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I've made a few mistakes over the years in my communications with SPs, no one is perfect, but I've always tried to be respectful. Two things I know for sure is that SPs have a job that society frowns upon and have a job for which us men in particular, have zero appreciation for. We should be supporting SPs on this board, even if we don't necessarily agree with their point of view. If you have been around long enough, it is likely you have been ghosted, scammed, robbed or threatened with violence as a client but I can't even begin to imagine what SPs have gone through when dates go bad. Not to mention the verbal/mental abuse they have to put with in what should be straightforward and respectful communication. I have been very selective over the years and do my best not to waste anyone's time and because of that, I know that it would be pointless for me to contact Daysha - as she is out of my price range atm, and likely doesn't offer what I am specifically looking for in an encounter. Daysha is gorgeous and no doubt would rock my world if I ever did meet her but since I have other options that meet my interests I chose not to waste either her time or mine. Above all, I for one, am sad to see SPs feeling like they have to defend each other in this thread. Maybe in the future, people should ask questions before jumping to conclusions. That might have changed peoples understanding of where she was coming from and what prompted her to post her point of view in the first place. Daysha obviously was frustrated enough by what she was experiencing to take the time to voice her perspective and wanted to have some open and respectful dialogue in addition to maybe gaining a bit of support and understanding from this community for what she has been experiencing.

Okay I'll preface my comments by identifying that neither GT nor I should have much to contribute on a NS discussion thread since we don't live there and so, sadly, don't have the chance to visit any of the lovely ladies who've commented on this thread - at least not until the maritime bubble is opened. Not holding my breath though planning for a visit when permitted. (a little positivity?) Posting a somewhat out of context quote from Lydia that acknowledges your "valuable insight" does not amount to positivity. Don't bother responding to Danielle if you can't address her questions. No, you're not obligated to write a recommendation, nor to book a lady, not even to be a positive force: but even one of those helps the board. I've read through the whole thread (and I'll admit to my reluctance to add to it) but - and this won't surprise you GT - I have to support the ladies here. Read their posts carefully. Don't get your knickers in a knot and ask to be reported (for what?), offer the 'last word' and then chime in again - I could continue but I'm not skilled enough to insert all the multiple quotes from your posts. To summarize I'll reference a comment inspired by a post from the 'Unhijackable thread of randomness' (too lazy to find the post) but you'll get the idea: https://www.amazon.com/Novelty-Coffee-Funny-Sarcastic-Sassy/dp/B07ZF59894

No ... contact a companion that is more in your price range

On the way to the hospital (don't worry, it was for my MRI long overdue) I deked by the cheese factory and picked up salsa cheese, jalapeno & red chili cheese (not for kids), and mozzarella with onion, oh and a bag of fresh curd for dinner RG

Okay lets DONE this thread.... Everyone enjoy your weekend and Happy Thanksgiving

Exactly! No reason to take it personal And I am a resident of Halifax born and raised and I also agree that Halifax has become bad with the lack of respect and those who ask for unsafe services If you are NOT one of those gents then what we say shouldn't make you feel any type of way I have met and do still meet alot of great guys here and i enjoy my time spent with them And will continue to do so Chemistry is everything!

A full tank of gas & a lottery ticket 😉

I got a Lotto max ticket, the draw is quite high !

Yep the shit WE are supose to put up with I guess lol NOT

(after 4 years as a lover, and 2 former and one current long term companion) - there will always be unsafe companions and lovers - either due to ignorance or greed or both safe relation companions/lovers should stay away from unsafe one's my first companion (experienced over 20 years) said that she NEVER did anything unsafe, and she did fine (financially). lovers - if you seek PSE, please decide beforehand if you are the audience in your own porn movie - OR - if you are the porn star ! (and unless you are Johnny Sinns, you are just a normal male specimen) if you seek GFE, please treat your companion as exactly like your actual GF/wife (& I mean that in a romantic way .. like the way you will behave with your partner of years) ! just because there is financial transactions, it does not change the meaning of the relation companions - by any chance in some corner of your heart if you PITY your client / lover (even subconsciously) - Please don't. It manifests very quickly & is very insulting. the awe of flesh fades very quickly. after that, most lovers want love and affection, expressed through your body. thanks for reading. have a nice thanksgiving.

Well, nothing constructive or positive happening here. Totally derailed! I think the point was supposed to be that would be clients should READ ladies ads completely before calling or texting and asking questions to which the answer was already provided in the ad. And then not be rude when told so. You want a good date. Be respectful not rude!

When was the last time you actually booked a lady? Wrote a reco? Or even spread some positivity on here? Because i find it pretty hilarious the only time i see you being active is when you are calling people out or trying to act like a mod

Alot of guys dont get it and don't care to understand what we go through They feel because they pay to see us they can treat us any way they want to ... I DO NOT THINK SO I am all about respect and if you have none for me i have no interest in seeing you period

Shien has the best lingerie at a great price. I bought 7 outfits & sets for a total of 115$!! Amazing. PSA to all providers who don’t want to spend a ton of money, although the arrival date could be long. AND I’m still looking for a photographer in moncton if anyone knows of any!

Hey folks, So this is something that's been discussed in multiple threads, but given recent discussions I figured I'd do a bit of a compilation in a single thread. If you're new to this, or have been having trouble making connections, please read through this - it will take a few minutes, but there's lots of tips included Tips for finding a provider - Decide what you are looking for in an experience - Search on Lyla in your local regional forums in the Schedule forums - Look on the various provider advertising sites, such as Leolist, Massage Republic, VIPFavours & many more - Visit the provider's website, Twitter, IG or whatever and actually read the text, don't just look at the photo gallery. There are more than likely answers to most of your questions there, including an up to date schedule, how to contact them, what they offer, etc. Make notes if you need to. Choose a provider - Make a short list, or a single entry list for someone who offers something that matches what you are looking for - Look in the recco threads on Lyla for mentions of this provider to help guide your decision - Use the Lyla search feature to find relevant threads if you are having trouble deciding if someone is "real" or not. (If you are looking at private provider owned websites, social media etc - it's a good indicator that the provider is probably legit) - If you can't find any web or social media presence, and the photos on the ad seem "too good to be true", try using a site such as Yandex and do a reverse image search - if you find hits on porn sites, or "photo sharing forums", or find concurrent ads in multiple cities for the same time frame - you might want to consider someone else - If the ad you are looking at uses some hinky words or phrases - you might want to consider someone else Client etiquette - Now that you've made a choice, it's time to make contact - Treat this like an application or an interview - both of you are now going to make a choice on whether this seems like a good idea - BE RESPECTFUL - Use their preferred contact method - it is definitely listed somewhere, and you should have made note of it previously - Be prepared to offer some sort of verification - it was probably mentioned when you were looking at their ad/social media/website, but even if it wasn't and comes up after you make contact, be prepared to provide the info, or respectfully decline. - Make contact - Use a greeting, even as simple as "Hi!". Follow it up with details on what you are looking for, such as date/time, a name that you can be referred to as, and perhaps questions that you have about general location (this is not an address!) or something else that IS NOT ALREADY DOCUMENTED ON THE INTERNET - Patiently wait for a reply - you are interacting with a human being, not a bot or a machine. People are sometimes unavailable immediately. Often providers will note on their sites their reply etiquette, follow that. If you don't hear anything back the same day, try again the next day. If you don't hear back then, respectfully move on. - Once they reply, continue the conversation and work out the details. Don't ask for something that is obviously not going to be provided. Don't expect an exact location until right before the appointment. Follow their screening process. Dont haggle - you knew the cost going into this. - Remember that you are paying for an experience/time - not a person. - If at any time you arent comfortable, it's ok to stop. Be polite, say thank you, Date time! - Show up on time not especially early or late - Keep in communication - shit happens and sometimes we can't help being a bit late - COMMUNICATE! - If you do need to cancel your appointment, give as much notice as possible. Think of this like a specialist appointment - if you can't give at least 24 hours notice, then you might want to consider paying for their time. - Don't approach the location until you confirm its ok to do so - Have payment ready - you will more than likely already know their etiquette around this. Follow it - Act like a human being interacting with another human being - Prepare to leave at the agreed upon time Afterwards - If you had a good time, consider leaving a recco on Lyla. This helps the provider out a lot. - If you didnt have a good time, don't go bashing them online. That helps nobody, including yourself. Just move on. Often you have to visit a few providers before you find that compatibility - Human interactions don't always work out. Don't blame them and don't blame yourself - sometimes people just aren't compatible and THAT'S OK Congrats!! You made it!! This was a lot of reading I know, but this will help save everyone time and energy in the long run! Here's a 🍩 for your perseverance

I understand it's not the intent of this thread, but as a hobbyist who calls Halifax home, it does feel like a personal attack on us all. Those of us who read ads, do our research, exhibit appropriate mannerisms and show respect to providers and fellow hobbyists alike, should not all be painted with the same brush. Perhaps Halifax has become a "hotspot" for ignorant potential clientele, I don't know, but there are still plenty of articulate and appreciative hobbyists in the region. Thank you to all the local ladies whom I've had the pleasure to make aquaintance with, and continue to wade through the sea of "time wasters"...my two cents...

😍 THANK YOU !!!! tired of ignorant ass people telling women what they “should” charge or what someone else who doesn’t know their worth is willing to settle for 🙄

Happy Thanksgiving and Happy Long weekend 🍂 I will be in Ottawa Tuesday and Wednesday next week (due to Monday being a stat) Text 613*876*1415 Kisses 💋

Oh my! It is not rocket science!!! After being stung twice I made sure to do all the research I knew to do at the time before trying again. Being studious and judicious in my choice paid off many fold. When the time came to book it was more a matter of telling her about me. Once she accepted me and had a visit we build from that. If one cannot find anything about a provider maybe there is nothing . If I were to look for another provider I would definately look for local NS girl or at Maritime. Not necessarily born here but having permanent residence here. Doing research and knowing as much as possible about a lady can save time and shows real interest in her. Get past the pictures and read what they said. Be respectful and don't be a jerk.

I feel its best for me to go back into isolation. I have studies and an incredibly glorious sub to keep me occupied. Regulars I may consider a visit but not into meeting new clients for the next few weeks. Patience is appreciated and may you all stay safe ❤️

They way the law has been amended it allows a person to advertise and sell sexual services. What it does not allow is for a person to solicit, purchase or sell the services if someone else. It can be confusing for some and that is intentional. If you make an agreement with an SP for sexual services you are breaking the law and yes, the is risk is the purchaser's for prosecution. The SP, if offering their sexual services, is not at risk of prosecution. It was written this way, to protect the SP (yes, it is not the greatest but it's something). To prevent others from demanding sexual services from them. You are purchasing a SP's time that is all. They can make offers of what they are willing to do, but they do not have to do them. That is ultimately their choice. Daysha Love's original post and the posts from the SP's with their general agreement of the issue, are in regards to people's general illiteracy and lack of respect. Believe it or not they could also contact the police with the text's/e-mails and have the crown investigate and potentially press prostitution charges. The reason they don't is because it would not help the stigma that is still prevalent around SP's and the risks to them personally. So to those potential clients who read my post. Be respectful, read their ad's/bio's/recommendations, and if you can afford their service's hire them for a date. If you shower and follow their safe sex practices you will probably get what you want (unless they explicitly said they don't do that already of course).

You come on here acting as if you kmow it all...calling everyone out all the time I'm over it like im sure alot of people are but afraid to call you out on it Daysha had every right to vent and as always you came for her You should go watch some porn hub because as far I'm concerned you probably never even booked a lady Have fun😉

HPs got it. The amount of disrespect I've noticed over Covid has made me very upset. If a girls ad says no unsafe services and no short notice, but yet you still ask for bbb* and to "cum today" is showing full on disrespect. Slow service is to be expected, were hitting Winter/Christmas season, school started back up and people are still a bit careful with Covid. But thats not @Daysha Loves point. Just putting that out there. I care about my boys and I treat them well. But thats because they've proven to be worth my respect. Follow the rules, do your research, and treat us like a human first... then a sexy goddess.

There's definitely a difference between asking pertinent questions that arent covered elsewhere, and blanket texting the same generic line to multiple providers and picking and choosing that way without doing any sort of actual research. So clients - treat this like you would any other sort of application. Do some research, find out the answers to as many questions as you can, and then reach out to the provider you think meets your desires. Then, for deity's sake, be polite, be literate, and be respectful. Think about if you had posted an ad for a service that you were offering, and you outlined all the details about the service in your ad, then you had dozens of people contact you, and ask questions that are blatantly present in the ad. How would you feel?

I normally don't get involved in these conversations on here, but I would just like to point out several things. 1. You get paid (VERY well might I add) for your hard work creating your profile, etc. After all this is YOUR marketing, we all have to invest in ourselves one way or another in life! 2. Just because you are "Verified" that doesn't tell us, the client, anything other than you are real. For example Verified ladies have different definitions of "True GFE"/Cuddling etc 3. Please don't tar all clients with the same brush regarding "time wasters"... 4 I also work VERY, VERY hard for my money, and if I choose to spend it on a lady I feel as though I am entitled to ask questions about services/locations etc. From there, based on the responses to my questions, I'll make a decision to a) either see a lady or b) respectfully decline Any of the ladies on here whom I have seen can confirm I'm not a time waster, but I do ask questions before I make a visit, especially during the first communication. Finally for the record, I have never contacted you, and based on your post, you would classify me as a time waster, so I will not be contacting you in the future! Best of luck!

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Melanie is a very beautiful lady who I was very fortunate to have a date with and i am very happy i did. She lives in a nice part of town, quiet neighbourhood with easy parking and was easy to get to, no matter where you are coming from in HRM. Her place was clean and nice and I felt very comfortable and I was even more comfortable by Melanie's caring warmth and kindness. Her beautiful smile made our date so much more relaxing and exciting and she is very sexy and sensual and offered everything i was looking for and more in a date. I definately will be having another date with her as she made me feel special, thank you Melanie

I have made a social group named "I'm Sexy & I Know It". The group is meant to be some sort of self-esteem booster for all of the people on Cerb. I have found motivational photos , quotes , etc & would really love any and everyone to help me & join the self-esteem team. I made this group because as a child , I was the "ugly duckling" and always got tore down and picked on for my whole childhood life. But unlike most bullies in life , I developed into a beautiful, intelligent, attractive woman & am completly proud and content with who I am today. I wish growing up I had someone to comfort me and tell me I am beautiful and all the things anyone would love to hear. I mean , of course , everyone has relatives but for some strange reason everything means more when it comes from a complete stranger , funny eh? I also know self-esteem issues arent just childhood problems , thats for damn sure. So this group is for anyone who needs a boost in self-esteem , or those of you who feel compelled to join the group to "donate" your inspiration and motivation to the group. Or anyone who had any suggestions etc , feel free to reply or just find my group in SG page. :) YOUR BEAUTIFUL ;) kisses , Kiara Kinkz *