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Happy Mothers Day to all the amazing moms out there. Also to the fathers who are mothers as well

I kind of wonder if the group that was a t t a c k i n g the sites is the same group that is spamming the ad boards. Which makes it more important for clients to be diligent in totally avoiding those spammed ads.

Thanks for starting this thread PC, I will wish a happy Mother's Day as well to all the mothers on here. You mothers are awesome !

A couple notes from Friday - For any Annabella fans, she was working a day shift on Friday. And Maude arrived for an evening shift. Seems there are three certainties in life now - death, taxes and Maude returning to Pigale at some point!

Saving up for breast implants within the next year. Mine are getting smaller with weight loss and will probably deflate. Gravity eventually does take its toll. Lol.

Hi :) I love this question! I started this smack in the middle of the year of anarchy (when old laws were suspended and new laws yet to be made) Of course review boards are the source of the problem!! The boards have a wide reach, they can influence the readers and since the alphas on the boards demand respect, many readers will do everything they can to appease so they can accepted. The problem comes when readers cannot think on their own and buy into the long held (sometimes erroneous) beliefs that these boards have propagated, all in the name of saving some poor soul from some bad girl. Even lots SW have bought into it. The original reason/excuse for the existence of reviews boards has morphed into a place were males (only males who are willing to be part of this world) can partake in locker room talk, share their methods on how to get the girl, and trash talk their last 'mate' with no consequences. Geez it may not even be true, but for males it is what they are socialized to do. It's a night out with guys at the strip club. Men being boys ;) When a group gets together in real life, and trades barbs and 'bull' stories, it stays within the group. Whether everyone in group believes it to be fact or fiction remains to be seen but they can leave and don't basically stay to be 'brainwashed' to think what everyone else in the group is thinking. When a large group gets together on the internet, and trades barbs and 'bull' stories, it stays around for less knowledgeable people to believe. And can influence them and their thought process and beliefs. Also males can compartmentalize this industry as it not real life for them but just a portion that can be turned on and off as it fits or doesn't fit into their lives. And the females (etc) for them, truly do not exist outside of their thoughts. So because of the atmosphere of review boards, it brings out the side of males that females usually don't want to see or know about. That side can show itself when meeting a SW and depending on the person (client) can manifest itself in any number of ways. That side can be present when males want to be part of a group. So, yes, they are the source of the problem. If they didn't exist then males would not be confident asking for things they shouldn't be asking for all because they read about it, a million times, from many anonymous men on the internet. It has set a norm and has created pressure because if a girl doesn't do what males on a review board have decided what should be included, then she will feel it from not getting enough business (that tells guys to punish the word "will" by not patronizing her)... or my favourite : "She shouldn't be in this industry and should find another career." That it just laughable.

There plenty of warnings about these too. Stay away.

Thank you karmakiss for sharing that! I also just posted a comment there on her blog. Many people ask me why I am no longer a GFE provider. Many speculate and I am sure there are many wild imaginations out there. But the truth is, I just no longer could be apart of that ever changing landscape. Went from being all things covered mind of girl. To then some things uncovered, then I was competeting with even more risky behavours! Till one day I was confused on where the lines are drawn! When does my health and safety count? Where does GFE end and PSE begin??? I dropped all escorting service and entered into my massage service. I work harder, make less and I am ok with that! I now have lovely clients who truly visit for my skill sets, and they 100% respect my boudries. And by all means, I am NOT saying ladies who choose to PSE etc are doing something wrong or whatever, BUT we providers should be able to comfortably CHOOSE our services and not be bullied and pressured into providing services ONLY because we are scared about a review. If thats the case I would implement a strict do not review policy. Which I know even that would be tricky to even have controll over! Grr lol.

Ohhh hahah its in the title. escortsincanada.com

Hold up.. Sorry to threadjack here, but your comments on "these girls" are a little uncalled for.. If a guy friend/boyfriend/spouse is ok with us escorting, he doesn't care about us? You can't be serious.. This just shows the lack of respect you have for the women you claim to support here Are escorts actually expected to be loners, with no spouses or partners outside of the industry? Many sw do actually have partners, and are even married, with healthy, non exploitative relationships.. What about friends? Should we not have friends either because some are users and it's hard to choose who really has our best intentions in mind? I get that this situation with Kiarah is noteworthy and warrants discussion to help keep you safe, but to throw all sp under the bus as silly women with low self esteems, dating shitty people because they think they can't do better, is EXACTLY the mindset that went into the laws that now criminalize our clients.. Yourself included Good, and bad relationships exist in every occupation, and in every walk of life. No need to make such generalizations about sw relationships like we're some kind of non human, sustained only by our jobs.. We're complete multifaceted people, and just like any other section of humanity, we have good and bad experiences with each part of our lives Sorry to rant, but I'm in awe that I just read that on lyla

Being diagnosed with pre-cancer last summer -- but this weeks cancer screening found three polyps but nothing cancerous. YAHOO!!!

Of course they don't - we don't all have the same idea of ideal body/what our needs are. :) Personally, my ideal body isn't exactly what I described either - I'm more into specific things vs just a plain ol' attractive body. But in this case, it seems the original poster was upset if the provider was "overweight" or "too thin" or lied about their age, so I assumed they were looking for a plain ol' "young hot girl". They didn't specify what body type they liked or were looking for, so I went with what society seems to deem as "hot". ...and I agree, there are some smokin', refined ladies in town (as you mentioned), but based on how "hot" girls are marketed in our society, I used the examples I used. :)

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You are right , BP was never that bad . Actually I got lots of awesome Clients from that site .

seen her about 1year ago...seen her a few times over the years...I have no complaints on her..pics are 100%

In the past I have had members here contact me telling me that a lady on this site scammed them in this way. I have confronted the ladies (and banned a number of them because of this) but I have had at least 4 ladies over the years that I can recall that I took their side after confronting them. In two cases it was because the guy was intoxicated and not acting stable. One was because the guy smelled very bad even at a distance and one said the guy was demanding things she was not willing to do. In all cases the guys felt ripped off (and in fairness they were! The ladies should have given back the money and asked them to leave and in the cases of the intoxicated guys maybe give back a portion on the money and kept some for wasting the ladies time showing up drunk). The guys either try to post bad things here to discredit the ladies (Usually sign up on the site specifically to warn others about them) or they pm'd me to complain trying to get the ladies banned from the site or trying to convince me to let them post to warn others. My point, it's not always a scam. It is almost always a scam but not 100% and I will ALWAYS listed to what the lady has to say if she wants to share her side of the story. Guys are not always the best behaved when it comes to this business, most are gentlemen but some are the very opposite and sometimes running away is the best choice... just something to think about.