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This is pure victim blaming. I have had sessions where I'm blind folded and tied up and if something happen to me during that time, against my consent, I would not hold an ounce of quilt. You can can jump up and down all you want and say it is not victim blaming but it 100% is. To the OP: Unless you can speak to her and confirm you were actually inside her, I'm afraid there is not much you can do. Sadly having the feelings of "I don't know" will make resolving the issue for yourself, that much harder. My suggestion, if you just want to move past this, is to not see her again and try to resolve your feelings on the matter on your own, the best you can. Know that if it is indeed fact that she did what you suspect, then yes - you were violated. Sadly many ladies in the business feel they can perform sexual services without obtaining consent first and hopefully this thread and other threads like it by other men speak out, will help these ladies see how important it is in their role to be mindful of what consent is and how to uphold it professionally for each and every client they have.

Not that it makes it much better, but it's possible it was an accident. I know it sounds far-fetched, but it's entirely possible. Just lean back the right way, and in it goes. That said, highly unlikely. My guess is it was either her hand reaching around, and because of the way she was sitting on you and the fact that you couldn't see anything, it 'felt' like something else. Most likely explanation is that she did, in fact, slide you into her. Either because she was getting a little carried away, or because you're a regular and she's comfortable with you, and thought "hey, what man wouldn't want this?" As Jessica said, some ladies may not see it as a violation. After all, you are there for a (primarily) sexual experience. The definitions of sexual assault are the same regardless of gender, it's just that many people don't see it as quite the same when it's a woman doing it to a man, or see it as lesser. However one views it, personally, is their prerogative. I was date raped when I was a teenager. I didn't want to have sex with this person, yet she made threats of telling people that I forced myself upon her if I didn't comply. It wasn't until many years later that I fully grasped the situation. I'm not traumatized by it or anything, but it's not exactly a happy memory either. It happens to men as well as women.

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Feel free to delete this comment if I'm overstepping. I'm not sure how personal advertising works on this site. I'll be in Moncton tomorrow night for a few days and I have a DDD bust if anyone is interested in seeing me. I usually post ads on LL.

To the OP, kudos to you for your open account of your feelings and interpretation of the events, and your clarification of things a few posts above. I hope you can ignore the victim blaming of Greenteal, contrary to what he says, none of what happened was your fault, you did not ask for what happened; you should not feel any guilt whatsoever. Moving forward on this, it is difficult in terms of making a decision on reporting this or not. In your mind are you 100% sure things happened as you feel they did (you seem to believe so in your clarification to Notch above) Going from there do you feel concern that this unwanted situation will happen again to others in the future like it did to you? Best to you aznluvrr!

Those are your opinions, doesn't mean they are right. In the situation example you gave, that would be victim-blaming as well. That is what victim blaming is. And no, sexual assault does not have to be done with the intent to cause harm. Spousal Rape is something very real and many times the husband is not intending to hurt his wife. Just as an example. Anyway, I can ramble on for days with this topic. So before I start, I will just leave it here. You are clearly set in your opinion and that is fine. There is no point going back and forth with you on it.

Thank you for the responses, the different opinions were helpful in helping me think more clearly when I was feeling bothered over the sense of violation I had. For clarification, it was not the first time I saw the MA in question. I had seen her a handful of times, and we had discussed in person (in previous sessions) and online (when planning for upcoming sessions) what we enjoy during sessions and what we could introduce into our next session(s). With the most recent session I had with her, we had agreed online to introduce blindfolds and handcuffs. And this was not the first time I've been blindfolded and handcuffed by a MA that I was seeing regularly. Therefore, I think Greenteal's reassessment is probably correct where she misinterpreted and I misunderstood her actions. As suggested by most, if not all here, I will settle this privately with her. To NotchJohnson's comment: She was sitting on my lower abdomen/crotch area and had her hands on my chest, so she was not doing the blowing hot air on my penis.

After many years of not seeing Meg and always enjoying my time with her I wanted to see if we still connected. Well I was surprised when I arrived at her place to see that she has not changed a bit, still as sexy as always. We spent a little bit of time talking about what was new and how we have been and then went for other things. Meg was just as perfect now as she was a few years ago when I last saw her. The only thing I can say is that we both upped up some things that we used to do just to make it better, and it was. Meg gets a Top Notch seal of approval from me.

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Visited Catherine who advertises on Leolist. She's a self confessed Sci Fi, Star Wars nerd. Had a great time. Seen her at her hotel room in Dartmouth. She made me very comfortable, she's very attractive. Catherine's a little chubby but in an entirely good way and a beautiful face. Catherine has stunning large breasts and anyone who's a boob lover will not be disappointed. We started with kissing in bed and she was very affectionate and enthusiastic with making out. She's great at conversation too and as me made out we chatted when catching our breath. We moved on to DATY and then DATO and a BBBJ. Had a super experience and as soon as finances allow I'll be back to see her again.

I have had the pleasure of Anais company a few times and she is amazing. Met with her again in Halifax, she always stays at nice hotels. She is tiny with an awesome spinner body, gorgeous looks, a wonderful easy going personality and the skills to rock your world. One hour was far to short. Please treat her right, she is a beautiful flower, on a scale of 1-10 she rates an 11.

That wasn't the understanding I had of Prufrock's post. I read it as him being concerned that the MA might cross boundaries like this with someone else in the future. On the main topic of the thread: yes, you have every right to be concerned and to be unhappy about it, it doesn't sound like you did anything wrong, and victim-blaming is not something we should be indulging in.

Saw these ladies in a duo today. PM if you want details or have questions.

Nice location but massage is nothing special...another 1 that is all about the $$

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Hey fellow hobbyists. Back in Ottawa for a few nights. Looking for a lovely lady that offers a slow sensual bbbj. Any recommendations?

You can never go wrong with Sasha May. In my opinion the best I have ever met in the hobby.

Caution noted and respected, Angela: I simply suggested he contact her.... every encounter should be respectfully arranged between the individuals. Emily's lovely 'blogasms' offer numerous inspirational videos on oral techniques, hence my suggestion. Perhaps I should have offered my comment more discretely.

I finally met with the wonderful Vivian, the one that everyone is talking about and I must admit that what they are saying is true, she is a gem. Booking with her was easy and she responded quickly to my text. Plenty of free parking in her area and she lives in a clean apartment building in a nice part of town. When I entered the room she was hiding behind the door and I had to adjust my eyes the dim lights but as soon as I did I could see how gorgeous Vivian was. I asked to take a shower although I was clean I wanted to be fresh, she then told me to lay on the massage table set up in a room. The massage table is quite low, I don't think I ever been that close to the ground for a massage before, keep in mind that Vivian is short lady. She entered the room and finished drying my back we had small talk and then proceeded to rubbing my back with oil, her massage are awesome(she had training) knowing exactly where to rub and removing knots in my back. It felt really good having someone giving a good massage like she did. Having learned massage skills in my younger days I offered to give her one and she accepted so it was her turn to lay down and getting a massage in return. Vivian enjoyed it very much and it doesn't take long to massage her back side, she is so tiny that my big hands covered the entire back(ok not that small but you get the picture) and her legs and her neck. I finally gave her my specialty called the "sleep wave" which usually puts a person to sleep. Not quite with her, she told me afterward that I should have rocked her harder to accomplish the mission. It was back to Vivian to complete giving me the massage I came in for, she did and it was wonderful. I agree with what Luckyme said, after seeing Vivian once you will want to see her again and again and again. Vivian get a Top Notch seal of approval from me. Thanks again Vivian

The bottom line is that only a small percentage of business is generated off the boards. I know many providers with no online presence who are ethical and run successful businesses. Boards aren't needed to make provider successful but they have the power to ruin a providers life both personally and professionally. A rare few of my clients are on the boards, most don't want to be involved with them and some don't even know they exist. If there is nothing online that doesn't mean she's not reputable, it means there is nothing posted about her. There are a myriad of reasons why there is nothing, with the most obvious being she doesn't want anything posted. I've specifically requested that nothing be posted about me. If someone has enjoyed themselves, a simple thank you is appreciated; if there is a problem then I rectify it. There is no need for anything to go online. smiles, cat

It is good to see people having a small debate from my post and sharing their opinions with the intention of helping me out. I am thankful that this online forum has good people. With that being said though, I at the moment do not consider myself a "victim" from my situation because I do not know what was the intention of the MA I was with. If she had intended to take sexual advantage of me or abuse me sexually from the vulnerable state I was in, I would then consider myself a victim and report her immediately. However, if her intention was to provide an non-communicated "extra mileage" and I misunderstood it, then all feelings of violation will be gone and it'll be an interesting lesson learnt. Hence why I have decided to settle this privately with her, as suggested by many here. To be clear with why I posted my situation in this forum, I did so due to my background (which is explained in my original post). I did not know what to do, and feeling confused and conflicted did not help in trying to find a solution to my situation. I hoped that posting here would allow me to see some different perspectives, get advice, and calm down before I did anything else to solve my situation. Luckily there are good people here in this forum, so I got what I was looking for and I am very thankful for it. At this point, I have contacted the MA and want it to be settled well. I will not provide any further details here, unless she did have bad intentions and I have to report her, since this is now a private matter. Thanks a lot and I hope you're enjoying the much warmer weather in town!

https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-escorts/new-brunswick/fredericton_cum_wind_down_w_a_young_sexy_blonde_specials_ton_only-4882829 Sooo I took the risk...I just saw Sommer tonight and I have to say that she is actually the real deal. She looks better in person than her pictures, was super easy to talk to, and was very open to my requests. She is leaving tomorrow morning but coming back in a few weeks - definitely give her a shot! Feel free to DM me for for info. Side note: I was really expecting this to be another of the many fake ads on leolist, but it turns out there are still a few gems out there.

I saw her late Saturday night in Charlottetown. She was amazing and very patient. I will definitely be booking her again on her next trip to PEI

Yes she is a lot of fun...don't miss her when she is available!!

Hey guys, can we stay on topic please? This thread is for the guidance in the OP. If anyone has suggestions to improve the guidance, I'll happily incorporate it. On this note, the guidance has been revised. Originally the scope of the guidance ended at "when the booking was made", but due to requests and contributions from board members, the scope has grown. Added: - hyperlinked table of content - "before starting the session" section - "writing your review" section An important section on e-transfer deposits, given references and personal information, and client's list is being drafted. Perspective from established escorts will be integrated. Link: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1tLf9Ka6dI6Tb4XLFr18cuPruHrMyUZwxC6Q1VsOMBSk/edit.

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Greenteal, In no way does that add any value to this thread. Have some respect and open your mind to other people’s point of view. If you continue to dissagree so be it, no need to mock or entice anything otherwise.

Oh I have read the board rules alright and read the board enough to know that those rules are dumb as f***. It's not by any means a well functioning board, because the rules are designed to suppress participation and the sharing of info. How does "absence of recommendation = provider bad" makes any sense? Absence of lightning doesn't tell me it's sunny. You're delusional with your "members can read between the lines". If they could, this board would be actual useful content instead of being 75% "hey did you see X" and 20% you giving your opinion on everything. But hey rules are rules, and I abide by them. Nobody's forcing me to be here, that's true. I think it's deplorable that this is the only board in the area.

Thank you to those who have taken care of me! You are truly the best. With out you, I wouldn't be able to live my life to the fullest and be able to take it by the horns. It has been one amazing year. A year of friends made, connections built and sweet sexy moments share. I will be Back May 23 to enjoy the rest of the best month of the year with you. I will still be available via email for pre-bookings and inquiries. Follow my adventures on twitter @dirtystephanie1 Big hugs and kisses Stephanie ❤️ PS.... I have NEW Photos on my website for you to enjoy. https://dirtyblondestephan.wixsite.com/stephanie

Hey gentleman! I’m glad to annonce that I’ll be visiting Halifax for the first time May 8-9-10th. My name is Melody and I’m a 21 years old girl of a rare beauty, who loves to excel in her work as a first class companion. I’m a very well reviewed petite companion with a wild side and sensual vibe. I will give you that unforgettable experience you’ve been looking for! I am half French Canadian half Brazillian and I stand 5’5’’ 110 lbs; the best things come in small packages! I have long dirty-blond hair, naughty hazel eyes, juicy lips, softly tanned skin, a perfectly shaped 34C and a flawlessly toned silhouette. Naturally caring with a loving personality you will instantly feel at ease in my presence. If you have been searching for the whole package - beauty, intelligence, a sense of allure, and adventure - then I am right here. **Only text messages will be answered. Please let me know you’re from lyla, provide name, age and username, duration of appointment and a brief description of yourself. 581-777-8449 Can’t wait to meet you 💋 Melody

I think it's very petty to use another lady's picture or words, You guys do expect the woman you see in the photos not someone pretending to be her I contacted her and told her to remove my pic from her ad or i was reporting it to Leolist and she did remove it but then change her number and used another lady's pic lolol go figure Originality is sexy 😆😉

What? When a woman signs up to do sex work, she don't necessarily sign up to manage social networks on top of that and engage with johns online. Reviewing SPs (positively or negatively) is the johns' responsability, period. That job looks already hard and dangerous enough as it is, and can ruin a sex worker's private and professional life, and social reputation. Staying off the internet as much as they want is their prerogative. Who gets to decide how much "in the dark" or "off the grid" she wants to be? Her, I reckon.

Hi fellas , it’s been too long ! I’m super excited to re-connect as well as meet some new faces . I will be posting more info next weekend be sure to keep an eye out or feel free to PM for updates . Cant wait xoxo

As a follow to my comment up top I had a recent visit with Autumn and had a fantastic time with her.

I would never visit a home with other people there. I as well will only do outcalls to homes of clients I have met before. They are just safety issues and I think are pretty standard with most indies.

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totally agree 5 stars + for catherine if many other SP in Moncton were half as good as her we all be bankrupt or get a 2nd morgage because it would be hard to choose who is next

Had a great visit with Catherine. Highly recommend. She was super easy to schedule with. Easy to talk to. Huge boobs. Great service. Beautiful face. What more do you want? https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-escorts/nova-scotia/halifax_catherine_sweeter_then_3_14-4362804