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Thanks for accepting this interview @waterat and to @lydiahardwood for asking him. I feel the same way as @waterat on all of those questions.

Terrific interview..thanks so much Waterrat! Maybe journalism could be a second career for you @lydiahardwood?

I just read a quote from a 20 year old entrepreneur yesterday. Lots of people envy him since he is only 20, but yet already pretty successful in mastering his entrepreneurship skills. One of his quote that can be an inspiration for all of us is "be a better, at least 1 per cent better person than we were yesterday!". My God, that is really true, especially in my case. I have wasted too much time on sleeping and getting lazy in bed, doing nothing lately lol. I can do so many things better than that instead. After reading his quote, i decided truly to become a better person than me yesterday. When I woke up this morning, instead of getting lazy for an hour or longer in bed, i straight go to the bathroom, freshen up, and get ready for my day. I just joined CNBC pro, so i take benefit of reading in depth interviews and articles for pro members only. I will do some groceries later on and be more productive today, and i promise to be a better me tomorrow and the day after tomorrow.... Simply to be at least, 1 percent better than I were yesterday! Shall we all try this simple method to become a better person? Let's do it for the better us. We live only once and life is too short, so let's get better, productive, sexier, prettier, wiser, healthier....smarter..and the list goes on. Muah! happy Sunday and happy Thanksgiving everyone Allie

Hey folks, So this is something that's been discussed in multiple threads, but given recent discussions I figured I'd do a bit of a compilation in a single thread. If you're new to this, or have been having trouble making connections, please read through this - it will take a few minutes, but there's lots of tips included Tips for finding a provider - Decide what you are looking for in an experience - Search on Lyla in your local regional forums in the Schedule forums - Look on the various provider advertising sites, such as Leolist, Massage Republic, VIPFavours & many more - Visit the provider's website, Twitter, IG or whatever and actually read the text, don't just look at the photo gallery. There are more than likely answers to most of your questions there, including an up to date schedule, how to contact them, what they offer, etc. Make notes if you need to. Choose a provider - Make a short list, or a single entry list for someone who offers something that matches what you are looking for - Look in the recco threads on Lyla for mentions of this provider to help guide your decision - Use the Lyla search feature to find relevant threads if you are having trouble deciding if someone is "real" or not. (If you are looking at private provider owned websites, social media etc - it's a good indicator that the provider is probably legit) - If you can't find any web or social media presence, and the photos on the ad seem "too good to be true", try using a site such as Yandex and do a reverse image search - if you find hits on porn sites, or "photo sharing forums", or find concurrent ads in multiple cities for the same time frame - you might want to consider someone else - If the ad you are looking at uses some hinky words or phrases - you might want to consider someone else Client etiquette - Now that you've made a choice, it's time to make contact - Treat this like an application or an interview - both of you are now going to make a choice on whether this seems like a good idea - BE RESPECTFUL - Use their preferred contact method - it is definitely listed somewhere, and you should have made note of it previously - Be prepared to offer some sort of verification - it was probably mentioned when you were looking at their ad/social media/website, but even if it wasn't and comes up after you make contact, be prepared to provide the info, or respectfully decline. - Make contact - Use a greeting, even as simple as "Hi!". Follow it up with details on what you are looking for, such as date/time, a name that you can be referred to as, and perhaps questions that you have about general location (this is not an address!) or something else that IS NOT ALREADY DOCUMENTED ON THE INTERNET - Patiently wait for a reply - you are interacting with a human being, not a bot or a machine. People are sometimes unavailable immediately. Often providers will note on their sites their reply etiquette, follow that. If you don't hear anything back the same day, try again the next day. If you don't hear back then, respectfully move on. - Once they reply, continue the conversation and work out the details. Don't ask for something that is obviously not going to be provided. Don't expect an exact location until right before the appointment. Follow their screening process. Dont haggle - you knew the cost going into this. - Remember that you are paying for an experience/time - not a person. - If at any time you arent comfortable, it's ok to stop. Be polite, say thank you, Date time! - Show up on time not especially early or late - Keep in communication - shit happens and sometimes we can't help being a bit late - COMMUNICATE! - If you do need to cancel your appointment, give as much notice as possible. Think of this like a specialist appointment - if you can't give at least 24 hours notice, then you might want to consider paying for their time. - Don't approach the location until you confirm its ok to do so - Have payment ready - you will more than likely already know their etiquette around this. Follow it - Act like a human being interacting with another human being - Prepare to leave at the agreed upon time Afterwards - If you had a good time, consider leaving a recco on Lyla. This helps the provider out a lot. - If you didnt have a good time, don't go bashing them online. That helps nobody, including yourself. Just move on. Often you have to visit a few providers before you find that compatibility - Human interactions don't always work out. Don't blame them and don't blame yourself - sometimes people just aren't compatible and THAT'S OK Congrats!! You made it!! This was a lot of reading I know, but this will help save everyone time and energy in the long run! Here's a 🍩 for your perseverance

Well you’re pretty amazing to start with Allie... And I love that advice. Particularly hard to be motivated these days. I can’t even get my dog to walk longer than 20 minutes these days. He’s not motivated either.

thanks Lydia and yay...thanks for sharing Waterat!

Yes!! ✨

This an an awesome read and everyone should read this to have a better understanding on how to find and approach a lady of your choice *Do your research on the lady/READ the ad/website *Be respectful and courteous when contacting her Chemistry is key in having a great time and enjoying each other Thank you for posting this😊

lol, Sharpe! I have to wonder whether having four dogs would provide you with an 80 minute walk? :)

Great interview waterat, my sentiments exactly. Thank you Lydia for these great interviews, I know everyone on here appreciates them.

Thanks for sharing that. Good advice for sure, especially on this strangely distant Thanksgiving weekend when it’s a little harder to be with family. I'm sure 10 years from now you’ll still be causing traffic jams

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings I enjoyed reading your answers 😊😘

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Yesterday it was a roast chicken (instead of Thanksgiving Day turkey) with baked potato. Today cooking all day in the slow cooker homemade chicken soup...about to put the noodles in a pot of water on the stove My mouth is watering as I write this A rambling RG

I would have to agree with you VERY sweet if not the sweetest she was so kind. I was hoping to hear how she was doing as well through the pandemic. that is 100% the girl I’m talking about in the profile !

Had the opportunity to meet Daysha. Absolutely beautiful, very smart and great conversationalist. I would alao say that she is much better in person than her pics.

thanks! Most of us take our beautiful, exciting (yet can be challenging at time) life for granted. I definitely took my easy life for granted few years back until i broke up with my partner and had a big car accident then i realized nothing in life is for certain. We have to earn it to get our dream life. When we were young, none of us will think we will be older someday. Just few years back, i made a traffic jam in Tunis because men over there were fascinated by my beauty and appearance. It might be laughable if i tell the same story probably even by now, or for sure 10 years from now. Bottom line is don't waste our short life. I learnt the hard way and i promise will not make the same mistake twice. let's be a better us:) muah!

Thanks Waterat for also agreeing to be interviewed. These interviews I must agree show that we all aren't the stereotypical men that society think of in this lifestyle but instead we're looking for companionship. Good interview Waterat, and Lydia

I understand it's not the intent of this thread, but as a hobbyist who calls Halifax home, it does feel like a personal attack on us all. Those of us who read ads, do our research, exhibit appropriate mannerisms and show respect to providers and fellow hobbyists alike, should not all be painted with the same brush. Perhaps Halifax has become a "hotspot" for ignorant potential clientele, I don't know, but there are still plenty of articulate and appreciative hobbyists in the region. Thank you to all the local ladies whom I've had the pleasure to make aquaintance with, and continue to wade through the sea of "time wasters"...my two cents...

A full tank of gas & a lottery ticket 😉

I was about to post exactly the same question ! Here is her Leo profile (for those who don't know her) - https://www.leolist.cc/d/Mariaxxo902 I have met her a few times here in NB, and she is perhaps one of the sweetest (if not THE sweetest) ladies I have ever met. Before COVID the last i saw her ad was from Cape Breton. I just want to know if she is okay in this pandemic. 😔

Happy Thanksgiving and Happy Long weekend 🍂 I will be in Ottawa Tuesday and Wednesday next week (due to Monday being a stat) Text 613*876*1415 Kisses 💋

They way the law has been amended it allows a person to advertise and sell sexual services. What it does not allow is for a person to solicit, purchase or sell the services if someone else. It can be confusing for some and that is intentional. If you make an agreement with an SP for sexual services you are breaking the law and yes, the is risk is the purchaser's for prosecution. The SP, if offering their sexual services, is not at risk of prosecution. It was written this way, to protect the SP (yes, it is not the greatest but it's something). To prevent others from demanding sexual services from them. You are purchasing a SP's time that is all. They can make offers of what they are willing to do, but they do not have to do them. That is ultimately their choice. Daysha Love's original post and the posts from the SP's with their general agreement of the issue, are in regards to people's general illiteracy and lack of respect. Believe it or not they could also contact the police with the text's/e-mails and have the crown investigate and potentially press prostitution charges. The reason they don't is because it would not help the stigma that is still prevalent around SP's and the risks to them personally. So to those potential clients who read my post. Be respectful, read their ad's/bio's/recommendations, and if you can afford their service's hire them for a date. If you shower and follow their safe sex practices you will probably get what you want (unless they explicitly said they don't do that already of course).

Thank you @Jenesis. Some great information here. Thanks as always Lydia

Thank you @Jenesis and to @lydiahardwood for another great interview.

I use the term provider or escort as this reflects a broader perspective in the services we provide out there. I have been in this industry for a long time now but just to clarify and I'm sure many of you know this but back in the day during the 70"s and 80's the term was "Call Girl". Now many may disagree with me but I'm old school girl and this term definitely fits me as escorts back then did exactly what we do today only the term had changed. That's my opinion anyway. Have a good day ladies.💋💋💋💋

I have chosen companion as it seems to fit my thoughts best. However I also use “Provider” frequently and also simply “Friend”. I have had to be specific about the word friend specially since she has been to my house in the past and of course good neighbours questioned me about my “ girlfriend” . I don’t the term girlfriend applies in this case as I perceived that kind of relationship very differently . But friend or “good friend” I find quite acceptable. Some terms I refuse to use in reference to her as I do not view her as such when it comes to the kind of relationship we have. Terms like whore, slut or prostitute do not even enter my mind. I think they are mysoginistic and demeaning although many find them acceptable. As for “professional girlfriend“! Really??!! I did not think that being a girlfriend could be a profession!!! My bottom line is this. The term companion and friend are what I prefer but I am also comfortable with provider. I would never use a term that may be belittling or demeaning in its meaning. I have too much respect and appreciation for her to think of her as anything but a companion and friend!

Thank you for hosting this interview Lydia👍. It was insightful and inspiring. I am an LGBTQ MtoF Bi CD Drag Queen sex worker, I'm fairly new to the industry and I love what I do. I find all the ladies I work with to be very accepting, supportive and friendly, but I have run into some roadblocks myself with some friends and some clients. I am accepting, non judgmental and very open and honest with everyone I know and meet. Most of the people I know and meet are accepting respectfull and supportive but there are those that degrade and disrespect me in a rude manner. I keep a good positive attitude though, most of the time, but I am determined to succeed - with a little help from my friends. Keep up the good work and always be proud and accepting of yourself and all others. Even if they're rude. Love and acceptance will win the day! Good luck Sarah, you have all my support and good wishes. Thank you Lydia I would love to do an interview with you. Unfortunately I am just about to get ready for work now. I will message you when I have time to sit down for the interview. My best time for an interview is in the mornings Mountain time. I work 6 nights a week with Friday being my only day off. Yes everyone in the industry have been very supportive and I love them and thank them all for the support. Now I just have to entice some clients to come into my Spa and request me as their service provider lol. Have a great day Lydia and will chat with you soon. Deanna Delight in Edmonton AB

Sorry I don't know how to provide a link. she does have a Twitter account @Blondebriella Saw Briella tonight and I was floored! She's a freaking smokeshow!! I wish I could give her more stars for appearance but 5 is the max. Her body is beyond belief. she's really cute too but her booty is so ridiculous it steals the show! I didn't find her restrictive but my requests are pretty reasonable and I'm a good tipper;) her time is surprisingly inexpensive. given the calibre of this girl I enjoyed giving a bit extra.

If you feel like you have to arm yourself to see a sex worker it might be best to stay home and rub one out haha

I recently had a visit with Briella and wow. If you're a fan of curves you should check her out. She is also very pretty and easy to get talk with. Communicating the date at her nice incall hotel was quick and simple, so I went for an hour in the afternoon. I arrived to find a beautiful woman with a calm demeanour who proceeded to put on a show and thoroughly relax me for the remainder of our time together. Deets remain between us but I more than enjoyed my time and my view. Feel free to PM me any questions. Afterwards we talked for a while and I didn't find myself in any hurry to leave, or feel forced out, so I eventually excused myself and we parted. I would happily repeat it all again.

I selected the term 'Companios' as that is what I had agreed to pay for. Many times, I've let a lady know while chatting with them prior to our 'session' that they could ask me to leave and I would do so happily: chemistry is important and respected. Hasn't happened yet and I hope it doesn't, lol - but I absolutely would comply. I also like the tern 'sex worker' as there's no ambiguity in what's being contracted. I think that clear, consistent communication is respectful and important. Communication: the source and solution to all of our interpersonal problems.

I really don't want to see this board disappear and this is why I try to post on it as much as possible. What is being appreciated is when members recognize the posting that I(as a member) put on the forums, clubs and discussions and also the recommendations that I post. Will the oldest job in the world ever come to an end...I highly doubt it, maybe not while I'm still alive. So how will other hobbiest( not really the word I want to use) find out about all the great ladies offering this? As mentioned before Twitter is great even if I don't use it(because I'm married and don't want to get caught), but this is also dying right now. And I will agree, we have lost some awesome posters, I could name them but that will not bring them back. I see many of you on here almost everyday and some do post a little and some do post a lot, and I appreciate all the post and pictures and comments so keep doing that and lets cross our fingers that more will come and join the group.

If they are the same as 77 they are being shut down at midnight tonight.