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Many Many Years Ago...Feb 2010 If I Recall I Arrived LOL Actually I discovered CERB using Google. I decided (another story no I won't tell that boring story) to embark on this lifestyle. I knew somehow there was more, much more to seeing companions than pay and receive services and the internet...specifically boards provide an "education" so to speak I perused the internet and CERB not only was positive and provided such an "education" but it was for lack of a better word, friendly both to client and companion. Some of the other boards (won't name them but take a guess) were misogynistic. So CERB/Lyla I joined and stayed and will continue to stay (sorry Mods LOL) even with the name change. That's my story to the best of my recollection. A Flashback Rambling RG

Well it was so long ago I don't remember exactly. I was doing OK on CL ( by reading and monitoring carefully) but some where along the line I discovered CERB.

I cut off a good friend who was working comfortably from home collecting her paycheque chastise me and other providers I know for working knowing we had no Other source of income. The most hurtful thing was her saying if I got covid, I deserved it. Yet she never turned down my generosity in the past that was a result of income made from being a provider.

She has posted ads in SJ a few times now, anyone kbow if she's real?

No red flags there ;)

Yes I am now softly booking again. 💋Hi, I am Jane a Bi female located in Halifax, NS. I am a pale redhead who blushes when she is ‘excited’. I am a Curvy BBW with a pretty face and a happy disposition. Very open minded, cuddly and kink friendly. I came on to this site a few years ago purely as a hobbyist. I do now take select clients from here. I enjoy the working with quality people that seek a deeper connection, or exploration. My services run from vanilla to the more niche bdsm experience or fetish exploration. I have been dubbed by a few as the ‘Kinky Girlfriend Experience’ which seems to fit about right. I am friendly affectionate and warm. I do provide and adore the gfe, makes me feel as beautiful or sexy as these experience. My reviews: https://www.lyla.ch/index.php?app=core&module=system&controller=redirect&url=https://www.lyla.ch/topic/183782-janebondage-%E2%80%A2-white/?tab=comments%23comment-802794&key=bfaa43cb5b4e89c7e03334ec25a1e3ccb875a9f6c5e5bc4b67c975c23ee91ac1&resource= I do enjoy interacting with my clients here, text and twitter before dates and in between. I am connection based and like to get to know y clients as little this way when possible. I think we all need a little more tactile touch and connection after social distancing and I have lowered my multi hour bookings to reflect that. I am extremely low volume so book early to avoid disappointment please. Deposits required for new clients. $220/1hr$300/90mins$400/2 hours $500/3 hours$600/4 hours I am currently booking the week of July 1st through the 3h in my upscale and private location in Dartmouth by Alderney Ferry Terminal. Out calls and multi hour bookings are available until then. Wednesday July, 1st Daytime Appointment Evening Appointment Thursday July 2nd Daytime Appointment Evening Appointment Friday, July 3rd Daytime Appointment I will be available for outcalls throughout the weekend with pre booking if you travel outside of our maritime bubble or book out of maritime providers I ask you please make me aware or not book me. I completely isolated for 80 days so please respect my risk level boundaries and that of my clients by not booking me. I have extra cleaning measures in place, require an off the clock shower upon arrival and reserve the right to take your temperature upon arrival. Fid me on twitter: https://twitter.com/DurgasDungeon

Most likely a scam as she wants a deposit before you show up but also says the deposit is for her pimp.

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I know her well and we have done double Domme sessions together. She is in Twitter and well as her website. She is an amazing and a blast to work with. Biking her Domme services will be time well spent. I would easily say she’s the premier ProDom here in the Maritimes.

She is always re-tweeting providers too which is awesome.

That is the exact same process for me and I am sure most others after you have booked me once before. anyone that can’t take a little time to allow me the opportunity to feel relaxed and Safer is not my type of Man that I would choose as a client anyway. 🙂

Independents arent quite the same. I dont allow agency references because they DO screen differently (or not at all).

This is why not because I am from Montreal I see Our French Lady , you just text , you book an appointment you go its over that's is not complicated just easy booking, if you were to book appointments and not show you would be black listed . Keep it simple

Always been pro industry, the way I see it, a construction worker puts their life on the line when they're on site, as does every SP when they post a listing. It is a field to be respected and these ladies deserve respect that any 9-5 hoser gets. Probably more so.

Echoing the free porn, its the physical contact I desire. Not simply a naked woman who may be interacting with me. There are enough VR videos out there to satisfy those needs lol However the broad selection of different beautiful women does have its appeal, but it will never replace true contact and physical connection.

@NotchJohnson You are exactly is exactly why i enjoy this work and your story brought an actual tear to my eyes. Thank you for sharing your history. I am truly sorry the first few hobbing experiences were not good experiences. I resonate with that. Like you my first handful of trying experiences were less then stellar. It was the days of CH classified in the 90’s and back pages after that. Woman were rude, called me a pervert aor wanted to see pics before accepting me. Which made me in constant fear of rejection. When I found lyla/cerb thing changed .These lovely woman were open and eager to have woman clients. I had so much baggage from dealing with providers that were not open to woman that the first positive experience I had was from here I was a loyal fan girl. I stuck to my provider and no other. She had even contacted me to let me know she would eagerly love to explore a woman if i was open to being with someone new. 🙈I felt accepted and never wondered to another until she moved away. I saw a few girls after but was too shy to do anything without a prompt. Old nerves kicked in. and now here I am .....a provider myself. 🤷‍♀️ I went exclusively to her. I did. not explore much at all...I was relieved someone accepted me. She also contacted me which was a first. So that

So, when I originally brought this up... it was meant as a verification thing NOT a review. For example, the gentleman could have 3 different verified providers, vouche for his 1) timeliness 2) hygiene 3) respectfulness 4) full payment. Then, just like us... we know he is atleast a real human. Basically, all I was saying is have a verified badge for the gentleman who want an extra layer. No need for a real name - you give your ID to the SPs and ask 3 to message a mod. Simple. No names attached. Not a review. Simple as saying "he's a real client a not a BSer."

I mean it may work for some and thats great but for me no..i will still require a deposit i cannot just go by word of mouth by another provider simply just because may have had a great experience I am all about chemistry and what may be good for me may not be good for someone else Im just tying to understand the logic behind doing this...what will be the purpose? To stop screening and deposits?

I think it could work if no real name is announced (only your handle) and if the ladies simply follow a simple guideline. Don't forget that on Lyla "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything" then the guy who is not polite, generous, punctual etc... will not get any points at all. So to make this work all the ladies have to check mark beside those critics and then we could have the verified client list. Just throwing it out there guys.

Right...and just because he may have been a good client to her doesnt mean he will be a good client to me Word of mouth doesnt always work for me

Thanks for kicking off the thread, Notch! I think the big problem with this is that a lot of providers will simply not be prepared to outsource their screening to a board. If someone comes along saying, "Hey, I'm verified by Lyla!", then the reply is likely to be... not to their liking, because they'll still have to provide deposits/references/whatever else. And everyone's going to be unhappy about this as a result; the client will be unhappy because their prized 'verification' is effectively worthless, and the provider will be unhappy because they've had yet another entitled person who thinks the rules about screening don't apply to them because they're special.

Well I think it’s a great idea on paper it likely will cause more issues then it solves. 1. will the reviews be accurate. I still have to contact the provider to see if she is puffing up hobbyist ego. 2. I would not be comfortable reviewing clients myself. I have my favorites and they know it. Reviewing a few favs only serves to make my others feel less special. 3. I want to tap into their emotional and physical needs and make them feel like they are relaxed. I worry this will put some at I’ll ease of feeling like they are on an interview. 4. when I was hobbying I would not have seen anyone here if i thought i would be reviewed. It was a nerve wracking Process find the providers for me. When I did see and I saw them regularly to avoid dealing with the unknowns of a new one. Mind you my experience is different as days of BP years ago girls hung up on me or wanted to see pics of me first as they were not use to female clients. I had no such issues here and the providers welcomed a female client. But I am sure it would be just as nerve wracking for new men to hobbying. 5. Opens up libel issues if a review is bad. 6. Thanks to stinky old Harper the law is not protecting the hobbyist, only the providers. So I can’t see how this benefits them either. mid a client want to apply to lyla to be verified like we are I could get be hind that. But Not reviewing.

I noticed that the local Global TV news site (Halifax) posted a story about local Onlyfans creators seeing an increase in traffic due to the pandemic. It may be too early to say if it will contribute to reducing stigma but it is certainly giving broader exposure to online sex work and different varieties of sex worker.

Your right ... its none of our business what the next person does But i see far too many times people being overly judgemental and ignorant with their opinions on something that has nothing to do with them The only advice i would give to anyone asking IS IT SAFE is to take precautions and do what feels right for them being intimate with ANYONE wether it be an sw or just something they met causually Again ... its common sense

For me i was always sex worker positive, maybe that comes from being European and seeing way more of this kind of life in the cities of Europe. I love following fellow workers on a lot of platforms and cheering on the ones pushing for positive change in our industry!

Looking back before I got married I was with a friend who was in his early 30's and I was early to mid 20's we decided to go bar hoping in Montreal and ended up alone at a hotel for the night because we didn't pick up any girls. The next morning (Sunday) he buys the Montreal news paper and finds some ladies offering massages nearby, called to book and we showed up. I didn't know what to expect at all so I'm directed to a shower and told to go into another room afterward, simply a mattress on the floor, I lay face down with towel over my ass and wait. The lady which was not chosen by me came in and soon removed the towel and asked what I wanted. So I asked what type of massage was offered she didn't care about that she offered everything from HJ to BJ to FS, I opted for the HJ only and never finished even though she let me fondle her boobs. Things were weird for me. Fast forward to after my marriage, when the old lady lost all appetite for sex, we used to do it all the time sometime 3x a day but she lost her libido, not me. After 4 years of getting only a few times a year 2-3 as a matter of fact, I looked at Craigslist and found a gorgeous black lady who was offering her services and to be honest it probably took me 8-9 months to decide on calling her. Everything was done safely with protection but I was so nervous after I went and got tested about 3 months later and all was clear. I know it was just fear of cheating on my wife and so on, the fear disappeared and about 6 months later I found a wonderful lady from Cerb and visited her for over 6 months. The rest was history. So when I was in my 20's, I really thought "this is too expensive to have some fun, when I can get this for free". And now it's "this is what's going to save my marriage because I need physical contact".

Unfortunately I have been doxed too... Since today is the second day of someone pretending to live in my condo and telling other girls the buzzer and having them come up to my unit (very scary 😞 ) I want to warn girls but I think the best thing to do is just change my buzzer.

Thanks for always having our backs. ♡

I never request OR share pictures. It sends the wrong message(s) to the escort.

Made me spit out my morning coffee good one.

If having a woman stick her finger up your ass sounds intriguing, then you're predispositioned. If having a woman stick her finger up your ass sounds like insanity, then you're not. Its not so much about your provider, its about whether you're in the right place and state of mind to accept it. The right provider helps of course, but if you're not into it, ready, it can be ... awkward.

Just received online services from another lady a short while ago. Besides the one desired effect...I turned off Netflex LOL it had a health side effect (guess I picked the right virtual package because it left me weak in the knees...but in a good way Shortly my recommendation will be written and posted (of course with the lady's permission first) Pardon me while I pick myself up now LOL RG