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Fake pics. Third city. Third name. Walked in, and walked back out. Not worth it at all.

Sorry, this happened to you .. did he expect you to have the heart nose and animal ears like in your video? Couldn't resist. Yes, you should have taken the money..

drlove you took the words right out of my mouth. I agree. An immediate apology and insistance of taking some sort of compensation. It can be difficult to respond effectively when things have gone downhill so precipitously. @Greenteal: "He did what most of us would have done." Sadly I don't have the sense that 'most' clients would have done this. Perhaps I'll just foolishly hope that most lyla members would have.....

KK, you show your face and your body type. The LAST thing he should have mentioned was you not looking like your pics. Something spooked him. You have no issues or reasons to reflect on this. ps Emma’s response was the best!

I agree with GreenTeal, it wasn't about the pictures, that line is as overplayed as "I forgot my wallet in the car" or some kind of horrible accident " I/My mom/sister/brother/dog got into a car accident/ has to go to the hospital I can't make it" It's frustrating I know, that's why anything outside of Ottawa (or more than a 15 min drive) you should secure a deposit. That way should anything occur, your time/gas/ efforts/loss of income and loss other potential income due to reserving time for said appointment are covered... I recently had a thread posted on another board by a once regular guest and someone I had considered a friend saying the same about me, that I misrepresent myself in my pictures. When asked by other members how I specifically didn't look like my pictures, his response was even though I blur my face, my face doesn't look like a certain porn star of a completely different race (nevermind a whole other person) that he imagined my face would look like... ( I know absurd, I honestly can't make this stuff up lol) Because it wasn't about my pics ( if it was he wouldn't have kept on seeing me ) he had a personal issue with me and instead of coming to me as an adult, explaining his grievance and addressing it with me, he decided to attack my business and attempt to punish me by slandering my reputation with false claims that when examined by other members, held no weight...only then he finally admitted his personal issue with me . It's not about the pictures and really it's not about you.. it's more personal i.e. their issue, and in this business people will come up with all kinds of reasons and excuses instead of just being genuine and admitting their hang-ups, it's easier to project and place the blame on you. Don't take it personal, because it's not! Just let your pictures and your reputation speak for themselves, the good guys get it and the ones who don't? *Shrugs* Not your circus and not your monkeys 😉 Keep smiling beautiful !

Karma I concur with Greenteal's suggestions. An unfortunate incident, at least it has only happened to you once. This fellow cost you 50 min. of driving/gas plus the time of your very brief interaction. If this ever happens again accept the offered cash and also always remember the Eleanor Roosevelt quotation: "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Stay strong.

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Thank you and yes. I am interested in hearing how other ladies would have handled themselves as well, as my first reaction was anger. That is why I didn’t accept the money as it was the manner in which it was offered. He made the situation wayyyy more awkward than he needed to by reacting the way he did. If he had simply and nicely said I don’t feel comfortable now that your here and have changed my mind. I’d be ok with that. He was confrontational in his reaction and that is what angered me and as I am not quick to get angry I am very easy going and laid back. He reacted like I purposely led him to believe I was someone else which I did not. He did not apologize at all. Just offered the money. And that is why I refused it. I know I probably should have accepted it and kept my cool but I didn’t and that part is on me. I never complained about the compensation part as he offered and I refused .

Very sorry to hear about your experience. Having him say “you don’t look like your pictures” is very vague... e.g. in what way? He also could have used a gentler approach with a bit more tact. I can definitely understand why you felt the way you did in this unfortunate situation. I will say that individuals can look different in various photos depending on the pose, lighting etc.. I’ve gone on dating sites where women had posted a series of photos, and imo looked like different people from one photo to the next. So, it can happen.... However, if I had been the one cancelling after you arrived, I would have insisted that you take the full donation, plus a tip to compensate you for your time, gas and inconvenience. I would also have offered my sincerest apologies. After all, it’s the least that any respectable person would do.

Booked for a 4 hand at this location. When I arrived I was brought to the room. Sara came in and started. After 5 minutes I asked when the other lady is coming and she told me that she left already and would be back tomorrow. Ended up getting a not so great one hand massage while she constantly checked her phone. Closest I have ever come to walking. Will not repeat

Regardless whether you keep the weight off or put some back on you are a lovely person. We should all be so confident with the bodies we have. But yes, advertise with current pictures so that potential clients know who they are going to meet, because as you said, guys don't always read and are more visual. On the plus side, keeping older albums helps show your style, personality, and chronicles your life journey. Finally congratulations on your weight loss. I know it's not easy to change your life style and eating habits as I need to lose a bit as well. Maybe we need to start a page here for healthier life choices.

Also, I feel the OP totally overthought everything. The lady’s not going to be walking in with a neon sign that says “I am an escort”, know what I mean? The key is to be (act) confident in your surroundings. I remember one time, I went to see a lady at a hotel and I happened to be a bit early. So what did I do? I sat in the lobby and read the newspaper! Lol. One of the front desk staff actually approached me and asked if I was ‘with the tour’. My response - ‘No’. Then I went back to reading the paper. Hahahaha... They don’t need to know why I’m there, and it’s none of their business, anyway. You get the respect you demand.

I think this is one of those things that may happen with a provider you get to know and trust. I personally don’t offer this and I will always be a hard no as from a from a health perspective, you can contract parasites this way. If you do happen to find a provider who offers this, you may want to keep it to yourself as this sort of thing is very much on a case by case basis and an SP wouldn’t want to be bombarded with inquiries about this ESP if there is questionable hygiene. And God knows many of us have seen some not so good things related to hygiene while other clients have been very meticulous in their hygiene. I remember I used to have to have reviews written on me or comments that I had this special talent. People would contact me expecting me to do this on command. I’m not a circus act and there really does have to be chemistry for me to do this. I would get requests and they would be expecting me to put on some kind of show. I’m not a porn stair and It doesn’t work that way. I have to feel comfortable. So this topic about rimming would apply as well.

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If that is how it went then I think I see the problem. If you had stopped at 'why' it would have given her a chance to explain. (but you shouldn't have said 'why'. The correct response was 'I'll be down in a minute".) Instead you asked 'what's the problem' (sounds like it was something she did and it was put on her). Then the assumption that is was front desk (without even trying to find out what was happening. Then you state 'that's awkward' again putting it on her as though it's her problem and fault. The last you say you don't want to be seen with an escort (although no one had to know), HER, because you didn't want to be associated with her. Very plainly, you dissed her, personally. And the professional side of her said "i don't need to be told twice". Assumptions about how she/they/us should behave make an ass out of 'u', and me,... well I learned that lesson before and I'm not about to repeat it 😉 If you don't understand any of this, then it is hard to make you. It's about life, people, and being human. That's something that no one can help you with. You have to figure that stuff out for yourself. And take solace that you are not alone. There are many like you. Which is probably why she didn't argue with you or explain..she just left ...

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As a lady, I can say that unless it is clearly offered, it is most likely a hard no for most ladies and asking in a first contact email will most likely get you a hard no right off the bat, if you get a reply at all. Those that are open to receiving, open to greek, anal digits and other anal play may be open to being asked without being offended in a first contact email. I think the OP is right in looking here from fellow hobbyists. I think he may fare better in PM as well since many ladies will not openly advertise they do this and most of their clients respect keeping it private. Because even if they do offer it and enjoy it, it is still and always will be a YMMV thing. So to be known as a rimming provider opens her up to way too many inquiries, or guys only looking for rimming. I don't openly advertise Greek for the same reason. I like it, but I like it my way, with a certain type of cock, when the stars are aligned with Venus and Mars is in retrograde. I will never do GREEK on a first time meeting, and I don't want to be seen solely for Greek. This is a tough one. Hope you find what you are looking for OP.

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So this is open to all women? I would love tk try to try to make it out for the event. I just have to work around some stuff.

There are also many well established providers that advertise on LeoList that choose not to verify their pictures for various reasons. Therefore, you can't assume that if they don't have verified pictures they are not reputable providers. As Meaghan McLeod said, you still have to do your research.

"I love you..." I know deep down, they don't necessarily mean it, but at that moment, it sure did feel great. On entering her place, a lady once said" I have been so looking forward for your arrival..... I just love the way you use your two fingers..." Note that it wasn't penetration she was alluding to. 😉

I had the pleasure of seeing Camille again on a Friday evening last week. She was as gorgeous as ever and higgly to boot. We started off by catching up and slowly caressing each other here and there and the rest was a blast. She's incredibly fun and bubbly with soft, velvetty skin and a sweet charm to her. I highly recommend this gem if you're looking for a wonderful evening or to see what a beautiful woman she really is

Please back that up with stats. Please. I will take stats from any year in the last say ... 10 years on both and we will see who comes out on top. Because let's be real, we know more sex workers have been killed by clients than the other way around. Playing word games, which I know you like to do, does not negate the truth and the truth is in the numbers. We know violence happens more to women PERIOD. So unless you are backing up your claim, it is another counter-argument that is RUBBISH! I have not said it doesn't happen to men but it happens a hell of a lot more to women. I will continue to disagree on the same level of risk based on what I wrote above. I am far more likely to be killed then you in this hobby. That is not similar. And while not everyone is on board with screening, thankfully my clients are and that works for me. Same with all the other women who are successful with it. Which is clearly happening more and more because more and more men are bitching. So my point is simple, no I don't have to understand your side of the coin. I don't have to make a system that works for you, and I will continue to wish any man who wants to remain anonymous, all the best with the next provider because I have no interest in seeing him. What I ask, is for men who don't want to be screened, to just move on. Stop complaining like a little kid who lost his ball and just move on already. There are plenty of women still who don't screen. Us screening ladies are not making multiple threads on here or other boards, generalizing all men who refused to get screened, insulting them by calling them closest rapists and murderers. We just move on. So maybe lets at least get on the same "moving on if it doesn't work for you" page. If we can't even get on the same page there, how to do you expect a better system to be layed out at your feet for you?

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