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This is pure victim blaming. I have had sessions where I'm blind folded and tied up and if something happen to me during that time, against my consent, I would not hold an ounce of quilt. You can can jump up and down all you want and say it is not victim blaming but it 100% is. To the OP: Unless you can speak to her and confirm you were actually inside her, I'm afraid there is not much you can do. Sadly having the feelings of "I don't know" will make resolving the issue for yourself, that much harder. My suggestion, if you just want to move past this, is to not see her again and try to resolve your feelings on the matter on your own, the best you can. Know that if it is indeed fact that she did what you suspect, then yes - you were violated. Sadly many ladies in the business feel they can perform sexual services without obtaining consent first and hopefully this thread and other threads like it by other men speak out, will help these ladies see how important it is in their role to be mindful of what consent is and how to uphold it professionally for each and every client they have.

Not that it makes it much better, but it's possible it was an accident. I know it sounds far-fetched, but it's entirely possible. Just lean back the right way, and in it goes. That said, highly unlikely. My guess is it was either her hand reaching around, and because of the way she was sitting on you and the fact that you couldn't see anything, it 'felt' like something else. Most likely explanation is that she did, in fact, slide you into her. Either because she was getting a little carried away, or because you're a regular and she's comfortable with you, and thought "hey, what man wouldn't want this?" As Jessica said, some ladies may not see it as a violation. After all, you are there for a (primarily) sexual experience. The definitions of sexual assault are the same regardless of gender, it's just that many people don't see it as quite the same when it's a woman doing it to a man, or see it as lesser. However one views it, personally, is their prerogative. I was date raped when I was a teenager. I didn't want to have sex with this person, yet she made threats of telling people that I forced myself upon her if I didn't comply. It wasn't until many years later that I fully grasped the situation. I'm not traumatized by it or anything, but it's not exactly a happy memory either. It happens to men as well as women.

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To the OP, kudos to you for your open account of your feelings and interpretation of the events, and your clarification of things a few posts above. I hope you can ignore the victim blaming of Greenteal, contrary to what he says, none of what happened was your fault, you did not ask for what happened; you should not feel any guilt whatsoever. Moving forward on this, it is difficult in terms of making a decision on reporting this or not. In your mind are you 100% sure things happened as you feel they did (you seem to believe so in your clarification to Notch above) Going from there do you feel concern that this unwanted situation will happen again to others in the future like it did to you? Best to you aznluvrr!

Those are your opinions, doesn't mean they are right. In the situation example you gave, that would be victim-blaming as well. That is what victim blaming is. And no, sexual assault does not have to be done with the intent to cause harm. Spousal Rape is something very real and many times the husband is not intending to hurt his wife. Just as an example. Anyway, I can ramble on for days with this topic. So before I start, I will just leave it here. You are clearly set in your opinion and that is fine. There is no point going back and forth with you on it.

Thank you for the responses, the different opinions were helpful in helping me think more clearly when I was feeling bothered over the sense of violation I had. For clarification, it was not the first time I saw the MA in question. I had seen her a handful of times, and we had discussed in person (in previous sessions) and online (when planning for upcoming sessions) what we enjoy during sessions and what we could introduce into our next session(s). With the most recent session I had with her, we had agreed online to introduce blindfolds and handcuffs. And this was not the first time I've been blindfolded and handcuffed by a MA that I was seeing regularly. Therefore, I think Greenteal's reassessment is probably correct where she misinterpreted and I misunderstood her actions. As suggested by most, if not all here, I will settle this privately with her. To NotchJohnson's comment: She was sitting on my lower abdomen/crotch area and had her hands on my chest, so she was not doing the blowing hot air on my penis.

After many years of not seeing Meg and always enjoying my time with her I wanted to see if we still connected. Well I was surprised when I arrived at her place to see that she has not changed a bit, still as sexy as always. We spent a little bit of time talking about what was new and how we have been and then went for other things. Meg was just as perfect now as she was a few years ago when I last saw her. The only thing I can say is that we both upped up some things that we used to do just to make it better, and it was. Meg gets a Top Notch seal of approval from me.

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Visited Catherine who advertises on Leolist. She's a self confessed Sci Fi, Star Wars nerd. Had a great time. Seen her at her hotel room in Dartmouth. She made me very comfortable, she's very attractive. Catherine's a little chubby but in an entirely good way and a beautiful face. Catherine has stunning large breasts and anyone who's a boob lover will not be disappointed. We started with kissing in bed and she was very affectionate and enthusiastic with making out. She's great at conversation too and as me made out we chatted when catching our breath. We moved on to DATY and then DATO and a BBBJ. Had a super experience and as soon as finances allow I'll be back to see her again.

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Nice location but massage is nothing special...another 1 that is all about the $$

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Caution noted and respected, Angela: I simply suggested he contact her.... every encounter should be respectfully arranged between the individuals. Emily's lovely 'blogasms' offer numerous inspirational videos on oral techniques, hence my suggestion. Perhaps I should have offered my comment more discretely.

The bottom line is that only a small percentage of business is generated off the boards. I know many providers with no online presence who are ethical and run successful businesses. Boards aren't needed to make provider successful but they have the power to ruin a providers life both personally and professionally. A rare few of my clients are on the boards, most don't want to be involved with them and some don't even know they exist. If there is nothing online that doesn't mean she's not reputable, it means there is nothing posted about her. There are a myriad of reasons why there is nothing, with the most obvious being she doesn't want anything posted. I've specifically requested that nothing be posted about me. If someone has enjoyed themselves, a simple thank you is appreciated; if there is a problem then I rectify it. There is no need for anything to go online. smiles, cat

It is good to see people having a small debate from my post and sharing their opinions with the intention of helping me out. I am thankful that this online forum has good people. With that being said though, I at the moment do not consider myself a "victim" from my situation because I do not know what was the intention of the MA I was with. If she had intended to take sexual advantage of me or abuse me sexually from the vulnerable state I was in, I would then consider myself a victim and report her immediately. However, if her intention was to provide an non-communicated "extra mileage" and I misunderstood it, then all feelings of violation will be gone and it'll be an interesting lesson learnt. Hence why I have decided to settle this privately with her, as suggested by many here. To be clear with why I posted my situation in this forum, I did so due to my background (which is explained in my original post). I did not know what to do, and feeling confused and conflicted did not help in trying to find a solution to my situation. I hoped that posting here would allow me to see some different perspectives, get advice, and calm down before I did anything else to solve my situation. Luckily there are good people here in this forum, so I got what I was looking for and I am very thankful for it. At this point, I have contacted the MA and want it to be settled well. I will not provide any further details here, unless she did have bad intentions and I have to report her, since this is now a private matter. Thanks a lot and I hope you're enjoying the much warmer weather in town!

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Hey guys, can we stay on topic please? This thread is for the guidance in the OP. If anyone has suggestions to improve the guidance, I'll happily incorporate it. On this note, the guidance has been revised. Originally the scope of the guidance ended at "when the booking was made", but due to requests and contributions from board members, the scope has grown. Added: - hyperlinked table of content - "before starting the session" section - "writing your review" section An important section on e-transfer deposits, given references and personal information, and client's list is being drafted. Perspective from established escorts will be integrated. Link: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1tLf9Ka6dI6Tb4XLFr18cuPruHrMyUZwxC6Q1VsOMBSk/edit.

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Thank you to those who have taken care of me! You are truly the best. With out you, I wouldn't be able to live my life to the fullest and be able to take it by the horns. It has been one amazing year. A year of friends made, connections built and sweet sexy moments share. I will be Back May 23 to enjoy the rest of the best month of the year with you. I will still be available via email for pre-bookings and inquiries. Follow my adventures on twitter @dirtystephanie1 Big hugs and kisses Stephanie ❤️ PS.... I have NEW Photos on my website for you to enjoy. https://dirtyblondestephan.wixsite.com/stephanie

I think it's very petty to use another lady's picture or words, You guys do expect the woman you see in the photos not someone pretending to be her I contacted her and told her to remove my pic from her ad or i was reporting it to Leolist and she did remove it but then change her number and used another lady's pic lolol go figure Originality is sexy 😆😉

What? When a woman signs up to do sex work, she don't necessarily sign up to manage social networks on top of that and engage with johns online. Reviewing SPs (positively or negatively) is the johns' responsability, period. That job looks already hard and dangerous enough as it is, and can ruin a sex worker's private and professional life, and social reputation. Staying off the internet as much as they want is their prerogative. Who gets to decide how much "in the dark" or "off the grid" she wants to be? Her, I reckon.

Hi fellas , it’s been too long ! I’m super excited to re-connect as well as meet some new faces . I will be posting more info next weekend be sure to keep an eye out or feel free to PM for updates . Cant wait xoxo

As a follow to my comment up top I had a recent visit with Autumn and had a fantastic time with her.

totally agree 5 stars + for catherine if many other SP in Moncton were half as good as her we all be bankrupt or get a 2nd morgage because it would be hard to choose who is next