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This is a question for both hobbyists and providers I suppose. How does everyone feel about going down on an SP? For me, I feel like it’s an essential part of the experience in most cases, and really gets the mood going. Of course, there’s the elephant in the room, which is the clock, so obviously some balance has to be had. In my personal life, when I’m done, if I’m unable to ‘get back on the horse’ so to speak, I’ll happily go to town. In this world, how do SP’s feel about that? Is that something that is cool, if there’s time? Or is there a feeling of “let’s say bye now”? I suppose I’m just not well versed in my etiquette. All opinions are welcome!

Wow, it's been a while since I've done a recco. I've been following Jane's posts for a long time with great interest, as I'm sure have many members here. But I never did correspond with her. At the time she was a rare female hobbyist on Cerb. I noticed only a few days ago that Jane had decided to become a provider. I didn't waste any time and contacted her right away. And boy, am I glad I did! I finally met Jane a couple of days ago, and what a wonderful time I had! I prefer a GFE session, and it doesn't get any GFE-r than that. Jane is also into domme and kink , but she does a fantastic GFE too. She was very attentive to my every need, and made sure that I was happy. I enjoyed talking to her and it felt like we were old friends, and she was genuinely eager to please me. She is a low-volume provider, and gave me her full attention - no clock-watching here! Her skills are heavenly! Not just the sex, but great conversation as well. I heartily recommend Jane to every serious hobbyist on the board. I can't wait to meet her again. Thank you Jane.

yes both taking risks...very rare that I have had a sp tell me no...

Awee thank you for the kind words @Mikeyboy. You hit the head on the nail with having someone experienced. I can not stress this enough! Power exchange has a lot more rolling balls that the inexperienced will not know about. Physical Safety being only a more obvious one. One of the key things about power dynamics as a Domme is managing my clients safety not only in physical needs but in emotional and physiological as well. Many clients are well versed in what they want and have experience to how they respond and react. Just as many clients have no idea and you have to gently guide them and figure it out without pushing past their boundaries. Boundaries they both know and state, as well as boundaries they yet to realize. Many submissive’s will not speak up about what they do not like as it happens as they want to please the Domme. Its on the Domme to read it through reaction, micro-expressions and just experience. Where mistakes get missed is the before prep and the after prep. Pain play leaves marks one can see with the eye. However, bdsm/power exchange give a rush of endorphins and happy neurotransmitters like Dopamine and Serotonin. It can produce a flooding in the brain that acts like a drug induced state. If your client is getting into a car and going back to take care of kids, or going to work I have to manage how far I take them into this happy experience. I cant send them back to a construction operating heavy machinery googly eyed and stupid. It has to be managed. Likewise these happy states can leave a client floaty for a day or two as well. But it will even out and come with a bit of a drop and that can present in anxiety, feeling tired or just insecure. Making sure the client understands this makes it manageable. Following up for two days by simple texts or a call also helps lessen things a lot. This is where many miss the mark. In role reversal such as I am offering as the subbie slut....one considers my safety, as do I. But another concern is the phycological ramifications for the client. For those new to experiencing this type of play there are other risks. There is a flood of endorphins as above but it is heavy in the Adrenaline type hormones. So managing that from the bottom is a thing in my case. If the client is new to this play for instance I would suggest early evening and not late night. The Adrenaline release will keep them wide wake well through the night amd there will also be a crash. Even if the client thinks they can handle more, its my job to know and manage it in digestible pieces for them without making them think they are being managed. Rushing someone too far to fast is not healthy. Lastly these things while rare, do trigger people at times. Past abuse issues, feeling guilt for enjoying the consensual mean play when they are taught to respect woman. There can be an emotional spill off that needs to be dealt with. That means allowing extra time if needed and no back to backs. That means following briefly up for a few days. I can not stress enough that these types of play all look hot in porn we watch. But consider whom you do it with wisely. It will make all the difference in the experience and should really be with an experienced fetish provider. On my end I know what my limits, boundaries and needs are. I know how to communicate them before play and work that communication into an experience without side tracking it. I know what after care I need and how to take care of myself in the days to follow. This type of play is well within my risk profile and what i am offering is at a much lower level then I partake in in my personal play and professional play. So the risks are very manageable for me personally. Bear in mind I have twenty years of lifestyle experience in bdsm and kink so it did not happen overnight. I think it makes me ideally suited for introducing these kinds of play and power dynamics here. But gain, I recognize it is not for everyone.

I also have to mention she is a great girl, had a good time with her.

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No sexual touching basically means no touching. However as we know that is not enforced anywhere.

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🙈 Still recovering a little, so yeah I also enjoyed myself. But I think you know that. Thank you for the kind words. ❤️

Woohoo. So pumped I went to see the amazing JMS at the end of January. Won her anniversary raffle for 2 hours for the price of 1..I can’t wait 😊

Booking with her was easy and fast, and she answers any type of questions. Her pics are accurate and frankly she looks better in person. She also maintains a public snapchat that's great. Nothing but positive things to say about her.