable with an SP but not too comfortable. A client should never try to be funny in a mean spirited or demeaning way or pushing the boundaries by trying to give an SP advice particularly about our business and how "unsafe" it is. We are offering a service, not here to be lectured. In the end, these types of clients come off looking like foolish jerks.

There's a couple threads I think that mention her, but start with this one: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=237185&highlight=morgan I can say she is legit and lovely to talk to and fun to spend time with. Pictures are accurate and if her advertisement interests you you'll very likely find you enjoy your time with her. I know on her Nova Scotia ads at least she'll usually specify you have to call to make contact (no text initially).

want to be a good client? Read the information in the ads/website etc. I am not a provider that runs 8-10 clients through here in a day, I take on 3-4 a week, it depends on if I feel like doing this. I am very low volume as I like clients to feel as though they are the only person that sees me. I take the time to make a special effort to make you feel welcome and invited to my home. It is clean and fresh, and has a great ambient feel to it. You are never rushed when you are here, and you will find difficulty in finding a clock in my place. It doesn't really matter where you found me. It can be an ad on another site, it could be here on Lyla, you may have ran across my website. I will always be courteous when answering inquiries (unless they are totally rude which just gets an automatic ban with no reply at all from me). If you have curiosity about me and wish to communicate, please do so, respectfully. Upon receiving enough information from my website and with talking to me to satisfy you enough to make a booking, be sure that what you are asking for in the initial booking is what you are expecting in the session, nothing more. In other words, don't book a 30 minute MA session expecting to stay an hour with additional activities for the same rate! I just had communications, over several days, in which I thought I was perfectly clear in having this person understand what he was getting into. I directed him to my website and he booked directly from that, so I had him quote my cancellation policy to me. This was done. He shows up, at the appointed time, for a 3 hour session. Unfortunately, the fee he brought was not what was discussed (and is perfectly clear in my website) and he decided that he only 'needed a half hour'. So he brought enough to cover something from a completely different ad I am running, which is 10% of the cost of what he booked (and doesn't even begin to cover my cancellation fee)! Meanwhile, I didn't take on other clients that could have been here. So, if you want to be a good client, communicate well with the providers. We answer all polite requests, and supply you will all the information you need to make an informed decision on whether we are right for you, and if you can afford our time. Please don't waste our time, we don't waste yours.

I haven't been here long, but I do like the fact that everyone has a common interest, and I am learning to be the Escort that I want to be, and there is no shame on that! I love what I do, and have met many interesting and sweet men, who have lifted me up beyond words, and I have had gratitude from them, not just for activities but for listening and helping them through personal issues, this to me, is more fulfilling then anything else! Lyla has helped with this, in introducing me to knew people, and friends, in which I greatly appreciate! I agree with Christy, Ottawa is the capital of the planet lol and just because we are on Lyla,doesn't mean we are better or worse then anyone else:) unfortunately I think people when it comes to posts,, need to be abit more thoughtful instead of making accusations and telling people to be quiet , that needs to change, but as a whole, I do enjoy the site :)

I have been on this wonderful site for just over a year, and I have to say that I find it incredible. There are so many supportive people, great information, wit and candor that it makes my day just reading some of the posts. We are a community that helps each other, is supportive of one another in every way. What have I learned from Cerb/Lyla? I have learned: - to be less self critical - to listen intently to others - to encourage others - that I am not to everyone's taste nor they to mine (but politely said, lol) - that there is absolutely nothing wrong with what I choose to do as a hobby - is that there are wonderful people in which I can be friends with for a few hours and have lots of fun with, no strings attached - to give advice to someone of something they ask that I may have great knowledge of - to be welcoming and more passionate in my personal life - to celebrate all the little flaws that make me who I am I found out about this site from a friend, and I am so glad that it was shown to me. It is the best decision I ever made to be a part of this wonderful community. I give thanks to all of those that have helped me, and I hope for continued reading and learning on here.

First this profession, this lifestyle, has no comparison to any other profession. So comparing the rates a lady charges can't be compared to rates charged in other businesses/professions. Each business can only compare itself to itself, a comparison of SP's rates to say an accountants' hourly rates is comparing apples to bricks. Also this lifestyle is a luxury, some use the term hobby, meaning you are free to partake in it or not. But it isn't a necessity, it is a luxury. But other professions that charge (what may seem a high) hourly rate (quick examples, lawyers, accountants etc) are a necessity. And their rates can't be compared to a companion's rates, and vice versa. Different services, different purposes. Think about what lower, real lower rates would truly mean to this lifestyle. Why would any lady want to consider becoming a professional companion? It is a profession that a lady gives of herself, as cliché as it sounds, body, mind and soul. BTW name any other business that requires that. What a lady charges for that, is never too much. In fact it has a value in my experience far exceeding any donation asked for. And any gentleman who feels a lady's rate is too much for him, is free to see someone else. It isn't as if he is forced to see her. Anyhow, a morning rambling RG