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Like many of us men I'm in the same boat. My SO and I love each other very much, she is an absolute gorgeous woman and she turns me on a lot( I even masturbate thinking about things we did in our younger days) she has the body of a 25yo girl, tight bottom and firm breasts(man made now) and like mentioned she does not self lube so it is very tough to enjoy it for both of us. I enjoy foreplay probably more then the rest and she is hesitant to insert my male appendage in her mouth because I'm too big, she did it often in our younger days. Is her mouth getting smaller? So we often plan sex night, 99% of the time it never happens because of other life emergencies. So my theory is do not plan it just go with it. Now don't get me wrong we touch each other all the time, she will lay her head on my lap while watching TV and my hands will scratch her head and then will slide down her back and I'll rub her firm ass. She will take one hand and rub my pants and I get aroused easily but that's as far as it will go. I could try to explain why but I would have to write for ever in details why it didn't go any further every night. Honestly, I don't need much but I'm looking for a sure thing so by booking with Lyla ladies I get a guaranteed chance of getting what I want/need.

Part girl suggests part non-girl, so yeah, I can see where that might you leery ;) For me, anything that says "no / low restrictions" is usually a very bad sign. I'm also admittedly a grammar snob. Misspelling and typos don't bother me, but anything typed with capitals intentionally misused ("i aM looKIng fOr a GrEat tiMe") is a flag and likely an auto-pass. I'm not judging; I'm just likely not their target audience so the odds of us connecting aren't as great. Anything where they intentionally use symbols instead of letters in their name (thereby masking their ads in search) is a flag. On the other hand, a well written and articulate ad will grab my attention as fast as pictures.

No means no, role reversal or not. The problem comes into play that because of the way things are, there are those (women) that believe if they do it, it's not assault but if a man does, most definitely. If a man had tried this and the woman stopped the situation and he allowed it, she could still report him and he would be charged; perhaps to a lesser degree due to eventually stopping, who's to say. Not knowing the flavor of law at the moment, but from past conversations, a man reporting this situation would be treated as crazy or a trouble maker. The strength, size or gender should not play a role in the situation. Look at all the other things that are popping up in regards to protecting the rights of gender fluid, non gender, gay, women etc. There is no sway here so why should there be in assault matters. Most Caucasian men fall through the cracks on just about any topic unless it's a straight male on male issue. I recently had to deal with a male friend being assaulted by a woman and it was played off as she was provoked (which was truth only in she provoked herself) but had the roles been reversed, it would have been played as complete and utter assault all the way. He's been shamed for reporting it. The world still has a long way to go on many issues and one is respect of EVERYONE, no matter their circumstances. Bottom line, we are all human on the inside not matter how we are shaped on the outside. I'm sorry you were put in this position but even more sorry you have to ask the question of "was it?" This is at least a good forum as most of us have the right view from all the stigma we deal with regularly. If this was a "regular" forum, who knows what type of replies you would have received.

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Personally I avoid any ad that states: - one night only - last night in town - first time in town - party friendly - it’s me or it’s free - 1000% real - e-transfer/deposit required ...... Admittedly I could be missing out on some first tier providers, however risk vs reward factor is too high on these ones. would love to hear what others think...?

Some of the comments touch on everything I've experienced. A little of this and a little of that. My SO would agree with a lot of the OP's views as do I. What to do? Is there an elixier that cures sexual boredom? Yup. It's called: Sex with a complete stranger. Try it blindfolded.

Oh ... and I will confirm, after a Jets/Bomber game the places that are open late, get very busy.

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First peacectryguy, it sounds like you have a sensitivity to ingredients in lube (not that it's an issue with your ex now and ex but for future reference). I highly recommend sliquid whenever you might need some (always good to have your own) especially the organic as they have very few additives and are good for those with sensitivities. As to your question Meaghan, I've seen and heard a lot. I've seen the selfish angles where the women have no interest for whatever reason and just expect their partner to "shut themselves" down which is not fair to either party as it will eventually impact happiness and the enjoyment of the marriage when resentments build up. I've also seen disinterest in the partner based on nothing more then "we've been together so long". Stepping out of comfort zones to explore, communicate and share is not an option with some of these folks for whatever reason. Then there are those who try and are met with resistance and I find when this happens, it's lack of communication, assumptions and ego that get in the way. Then there are those who are together for nothing more than obligation (long term, kids, support etc). Have to be honest and say some people just don't jive no matter what takes place. Sex has been made to be a "bad" thing. Something naughty or dirty or that shouldn't be enjoyed or a sin or whatever when it should be embraced as a normal and wonderful human experience to be enjoyed and celebrated. Add to this all our natural human inclinations towards fear based emotions and not wanting to communicate openly, honestly and vulnerably, we're in a right mess. I think everyone wants intimacy and connection and most have no idea how to get it, not in an honest, healthy way. It takes two to tango and both people have to be involved equally in the communication. Small baby steps are better than none but they have to be taken. So much to this topic and tonnes of different examples of lack and dysfunction. It's not easy, it IS work but it IS worth it. We are all broken in some way from something, it's scary to be vulnerable and put yourself out there in an honest way.

That's interesting. Honestly, I can't give very much insight on the lack of sex. For my ex and me, the sex was never really a problem. We were both very oral and passionate in bed. One negative in our sex life was that she had a tough time with natural lubrication. Not always but often and would be quite painful for me. We would have to use lubes which I sometimes find I have to be careful with because some of them gave me a burning sensation. That could be a turn off for me and make it difficult to maintain an erection. Of course, with escorts, having a condom on prevents that situation so lubes are fine. The one thing I find interesting in that post was the women saying when they tried something new, the guy would show a hint of jealousy or suspicion. I was never that way and actually, she would often interrogate me about how many women I had been with and where I learned this or that. That was also very off putting for me. As for what women want, I've been pretty good about the sexual part. It's all the other emotional and mental stuff that I will likely never figure out.

So, in the course of my day, I see men who are married, into their 40's-70's, who say basically the same thing. "I'm married, however, our sex life is non existant". On the flip side, I talk to women in the same age bracket, who say "sex isn't important anymore. I've raised my kids, so the need for sex isn't there anymore", "my body just doesn't enjoy it". When I question this, they generally have a few things in common. Sex became routine. She never really had a real orgasm. Hubby just points to junior and gives a wink wink nudge nudge and thinks that what happened in their twenties will keep happening. So, I've asked some of these women, what do you want? Replies include, " I want him to do the wooing and sweep me away". "I keep reading these stories of lovers who don't want anything in return, just worship their lady lover for entire encounter", "I just wish he would try something new, if I try something new, he immediately gets defensive thinking I've learnt this from someone else". That's the gist. Many of these women don't masterbate, as they've always felt "dirty", so don't even really know what their bodies like. One women I know has never had her husband do oral on her. Just a couple of kisses then proceeds to penetration. So, as men's bodies change with age, so do women's. However that doesn't mean it's over. Like an older model car, they need to be warmed up before putting into gear. So, my thoughts. Have you ever made a date with your wife and just did something different? Change the routine. Made your satisfaction not the goal, but instead the goal is her satisfaction? Did it work? Was she surprised? Glad? Or did she shut you down? For men who have a non existant sex life, what happened? Was it something that has nothing to do with sex, but instead something else, and sex is being withheld? I'm curious.

I know some guys are going to laugh at this, but some will take the extra second to see that this is a valid question for a troubling situation. I'd like to know if you consider this to be sexual assault, and when the line was crossed. First of all, I'm fine with how the situation was resolved. I was a bit uncomfortable at worst. Note: I wear a kilt every day. This has lead to some interesting situations in the strip clubs I go to. The girls tend to get a bit handsy, but I don't mind that at all. If they know I'm not paying for anything extra, they know where to draw the line. At the end of the day, I'm not asking for anything past standard, and they aren't going to put in much effort beyond that except to maybe satisfy their curiosity. This all happened the other day at my regular club. I don't push the limits. I don't go for extras. I go to have a couple of beers, to experience a good show, and to take a few girls to the champagne room for standard lap dances. Everyone I've been with knows this and I try to make sure that any new girl I want to try knows in advance. I was having a good time with a favourite I hadn't seen in a while. Let's call her Marge. She called over a new girl because I showed some interest. Let's call her Selma. We had a bunch of drinks and a lot of fun conversation and after they had both been on stage, I took them upstairs. Normally I try to do one-at-a-time and suggested this, but Marge convinced me that this would be a lot of fun. Fine. We were all a little tipsy, so I agreed. We went to one of the couches in the VIP area and got down to it. Selma started in with the regular and expected action, but Marge went right to work on me, flipping the kilt up and using her hands and generously appointed torso area. When I got the idea what she was after, I guided her away and reminded her that "I don't do that in the club." I said that to her several times. She tried again. I pushed her away a second time, but not before she had inserted a digit in a very personal space. I was still enjoying the tender ministrations of Selma, so that was fine. Marge said, "Yeah, I know what you want." I replied, "You have no idea what I want." She went over to look at her phone for a minute. She started right up again when she came back, but this time she was trying to put a condom on me that she had in her mouth! I had to push Selma off me before I could get to my feet to get away from Marge. Selma finally noticed what was going on and said that she would go downstairs so we could be alone. I told them both that we were done, paid them for the 3 songs, then went downstairs. I like them both and will try again with both, singly. I was just so completely surprised by Marge's insistence on adhering to her agenda that I lost control of the situation. She just went ahead with what she assumed that every man would want and didn't listen to me at all. To sum up, I said 'NO', but she tried anyway. If the roles were reversed, most people would be quick to judge this as sexual assault. Remember, there are no gradations to sexual assault; it's yes or no. Sure, it was a situation where I was paying for attention and affection, but there are still rules. What do you think?

Showing pictures of Mia Khalifa and just saying "You know who I am" " Why don't you come and see me..."

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This is a crux in my discussions with friends who work. For the life of me, I cannot get a few ladies to understand that the written portion of their ads are read mostly by MEN - not other 20-years old girls (one friend does understand and has adjusted her ads). They will not budge on this - they stick with the fluffy graphics and goofy lettering and the cliche phrases. I guess they are just following what they think is the trend/how it's done. I've re-written ads to be legible, presentable, etc., yet they will say, "Nah....that's ok - I like it the way it is....". ......*sign* - maybe they will read this thread and see an ad they looks like it was done by a drunk Disney executive doesn't appeal to most clients. "Party Friendly" - this is a choice for ladies. I think most of them know that phrase is drawing the line in the sand for a lot of clients; but from what I understand, using that phrase attracts a select group of men who apparently "have all kinds of money", etc. I have yet to see any of these "Party Friendly" ladies retire early because of all the money these clients are giving them. I think we all know why certain providers want certain clients and it all stems back to what "Party Friendly" means. I agree with Greenteal - "Upscale" can be used to describe hotels/condos perhaps, but, as mentioned, if you are offering "Upscale services", chances are, you don't use LL that much. Other phrases like "It's me or it's free" and "forget the rest", etc. are just more examples of ladies just going with what they have seen before. Let's be honest here - I don't think many service providers have their degree in Marketing, so we can't expect too much here. lol Personally, I'm not a fan of the cut and paste ads. Meaning - switch it up a 'lil bit. If your too lazy to add a few things here and there in your ads, that may reflect on the service you give. Take Ms. Manda for instance - she uses new headlines a lot and her ad, although pretty the same most of the time, is edited/adjusted quite often. AddictiveBarbie also uses the same ad a lot, but she posts her days/times and updates them throughout the day. I find things like this very helpful. What REALLY gets me are the ads that look like they were written for 14-year-old boys who would enjoy Penthouse Forum (remember that? lol). The outright "Daddy, come ____ on me" or the overly-sexually explicit phrases. I mean, there is a % of clients who like that kind of talk during the session perhaps - but to come right out of the gate swinging with those type of phrases is demeaning to the clients, IMO.

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An oldie, one I don't remember but that's because it first came out before I was born...ten years before I was born LOL Hank Williams Hey Good Looking RG

While some of those may indicate, I just focus on pictures.

Same here.

I usually avoid key phrases like "Forget the rest, get with the best" Seems *bleh*... unimaginative / cookie cutter (not to mention "catty" towards other women) Drama usually follows.

Part girl sets off my senses. Honestly is mostly pics now. I can pretty much pick out the fakes now.

Johnny Cash Sunday Morning Coming Down The Velvet Underground and Nico Sunday Morning Oasis Sunday Morning Call Guess what day today is LOL. But look at the bright side, tomorrow is Monday😂 RG

Don't be! You started a great conversation. Nothing wrong with that. I would be like finding a great restaurant and not helping spread the word about how great it is. Anecdotal story, brace yourselves! I am a gun guy. Collect them, love marksmanship and hunting; and I reload. I recently discovered a great little shop run by an older gentleman and his wife. My experiences have been great and I trust his work and advice. I have sung their praises as much as I can and have diverted as much business to them as I can. Why shouldn't I ? I want them to stay in business. Its too the benefit of all! Anyways tangent off lol

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I can confirm that. I am not a big hockey fan and have found It easier to book during game. May not always be true

No phone number is a key to me

You know that’s funny, but probably true

During Jets games. ☺️

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It is definitely sexual assault, and I am very sorry that this happened to you. Women can be aggressors too, and it is more frequent that you would think. I know, I have been on the receiving of pushy women too, who had ZERO concept of boundaries.... This remind me of a situation here on Lyla. A client posted about an encounter where his provider sat on his erected penis without putting a condom first, and without asking if that was ok. The client kind of took it as a sign that she was romantically attracted to him, but in my mind I was like "darling, you were raped".

So... someone tried to do perform a sex act on you that you didn't want. You told them to stop. They carried on trying anyway. That's pretty much a textbook description of a sexual assault, isn't it? The fact that you don't feel too bad about it and it didn't have too much effect on you is a good thing, but it doesn't change what it is.

I think the are a few interesting questions here. I think most would agree that by most definitions that yes it was a sexual assault. You not only didn't give consent, you were vocal in your opposition and that was ignored. Is there a double standard in how it is treated? Yes. I think that is pretty clear as well. All of us would be talking about it differently if the roles were reversed here. Should there be a double standard? Now that's the really interesting question in my opinion. (And one I hope to simulate a debate on, not stir controversy. Here goes 😉 ) I don't want to belittle your experience at all here because how you were treated was wrong. We all need to recognize consent or the lack there of in all situations. The problem with the comparison of the role reversal comes down to this question: Did you ever feel you were in danger? Once you decided you were pushed past your limit, you physically exerted your option of ending it. (I applaud you for that by the way). The point is that most women would not have had that option in a similar situation. Especially with 2 men forcing themselves on her. There is a fear element involved that doesn't sound like was present in your situation. The fact that you have stated that you will still see both if them again in the future, shows a certain level of complacency. Again, not trying to make light because you are right to take it very seriously. Is it fair to question if the situation should be treated the same in a role reversal? I guess I'm arguing that the (on average) size difference between men and women makes it different on some level. Thoughts?

Thank you for sharing. If the roles would be reversed. I don’t think they would be happy. No means no it doesn’t matter who is saying it. Yes it is sexual assault.

Personally consent goes both ways. I always check in with my clients often to ensure they are comfortable as we move through our encounter. So if someone wants just a hand job I don't push it to go further. However, I'm not fully aware of cr platforms so can't really comment on that. The fact that you felt uncomfortable and said no, then yes I would say it's sexual assault. Not everyone wants a lady to do more then he asked for. So, my vote is yes. Sorry this happened.

Had the opportunity to meet the lovely Jordyn yesterday ("Juicy Jordyn" in her LL ad). I think she said she was around 5'2". I didn't see any reccos for her yet, and I don't TOFFT often, but there was something special about her photos, which are 100% accurate. She does duos with Taylor, as well. She isn't on Lyla yet, but I told her about this site, so hopefully she will join soon. Fellas, I'm SO glad I met her. It was a bit last minute for me - I had had a couple drinks, but she was sweet, accommodating, and booking was straightforward. Her in-call location in Dartmouth was safe, with discrete access. She's gorgeous. Those eyes, that hair.. wow. I was VERY happy to be there. I felt at ease right away (well, a bit nervous, as we all are when we meet someone new). I wish i had booked 2 hours, as we had such a good time. We chatted about so many things, and I was in no rush to leave, we had such a great connection, chemistry, what have you. It felt very real. Activities were fun, passionate and highly enjoyable. I will definitely see her again, for that, and because she's a really nice person. Its the next day, but I'm still thinking about her.

apparently Brody Styles will be offering this in Feb 2019. https://www.lyla.ch/topic/173365-discrete-and-insatiable-girlfriend-for-hire/

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