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2 pointsMost answers will vary, but here's mine. I've been married for 25 years, and my wife is an awesome person whom I love. But. The simple fact for me is, she strongly dislikes sex, always has. We were each other's firsts, but she has some baggage which is ok, because life isn't perfect. Unfortunately, that translates into its been years for me since there has been physical intimacy. Escorts have been awesome for my marriage, because they have kept me from any desire to have an affair. It cures my physical needs, but there's no risk of falling in love. I became quite good friends with someone in the business before moving to NS, but we both were well aware of our respective roles. There was zero danger of me leaving my wife for her, and I doubt she'd take me even if I did (actually, I know she wouldn't). But man, did we click sexually. I understand more than you know about reservations and being known in circles. My response is a simple one... stick to established and reviewed ladies on Cerb. Literally, avoid Leoslist like the plague. Cerb ladies aren't going to mug you, blackmail you, threaten you, or bait and switch you. They don't have "managers", and you won't see them on Hollis street at 2 am. They're not dudes (surprise!) and you don't have to worry about them being drugged out on heroin. With Leoslist... not saying all are, but you're playing with fire. I'd definitely lay off them, until you get your, uh, feet wet and begin to understand the system and how things work, so you'll have a better chance of spotting red flags. As for the screening... these ladies are placing themselves in an exceptionally vulnerable position. You're probably physically larger than they are. Will you respect their limits? Will you stop if they say? Of course you will... they hope. I don't blame anyone in the slightest for being cautious. I'm not even talking about the scammers and time wasters, it's literally their physical safety. The Cerb ladies are not trying to be deliberately difficult, they're simply looking out for themselves. They're taking a *lot* bigger risk than you are, on a first encounter. How to protect yourself? For me personally, e-transfers is a no-go. If that's a pre-req, I move on. No one gets my banking information. Similarly, I would never pay by credit card or bank card. I usually leave my wallet safely tucked away, carrying a cheapo wallet that contains just the cash for my visit (and maybe $60-100 more). No DL, no credit cards, no Blockbuster membership. Even if it's a trusted lady, I don't want an oops and my wallet falling out of my pocket, etc. I personally would never host a lady at my house if my wife is away; either go to incall (my preferred) or rent a hotel room (paper trail again, though) Not that I don't trust the lady at my house, just again, neighbors, taxi drivers, and unneeded risk. Don't use your work phone to contact ladies. Always, always, always delete your text conversations afterwards. I've never even once had an issue about a Cerb lady contacting me via text or phone without me initiating contact. I have had a non Cerb provider text me with a "hey, I'm available this week if you are" which came as a... surprise. As for recommendations... there are a few threads recently about that. Lots of excellent Halifax ladies on Cerb. Go to the thread, start at A, and work your way through the alphabet :) Literally, its what I did when I arrived in town. If someone has lots of recommendations, that's a good sign. Also look who's doing the recommendations, make sure it's not a new member with like 3 posts. Make sure the recommendations are recent-ish as well, as the lady may have retired or moved. Then, the advanced class stuff... take your person's name, and do a search of her name in the Halifax thread. See what else comes up. Go on the lady's home page, see if she's been active lately. See if she has photo albums, and if you like what you see. Some names to get you started... in no particular order whatsoever... MsManda, Addictive Barbie (on break I think), Kylie Jane, MelanieMys, Katherine, HotCarpernterKitty, Lexy Grace, Danielle, Savannah Sol (on break). I'd have included Midnite Energies in there too but, dammit, she's not taking new clients (sad rawr!). I also personally would add Alayna Rose in there, though she's not as well reviewed or as particularly well known. TL;DR: if you're serious about visiting a provider, stick with established ones on this board. You're safer, and your going to have a better end result. Any screening done by the established ladies is for their safety, not to use against you. G'luck, shoot me a message if I can help.
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2 pointsHmmm.... account created, recco given , and screen shot for said recco appearing in her ad all around the same time. Seems legit to me ;) There is a reason brand new accounts aren't allowed to post reccos in the actual recommendation section. Just sayin
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1 pointIf you ever encounter any sort of problems with anyone while working, anything ranging from sexual assault to theft, intimidation, abuse, harassment, threats, stalking or anything else, and want to talk directly to a female officer who will listen and help (if you want it), here is the name of an Ottawa officer who has been helpful to sex workers in the past: Sergeant Patricia Ferguson Sexual Assault Section Tel. 613-236-1222, ext. 5463 Or, to anonymously report to the police any kind of bad behaviour you've experienced: Bad Date Line Call 1-800-303-5407 - anonymously. http://www.ottawapolice.ca/en/ServingOttawa/SectionsAndUnits/saca/baddateline.aspx From Ottawa Police Services: Working in the sex trade can make you a vulnerable target, and predators count on the fact that you may not report crimes against you. We need your help to identify and track serial and predatory offenders. The anonymous reporting system is for individuals victimized while engaging in the sex trade. By calling the toll free number (1-800-303-5407), you will be prompted to leave a message regarding the details of your assault along with as much of an offender description as possible. Information gathered could be the missing link needed in identifying a serial predator. The anonymous and free Bad Date Line gives you an opportunity to report sexual and physical assault without revealing your identity. For more information about the Ottawa Bad Date Line, download their pamphlet (PDF, 206k). The Ottawa Police Service understands the desire of victims to remain anonymous and supports the Bad Date Line in an effort to identify potential serial offenders preying upon victims who they believe will not report the attack to police. The Bad Date Line does not subscribe to caller ID and no attempts will be made to identify callers. It is preferred that victims contact police directly to report an assault so that a proper investigation can be conducted and ensure a predator is removed from the street. Ottawa Police treat all victims fairly and equitably. If you wish to speak with an officer regarding an assault or receive more information regarding the investigation process, you may contact the Sexual Assault Unit directly at 613-236-1222, ext. 5944.
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1 pointI honestly don't know anymore. Leolist is 99% scams and fake advertisments by bots. Its pretty much useless. Losing backpage really sucked since it had better bot ad placement protection.
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1 pointHoping I can get some advice from some more experienced hobbyists. First, anyone else married? Has hobbying affected that in any way (positive or negative)? I'm happy with my marriage but have been with my wife since before college, so I feel I've missed out on some experiencs. Aside from that, contact/discretion is obviously huge for me (as I'm sure it is everyone else). I'm, certainly not famous by any means, but am, "known" in some fairly significant circles. Point is this is the type of thing could end both a marriage and a career. I'm sure the smart answer is "then maybe you shouldn't be here" but here I am so we're over that hurdle. I completely understand the SPs needs to have real information for their own safety, but also have my own safety (not physical, but financial and home life) to be concerned with. Any advice on insuring my discretion isn't violated, maybe even years after the fact? Aside from that, any SP recommendations? I've been very interested in a couple of girls, MsManda, but also wonder, if I start at the top, then what? Any insight is greatly appreciated. ~Red.
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1 pointI stopped in for a quick one yesterday while my house was being fumigated. The A/C was up so high that the girls actually had to cover up. That was kind of pointless.
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1 pointI have the same type of questions and concerns as you do. Any advice would be appreciated.
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1 pointGo read the top post in the "Warning" section.
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1 pointWell I finally had the chance to meet up with Catherine. I saw her Batman t-shirt and then without - I was hooked. She made a visit to Fredericton and I was pretty happy about it. She is exactly as she is in her pictures. She is a lot of fun and her services, as advertised, are accurate. I actually decided to go 'all-in' and went with the duo with Rebecca (I'll put a reco for her too) and I was glad I did. It was a great experience and I think we all enjoyed ourselves. I'm not one to go into too many details for a review, but I know I will be repeating, even if I have to travel to Moncton to see her. If you are thinking about seeing her, you won't be disappointed.
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1 pointI agree 100%. I have seen Morgan on several occasions over the last few years, at her Condo in Halifax and here in NB when she has visited and I have always enjoyed my time spent with her.. she is a sweetheart. Very friendly and comfortable to be around . If you are respectful and nice to her I am sure she will treat you to a wonderful time. I am looking forward to seeing her again this trip
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1 pointAre you ready? I can think of 3 places, that according to Webster's Dictionary are real... Unfortunately, they are not. Hint... U, H, and N... The winner receives 30 minutes gratis. I look forward to your answers. Care for some German today? Sacha 613.315.9969
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1 pointYou just have to wait until Mod gets to it... he's not on 24/7, and even when he is he has other things to do (like the technical stuff to keep the site running)
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1 pointWaiting for my friends to show up so we can get our DnD session started. Told them I'd be late but I wasn't so now they are!
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1 pointThey are a great duo, plus you can feel the hotness in the room when they are there. I have seen them in Montreal and in Ottawa.
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1 pointThis is interesting as when I saw her she was at least 50 pounds heavier when she looked in her pictures
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1 pointI know you've been waiting a long time... And here I am! Back in Ottawa and feeling better than ever; still the same sexy, silly smarty-pants though. "PASSION rebuilds the world for the youth. It makes all things alive and significant." - Ralph Waldo Emerson Are you feeling stressed and overworked? Let me massage and kiss it all away for a little while... Are you looking for a feminine, vivacious companion? I am articulate, put together and eager to converse... In need of a sensual, exciting encounter? Come and get lost in the moment with me, while I cater to your every whim... Currently booking for July 6 - 24th | Available at your discretion Please bear with my inability to host you, as I am still getting settled into my new digs! I will be able to host in the future, but not for July. Please inquire, and we can make other arrangements. It feels so good to be back - want to welcome me home? I'm waiting... xx Eva
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1 pointOttawa Sweetheart (hintonburg) Hi there, thank you for checking my ad. You will not be disappointed with my A+++ massage... My name is Vivian. I'm 28 years old. Gorgeous, I am a classy looking Lady with long black hair, seductive cat eyes ...., beautiful silky soft, tanned skin. workout body with all the right curves in the right places. You have finally met your dream girl .I great you at the door with a lovely smile then lead you to the massage room...I will start with a deep soothing tissue massage to relax all your muscles then follow with a soft touch to invigorate your whole body then the fun time ... It will be the most relaxing, creative and passionate session for you ever. So amazing that you cannot help yourself from thinking about it and want to come back for more! http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92146 For relaxing massage $40/30m $50/45m $70/60m breathtakingvivian.com appointment only, call/text me at 6137121200 mon to sat 10am to 7pm.
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1 pointPhone/voice calls are on their way out anyway. Nobody has time to stop everything and talk on the phone anymore. ;) With a text they can finish what they are doing and give your text the proper response. Phone calls cannot be taken in public, especially when they are of a sensitive nature. People have to talk in private. If someone is making themselves available for say 9-12 hours a day, can it really be expected that they sit in private, ready to field a call at any moment? Texting is private no matter where you are (as long as no one is looking over your shoulder). If you go out to get something to eat, go to the gym or drugstore, you can answer a text. A 'sensitive' voice call on the other hand can be overheard. Even the caller can be heard so it is a very strong possibility that the whole conversation can be overheard. Is that what clients want? Everyone, not just Sp's, are choosing texting over voice calls. It is the way the world is going. Just search the internet for the opinions and observances of many people regarding voice calls...and even voicemail for that matter. And it's like Jessica says about incalls. You pay to rent a space, then why throw that money away just so you can incur further costs to do an outcall? The cost of outcalls for an independent are extreme and no client wants to pay to cover all the costs associated. And I really don't think any girls are willing to do everyone who wants to see them, delivered right to their door, a favour just for fun ;) Outcalls are more easily suited for models/sp's who do not have or cannot acquire an incall location. They have the setup to deal with outcalls that is more efficient than the occasional outcall an independent/incall provider would have.
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1 pointWelcome! You have made your first post. Once you have posted 5 times, you go out of moderation (over 5 days). The posts can be new posts, or you can reply to a post. So post away. There are some great stickies in the "new to this section" to answer some of the common questions new members have. Enjoy!
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1 pointTotal conspiracy!!!! 100%. I mean why would an incall girl who is all conviently set up, and can fit more clients in since she doesn't have consider traveling time, not want to do outcalls? And when texting is so much faster and easier, why would she not want to talk live??? Lol I am only kidding with you. As you can see, it is total preference.
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1 pointI would assume by preference...I never book with email or text I prefer voice when giving my in call location and when going to an outcall to a hotel I need full name and room to first confirm before going Comfort levels and safety
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1 pointI have traveled into these areas. However, had issues with no shows, low ballers and time wasters. Lots of money spent on my end with no return, not even breaking even. So, I required a deposit to ensure the gent was serious, and then I get the whole "I don't know....." So, I stopped travelling to these areas. It's a shame as the drive is beautiful and a great way to get out for the day.
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1 pointMet Red before but decided to meet Vanessa at the same time for a duo. They make a great pair and are very easy to get along with and enjoy the time we spend together. Red is small with red hair and glasses - a sweetheart. Vanessa is aka Sweet Vanessa on here and is a sweetheart too. An experience for those looking for all the attention in the world. Have fun.
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1 pointNever send anyone money through interac. Remember, they will get your real name and email address. Do you want a scammer to have that information about yourself?
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