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So, yeah. That bit in bold is the problem. Sounds like the OP was just trying to say he's a bit uncomfortable with it, and the provider took it as a refusal/cancellation. He could have been clearer, and she could have asked for clarification before bailing. Now, let's all stop being pissy, learn a small lesson about clear communication, and move along, shall we? Except for people who *really* want the last word, who won't.

Very true, although I find that’s the case with a lot of newer members - ask for info but yet don’t make an effort to contribute in a meaningful way to the board. I realize that’s a gross generalization and not indicative of everyone. However, I find myself pining for the days when Lyla (then known as Cerb) was a lot more active in terms of its members and overall posting/participation and dissemination of information. Granted, I’m well aware that the new laws had a lot to do with this. Many of the long time members have gone inactive, which is a shame. Although that said, we can all do our part to add to the vibrancy of our little community here... 😊

All the more reason I wish and try to get people to enquire without explicit details! Eventho these operations tend to be only for the car date situations, its wise to stop asking for this and that! When we say romance time, cuddles, social engagement... Please use some imagination! Baseline is. It is illegal for you clients to soliciting sexual service! We sell our hosting and time only! Stop criminalizing yourselves! We dont like to answer these question to KEEP YOU SAFE. There I said it ...I feel better!

I really don't understand why guys would want to use that method of finding a date... nor would I want it on the street in my neighbourhood... I echo Meaghan's comment

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This is about street prostitution, which has always been illegal. When guys continue to support "car dates", they will continue to be arrested. I've driven the streets mentioned, and have seen the women working. You can see their obvious drug use and they can get quite aggressive to flag down potential clients. I don't believe there is real consent when a marginalized women needing a drug fix flags down a guy driving by. Just don't do it guys.

Actually, the new laws make it completely legal for her and at that point, you have done nothing illegal unless you were silly/stupid enough to ask intimate questions via text or email. You simply contracted her company and meeting her in the lobby is not illegal. The law isn't rocket science, don't discuss details except in person and all is well... smiles, cat

This is a very good overview and I agree with all of it. Another aspect that I'd like to add to Sophia's words is the impact offering unsafe services has had on public opinion on the industry. The fact that uncovered services are promoted by providers and preferred by many clients has undermined support from the very people we need to vote for our industry legislation. Public support is key in getting our laws changed. The very idea of our indoor industry willingly providing unsafe services triggers the Righteous Mind of the square population and without their support at the polls, we will never get the decriminalization laws we need. I remember heated conversations in the private SP area concerning this and all safe providers were vilified for standing their ground and calling out unsafe providers. The "I am woman hear me roar" mentality of providers who were ass kissing to reviewers adopted the mantra "I don't like how a condom tastes/feels in my mouth" as if that was up for discussion. Construction workers must wear steel toed boots and a hard hat. Drs and nurses must scrub in for surgeries, firemen wear oxygen tanks and fire retardant equipment. Safety is an inarguable labour right which sex workers who are financially unstable will forego and predatory, brain dead hobbyists know this. The thing about rights is people don't think too much about losing them until they need them. And funny enough, those vocal proponents of unsafe services have all pretty much disappeared. I'm not sure if the correlation can be made but I find it curious. I'm well aware that we can't control what goes on behind closed doors but I believe that the review culture is the main factor in where our industry currently stands both in the US and Canada. Reviews and blatant service listing advertisements were used extensively to influence MP's into the passing of C36 and I believe helped pass FOSTA/SESTA. I hope the emergence of antibiotic resistant gonorrhea might help self correct this situation. Moving forward we need to readopt the safety standards and discretion of years past... smiles, cat

We all have our fetishes so to speak. Some dudes are into a more full figured woman. But the way the Op has opened this is off putting. I cant imagine an SP wanting to share their time or bodies with someone so poorly presented. Perhaps I am too harsh.

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In general I look at the preferred contact method after I reverse search the pics. If its just email, in general, I move on; as they are fakes. If its a number and a 902 area code I will venture further, if not I will search the number and see what comes up. Sometimes you will notice the same add or number in various locations. Lastl,y if I am still iffy, I will look here and other places for recommendations, if I find nothing, then depending on the interaction I have in setting up an appointment I will decide on whether I am going to book. Obviously if the lady is well known I skip these steps.

I do occasional outcalls.. Imo communiacation from both is required .. and all scenarios must be covered.. must times if I dont know whether I can just go up to the room without an elevator key I ask in advance.. so if they need to come and meet is spoken in before hand... I much rather just keep going up.to the room than having to wait around in the lobby... to be honest I ve learned in this business you have to be clear and upfront from the beginning... and guys please dont take this in the wrong way but most guys dont really think about what is required for a date.. and how to be prepared for many situations.... (less they have already gone through it) us as service providers.. just like in any Customer service position need to be prepared and ready.. and she could have given some reason as to why she required the lobby meeting... I think if he tried some communication afterwards she should have at least answer.. maybe the situation could have been fixed...

I get that. I totally do. And you could be right. And I could be wrong. But at that point, I honestly didn't and don't give a darn toottin' crap about it with him. Why? Because he asked a question, got the same answer from me as others but only choose to go after me. Why? Because he admits he is inexperienced and then wants to dismiss those who do have the experience and label them/me as having a bad attitude. Why? Because he didn't even start with all the info to begin with and then judges me for making comments on the only info I have available. While telling me not to judge him. LOL Why? Because it is clear to me and so many others that this posters does have a bit of an entitlement complex. Why? Because clearly he is too closed minded to listen when I was respectful so why bother trying to remain doing that? Why? Because he is not like you or some of the other GENTLEMEN on the board. Hope that clears it up for you but thank you for pointing it out. You could be right and while I do care if I offend some people, I don't really care in regards to the this personal poster AFTER I was already nice. But I will always play nice with you if that helps any. LOL PS - if I didn't post like this, my oh my, what would the men do? They wouldn't be able to call me a bitch and we just can't have that!!!!

Jessica, I recall a recent thread in regards to the acronym TOFTT where I didn't feel this acronym was offensive and you replied that even though I may not feel it's offensive it is to her. That it may not be intended as offensive but this doesn't mean it cannot be interpreted as such by someone. I only mention this since you feel you were respectful in your first few posts on this thread but maybe, just maybe, he took offense to it.😉 Cheers,

It esclasted because he didn't like my answer. I was posting with another member on the merits of whether this was her personal protocol. That is when he started to go after me. It is quite clear in the thread when and where the attitude started. I am suppose to be the scapegoat of his anger and upset because why??? Sorry but I don't think so. Escorts get bullied enough on boards, I don't take a single oz of it. Never will. My first post, which is like the second one in this thread was more then respectful. It wasn't until he started fighting that and fighting me personally that it went in the direction it did. He took it there, I left him there when done with him. Don't start what you can't finish. Guess that applies to both this thread and booking appointments.

After reading the conversation ( text) it is clear that the op wasn’t given the opportunity to do anything. Although he could have sent a text with an offer of compensation and an apology regardless of who’s at fault. Sometimes even when we’re right it’s best to pay just to keep the peace. As far as his need to tone down his responses, attitude begets attitude.This escalated simply because he felt JR had negative issues, which is his opinion and his response to her basically accusing him of game playing. She escalates this further with her condescending and confrontational tone. If you don’t like someone’s response you don’t have to use aggression or condescension to express yourself or to make a point.

I get why you didn't want to go down to the lobby - feeling nervous that someone will be watching you is understandable, whether it's likely or not. But, you know, exactly that same feeling could plausibly make an SP think "I don't want to stand around in this lobby looking conspicuous if he's not coming down right away".

Please guys. When you new and inexperienced and you come looking for advice, take the first answer the person gives you'd instead of trying to repeatedly fight them on it. You guys come here looking for advice and looking for why, we as escorts, do something and don't do other. So when you ask - was a wrong? And you get the same answer from ALL the women in the thread of - yes. Don't single out one, jump up and down throwing a tantrum at what she said and then rudely tell her to basically fuck off after she started by saying "Good luck" for your next time. She spent the time to saying something in the first place. She spent the time to politely explain the first time, to give you the direction to go when you are admittedly completely ignorant on the matter based on your inexperience. So show her some respect and be thankful the first time for the advice, even if you don't agree. Simple agree to disagree and move on. The rest is so unneeed and makes you look foolish for asking for something, being given the appropreaite answer, by multiple people and then throwing a hissing fit with bunched up panties stuck up your butt toward just one of those people. This is a great lesson on what not to do when starting a thread. So learn from this in more ways then one gentlemen. Thanks!

Wow! You have problems. You’ve read way to much into this and blindly passed judgement. Piss off! Here’s the text conversation : her: I’m here but you have to come get me. me: why? What’s the problem? Front desk won’t let you up? That’s awkward. Not really wanting to be identified like that. her: ok hun it’s ok I left. No worries me: ??? Very peculiar thats is all I had to work with. Nothing more. I asked at the beginning it was normal protocol to meet in lobby since I’d never been in this situation before. However I don’t deserve your abrupt judgement nor did I deserve her abrupt reaction . She could have easily softened this, explained the problem and helped me to understand so the date would be possible. Therefore, I owe her nothing! So so sorry that other guys have played you. I was totally sincere.

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Consenting adults having sex! What is this world coming too!? Seriously though, why is this still a thing ? I really thought that Pierre's kid would have taken care of this shit by now.

I’ve met female family members, professional colleagues, friends and sp’s in hotel lobbies. How can you tell who I’m meeting? You can’t. Hotel lobbies are busy places with people coming, goIng and yes, meeting/greeting each other. Take some time to watch a desk clerk. I’ve never seen one scanning the lobby. They’re pretty busy checking people in/out, answering the phone, talking to guests, checking info on their computers and coordinating work with other staff. We don’t live in a Soviet style police state where your every move is watched by somebody who will be rewarded as an informant. Your coming and going is really not interesting. You won’t draw any attention unless you’re causing a public disturbance. Greet your sp warmly, exchange a few pleasantries and then move along to the elevators. I’ve never been in a Holiday Inn that required key card access to the elevators and I’m assuming that the one you were in didn’t require it. I don’t know why this sp wanted to meet you in the lobby first. I assume it was just part of her final gut check/verification before going upstairs with you. She’s at infinitely more risk of violence from a client than you are of being arrested. If she felt the need to see you in a public lobby first, be a nice confident guy and go along with her request.

I think the OP should have found a way to compensate the lady for her time and expense, all because of his insecurity.

If your hotel has a key card elevator, then yes, it would be the only way for her to get to your room. I've had to do this as well at certain hotels. However, I don't see the issue you have with meeting her in the lobby. Hotels are in the business of providing accommodations for all types of meetings, including this industry. They wouldn't have batted an eye with you meeting her in the lobby. It's too bad this wasn't discussed in advance.

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+1 - Same here... thanks for the trip down memory lane..,

Oddly enough, Park Avenue was generally left alone by LE due to keeping a relatively low profile. They were only busted a couple of times in its almost 20 year history before they closed for good in 2008.

Yes... Park Avenue. Lots of great memories there for sure, back in the day... Pat definitely knew how to run a business. Nice lady, too.

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Law C-36 states that it is okay for independent ladies to advertise, but it is NOT okay for anyone to host those ads. That was one of the Catch 22's of Harper gov't new laws. One that made no sense. But essentially, an independent lady can advertise, but if she is too explicit then she brings attention to website enough to warrant investigation of that website, that website faces being taken down. The new US laws say that a website is liable and will be seized if they allow to be advertised services of a sexual nature. That is retroactive so even if in the past they allowed those ads, they can still be seized. Basically C-36 has been "Trumped" by the new US laws so actually whatever is going on there is the way it has to be here. If you are a SP and you blatantly advertise it, then anyplace you go on the internet can lead back to where you talked about/advertised your service. Then if the US law finds/reaches you, you are then responsible for letting the cat out of the bag and the people who host your content (speech/ads/pics) can be held liable and seized. No one is allowed to advertise sexual services anywhere. Plain and simple. And offering services is not allowed either. It is the responsibility of all those involved to see what their actions/words can be perceived as and to prevent being the reason platforms can disappear and be taken away.

Thank you karmakiss for sharing that! I also just posted a comment there on her blog. Many people ask me why I am no longer a GFE provider. Many speculate and I am sure there are many wild imaginations out there. But the truth is, I just no longer could be apart of that ever changing landscape. Went from being all things covered mind of girl. To then some things uncovered, then I was competeting with even more risky behavours! Till one day I was confused on where the lines are drawn! When does my health and safety count? Where does GFE end and PSE begin??? I dropped all escorting service and entered into my massage service. I work harder, make less and I am ok with that! I now have lovely clients who truly visit for my skill sets, and they 100% respect my boudries. And by all means, I am NOT saying ladies who choose to PSE etc are doing something wrong or whatever, BUT we providers should be able to comfortably CHOOSE our services and not be bullied and pressured into providing services ONLY because we are scared about a review. If thats the case I would implement a strict do not review policy. Which I know even that would be tricky to even have controll over! Grr lol.

I generally live in the moment and take every compliment with a swell of joy. My mind is so busy that my motto is "I may forget what you said but I'll never forget how you made me feel". I always remember those who made me feel something and think of them even when they're not around. I am thankful and blessed for that.