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Very interesting... If I could do that I would never pay for sex 🙂

Ten years ago today I joined cerb, and I can't let the occasion pass without saying thank you to my friends in this community: the wonderful women I've met, the mates I've shared a beer or a story with, the people I've been in touch with about shared interests, the social groups, and those who left the 6000 posts that were once on my page, before the change occurred. A whole history of fun and excitement. I'm grateful to you all. Great memories, and more to come! Thank you!!

It would be great if people could explain *why* it's not easy to navigate, or what would make it easier. And also say whether this is using a phone or a more traditional browser. At the moment it's clear there's a problem, but not at all clear what the problem is... which will make it *very* hard to fix.

Text her and ask her! I do that sometimes. Me. “Hey are these your real pics?” her ”yes they are all me hunny” Me....text link to her of ad with same photos ”oh, so are you lani as well?” usual response is no response at all!, haha so with that I move on!

Waking up to hear already Christmas music on the radio. FFS it's not even Dec 1st. And it's not like an occasional Christmas song it's about a ratio of three Christmas songs to two regular songs. Guess later today I'll have to find another station to listen to till January Frankly IMO inundated with this much Christmas music becomes annoying noise, even worse than staticky radio noise A rambling by the Grinch LOL aka RG

My understanding is that the plan was always to do this sort of thing in the middle of the term. Too soon and it looks like it was a huge priority and they'll get attacked for it; too late and you get the controversy dragging into the election campaign. "Take a good hard look at" in this case probably means "forget about". Unfortunately.

I think some training is in order. 🏏 When answering inquiries make the distinction between being an escort 👄🍌🍆 and being a massage attendant 🤲☯️☮️. One simple thing to know/impart is that escort will charge more for their services while massage attendants will not charge as much (one reason being that the health risk is less). But people have to remember that each still has expenses as well as needing to make enough to cover bills/rent etc. If they start asking for escort services acknowledge that. If they are looking for massage services acknowledge that too. Training involves teaching people the names for things so they can learn to make the distinction. And remember: the law allows service providers to do their business. The law only is concerned about the buyers and that is only if they are looking to buy from girls/boys/etc who are being exploited ❌. No need to allow people to be so comfortable that locker room talk is welcome 🤐. Still need to use intelligent conversation to promote understanding. Discretion is useful and sensible but clarification can be a benefit. And it keeps you safe. 🙏

No wonder that Sasha is getting popular on this site because she offers more then just a great service. I'm always a bit nervous to meet a new lady and it was no different this time with Sasha but she made me feel at ease withing 10 second of meeting her. I have been wanting to meet her for a while but I'm never available on the days that she works in Ottawa so this week I made some time to go and see her while she was here and I don't regret it at all, if only I could see her on my best day(Saturday) nobody else here could see her on that day. Here is something else that impressed me about her, she likes to laugh and she will not rush you. I felt like she enjoyed herself just as much as I did and that means a lot to me. I have to mention that while I'm with a fine lady like Sasha I like to feel her body and let me tell you that her skin was so soft, I could have rubbed it all day long. Sasha get a top Notch seal of approval from me.

I share the frustrations, although I find it has improved a lot since the original changeover. For me the major issue is that it is still so difficult to do searches. This is so important to a site like this. It is so much harder to find information on sp's which is the main reason a lot of people come here. It's possible to search a specific discussion forum for posts from a laptop or a PC, but very difficult from a mobile. (Which statistically is by far the most common way of viewing sites now.) Even on my laptop, the results are confusing as it will bring up multiple posts from the same discussion, but at least I'm not searching the whole site for information on a local lady like I would be on a mobile. The recommendation threads have the same difficulties. People can post in them but it's really hard to search them. This not only makes them far less useful, but results in multiple threads for the same lady as posters will simply start a new thread instead of finding and adding to existing ones. This only adds to the confusion. I did really like the old version's alphabetical listings, although even more important is the ability to search by name in the forum. I avoid using the site from my mobile when I can because of this now, which means less opportunity to use the site. I think better search functionality should be the number one priority for improvement in the site. Not a lot of point in a recommendation site if you can't actually search for recommendations. Just click on the words: "Halifax (and other areas of NS)" It will open them up in bullet form like the old format. It doesn't seem to make sense to require the extra click here but if there were more than 1 area in NS to choose from, it would make more sense. (Look at the the way the Ontario section is broken down. It has many to choose from, that you can then click further on and open up.) Hope this helps.

Agreed. Although I am a hypocrite for wanting less nudity in the general discussion areas so I can sneak on the site from work. 🙂

At least there’s the London Ontario court challenge coming up in February.... If the court strikes down the third party advertising provision, perhaps it will create further impetus for change by way of additional challenges to the law.

Congratz, Cato, on this your tenth anniversary! I'll reach that milestone next June as well. But in comparison, you're a legend here while I am a relatively unknown which is fine with me. 😉 Despite that, I am glad to say that we do share some fondness for some wonderful ladies here - think Peachy ( now Willow Samoan), think Nikky Fox, Sadie Banks, Claire.... 😉 BTW, I got in touch (via email) with Nikky in Montreal recently, and she told me she was contemplating a comeback. FYI.

Hello gentleman . Allie here👋🏾💋 Just thought I would jump into the conversation and say hello. Thank you for the inquires and for the positive comments. Very sweet. i currently reside in Thunder Bay have a fairly flexible schedule so if it’s information you seek or if would like to make arrangements to spend some time together feel free to give me a call. 807-633-0469. I am very easy going lady.; always happy to chat and answer any questions you may have regarding myself, rates, services provided, restrictions, health and safety, location, fetishes, naughty details etc. and/or any special requests you may have in mind. I’m just text or phone call away. For those seeking first encounter... look forward to meeting you and for those I’ve had the pleasure of meeting already....I look forward to seeing you again. Sexy snuggles gentlemen Stay warm and have a naughty but nice November Always Allie💋

https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-massage/northern-ontario/thunder_bay_sexy_melt_in_your_mouth_mocha-3542782 Anyone visit Allie? She's been around a good while, thinking there must be someone out there. I enjoy some of the ladies closer to my age, they are usually better than the young ones.

Booked her for tomorrow, will sum up the experience after.

I was there this afternoon and had a couple of dances with 'Ritchie' or 'Richie' or something like that. Pleasant, attractive, wearing a sexy negligee etc but not very passionate.

While I would like to think that was true I don't have much confidence that they will do anything especially heading into an election on Oct 19th. The only real hope is that the liberals win and deal with it in their 1st year.

Very true, and as you said... very unfortunate. It will be interesting to see what the new year brings... After all, Trudeau’s Justice Minister did say she was going to take a hard look at C-36 in 2019 - hopefully something will come of that...

One turn on for me: Using markers to draw Toad from Mario Kart 😂 as long as he doesn't call me horseface... 🤭... that would be a turn-off

The answer would be... Yes.. 😉

I have normally booked longer appointment and repeated with ladies over time because some of the best elements of sex is all the elements leading up to the actual sex.... I include in that the chat with the lady before the actual meeting... the buildup of that sexual tension and excitement as a result of the anticipation... the learning what make your partners heart start to race... where to touch... where to lick the devil of great sex like most things is in the details. I have found that booking 2hr appointments when I can is spectacular because it give you tile to chat ... to touch ... to take the time to breath her in as you hug and kiss her neck... you can have a drink and learn about each other... one of my best sessions was with a lady when we met at a rented condo with a deck and cooked together... BBQed Tenderloin and grilled vegetables... we ate on the deck then went inside and sat by the fire for some amazing foreplay... followed by an hour of fun in the bedroom... spectactular. Sex acts are of course great fun... but when you get fucked mentally before your have sex... Wow Just my Opinion

No I agree I just think that a lot of individuals see their risk having increased due to the possibility of a criminal record for meeting a sex worker. As a result some have left the industry as clients or have limited their booking to existing known ladies and are less likely to meet a new lady. Guys don't need to ask pointed risky questions to find out what they need to know but I think in some ways the push to get guys to be careful has also resulted in scaring them away. It's unfortunate that PM Trudeau has not legalized sex work and in doing so make it a much safer market place for everOne. Lyla has suffered because it's a sex site that basicly does not allow members to actually talk about sex so it has watered down to AD's picture threads, joke threads etc. (Not looking down on those threads just saying that's what left.

First, I read the article with attention to be sure to know what we're talking about. 😄 From my point of view in this line of activity, "emotional labour" will begin at the minute there is something "unpleasant" that will happen, and that you will decided to just act as nothing happened just to keep the encounter on a more positive note. I do have quite a good tolerance, understanding that sometimes, I am exactly there to help someone changing/improving/putting more positivity in his life, giving him a break of his day-to-day life, helping to recharge his battery. That could be part of the "job description" The hardest for me it's not that ... It's when I can realized clearly that the person in face of me couldn't care less for me as a human, and is explicitly "chosifying" myself "in my face", without this being part of a kind of role-play agreed in advance together, but as a real bad attitude toward me. It could happen, sometimes, that even with a proper screening, someone of this kind will succeed to go through and have an encounter. Of course! they are not dangerous, don't harm or nothing, so some ladies will give an "ok" as a reference because those ladies just don't mind this kind of "chosifying attitude". I'm trying to put my own preferences of type of encounters in evidence in my ads and website, but a problem that is more and more common is the lack of reading. A large proportion of eventual clients are seeing a picture, a phone number or an email, and bang! here we go, they contact right away without verifying further if the lady in question will "fit" with what they're looking for. I think the human factor should be considered. Not all humans, not all men & not all women just feel & want to live the same in "encounters". Some just want to "do the deed" and some other's want a warm contact. :) Nothing is a worst match to mix both type of personality because it brings emotional labour then. People would say "that's normal" in each work... but I will say that to be able to keep our sanity in the long run in this field, just do all you can to avoid this mixmatch. IF not, you will finished to "f..k up" your sexuality and your interpersonal rapport to others.

Hi Meg, believe me, your not alone on this. I think, more than we think, gets Frustrated with the Navigation...Since the changes on Lyla. I for one, is with you, not sure on how or what I'm doing at times. I was away for a bit, came back, here's Lyla.. not Cerb. But that's okay. "We Can Do This"! I am with you Meg, your not alone! You've been a Verified Member for too long, don't let the change, discourage you.. "We Can Do This Together"... Katie xoxo's ;)

Ive seen her a few times a bit of a clock watcher but that said every thing else was great her pics are a bit outdated but i still think she looks great would recommend and have seen her more than once

Good afternoon, Has anyone had the pleasure of getting together with Ally? I have been in contact with her, but always like to be aware of things like, location etc.... Would appreciate any information. Thanks, AN