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I have been encountering lots of potential friends requesting face photos & a lot of them deciding not to meet up with me because of my being uncomfortable to share. At one point in my life I have added face photos & photos with my tattoos showing but for my own safety I prefer to not do it now. It doesn’t mean a woman is unattractive & attempting to hide that from people, it’s just not all of us are courageous & comfortable sending something so personal to a stranger. We all know what’s on the internet belongs on there forever!

I do appreciate nicely shaped feet. Some ladies are ticklish here, most ladies will tolerate this, but when you find that rare lady who loves their feet handled as much as I love doing the handling....now that is incredible.

I just needed this to be said twice. This hits my feels. ♡

thank u for ur kind words! Your a real gentleman! I wish more men were as open and understanding as you! hopefully one day as a collective we can all get there 😃

Kimmy it takes courage and demonstrates courageousness to work in this business. Please know that you have and demonstrate both. Just be you and don't be distracted from that. It drives me bonkers to hear of gents being reticent about screening. Can you imagine if the standard approach were to have clients provide a face pic/picture of driver's licence etc. to book an appointment? I just don't get it: Ladies I visit - I've viewed their pictures, read their blog, perused their website, been given their location and yet I show up at the door of their incall unknown to them and still they welcome me in and share intimacy. I'm hoping we can build lyla up to be a safe place for providers and clients alike and it's going to take some work. Stay strong and stay safe!

Understood and appreciated. My apologies to those that may feel I was "mean spirited". I will try to make my opinion beneficial to the subject in the future. Lyla is so worth it if we all contribute.

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Agreed. The OP wasn't asking if it was OK to pressure someone into something they aren't comfortable with though. It was more about how to interpret what was stated, and if there was a polite way to ask for clarification without coming off as doing just that. It can be a touchy subject. I would suggest being as polite as possible with the query and make it crystal clear that you are just asking for clarification and that you respect her boundaries. (And make sure you have researched and made sure that the answer was not already given in an ad or website.) Good luck.

In this new normal it only makes sense to have both parties comfortable with the services available. I doesn't seem so complicated that you need to ask for BB service if it states safe only. My preference is safe only. That's who I'd look for and be comfortable being with. If you don't want safe service move on. Don't try to persuade a provider and put her and her clients at risk.

I really look forward to reading these interviews! Thanks Lydia and to everyone who is willing to be interviewed and share their stories.

Even when we do say SAFE dates only... some guys still ask do we offer unsafe services 🤔 Most dont read what we write ...so anyways ya can only blame yourself lololol

OOPS. Does getting stuck in the elevator with 3 other people for 1 1/2 hours and then getting rescued by the fire department count as a strange or unrealistic experience. Had to go home without any contact with the girl I had made plans with. She wasn't upset but thought the whole experience was funny. We did get together about a week later and laughed. This time I took the stairs.

I thought we are not supposed to post anything in the negative. I won't mention any names or personal info about the girls. There has been a couple of experiences in the past 12 years that I can recall. Once I entered a hotel room to a girl that was definitely not the girl in the pictures. Fell for the Bait & Switch more than once. This time the girl was about 100 lbs. .heavier than the pics. Definitely not my cup of tea. Then recently I was to meet up with a provider in downtown Ottawa. We had a scheduled time, and I showed up about 10 minutes early. Sent a text and was asked if I could wait outside in my car until the scheduled time. Waited and got a text that the previous client asked for more time so could I wait again. Don't know what I was thinking but I said Yes. Sat there in my car for another 1/2 hour. Got another text saying she would be another 15 minutes. Somehow I fell asleep waiting and woke up at 2 a.m. There was some nasty messages on my phone. I know that sometimes things happen but I was a little peeved that I got double booked and she got mad at me. Lesson learned and will not wait any more than 15 minutes. I haven't had any real scary experiences but I have left early because the girl was too busy on the phone. Since that time I try to stick with people on the Lyla site as they have a good track record of being honest. Just my 2 cents.

I have a fetish of watching a man explode in my hand til he can't take no more😆 it's a dominate thing I guess i like to be in control

Demand...Who are they to demand. Guaranteed 99.9% of the time someone demands pics he just wants the pics for masturbation aids and has no intention of booking a date. Sure he'll wrap it up in lines like "wanting to know how you look before he books" etc but he has no intention of booking. Some ladies feel comfortable showing their faces, and some ladies don't, you need to do what is comfortable for you Oh one more thing, you really never lost a client because you refused to buckle. I'll guarantee he would never have booked a date with you to begin with, he just wanted a free pic (or two, or three). And for those clients who say "I want to know what the lady looks like before I book a date" just consider seeing a companion the ultimate blind date (translation a first date with a companion is like the first three civilian dates in one😉) I would recommend doing what you feel comfortable doing, not what some demanding guy passing himself off as a potential client tells you to do My Two Cents A Rambling RG

Hello folks :) Just wondering how many other ladies run into this? I've tried to explain that for my privacy and security, I don't just send my face to strangers. For some reason, they don't get that. I've even said they can come on here and ask if I'm ugly, if they're that concerned. But no, in this selfie age, I'm expected to whip out a selfie to satisfy their demands. #1, I can't. I SUCK at selfies! I'm Gen X and never mastered that art. #2. I won't! I don't feel safe! I don't need the uncertainty of my photo being attached to this line of work being circulated online. I used to be naive and trusting. No longer. Halifax is a SMALL town, and I just can't take that risk. Am I just being paranoid? I know I just lost a client because I refused to buckle. But then, if they won't negotiate on this detail, what else may they not be negotiable on? I even said I'd meet them for coffee or similar if it was that big an issue. Thanks for any honest feedback. Raquel

Hahahahah! Yeah. Some are gunna hate it. But I do donate to the movement. So, be aware... 10% of every session booked in November, goes back into Prostate Cancer Awareness. 😉

Thanks so much babe! So glad we've had this chance to grow and learn together. ♡

I’d like to nominate @SarahAlexxx for the month of October. I’ve been spending time with Sarah since August and every date is better than the last. Sarah and I recently went on a social date. She knew I had been having a tough time lately for personal reasons, and seeing her was exactly what I needed. It was entirely different than when we had seen each other in the past. Yes, spending an evening with her in the bedroom is nothing short of mind blowing, but just sitting next to her and talking brought things to a whole other level. I feel like I got to know her a little bit more and learned things about her I wouldn’t have necessarily known while spending time under the covers. It makes me smile knowing I have spending time with Sarah to look forward to.

I just finished the "Bly Manor" series thats on Netflix. It's a follow up to the "Hill House" one from last year, with a lot of the same cast, but a different "scary story" . I enjoyed it, but it wasn't terribly scary, more of a very sad series of love stories, with a supernatural theme to them, but all interwoven.

Thanks waterat. My apologies for my perhaps snarky retort @rykky. I honestly meant no offence with my original post and am sorry if it came off that way. (And my second post was unnecessary.) Have a good weekend everyone.

@rykky and @Mikeyboy I see both of your points from your first posts, then....... so I'll first acknowledge that this is a comment from Ottawa so I don't attempt to interpret, nor view, ads placed in NS but I think this issue is a general problem. The term GFE migrated from SPs to MAs and many people have identified their confusion with it. I think the same seems to apply to 'safe'. Hygiene is important too. The phrase YMMV, always pertinent. It used to be primarily backpage but now it's leolist that is the sources of most request for information, comments and service menus and accordingly the uncertainty over what 'safe' applies to - see the op. I hope that we're able to capitalize on making lyla a reliable source of advice, discussion, information and respect by visiting, supporting and promoting the providers who advertise here. They'll need to earn that confidence and we'll need to offer it, always understanding that chemistry dictates the lasting impressions. I rely on lyla to keep me feeling sexy, safe and satiated (sss - I would have preferred to use an xxx mnemonic but I couldn't find the words :). My two cents, which is more than Donald tRump has!.....

Just finished watching "The Trial Of The Chicago Seven" on Netflix A 2020 movie, originally intended for movie theatres but because of coronavirus it is streaming on Netflix instead A good movie, I recommend it A rambling RG

I'm going to stay in the positive lane because after ten years only twice (two times too many no matter how many years) was I fleeced...and only seven (including those two times) did I have a bad date. Meaning for me overall this lifestyle has been a positive experience. But there was one bad date experience..... Well a picture is worth a thousand words..... A Friday morning laugh everyone LOL A Lighthearted Rambling RG

so sweet! thank you so much sis. Hopefully our path will cross someday dear

Ok, that is bad news. I have a feeling that things are probably going to be closed until May 2021. We are just getting into flu season and things are probably going to get worse before they get better.

I've had my money stolen, met SPs with horrible attitudes and wasted my time. I was threatened by the boyfriend of a SP one time. My favorite experience was when a reputable SP stopped in the middle of oral to tell me that if I finished in her throat she would punch me. 🤨

Worst experience for me was my second? outing, I was pretty inexperienced with the whole service provider thing and picked someone super attractive that was well reviewed as a traveling girl. I'm fairly shy, as anyone here who've I've spent time with can attest to, and have a certain type of woman I prefer to spend time with. This wasnt the type of girl I expected or particularly like, although the reccos indicated she was. I arrived about 10 minutes early to the hotel and waited outside. At 5 minutes before the agreed upon time I texted her. She said give her 15 minutes. So I did. After 20 minutes I messaged again. "5 more minutes". Then 10 minutes later she told me to come up. I should have just left. But I didn't. I went to the room. Knocked on the door and went inside. She had that look of disappointment on her face that I'm unfortunately familiar with. Once inside the conversation consisted of Money? - I hand it over Get undressed. - I started as she walked around picking up used condoms. Lay down. - I did and she basically just jumped on top of me. At this point I was turned off completely. I really didnt want to be there. After about 5 minutes she got up and just looked at me. I just got up and got dressed and left. She didn't try to stop me, didn't even say another word, just picked up her phone and started texting. The experience turned me off from even trying again for about a year. Obviously no names will be mentioned so don't even ask. It just wasn't the right person or situation for me at all.

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A lot of to do for a tuft of hair! An idea..why not get one made in the shape, size, color and length that you like, like they wigs and toilets. It can be like a thong and if you find a lady who agrees to wear it, there you have it, instant bush. You can then floss all you wish. Maybe I should patent that idea! Lol

Great Read. I very much concur with these perspectives. Thank you Waterat and Lydia.

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Even though I only see a very small number of ladies I like to keep up with who is who as much as I can. For that I read ads and profiles of several. I find on that subject that those who do it say it and those who don't also say absolutely no. So need to read the ads and respect their words. There are some who say nothing about it. In that case it is probably ok to mention it but using tact and respectfully. Not making it a deal breaker if you really like her. I have the utmost respect for women in general and the lady I may be with in particular and it is nice if we can show mutual respect for eachother's principlt

Well, I like vanilla. Vanilla extract. Used to make and sell the stuff. Hundreds of liters of the stuff over the years. The smell still lingers in my basement and it gives me the shivers sometimes. Not in a sexual way, but in a very memorable and pleasurable way. I've been told that my love of black women is a fetish. I've just always thought of it as a preference. It isn't an all-consuming lust, nor an exclusion of others. I see it as similar to liking partners with red hair or beards or kilts. Oh. Those are all me. Shit. Now I don't know what to think.

Daysha provides lots of pictures in her ads and while they are good pictures they somehow don’t quite capture how beautiful she is. Gorgeous smile. Beautiful eyes. It says a lot about her that despite how distracted I was she still made me feel very comfortable. She is personable, outgoing and easy to be around. She is so wonderfully curvaceous and sexy that I might need a thesaurus to look up some new words to describe her. Definitely looking forward to seeing her again

This is why I don't post dick pics. I don't want people on the street to recognize me.

I also do not post face pics for discretion and will never feel pressured to send any ... we dont ask to see their face lol But if its that important then perhaps they should contact a lady that is comfortable posting face pics Its about having respect for each other

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Bella has a couple of review threads, this one and another under Bella, this is the larger one, it may be a bit confusing for some, I'm posting my review in both anyway since nobody has done a review in a while and she's superb. I saw Bella recently, twice in fact. It was my first time visiting a professional SP in a very long time, and first time with any girl in forever. I can not stress enough how AMAZING she was and is! So much more then I could have hoped for. I was very nervous and self conscious, from the moment I arrived and got my first hug I felt safe and comfortable. Bella's space is very upscale, you hear that a lot in ads, but in her case it's very true. She spends a lot of money on her environment, it felt kind of like being in a nice nightclub you would find in Manhattan but without the crowd of people. Bella thinks of all the details and she provides all the little amenities you could think of as well as little delicious treats from chocolates to candies, all sorts of gum, even healthy treats like roasted Plantar's peanuts. She's such a sweety. It's very warm and inviting, nice music, lovely candles and pretty lighting all around. Her play space is equally great, her pro massage table with warm, comfy, microfibre blankets and fuzzy pillow is a dreamy place to spend time. Bella herself is beautiful, her eyes sparkle, her lips are lovely, I love her face. She exudes a feeling of comfort and a gentle sexiness that's infectious and highly addictive. Her body is a joy to caress and squeeze, whether it's in a hug, or other play time activities. Long story short, she's a 14 out of 10 in every category. Will repeat as many times as she'll have me. She's a true gem.