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I've never published a phone number. I've always used email for contact then once I've met a guest and we've developed a mutual trust, I give him my number. The frustration resulting from choosing to deal with the underbelly of the industry is understandable. What I think needs to be pointed out is a telephone number is in no way indicative of a providers legitimacy. Paid apps have ensured this as providers well know from the struggle of trying to verify legitimate clients. Some tips that help in sorting out legitimate providers are... 1. Only use providers who have a website. Obviously they are legitimate if they've invested the time and money to create a source of information specifically for clients. 2. Google the provider in question. If nothing comes up, pretty good chance it's not real. 3. Tin eye the pictures. It will clearly indicate whether or not the pictures are in fact her. 4. Support the legitimate platforms that have a trusted history. Ads on platforms like Escorts Canada and Lyla dwindled because clients flocked to sites that allowed scam providers to flourish. 5. Be willing to do your research when choosing a provider. It really isn't that hard... smiles, cat

I don't post my phone number, only my website link. I do this so potential clients will know all my info before contacting me. Leo's list already makes us verify to post ads with a phone number, we just aren't required to post it publicly. Only posting my website saves a lot of time for me by cutting out the less desirables. I'm not a scammer, so you might want to rethink your stance on this before attempting to rally the troops... Luckily, you have this great resource here available...try sticking to Lyla where you know everyone is legit... Problem solved!

Hold up.. Sorry to threadjack here, but your comments on "these girls" are a little uncalled for.. If a guy friend/boyfriend/spouse is ok with us escorting, he doesn't care about us? You can't be serious.. This just shows the lack of respect you have for the women you claim to support here Are escorts actually expected to be loners, with no spouses or partners outside of the industry? Many sw do actually have partners, and are even married, with healthy, non exploitative relationships.. What about friends? Should we not have friends either because some are users and it's hard to choose who really has our best intentions in mind? I get that this situation with Kiarah is noteworthy and warrants discussion to help keep you safe, but to throw all sp under the bus as silly women with low self esteems, dating shitty people because they think they can't do better, is EXACTLY the mindset that went into the laws that now criminalize our clients.. Yourself included Good, and bad relationships exist in every occupation, and in every walk of life. No need to make such generalizations about sw relationships like we're some kind of non human, sustained only by our jobs.. We're complete multifaceted people, and just like any other section of humanity, we have good and bad experiences with each part of our lives Sorry to rant, but I'm in awe that I just read that on lyla

There's tons of fake ads on leolist.cc Some are easily spotted by the lack of a phone number, others are harder to detect. Can I suggest everyone click the "Report Ad" button when you spot an ad that's clearly a fake. I've also emailed leolist and recommended they require a phone number for each ad and verify that number via call/sms before ads can be posted. I encourage everyone to email them too and either echo my suggestion or make your own suggestion. Leolist is great but we need to get rid of those fake ads.

I'm well aware those of us who have regulars sometimes gift and may take them out to show our gratitude but I'm thinking more along the lines of something like this type of gift. This weekend I visited a regular and informed her this visit would be 'Just For Her'. Yesterday afternoon I picked up a bottle of red wine, a six pack of her favorite apple cider, foot lotion along with some fresh fruit. When I arrived we started by drinking wine and eating fruit. We then moved to the bedroom where I proceeded to a 20-25 min foot massage. When she asked when I wanted to 'be treated' I informed her it was not in the plans. Then it was time for a half hour deep tissue body massage and I used a coconut scented oil. My clothes stayed on the entire time, this was time just for her. Personally, I felt and still feel good about myself. She has always been more than just amazing to me and there have been times when we have gone over the allotted time. I also believe that even though this is an industry relationship we more often than not get back what we put into it.

Forever Massage owners just opened here . They have Betty ( formerly of Healthtree Healing on Sargent) plus rotating some ladies from St Vital shop. Saw Betty last week , I had seen her several times at old location and she was happy to see me again. Booked 1hour-$60.00-session was excellent, nice rooms , private etc and no interruptions. She really aims to please , lots of touching etc . Would definitely recommend.

I TOFTT. She is a legit SP & the pictures are accurate. PM for any more details.

I find that no one actually reads anymore. Not even a short paragraph unless it contains those annoying emojis. Cursive writing isn't a thing in schools anymore. Spelling is irrelavent because wtf and btw are easier. Oh, and predictive text is annoying!

I appreciate the renewed attention to this thread and to all the lovely gentlemen that came and paid me for dances thank you so much for your patronage, however, as I've stated before, I'm no longer dancing in Ontario. It's simply no longer financially feasible for me due to the higher number of gentlemen that just want to sit and chat with a lady for free. To remedy this situation and due to the large amount of requests for meeting me at the club, I've placed a stripper pole and a booth in my space in order to meet the gents who love the private dance experience. I genuinely love dancing and the shared experience of dancing for someone, so this gives me the best of both worlds; the pleasure of the experience without the invasiveness of being surrounded by other observers. I feel this allows for a more authentic experience. Here's my website http://www.LuxeMulvari.com please feel free to join my members only area. To the gentlemen who genuinely appreciate the private dance experience, I look forward to meeting you!

Do not advertise sexual services here - you will be banned!

Hi there, thank you for checking my ad. You will not be disappointed with my A+++ massage... My name is Vivian. I'm 28 years old. Gorgeous, I am a classy looking Lady with long black hair, seductive cat eyes ...., beautiful silky soft, tanned skin. workout body with all the right curves in the right places. You have finally met your dream girl .I great you at the door with a lovely smile then lead you to the massage room...I will start with a deep soothing tissue massage to relax all your muscles then follow with a soft touch to invigorate your whole body then the fun time ... It will be the most relaxing, creative and passionate session for you ever. So amazing that you cannot help yourself from thinking about it and want to come back for more! http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92146 For relaxing massage $40/30m $50/45m $70/60m breathtakingvivian.com appointment only, call/text me at 6137121200 mon to sat 10am to 7pm.

Clearly you read my post and went all inward with it. I wasn't completely clear...completely understandable. Humans are known for that ;) My apologies. ....but, when I said, "these girls", I was referring to the "party girl/party friendly" ladies (that was the vein of discussion due to the provider focused on in this thread having a guy hanging around - providers who have guys hiding in closets/waiting outside the room are a different type of provider than yourself or providers like you - we can agree on that, yes?). I didn't mean all providers....just the, well, I won't get into it....but I'm sure you understand what I mean. I'm the last person who would generalize about providers. My best friend and someone I can say out loud that I love is a provider and I am very close with another girl who works. I've met and spent time with quite a few different "levels" of girls in this industry. I apologize because I have seen the bottom of the barrel and the ups and downs some (and I said some - not generalizing lol) of the ladies call their lives. But I have spent enough time in said lives to see, regardless the circumstances, they have family, care about their pets, are incredible people, etc. .......all the "normal stuff" a non-provider is supposed to be. I don't see my friends as providers, I see them as friends. I see their good - but I also see the bad in their lives - their pasts, the people who have used them etc. and there are cases that can be atypical and that is what frustrates me - just the inability to see their actual worth due to the lives they have led (or been led into) so far. I see how much they have to offer and their potentials and it's annoying to watch "these girls" stay in that negative cycle because they don't think they can get out or don't feel they are worth it. That's my beef. :) If you don't fall in that category, then awesome!! ....but "that girl" does exist and ignoring that they do isn't helping either. Now, on the flip side, I can totally feel your frustration when you see some dude "generalize" about escorts. It may be akin to how a African American may feel in today's society. Not ALL African Americans have grills, carry guns and are in a gang - but it is that small % that get all the attention/press - thus a "generalization" may occur. So, Joe Blow Black Guy who is a accountant and doesn't even know what a grill is still has to deal with generalizations and he is usually pissed about that. Just like you in this case. I get it and I apologize. :)

Even during the very early days on CL, I was able to sort thru the ads to find the reputable ladies. I never got stung. Same pretty much for BP. Cowboy helped a lot. I usually look here in Lyla and am now enjoying LL because I can sort thru there for the 'reps". A feature I really like about LL is the ability to sort by age. I'm not interested in the 18-22 yr olds.

Escorts-Canada use to take all sorts of time to manually review every ad and check for fake photos etc... The ladies all jumped ship and supported BP and CL so what can you do. That is now the "accepted" way and I doubt it will go away any time soon.

Tonight is Taco Night. Yummm !

I'm not sure yet what to think TBH. BP seemed to be the home for fakes. I didn't have any confidence in it. Seemed to me that TERB reviews on SOME of the so-called legit BP providers were also sketchy (B&S), so I just generally avoided and stuck with my trusted regulars. TERB is my go-to advisor right now. I will reach out to providers that have consistent & positive reviews though. I weed-out review flames (mostly from competitors & dick heads with an agenda) and see those who offer an honest deal. CL was ok to monitor but I didn't use it. Occasionally, something new would pop-up that grabbed my interest. Usually turned out to be something dodgy. It was mostly spas that advertised too but since I'm an indie kinda guy, I didn't indulge. I really don't know what to make of LL yet. I've heard rumour that's loading up with fakes & scams now (sorry Lyla - I'm just repeating what I heard). From my experience, some of the ads really do look questionable though. For example, see this classy gem: https://www.leolist.cc/personals/dom-fetish/central-ontario/barrie_come_me_right_in_the-3652320 VIPFavours is really painful to use. Slow & tempermental. I gave up. It's dead now too, isn't it? Conclusions - I go (went) for the brand-name sites (when available) I'm pretty much in the dark like you are. I skim the review boards for educational purposes. I'm a social media hermit & I don't screw around with stuff like Twitter, FB All the so-called Adult match-up sites are scams Last words: I'm willing to explore. Are there other worthwhile sites out there? If so, I'm up for learning the new landscape. I've learned to equate all adult advertising websites with scams. All of them. I like providers who put up videos on YouTube - I think that's cool.

Went to see the movie Game Night with a friend. It was really good!

A couple notes from Friday - For any Annabella fans, she was working a day shift on Friday. And Maude arrived for an evening shift. Seems there are three certainties in life now - death, taxes and Maude returning to Pigale at some point!

I have also ran into this. When I inquired she stated I had to E-transfer the total up front. We had never met. The SP was blaming BP and being burned since it went down. I was immediately sceptical so I therefore politely text back with conversation and questions. Once doing this she was polite and text back. Anyways to shorten this, I found she only answered some questions and avoided others. That was all the red flags I needed. This was also going to be an out call as requested by her. So if I had of...... just who would of showed ?? Or would anyone of ? I wouldn't chance it and I don't believe anyone should. To say the least, there are many nice, straightforward and honest ladies out there, stick with them. Do your research and read the reviews.

Well said MsManda! I have a long lasting relationship throughout my entire career!My life partner is NOT involved in my business, no more than a housewife is involved with her husbands accounting office lol. My partner does not live in the house I work in. We have our own lovenest! That being said, I tire of explaining ( well no I dont often explain myself away lol) "why dont you book ...." or awww I can ONLY do Sat...etc... Sorry dont what to tell ya all but I reserve 2/3whole days a week for me and my family and loved ones! And as soon as I say, no I do massage only, they say ....oh you have a BF????? I say.. Soooo i see your married! My restrictions have NOTHING TO DO WITH MY PERSONAL LIFE ! I have decided that this is my comfort zone, and I have decided this as a GROWN ASS WOMAN! Not as a surpressed and oppressed girl. Sorry but not sorry. ROAR

She worked Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday night this week. She had ads up each night.

Just a little warning to all the guys out there. Yesterday morning I was browsing a page to see who I would meet for a visit. I came across an add with pics and a video that showed a poor man standing naked and a video of him fleeing the hotel . Turns out two ladies took naked pics of this guy and then chased him out of the room video taping him and yelling racist slurs. This is my biggest fear as I am sure your as well. I'm sure there is more to the story than meets the eye. Just be cautious when meeting a new lady who is visiting your town. If you don't do your research or feel 100% safe then don't book. We all want to play discreetly. None of us want our face or other parts out there on the internet for families to see. Just a warning that there are two ladies who feel they can video tape people and put it out on BP for everyone to see.

I could be wrong (I was, once) but I'm guessing this behavior is related to the migration of backpage clients to alternate platforms. I've always been irritated by the many lyla members (who should know better) continually asking about this or that backpage ad ((and in the majority of cases - they should learn to do their homework - having the fake ad identified)) on lyla while there is no shortage of well reviewed ladies who are on lyla. I understand that it has been a challenge for many providers with the demise of backpage but I'm still hopeful that the net result will be better. In the transition period things may be tough. Backpage was a dominant and continent wide service for both ladies and clients alike. I wish lyla could grow to this (I appreciate positivity) yet understand reality. Additional Comments: This link is from the thread about backpage posted by TorontoMelanieJoliet and it is the simplest, clearest and most compelling statement about sex worker's rights. I'm going out to buy a red umbrella and work to do more.

Monday night, nice to see some familiar faces on a sunny spring day, got a good look at Annabella, she's gorgeous, but she left before I could grab a dance. I fell in love with the shooter girl, a bombshell girl with an infectious laugh, saw Christina, Katrina, a rare Ariel sighting, many others, finally took Havana for a dance, what a beautiful girl !