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I always say SAFE DATES ALWAYS(meaning I do not offer any bb services at all) ... but you are right tho some could mean no Bbfs while others could mean what I said All you can really do is ask but in a respectful way and just see how she responds

Thank you for presenting this interview Lydia and thank you Waterat for your insightful and on point reply’s. I agree with you and hope everyone reads this. Be respectful and see how much better the sessions can be for the client and service provider.

Pretty much covered it all. The only thing I could see being added is not to expect a right now appointment. If it's short notice the SP will try to accomodate but they may already be booked for the day and they also have to prep for you. Plan ahead if you can but be prepared to hear they may be unavailable if it's short notice and don't be disappointed if they are.

Now that 'safe services only' has become pretty standard on ads, i find myself in a tough position. I'm a big fan of b__j - sometimes that's all I want. In my somewhat limited experience this year, when I ask outright I've found that an ad mentioning safe can mean: 1. Yes, just no BFS 2. Yes, but it costs extra 3. Yes, but not until I know you (regular) 4. NO, you insensitive jerk, read my ad and stop wasting my time. Normally, logic would tell me that #4 is a totally justifiable response....if it wasn't for the fact that the other 3 responses were just as common. It's not a complete deal breaker for me, if recos here have been otherwise glowing, but I do like to have my expectations set. I know that today's environment has led to many SPs feeling increased hostility - the cockroaches have definitely come out of their tunnels this year - but now I worry about getting red flagged because of my questions! I'd love to hear thoughts and experiences from both sides! Thanks in advance!

For me one of, if not the most important thing i enjoy with a date is the Before & After connection with the SP, that is a major factor in determining if i will have a date with that SP again. I have alot of things that i am looking for in a date, not just 1 specific thing, so one specific thing like this post is talking about willnot determine if i date that SP again.

Even though I only see a very small number of ladies I like to keep up with who is who as much as I can. For that I read ads and profiles of several. I find on that subject that those who do it say it and those who don't also say absolutely no. So need to read the ads and respect their words. There are some who say nothing about it. In that case it is probably ok to mention it but using tact and respectfully. Not making it a deal breaker if you really like her. I have the utmost respect for women in general and the lady I may be with in particular and it is nice if we can show mutual respect for eachother's principlt

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A gorgeous roast capon, potato mash, roasted carrots and parsnip, and one of my best pumpkin pies to date. I think I've finally gotten the combination of spices and bitters right. A lovely Ontario Gewurztraminer went with it very nicely. No gravy. I'll make some tomorrow for the leftovers sandwiches.

Well, I like vanilla. Vanilla extract. Used to make and sell the stuff. Hundreds of liters of the stuff over the years. The smell still lingers in my basement and it gives me the shivers sometimes. Not in a sexual way, but in a very memorable and pleasurable way. I've been told that my love of black women is a fetish. I've just always thought of it as a preference. It isn't an all-consuming lust, nor an exclusion of others. I see it as similar to liking partners with red hair or beards or kilts. Oh. Those are all me. Shit. Now I don't know what to think.

Hey folks, So this is something that's been discussed in multiple threads, but given recent discussions I figured I'd do a bit of a compilation in a single thread. If you're new to this, or have been having trouble making connections, please read through this - it will take a few minutes, but there's lots of tips included Tips for finding a provider - Decide what you are looking for in an experience - Search on Lyla in your local regional forums in the Schedule forums - Look on the various provider advertising sites, such as Leolist, Massage Republic, VIPFavours & many more - Visit the provider's website, Twitter, IG or whatever and actually read the text, don't just look at the photo gallery. There are more than likely answers to most of your questions there, including an up to date schedule, how to contact them, what they offer, etc. Make notes if you need to. Choose a provider - Make a short list, or a single entry list for someone who offers something that matches what you are looking for - Look in the recco threads on Lyla for mentions of this provider to help guide your decision - Use the Lyla search feature to find relevant threads if you are having trouble deciding if someone is "real" or not. (If you are looking at private provider owned websites, social media etc - it's a good indicator that the provider is probably legit) - If you can't find any web or social media presence, and the photos on the ad seem "too good to be true", try using a site such as Yandex and do a reverse image search - if you find hits on porn sites, or "photo sharing forums", or find concurrent ads in multiple cities for the same time frame - you might want to consider someone else - If the ad you are looking at uses some hinky words or phrases - you might want to consider someone else Client etiquette - Now that you've made a choice, it's time to make contact - Treat this like an application or an interview - both of you are now going to make a choice on whether this seems like a good idea - BE RESPECTFUL - Use their preferred contact method - it is definitely listed somewhere, and you should have made note of it previously - Be prepared to offer some sort of verification - it was probably mentioned when you were looking at their ad/social media/website, but even if it wasn't and comes up after you make contact, be prepared to provide the info, or respectfully decline. - Make contact - Use a greeting, even as simple as "Hi!". Follow it up with details on what you are looking for, such as date/time, a name that you can be referred to as, and perhaps questions that you have about general location (this is not an address!) or something else that IS NOT ALREADY DOCUMENTED ON THE INTERNET - Patiently wait for a reply - you are interacting with a human being, not a bot or a machine. People are sometimes unavailable immediately. Often providers will note on their sites their reply etiquette, follow that. If you don't hear anything back the same day, try again the next day. If you don't hear back then, respectfully move on. - Once they reply, continue the conversation and work out the details. Don't ask for something that is obviously not going to be provided. Don't expect an exact location until right before the appointment. Follow their screening process. Dont haggle - you knew the cost going into this. - Remember that you are paying for an experience/time - not a person. - If at any time you arent comfortable, it's ok to stop. Be polite, say thank you, Date time! - Show up on time not especially early or late - Keep in communication - shit happens and sometimes we can't help being a bit late - COMMUNICATE! - If you do need to cancel your appointment, give as much notice as possible. Think of this like a specialist appointment - if you can't give at least 24 hours notice, then you might want to consider paying for their time. - Don't approach the location until you confirm its ok to do so - Have payment ready - you will more than likely already know their etiquette around this. Follow it - Act like a human being interacting with another human being - Prepare to leave at the agreed upon time Afterwards - If you had a good time, consider leaving a recco on Lyla. This helps the provider out a lot. - If you didnt have a good time, don't go bashing them online. That helps nobody, including yourself. Just move on. Often you have to visit a few providers before you find that compatibility - Human interactions don't always work out. Don't blame them and don't blame yourself - sometimes people just aren't compatible and THAT'S OK Congrats!! You made it!! This was a lot of reading I know, but this will help save everyone time and energy in the long run! Here's a 🍩 for your perseverance

Had the pleasure of meeting East Coast Kimmy a couple of weeks back during one of her trips to Moncton. A REAL GEM!!! She is super nice and sweet. Her incall hotel room and her were very clean. She is very open minded and put lots of effort in our encounter. And most of all she is very attractive and super sexy. Certainly worth a visit!!!

I don’t think I’m worthy of being nominated but it was kind of you to suggest it. Thank you Daysha

Strangely enough I know what it’s like to stop traffic too. I don’t know how many times I would be walking along a hiking trail and hear women say “he’s so handsome” or “so cute”. There is a slight chance they were talking about the dog, but I doubt it. And yes one time someone stopped their car and asked to take a picture of the dog. It’s hard to be so handsome...

I personally feel that this has a lot to do with times changing. Alot has changed since C36, and even within the last year has been a huge change.

Thanks for sharing that. Good advice for sure, especially on this strangely distant Thanksgiving weekend when it’s a little harder to be with family. I'm sure 10 years from now you’ll still be causing traffic jams

Well you’re pretty amazing to start with Allie... And I love that advice. Particularly hard to be motivated these days. I can’t even get my dog to walk longer than 20 minutes these days. He’s not motivated either.

If the site provides a sliding scale then why would using it accurately be an issue ? Also a recommendation is a review, simply a positive one.

https://www.leolist.cc/personals/female-escorts/new-brunswick/moncton_fri_nd_y_asy_going_f_irty_ager_to_p_as-6137026 Those pics are of Jade who just recently toured NB cities, She told me herself that someone else stole them and she had called them out and even tried to set up a visit to confront them on stealing her pics. She said once she got there it was some big guy and a couple of cracked out of it looking ladies. Just beware with this one as you won't get this girl from this add. But she does travel under the name Jade, or Barbie Jade.