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So, in the course of my day, I see men who are married, into their 40's-70's, who say basically the same thing. "I'm married, however, our sex life is non existant". On the flip side, I talk to women in the same age bracket, who say "sex isn't important anymore. I've raised my kids, so the need for sex isn't there anymore", "my body just doesn't enjoy it". When I question this, they generally have a few things in common. Sex became routine. She never really had a real orgasm. Hubby just points to junior and gives a wink wink nudge nudge and thinks that what happened in their twenties will keep happening. So, I've asked some of these women, what do you want? Replies include, " I want him to do the wooing and sweep me away". "I keep reading these stories of lovers who don't want anything in return, just worship their lady lover for entire encounter", "I just wish he would try something new, if I try something new, he immediately gets defensive thinking I've learnt this from someone else". That's the gist. Many of these women don't masterbate, as they've always felt "dirty", so don't even really know what their bodies like. One women I know has never had her husband do oral on her. Just a couple of kisses then proceeds to penetration. So, as men's bodies change with age, so do women's. However that doesn't mean it's over. Like an older model car, they need to be warmed up before putting into gear. So, my thoughts. Have you ever made a date with your wife and just did something different? Change the routine. Made your satisfaction not the goal, but instead the goal is her satisfaction? Did it work? Was she surprised? Glad? Or did she shut you down? For men who have a non existant sex life, what happened? Was it something that has nothing to do with sex, but instead something else, and sex is being withheld? I'm curious.

That's interesting. Honestly, I can't give very much insight on the lack of sex. For my ex and me, the sex was never really a problem. We were both very oral and passionate in bed. One negative in our sex life was that she had a tough time with natural lubrication. Not always but often and would be quite painful for me. We would have to use lubes which I sometimes find I have to be careful with because some of them gave me a burning sensation. That could be a turn off for me and make it difficult to maintain an erection. Of course, with escorts, having a condom on prevents that situation so lubes are fine. The one thing I find interesting in that post was the women saying when they tried something new, the guy would show a hint of jealousy or suspicion. I was never that way and actually, she would often interrogate me about how many women I had been with and where I learned this or that. That was also very off putting for me. As for what women want, I've been pretty good about the sexual part. It's all the other emotional and mental stuff that I will likely never figure out.

Absolutely no hard feelings here either. You really are testy and I feel without humor. Whether Cher is 40 Or 90 . Her age , surgeries etc has nothing to do with my jest. Nothing at all. Yes the Song Turn Back Time was written by Cher. It was a silly off the cuff remark to ad lightness to this long thread . That was it , end of story. Ha ha . 😊😊Could you have just left it at that ? Why not leave this beaten horse alone and walk away with a smile ? Does every post have to turn snippy even after we all have had our say ?

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Seeing Christmas is over now, next topic, how many here are making New Year's Resolution? If so and you wish to share, please do. As for me, not biggies, but two resolutions First, major clean out and cleaning of the fridge. And even before 2019 has arrived, fridge cleaned out and almost cleaned. Just did that today Second is to get back on track with my health routine. Continue my daily routine riding my exercise bike. Walking to the bank and grocery store. Diet wise eat lean proteins, no bad fats only fresh fruits and veggies. For the most part I have done so (no cream, no butter, but I have had some cheese (I'm a cheese-a-holic LOL) and come Jan 1 cheese is getting cut out for awhile. But weight is holding steady (no gains but no losses too) My BP is good, cholesterol good etc etc. Hopefully by April I'll have lost enough weight to get into size 36 waist jeans. For comparisson Oct 20 2017 when I had my mini Stroke I was a size 48 waist, now I'm a 38 waist Anyhow those are my two resolutions, one is almost done, will be finished in about an hour, the other starts up again Jan 1, 2019 RG

An interesting question Meaghan and I'll need to mull this over before responding...... in the meantime here's a somewhat humourous answer presented by Fred Eaglesmith and his wife, Tiff Ginn playing Toggle Switch. You alluded to this in your post:

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First contact, I like... "Hello ???, how are you today? What may your "Donation" be... Would love to meet you ... " . Thank you Roy... Asking about services... Can be tricky... and some Sp's will ignore or not answer that question.. Just my opinion ..Katie xoxo"s

i would just go with the classic "Hey, are you in Thunder Bay? want to get together?" i personally dont say anything in any messages that can be read as seeking a service/agreeing to a service. for example when setting up ill say "hh?" or "any extras" or "$", and not get in to any specifics. You gotta think of your messaging as coded, even mentioning that you "saw your ad on _____" might not be the greatest idea... Youre old friends getting together, not 2 ppl that are only connected because you saw her on "_____"

Not yet, just waiting for a couple things to sort out (primarily paying off a cat's expensive vet bill) then my Christmas present will come...a few months later than planned but it will come. In the meantime my Black & Decker blender will have to do. But they say patience is a virtue RG

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Hmmm...google may have caught what tineye missed.

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Sorry to hear this Stacie. Some cancellations are legit even late ones, but what's not cool is the no shows, game players and time wasters. But unfortunately our business is full of idiots who have no intention of showing up, kids playing games and time wasters. We are considered sometimes with no consideration and our time has no value.... Sometimes. One of the things that can happen is kids with nothing to do will make a fake Appt for fun, then tell his friends about it so he does it and so on, I've encountered this. If you get fakes close in a row with similar numbers this is usually the case. And some think it's just funny to try ruin someone's day. Some make an Appt but at the same time they are shopping elsewhere, so they find a less expensive girl and go there but don't have the courtesy of canceling in time for you. Another is when other girls want you out of the way, so they try to create fake dates for you..these are usually girls you never saw around before and just in town for a day or two. What I do is if they are a no show without explanation that is it for them, I keep the number, list it as fake and never take a call from them again, and when they do try again I remind them of the time before. I learned read into texts, emails and phone calls to look for "red" flag" wording and if I'm the least bit concerned I don't proceed with that person. Some late cancels are legit. If the person has to do that, then they should compensate the provider in some way, even flowers or a small gift. To show us we are somewhat appreciated.