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I know some guys are going to laugh at this, but some will take the extra second to see that this is a valid question for a troubling situation. I'd like to know if you consider this to be sexual assault, and when the line was crossed. First of all, I'm fine with how the situation was resolved. I was a bit uncomfortable at worst. Note: I wear a kilt every day. This has lead to some interesting situations in the strip clubs I go to. The girls tend to get a bit handsy, but I don't mind that at all. If they know I'm not paying for anything extra, they know where to draw the line. At the end of the day, I'm not asking for anything past standard, and they aren't going to put in much effort beyond that except to maybe satisfy their curiosity. This all happened the other day at my regular club. I don't push the limits. I don't go for extras. I go to have a couple of beers, to experience a good show, and to take a few girls to the champagne room for standard lap dances. Everyone I've been with knows this and I try to make sure that any new girl I want to try knows in advance. I was having a good time with a favourite I hadn't seen in a while. Let's call her Marge. She called over a new girl because I showed some interest. Let's call her Selma. We had a bunch of drinks and a lot of fun conversation and after they had both been on stage, I took them upstairs. Normally I try to do one-at-a-time and suggested this, but Marge convinced me that this would be a lot of fun. Fine. We were all a little tipsy, so I agreed. We went to one of the couches in the VIP area and got down to it. Selma started in with the regular and expected action, but Marge went right to work on me, flipping the kilt up and using her hands and generously appointed torso area. When I got the idea what she was after, I guided her away and reminded her that "I don't do that in the club." I said that to her several times. She tried again. I pushed her away a second time, but not before she had inserted a digit in a very personal space. I was still enjoying the tender ministrations of Selma, so that was fine. Marge said, "Yeah, I know what you want." I replied, "You have no idea what I want." She went over to look at her phone for a minute. She started right up again when she came back, but this time she was trying to put a condom on me that she had in her mouth! I had to push Selma off me before I could get to my feet to get away from Marge. Selma finally noticed what was going on and said that she would go downstairs so we could be alone. I told them both that we were done, paid them for the 3 songs, then went downstairs. I like them both and will try again with both, singly. I was just so completely surprised by Marge's insistence on adhering to her agenda that I lost control of the situation. She just went ahead with what she assumed that every man would want and didn't listen to me at all. To sum up, I said 'NO', but she tried anyway. If the roles were reversed, most people would be quick to judge this as sexual assault. Remember, there are no gradations to sexual assault; it's yes or no. Sure, it was a situation where I was paying for attention and affection, but there are still rules. What do you think?

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Honestly, it was more surprising than anything at the time.. I had to deal with similar situations every day when I was dancing, but I'm 30+ years out of practice. Like Mikeyboy said, i was struck by the reversal of roles and thought that it deserved closer examination and discussion. Jessica is right about reporting her, even though she is a favourite. Everone can have an off day, but I think this shows a behaviour that might need to be monitored. Now I'm going to have a dozen guys on my tits saying, "You asshole! A quick, cheap handjob is exactly why I go to a strip club!" Yeah, well ... you shouldn't. I understand from both sides why it happens, but this is an inappropriate place. BTW, she texted me back saying, "Sorry was a bit drunk". I don't really feel that I need to make a further comment on that.

I think the are a few interesting questions here. I think most would agree that by most definitions that yes it was a sexual assault. You not only didn't give consent, you were vocal in your opposition and that was ignored. Is there a double standard in how it is treated? Yes. I think that is pretty clear as well. All of us would be talking about it differently if the roles were reversed here. Should there be a double standard? Now that's the really interesting question in my opinion. (And one I hope to simulate a debate on, not stir controversy. Here goes 😉 ) I don't want to belittle your experience at all here because how you were treated was wrong. We all need to recognize consent or the lack there of in all situations. The problem with the comparison of the role reversal comes down to this question: Did you ever feel you were in danger? Once you decided you were pushed past your limit, you physically exerted your option of ending it. (I applaud you for that by the way). The point is that most women would not have had that option in a similar situation. Especially with 2 men forcing themselves on her. There is a fear element involved that doesn't sound like was present in your situation. The fact that you have stated that you will still see both if them again in the future, shows a certain level of complacency. Again, not trying to make light because you are right to take it very seriously. Is it fair to question if the situation should be treated the same in a role reversal? I guess I'm arguing that the (on average) size difference between men and women makes it different on some level. Thoughts?

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The fridge photo is certainly eye catching. For sure the milk must be expired by now. Hahaha. I guess the saying “if it's too good to be true than it probably isn't”.

Two friends who are paid companions, I take it? As a minimum, you'd have to pay them both for their time for the week, as well as taking care of all expenses (including travel). I'd suggest that you also have conversations about what the expectations would be while you're away - would you want both of them to be with you at all times? Or just some of the time? Would they have their own rooms, or would you expect them to share yours? And what sort of activities do you plan during the week? Some people may be fine with a week lounging by the pool, but others would get bored...

So... someone tried to do perform a sex act on you that you didn't want. You told them to stop. They carried on trying anyway. That's pretty much a textbook description of a sexual assault, isn't it? The fact that you don't feel too bad about it and it didn't have too much effect on you is a good thing, but it doesn't change what it is.

Thank you for sharing. If the roles would be reversed. I don’t think they would be happy. No means no it doesn’t matter who is saying it. Yes it is sexual assault.

Rod Stewart The First Cut Is The Deepest This Old Heart Of Mine Baby Jane Hot Legs Some Guys Have All The Luck (yes I've posted this before...so what LOL😂) RG

Pls don't try and bait me. I'm not a guy and competition is not in my genes. Also I don't care what ppl think about me if I argue it or not. I'm not here to win anything. I posted it cuz I think it's a step over boundaries. Full grown adults, full grown adult images, all fine. But images of kids... I thought because of what kind of lines are toed here on this forum and others like it, that knowledge of what goes on out of our view should be known...so it doesn't confuse someone to think that it is acceptable. Grown ass men trying to discuss as though they were scholars, about the right of and perhaps the benefit of (questionable) the image of children to be used to do adult things...It's like some kind of twilight zone... You have no influence on this issue. You cannot collect stats and do research on an informal forum that discusses CONSENTING sex between CONSENTING adults. There are places where pedos congregate. Maybe you should set up your wing-back leather chair in amongst them and try to discuss this while trying to have and open mind and a want to work towards a solution. Here, its just bs. Sorry..not sorry

People, we all pay according to good service, be it dining, drinks at the bar, or any kind of service that is appreciated.That said, most people that go to a provider have a set price in mind that they can afford on a regular basis.I would rather spend 200 for a good provider and go every week, than spend 400 and go twice a month.But,thats just me.There are very good sp,s in NB that are on this scale.

Ottawa Independent Companions (OIC) is a collective of independent companions in Ottawa. We are organizing our fourth meet & greet on February 13 at a new location in Centretown (a restaurant & lounge we have reserved privately). Like our last social, we will have performances by Capital Tease Burlesque throughout the evening! All funds raised go towards our Emergency Fund for members experiencing financial difficulties. We are so happy we are able to provide this service to our members. If you would like to attend, please e-mail [email protected] to begin the screening process. Tickets cost $100 each with a cash bar at the event. Independent companions (both members and non-members) attend for free. Please note this is a meet & greet only, similar to the old CERB socials. Just an opportunity to hangout and get to know each other better while enjoying a fun show. :) Cheers, Nat

Now I'm never going to be able to watch movies like this without thinking of this song😂 RG

Can't wait! The last social was so wonderful, meeting so many new gentlemen and many of the lovely ladies of OIC!

My granddaughter's favorite song...I had to learn it and now sing it with her and make the same hand and arms gesture as the singers.

1000% that is a sexual.assault and she should have been reported to the club. The same thing for women customers who think that because they are woman they can touch. I hate to say it but women need to learn that sexual assault goes both ways. I am sorry that you had to experience this.

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By the real definition, Tantric comes from a Buddhist philosophy. It using the sensations of touch to bring you to a level of mediation and thus awakening the portals to enlightenment. But if your not in Tibet....lol Tantric, is a way to massage to awaken arousal without really touching your ...well anyhow 😋 It almost just grazes the area. It is actually can happen in "real" massage by accident if the person relaxes enough and is focused on that end goal. If you seen tantra in adult ads ( like mine) then more than likely you will be leaving HAPPY. Its just more of a polite way of saying Erotic massage or Happyending massage. 😁

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Further to what Melanie said, there’s actually a website called bedbugregistry.com which will give a list of places. A quick glance showed 212 reported apartments in the Halifax area. If you google “Halifax Bedbugs”, it should come up as one of your first hits.

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I just saw the pop-up and I wrote the same on another board. Totally reasonable pricing, and a great change. Very happy to see this. Now I just need a VIP banner for my site's front page. I want to give back.

I am grateful that the service was free for as long as it was, to be honest. Helped me out tremendously. I will be looking into the paid account this week. Thanks for the update! Raquel

Thanks, Cato! Same to you, and everyone else here!

Cameron, Thank you so much for posting this, in advance and clearly laid out! I genuinely appreciate you communicating changes before they happen. smiles, cat

Do we have a fee structure and is payment going to be the same as LL? Being in Euros and requiring ID to be sent in?

yes , there are a lot of questions on here, but few answers....can anyone enlighten us on the 'limited extras', and i'm wondering if her standard advertised 'tantric' massage gets you a happy ending, or just a massge?? Cus I can massage myself for free...,