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Gentlemen, Berlin is the complete package. Beauty, Brains, affectionate, enjoys what she does, an easy laugh, and completely professional. And curves to die for!! If you treat her nicely you will be rewarded ten-fold. Shes in Fredericton now and I hope you see her and encourage her to come back. She’s not to be missed.

My latest photoshoot. Enjoy!

beatiful women in and out! enjoyed every minute of our time together.

Recently, in the end of the session, still breathing heavily. She (wistfully): I wish you were 20 years younger... Me: Hmm.. I wish too.. But in that case I, probaly, wouldn't be here Lol She: Oh, no, I would replace my boyfriend with you! I know, it is "ego boosting escort compliment" but still pleasant 🙂

I literally just say. "if I go for a dance with you what can I expect?". The ones that don't so extras say so the ones that do will discuss what you are looking for.

Hey Everyone, Just so you're aware "CerbMod" is now the main mod for Lyla, although "Mod" is still around and helping me with moderation if you need anything it's best to directly message myself "CerbMod" as "Mod" will just pass it on to me in any event. So to recap, yes it's fine to contact "Mod" but if you need something done, or changed, he'll be passing on to myself "CerbMod" so save him the time and contact me directly.

Went to se Shantie again this afternoon it has been a while since she has been here . if your not into good looking women with French accents and awesome personality I wouldn't go see her ! She loves what she does and if you pay attention it's not hard to tell what she likes and the splash is phenomenal ! I hope to see her again before she leaves .

Just saw her. Pics are real, Age is correct, I would say she is thinner than she appears in her pictures which i prefer. Her "last name" is accurate. Easy to talk to and non-rushed and relaxed like her ad says. Second tier hotel in my opinion but in a good section of it. Ill probably be seeing again in a few days as its been a long time since someone like her has come to town. Light brown skin, some tattoos that are not visible in her pics but nothing too distracting

I'm curious what the general knowledge is on Herpes/Hsv around here, as I've been with a provider in the past who was unaware of the prevalence of it and the ease of infection, which was quite surprising. There seems to be a lot of stigma surrounding hsv particularly directed at the unlucky individuals that actually show symptoms of genital herpes (sores). People seem to think that as long as they don't show symptoms they are "clean". Some facts: 1) Herpes (type 1) is present in upwards of 80% of the adult population, it's difficult to get a precise number, for the following reason. 2) Many people who carry herpes never have a full blown outbreak, they may occasionally shed the virus/infect others, but they never have typical symptoms such as sores. This is why it's difficult to get an exact number of infected individuals, when so many are asymptomatic carriers. 3) There are 2 types of herpes, hsv 1 and hsv 2. They were once thought to be localized to different parts of the body, with hsv 1 infecting the mouth/face region, and hsv 2 infecting the genitals. We no know the 2 are very similar, and hsv 1 can present on any part of the body with mucous membranes, including the genitals. 4) Condoms are minimally effective. The virus is transferred via skin to skin contact of mucous membranes, not fluids, so condoms only protect what they cover. Hsv can often present in areas that condoms have no effect on, such as inner thighs. So there you have it, odds are you have herpes and don't even know it, even as you pass it on. Hsv 2 is significantly less common, at about 20% of the adult population, but as the 2 are so similar I personally don't think it makes much sense to be alarmed about Hsv 2 while accepting Hsv 1 as minor. I'm sure most of the wonderful providers here already know this information, but I figure it doesn't hurt to put it out there, particularly for new hobbyists.

She’s a total scam. She Isn’t even in the city. She just says she is. Wants e-transfers only. Report her ad whenever possible. Stay safe

Highly likely you were just a victim of your own over active imagination. It might have been a sting, but I haven't heard of any in years. My buddy was so paranoid; I'd rented a hotel room to see a provider and he didn't want to walk past the front desk to my room (it was going to be a threesome) in case they recognized he wasn't a guest and called security. This was a large hotel, think how silly that was that he thought the person on shift at that moment might have every guest memorized and call him out as non-guest. Your mind does strange things when you are nervous. Thats my guess. (after checking the ad, what are the chances the local Halifax police are going to go through the time and effort to setup a WeChat profile. WeChat is a popular Chinese chat/payment application that sees lite use outside China beyond the Chinese community or those dealing with Chinese businesses)

Hello Everybody I've joined Lyla (again) So you've all been warned LOL RG

I remember the good old days when there was no any significant thread without several RG posts :-) Nice to see you again on here!

Actually yes they do... you just have to wait for it.

OUTCALLS TO HOTELS ONLY You know what I think? I think you deserve to indulge a little bit. Live on the edge. Have an experience you wont soon forget. You know what I am really good at? Being that spitfire, full-of-sass lady who gives you exactly what you need, even when you are unsure of what you really want. I know what you really want though, and there is nothing I love more than giving it to you. So, you want a taste of me? If you are into fine scotch that is sweet like honey, goes down smooth, and leaves your head spinning, then you know what you are in for. But really, when I say I am like fine scotch, what I mean is this: I am one hell of a good time that you are going to want to savor. So, you want to have a sexy, cheeky time together, filled with laughter, fun, and excitement? Then what are you waiting for? All you need to do is book me during this tour! I have a wanderlust that is not easily cured, so my favorite way to meet a new partner in debauchery is easy to figure out. I might not be where you are, but that is where I want to be! Have the finest of indulgences brought right to your door. It is not for the faint of heart, for certain. But for those who dare to satiate their finest cravings, it is truly unlike anything else. So what are you waiting for? Just drop me a line and we can start planning our time together! feravitae.me [email protected]

Note though that people only say "not my thing" but no one goes into details about what they didn't like. Whereas others speak very positively about her. There's pluses and minuses Pluses - she's gorgeous imo. When you establish rapport with her she's funny too. minuses - she doesn't offer GFE without it getting very expensive. She's taller than some people expect and so some short men don't like it, she can be "sassy" If you do see her, report back, because what I've written here is pretty much the closest thing there is to an actual review on site.

You quoted my post, but I think we are on different pages here. My impression of what the original poster wanted was to avoid all those fake ads that don't lead to ANY local person at all, they are just ads that when you go through the motions redirect you to fake sites that solicit your credit card and try to scam you. To avoid those ads my trick works pretty well (with the caveats I noted). Your post seems to be about finding someone who's a good potential person to have an encounter with. Totally different kettle of fish in my mind. My trick above is merely step 1 to take the list down from say 100 choices to 50 choices. Those 50 represent a mix of legit quality providers and some local scammers, some local picture thieves, some local quick buck artists, etc. Then your techniques of checking pictures, etc come into play and are totally in line with what I would recommend.

I was in similar (maybe ??) situation in the past but I consider it differently. Of course, we all come to escort world to satisfy our dream or fantasy, something what is not present in our real life. And why should one regret if something like this happened? Over the years, I had several regular Ladies for different reasons. But with that one it was very simple - I just could not see the other Ladies. I thought about her being with the other woman and such a date did not have any sense. This made her not just regular but exclusive one. I always waited for our next date and I missed talking to her, I missed her smile, the feel of her body when I hug her, taste of her kiss, her laughing eyes, her silky hair... I have forgotten long time ago that I can feel something like this. And I will be always grateful to this woman for that wonderful year when I felt really alive again.

I posted a review in Recommendations. She's a really awesome girl!

Agreed! I met with her last week and it was so worth it! So inviting and puts you at ease ... will absolutely see her again next time she’s in town!

Real deal. I've seen her twice. Message me if you want info.

I had pointed that out previously and so far no result yet, unfortunately.

Oh, I know she's not the only one. Just seems like she keeps coming up though. I guess it's her look or something that intrigues people (which is unfair to her, of course). And that's exactly what I was saying - it's obviously not typical, if it happens at all. Everybody is entitled to do what they want with their own business, especially if they're not registered/certified etc. It's not a judgement, by me anyway, about what this particular person offers or doesn't offer. Personally, I enjoy a really good massage first and foremost. I tend not to see people who overtly advertise other things, believe it or not. If the massage isn't halfway decent, I don't care what they do or don't do apart from that. Obviously many people here do, and that's fine of course.

Need to bring back the ability to search recommendations alphabetically. I went searching yesterday to see if there were recs on a couple of women I was interested in and it took forever! This feature needs to come back in order to simplify the process.

I don’t do social media..had a brief stint on twitter but I completely agree about having separate phones for Facebook and also when travelling. I have a personal phone and have never visited Lyla or any other adult related sites on that phone. This way if you go travelling and customs wants to look at your phone, it has regular boring sites we tend to visit in our regular life. I’ve got like 300 windows open on that phone and all girlie stuff, YouTube videos, real housewives streaming shows. 😂

I also find there is another issue at hand relating to this subject where things can go in the wrong direction. For example: when a provider offers an excellent service and perhaps even has gone overtime in the session while having an interesting conversation...or has been seeing a regular for a long time and goes out to dinner with him and doesn’t charge him extra for her time because he has been extremely generous with gifts etc. Suddenly it’s expected and if the SP says no at a later date, suddenly the client takes offence and accuses her of being too business like when in reality she is not obligated to go anywhere with him or spend extra time when not being compensated. Or suddenly after being generous with her time to show appreciation for something the client has done for her, now they just want to “pop by” when they feel like it and get pretty aggressive about it. After being told no, they start to get passive aggressive or angry accusing the SP that it’s all about the money. Keep in mind I’m not referring to women blantantly exploiting clients telling them they “ love them” and want to be in a relationship with them while knowing exactly what they were doing. That is with intent and pathological. I’m referring to an SP/client who have a good connection and client takes that and runs with it or SP is too nice and gets taken advantage of or SP relies too heavily on client and starts asking for money. Its safe to say that keep it within the limits. Don’t go outside the boundaries no matter how casual the relationship seems because that’s when people get too comfortable and as they say ( and this is for either side) “You give an inch and they will take a mile”. Then people wonder why they got “taken”. If a provider says no to a client’s advances such as going out to dinner off the clock or offering to bring her chicken soup when she is sick, understand that this is for the client’s own good and maintaining those boundaries. In the end the provider gets blamed for just trying to do her job and how it’s all about the money for her. This is a business and for many how women make a living full time. We are offering a service and many of us enjoy meeting people but we are not looking to date or have a personal relationship outside of offering our services. Just dont go there no no matter how nice she is or how nice a client is. Maintain the connection in a friendly way within the parameters of how you both have met.

I am also a health professional, and I can recommend 3 things to reduce your risk: 1: HPV vaccine. It is very effective (even if you carry the virus already). The best STI protection to come along in years. If you are an SP or client (or just have sex period) then you need this. 2: wash your fun parts immediately afterwards with warm soapy water. This is the BEST prevention going. Bacteria and virus left on skin for hours will find a foothold and get into your system. Soap is key! They make all those bugs slippery and more easily washed off. Cost = $0 3: Pee afterwards. Same principle. Bugs love urethras — a super easy entry to your body. High volume and pressure urine decreases their numbers exponentially. Again, $free. Can’t say these are 100% fail safe but they are simple measures that are far better than the alternative.

I think some things were left out by the OP here. He said he helped her out financially to stop working. Did he expect her to stop working? A lot about this situation is not clear. I think one has to keep in mind that no matter how one may feel about an SP and they are paying to see her, they cannot be upset about the nature and circumstances of the relationship between client and SP. Unless the SP blatantly leads him on and taking things to another level and still expecting some sort of compensation, then that is outside of the regular SP -client relationship. No one can blame an SP for a client having feelings and then getting upset that he has to pay her for her time. It doesn’t work that way. I know feelings can sometimes get ahead of reality but we all have to remember why we are here and how a client has met an SP. Escort ads aren’t dating sites. We are here to provide an experience with no strings attached. Bottom line.. don’t cross into uncharted waters. It can be a rough aftermath. Just enjoy the experience for however long it lasts.

Paradise is Awesome fun. Accurate pics.

I would agree with mrp1 I saw Shantie for the first time yesterday after thinking about it for a long time!! I now consider all the time I spent thinking about it to be wasted time. I have never experienced a squirting encounter before Shantie and it was spectacular. Top marks for Shantie. Now how can I afford a Duo with her and MsManda? Or can I NOT afford it..... next question... they may actually kill me with so much awesomeness!!!! ML

Purchasing and keeping a cheap burner phone discrete is a simple solution. I disagree with RG's suggestion of getting a new phone for each visit - too much e-waste and expense: spend your money on more frequent visits/visit more providers! I don't have to worry about my phone revealing my activities nor identity (single) but if you can't keep a burner phone discrete then there are other areas where you're likely going to expose your recreational activities. I graduated from using payphones (ladies could watch me make the call from their window, lol) to getting a cheap burner phone, which I think I lost with a year, to simply using my actual cell #. I like it that the providers I visit can identify immediately who is contacting them and they always reply appropriately and discretely. I don't believe texting apps afford the same comfort and assurance to the ladies we wish to visit. I started a thread seeking the same advice as the OP a number of years ago but the advance of technology and pricing has made the suggestions in it obsolete. That said I don't imagine that texting apps have contributed anything to this industry - they are, at best, unhelpful

Maybe get a second sim card which is easier to hide than a second cell phone. Many ladies have certain protocol in place to book an appt. They may not accept texting apps. Ive had clients book for the first time with their actual cell number and then switched over to texting app on subsequent visits. However I won’t book new clients from texting apps unless they use their own number first and then switch over. I consider my safety far more important than booking an appointment. Unfortunately texting apps have created a lot of problems for providers whether it’s time wasters booking appts with no intention of showing up, jealous competitors with an axe to grind or pimps booking fake appts. I’ve googled a few numbers from those wanting to book an appt and was another escort! Not booking through texting apps has cut down on a lot of this as well as no shows.

Texting apps may be the most secure but in this lifestyle the real reason they would be "secure" is because a lot of companions won't reply to texts from text apps. I've read Tweets from more than a few ladies and they are frowned on. Someone using them comes across as being a time waster and evasive. Simple solution buy a new phone for every date, you could get a basic phone plus phone card for under a $100. Just as an example here is what Best Buy offers in pay as you go cell phone https://www.bestbuy.ca/en-ca/category/prepaid-phones/743456.aspx?&NVID=shop;cell phones;Prepaid Phones;lnk;c1;r5;en There are some phones going for $39.97 and $44.99 You could buy a cheap phone, budget that as part of the cost of the date. After the date is over destroy it and throw it out. Next time you have a date buy another cheap phone Anyhow, a rambling RG

+1 on this. I really dislike having to put the provider's ethnicity in there. Fortunately you can skip it if you're adding to an existing reco thread.

Something I noticed in the recommendation section. When making a new recommendation the template has sections for website, email, phone etc, plus a drop down menu "Select Provider's Ethnicity" You can't (I just tried with two recommendations I posted today) leave it blank, you have to use that drop down menu or otherwise the recommendation won't get posted. But the second thing is that once filled in if you look at the page of all providers' recommendations in a city it looks like part of the last name of the companion (look at the latest two ladies I reco'd in Toronto today, neither one has White as part of her last name) Is there anyway to just keep companions name in the main recommendation page of a city and all information from the template (website, email, phone, race etc) gets included along with the recommendation once you open a specific lady's recommendation thread. Thanks A rambling RG

That definitely seems like a very useful tool, we'll look into that :).

If possible, it would still be nice to have a private notes page. No requirement to transfer old notes, that ship has sailed, but a place to keep future notes would be handy.

Chips in a wooden bowl. Just gives me that feeling.

Im always amazed by how many people engage in DFK with high risk partners which is pretty much everyone on here. There is no STD that your genitals can get that your mouth can't. The opposite is in fact the case if you include mononucleosis - the kissing disease - which is extremely contagious and highly debilitating. I just don't get it.

there is a joke section on lyla. plenty of them for you and others to read