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Hey Everyone, If you're a long running user of Lyla, and missed the old Notes system you'll notice we just emailed you all of your notes. We know this isn't the same as adding the old system back in, but at this time it's the best we could do. We spent the past few weeks trying to alter a notes system that could be added (and is added for some users) but to no avail. We then tried to make our own and it was just far too time consuming and wouldn't allow a direct cross over of the old system. So we felt that no matter what we needed to get your notes into your hands - this should allow you to do what's necessary in order to use either the current system (if you're a mod or provider - we're looking at giving members access) or to implement your own private note system. Again we're very sorry that we weren't able to translate the old system over to this new one, but we figure getting the notes to you is the least we can do. Please let me know if there are any complications with your email in receiving your notes. We're happy to continue to help.

https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-escorts/nova-scotia/halifax_jordan_jay_all_natural_angel_in_town_wed_thurs_only-4187596 i saw this lady for an hour visit which ended after 20 min . She did not honour her commitments and a definite NO repeat. I gave it a shot cause she works at an agency in Toronto! Disappointing to say the least!!

Here it goes- once you have logged in, at the top of your profile page, beside your handle, click on the envelop icon. A list will show up with all the PMs ( organised in a dialogue format) you have written with the other person. Click on the dialogue you are interested in, it will open up with all private messages exchanged between you and the addressee. You will see this line near the top - 2 members active in this conversation (including you) Just below you will see two handles - the person you are corresponding with and your own, assuming that you are corresponding with only one other person. If you have written to that person ( the addressee) and want to know if they have read your message or not, it will indicate under that person's handle. It will read - "Read x hrs ago" if the message has been read, and " Not read yet" . Kind of winded, but hope it helps.

I’m sorry this happened to you . Once it happened to me touring . Back then I was more or less a ripped bodybuilder . I never tried to hind that, my arms and body were vascular . If he didn’t see that he didn’t bother to look or only glanced . He left without any mention of payment. It probably isn’t as bad at an in call but still insulting . There are also the type that do this all the time just to be debasing . Only a couple of years ago I had a caller in NB . He starred , looked stupid and asked if I was drunk or on drugs ? No and no. Then he just said he was sorry that I wasn’t what he was expecting . Hum , most of my pics are up close and sharp . If I wasn’t what he expected who was he ? You are a beautiful woman so try and move past the incident . It doesn’t matter how we present ourselves there will always be the odd ass that will find fault . I would also say you should have taken the money. Love to you .

Sorry, this happened to you .. did he expect you to have the heart nose and animal ears like in your video? Couldn't resist. Yes, you should have taken the money..

Karma I concur with Greenteal's suggestions. An unfortunate incident, at least it has only happened to you once. This fellow cost you 50 min. of driving/gas plus the time of your very brief interaction. If this ever happens again accept the offered cash and also always remember the Eleanor Roosevelt quotation: "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Stay strong.

Innkeepers and escorts have had a mutually beneficial business relationship since time immemorial, and the fact that part of it may have been/is illegal at various times and in various places is very little impediment to it continuing. As long as nobody is disturbed by overly loud shenanigans, who cares? (Apart from our self-appointed moral guardians, of course...)

So last night I had the worst experience of my life. I drove 25 mins for an outcall that had been planned for a few days. I get there a few mins early so I text from the driveway. He tells me to come in. So I go to the door and he lets me in and is standing there staring at me funny. So I proceed in and take off my heels and we start walking across the kitchen and i turned to look at him for guidance for which direction and he comes right out and says rudely that I don’t look like my pictures? I was in shock as this is the first time this has happened to me in this situation. I have only had one other guy say this and he was looking to score a deal and stayed for the call even though at that point I didn’t even want to see him but I did. Anyways as I’m putting my shoes back on he was like I don’t want you to leave empty handed like he felt sorry for me. I was like take your money and shove it up your ass and have a wonderful night. Has anyone ever had an experience like this. I am the person in my pictures I don’t edit them only to watermark them and once in a while I have used filters for fun but other than that it is me. I also have reviews out there that verify who I am and that my pictures are accurate. How would you handle this situation? It really made me feel terrible and shook my confidence up. Not to mention made me feel like he was outright calling me a liar.

Sorry, the above seems to work only if the PM you have written to someone is the first PM. After that, there doesn't seem to have a "Not read yet" indication even if you have written a new message back. Hope the mod. can improve on that.

While there are many that I’d like to list, I’m curious to see some of the features some of you like about the new Lyla. I love the fact that we can click on a selection of activities (I usually pick all) without even logging in. It allows us to make an easier decision about logging in at that moment or later. What are the features some of you like?

I tried to find out how to see that, can you elaborate on how to find out?

This, plus one other feature I like best is an indication if someone you sent a PM to has read it or not yet.

I took a shot at it a couple months ago, on a whim. And it was surprisingly easy. I sent a PM on Lyla, and then texted (there were 2 numbers, one in the ad, and one on the pics). I can't remember which one replied, but it was quick. They confirmed my Lyla handle, and got back to me right away. Had it all set up within and hour, and all went as expected. I enjoyed myself, and will probably repeat. So as OnePound said, keep trying. PM and texting together are probably your best bet.

I'm sorry this happened to you. Whatever his true reasons for changing his mind about wanting to see you, reacting in a confrontational manner is simply bad form. I like to think I would've taken the money offered and left but who knows. Only you know how the impact of his words and tone felt. Try not to let it get to you! It's not really about the photos. There are all sorts of men out there and I'm sure most will be pleasantly surprised by the difference between you IRL and in photos, rather than the other way around. 🙂

drlove you took the words right out of my mouth. I agree. An immediate apology and insistance of taking some sort of compensation. It can be difficult to respond effectively when things have gone downhill so precipitously. @Greenteal: "He did what most of us would have done." Sadly I don't have the sense that 'most' clients would have done this. Perhaps I'll just foolishly hope that most lyla members would have.....

Very sorry to hear about your experience. Having him say “you don’t look like your pictures” is very vague... e.g. in what way? He also could have used a gentler approach with a bit more tact. I can definitely understand why you felt the way you did in this unfortunate situation. I will say that individuals can look different in various photos depending on the pose, lighting etc.. I’ve gone on dating sites where women had posted a series of photos, and imo looked like different people from one photo to the next. So, it can happen.... However, if I had been the one cancelling after you arrived, I would have insisted that you take the full donation, plus a tip to compensate you for your time, gas and inconvenience. I would also have offered my sincerest apologies. After all, it’s the least that any respectable person would do.

KK, you show your face and your body type. The LAST thing he should have mentioned was you not looking like your pics. Something spooked him. You have no issues or reasons to reflect on this. ps Emma’s response was the best!

I agree with GreenTeal, it wasn't about the pictures, that line is as overplayed as "I forgot my wallet in the car" or some kind of horrible accident " I/My mom/sister/brother/dog got into a car accident/ has to go to the hospital I can't make it" It's frustrating I know, that's why anything outside of Ottawa (or more than a 15 min drive) you should secure a deposit. That way should anything occur, your time/gas/ efforts/loss of income and loss other potential income due to reserving time for said appointment are covered... I recently had a thread posted on another board by a once regular guest and someone I had considered a friend saying the same about me, that I misrepresent myself in my pictures. When asked by other members how I specifically didn't look like my pictures, his response was even though I blur my face, my face doesn't look like a certain porn star of a completely different race (nevermind a whole other person) that he imagined my face would look like... ( I know absurd, I honestly can't make this stuff up lol) Because it wasn't about my pics ( if it was he wouldn't have kept on seeing me ) he had a personal issue with me and instead of coming to me as an adult, explaining his grievance and addressing it with me, he decided to attack my business and attempt to punish me by slandering my reputation with false claims that when examined by other members, held no weight...only then he finally admitted his personal issue with me . It's not about the pictures and really it's not about you.. it's more personal i.e. their issue, and in this business people will come up with all kinds of reasons and excuses instead of just being genuine and admitting their hang-ups, it's easier to project and place the blame on you. Don't take it personal, because it's not! Just let your pictures and your reputation speak for themselves, the good guys get it and the ones who don't? *Shrugs* Not your circus and not your monkeys 😉 Keep smiling beautiful !

Booked for a 4 hand at this location. When I arrived I was brought to the room. Sara came in and started. After 5 minutes I asked when the other lady is coming and she told me that she left already and would be back tomorrow. Ended up getting a not so great one hand massage while she constantly checked her phone. Closest I have ever come to walking. Will not repeat

Also, I feel the OP totally overthought everything. The lady’s not going to be walking in with a neon sign that says “I am an escort”, know what I mean? The key is to be (act) confident in your surroundings. I remember one time, I went to see a lady at a hotel and I happened to be a bit early. So what did I do? I sat in the lobby and read the newspaper! Lol. One of the front desk staff actually approached me and asked if I was ‘with the tour’. My response - ‘No’. Then I went back to reading the paper. Hahahaha... They don’t need to know why I’m there, and it’s none of their business, anyway. You get the respect you demand.

I d also like to maybe try and make it this time ..

I dont like to compare my job with the "civie" world. This profession is a lot different than a grocery store/retailer. If your worried about people scamming you and your money I suggest you do your research on the SP as Ruby has stated. I require deposit for incall hotel stays for a about 40 or 50 bucks if someone doesn't like it they don't have to book me or I can come them. Cheers

I’ve been listening to the same music since the dawn of time during my years as an SP. Diana Krall album “The Girl In the Other Room” and tons of Norah Jones albums. I should update lol but so convenient and already set up on a playlist. Will look at this thread for new suggestions. For my massages, I use spa relaxation on YouTube.

So this is open to all women? I would love tk try to try to make it out for the event. I just have to work around some stuff.

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Congratulations! Well done.

Congrats Luxe on reaching the 1000 post mark, you are a lovely lady and you deserve to be spoiled. I'll see if I can fix that !

Heyyyy congrats!

Congratulations!

congrats Luxe well done

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I cared for a young girl in my area who was 13 when i was 22, she lived in an abused family wth another sister and 2 younger brothers .. she would stop into to see me after school .. and told me secrets of her homelife .. one day i called children's aid on her abusive mother and they were removed from the home and went to a foster home together .. She found me on facebook and told me the reason she is who she is today ws because of me .. She is a social worker for battered and abused children .. the greatest compliment ever