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I think sometimes the age thing can be a bi-product of the clients in this biz and some of the review boards that cater to the misogynists out there. I can somewhat understand a ladies desire to maximize her clients potential. And there are a lot of guys out there who are looking for that ego boost of being with a young 20 something woman with that certain look. Having said that, I sometimes think an escort has to take a step back for just a minute and decide if these are really the type of clients she wants. I think embracing her age could be beneficial for her to attract clients that respect her for more than just a hot body and sexual skill. For some of us and I know we are likely in the minority, we embrace a woman's other attributes. Her inner confidence, honesty and down to earth qualities as well as the outer beauty. For me, at least, I enjoy the company of women of all ages, body types, race, whatever because I look deeper than just the image and age. I would never tell an escort how to run her own business model but maybe she just has to adjust that from time to time. I don't really know anything though.

I guess my point was why try to improve a model that worked really well? Sometimes change is not better! Maybe an old school view but...

Id like to mention on a personal level that I had a wonderful experience with @Katherine in a duo, you definitely won't go wrong there also. And like I said our part of the world is full of wonderful ladies. So please support them.

#waitingforsmile #worththewait #fuckyes

I don't know the lady but from reading that, "feisty" might be understating things. I'm not one to believe in total political correctness but she appears to have no filter and appears to get angry rather easily. And I agree with RG on the trust factor if she revealed anything confidential in nature. Maybe I'm off base about her though. It isn't a good look though.

Yeah, 26 is far from a teenager and her being so defensive would always be a turn off for me. I won't ask the details of the exchange and won't make judgements either but sometimes how we handle these things says a lot too. I also think there are always ways to advertise subtly without committing to a specific age group. For example, I've seen several women who have advertised as a "young looking, mature companion". I realize that for some clients, that might be a little too obscure but at least, we might not be as surprised. Last year, I did have an occasion to have a date with a lady who advertised she was in her 40's. She could have easily passed for a woman in her 30's imo but during our date, she admitted to me that she was actually 52. With our conversation and chemistry, she felt that she could be honest with me without me being upset. She was right, of course and it was a fantastic encounter for both of us. Now, with someone else, that could have turned out completely different so I guess we have to take that for what it is.

For me at least, just going back to my civy days of dating, some women 'um how shall we say, adjusted their ages early on. I think, and I'm no expert here, but women believe all guys want younger women. So I assume a lady's age when first given is two or three years younger. And I can understand from a privacy point of view a companion doesn't want her "companion age" to be the exact same as her "real age" But a companion 25 years old in 2010 should have adjusted her website to show she is 32 years old now (my math is right here isn't it? LOL) even if her companion age was a year or two younger than her real age. And potential clients may just remember (I did) her posted age. And just my opinion but I do believe age is more an issue for ladies. Clients, well most clients would be happy seeing companions in their 30s, 40s and 50s. It's just their are some companions that believe all guys want girls in their early 20s. At least that's just my speculation here, I may be wrong and stand to be corrected if so As for photos, again in the three cases (and no I'm not naming names) they are using the photos they had in 2010-2011. I'm not dumb, I saw their sites back 2010-2011 and in fact booked one of the ladies in 2010. The fact they all were in my memory and it's 2018 and I know all about getting older, why use older pictures. JMO but shouldn't a companion update her website photo albums? Even if using selfies from a smartphone if she doesn't want to have a photo shoot done. Just a continued rambling from a client who won't book those three ladies because he doesn't really have an idea now who he'd be booking RG

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You sent a PM ... and the only way to reach her is email? That means she wants to be contacted by email I'm thinking... so PM is not the way the she wants to be contacted and you chose that way to contact her?

@ Greenteal. 😊 Who May this friend be that is posting ancient pics.? A lot can happen in just a few years. Perhaps I will point her towards this thread !! 😊 This friend may be an old one because we don’t agree on certain buisness practices !

Let's go way back when Idol was real punk!

When one opportunity closes another opens, or maybe that's legs, I forget. Remember, variety is the spice of life!

I am overwhelmed by the kind regard that you have all put forward. Thank-you I think it is wise after all to let the matter go. We are all subject to more than enough pain in this short period of existence. I would only cause her unnecessary stress if I inquired once again. Something must have happened to trigger a response and it would be selfish of me to cause further harm, justified or otherwise, to satisfy my curiosity. It is shameful for me to simply walk away from a bad feeling that I may have inflicted but I am of course hopeful that it was simply an error that resulted in my being blocked. It may seem like an unfair circumstance but accidents do happen or God forbid, There may be a horrible aspect of my persona unbeknownst to me. This is a new experience for me. I have always maintained respectful relations throughout my life and I have valued each and every one of them deeply. I have found the delightful openness of the ladies I have had the pleasure to meet the most rewarding part of the experience. I wish the best for each of these wonderful and unique spirits. I thank the community for helping me see clearly the most correct and decent course of action to take. Best to all during this holiday season.

Beautiful smiles, both the vertical and horizontal one !

One of the things I always thought but was clearly shown to be true through my involvement in this industry is that Age is just a number. I have met ladies on here who are in their 50's and who have bodies and stamina of people 30 younger and life experience that significantly adds to the time I have spent with them. If you don't believe me meet with Bianca Jaguar So when it comes to pictures and ages on websites I of course think they should be kept up to date but frankly if a lady fibs about her age I won't care as long as the age she suggests is realistic for her. I love when a lady has lots of pictures and it is great if they are new but as long as they fairly represent what she looks like I am OK if they're older. Let's face it getting professional pictures done is expensive so I understand using them but selfies are great too. My Recommendation to ladies is to use the pictures that best represent them and if they are older just say that on the site. To be honest with you I am just really glad that's clients don't have to submit photos to be judged before a booking is confirmed. I have a feeling I would have to use really old pictures. Just my Opinion

There's no harm in following up after a couple of days (or even a full day), I think, provided you do it right. "Hey, I was wondering if you got my mail" is OK. "Why didn't you reply to me?" will make you look like an entitled asshole, which is probably not what you want :)

I really hate to say this but this is where review boards has brought us . In my opinion things are far out of control , way out of control . I could be wrong about my assumptions but.... With all the review boards may I say with many ladies 0ffering service, some imply if you don't offer this service someone else will . As a provider someone had the audacity to question my services . Although I don't have a menu I have some strict no - nos. Some prince emailed me the other day and his main concern was if I offered anal ? When I politely declined he wanted to know why which is none of his business at all . I thanked him for his inquiry and expected this to be the end. Then the texts and phone calls , why, why , not? I'm sure he would be a treat . My expected donation is in the upper range just so I don't have to deal with ignorance and entitled . Sadly, you could ask anything and will still have entitled men that seem to feel extra special . Even though my donations are clearly noted on my website I'm still asked for " special consideration " . Because of course this " gentleman is well hung " . Or gorgeous and it will be my pleasure so see him for less . He doesn't get my mortgage, day to day living and just the running of my life . But oh , don't forget he is awesome and will even pay for my dinner ( FOR FREE ) . This conversation never ends well at all :( I wonder if I can call the bank ? Could I inform the manager I'm a leading lady in Canada with many positive reviews . I'm sure I could get him to do something to help me . Because , well I'm special after all ? Oh and mine own opinion, beautiful and skilled ? LOL , let me call tomorrow , perhaps they ( might ) cancel my mortgage . Gee, I'm so special they may write it off . That was a nice dream , however I live in reality. I am in a place in life where I hardly advertise unless I happen to be around .( 0r travelling ) Because of course all the genius ( men) don't seen to be able to have time to visit my site . Why even LeoList gives hints and tips and how to make a polite inquiry . Where did all the polite gentlemen go ? I and many others are used to a nice letter of introduction with name rank and serial number . They had visited my site already and wanted to book T

Met with this lovely woman a few days ago and she was absolutely perfect! Location was perfect, extremely polite and friendly, won’t go into details, but three days later and still can’t stop thinking about the encounter. will 100% repeat!

When someone contacts me demanding these specialized services, it's a deal breaker for me. It's not the services that's the issue, as I thoroughly love providing them, to those I feel a mutual connection with. However someone making demands, before I've ever met them, I pass. It's a screening process that has never failed me. However, the whole industry in on a downward spiral due to this type of mentality. Riskier behaviors that risk the whole community.

Also VIP Favours https://www.vipfavours.ch/ might assist And I believe CAF (Canadian Adult Fun) has a western Canada focus including Vancouver RG

This is a very common thing with the ladies... Always looking for the "Reason" the business gets slow at times and always looking for answers as to why they get no shows and cancellation more at different times of the year. Most NO SHOWS can be stopped by screening your calls properly. Use the Caller ID and CALL BACK the number to verify it. Most guys will not pull a NO SHOW on someone without having the decency to call and properly cancel if you have their number. They know that come appointment time one very upset SP is going to give them a call asking WTF! It's not 100% but it sure helps for those who screen calls. It also makes the call a little more safer as that phone number is now a connection between the guy and the lady... I doubt someone dangerous is going to want to leave a number that can be traced back to them. Most of the ladies look for reasons when things are slow. I guess most of us do that when the business we are in takes a drop in sales/traffic/work load/etc.... You can spend a good portion of your day trying to figure this one out but it's not really worth the effort. It's WAY easier to just plan for these lows (Put some money aside for the slow periods) and just accept that this is part of EVERY business and it will happen. Stop stressing out and trying to point a finger at what you think is causing the slowness as your just going to convince yourself of something that is probably not correct. We have been tracking patterns in this industry since 1996 and the answer for this is... (Drum roll please)... It has no pattern EXCEPT for a few obvious LOW spots. 1) The end of Aug is SLOW every year! (Kids out of school, getting ready to go back to school, family summer vacations, etc...) This is the most popular summer weekend in the tourist industry!! 2) 1 week before and 1 week after Xmass (No need to explain this one right?) New years day too? NOT... 3) January/February for 2 weeks every year (We sum this up to winter blues and getting your credit card statements from Xmass! but we never know what two weeks it will be but for sure 2 weeks around this time it does drop... one year we did not see this and come April we saw a real low drop for 2 weeks and that was obvious weather patterns (Long winter/early spring ... warm winter/cold spring etc...) it does effect this business and you never know when this is coming exactly... so just put some cash aside for these times. 4) First nice weekend of spring (A lot of the ladies take this time off too) 5) Thanksgiving, Easter, Valentines, long weekends, really large sporting events (etc)... they also effect the business. The rest has NO identifiable pattern. You can try to blame it on the economy as a low economy brings more people into this business causing more competition and the overall amount of "Recreational money" the guys have gets a lot smaller so yes the economy does effect it but a low economy BUT it also brings more guys (New guys) in to the mix as well so it's not hit as hard as one would assume. Remember money and sex are the two big things couples fight about... When the economy drops and the money gets tight the stress levels go up, the fighting between couples goes up and the sex stops!! FACT OF LIFE... and I hate to admit it but that is good for this business for all you ladies!! When economy starts to get good again business will decrease a little at first! It's OPPOSITE of what everyone ASSUMES! As for NO SHOWS... This time of year it will obviously be higher. Kids are still home from school, Family vacations, relatives coming for visits, back to school shopping, etc.. etc... and all those people taking time OFF work for family vacations makes other people have to work more (Overtime to cover shifts, higher work loads, etc) it's all relevant.... A lot of LAST MINUTE things come up this time of the year for the "Family Man" and well... kids and family (for most people) come first so recreational visits take a back seat so stuff will get canceled more this time of year. Picture this... The guy is all ready to come see the lady he has chosen and the door bell rings and it's his brother or uncle or who knows who just "DROPS BY" for a visit... URH!? Probably with his annoying kids and wife... (Many of us have been in similar situations) This happens EVERY YEAR... Come September 17th (Or around that time) once the kids are back in school and the routine is back... things will pick up. Summer sucks as a lot more things can get in the way or throw a guys schedule off. Don't spend all your time looking for reasons why the business slows down.... it happens to EVERY PROVIDER & EVERY BUSINESS ... It can not be busy 100% of the time and it does take a little planning and anticipation.