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At the end of the day its as simple as this.... We have the right to offer and refuse whatever services we want And YOU have that right to accept it or move on and contact a lady that provided a service you are looking for This is my body and my choice ... and i work how i feel comfortable I'm not going to lay out an explicit menu or engage in explicit conversations through text or on the phone If you contact me asking in a respectful mature manner about my dates I will respond in a way that makes sense 😉

Discretion is required on both sides in this industry. Ladies, take that into your hands and maintain control. If you aren't comfortable dont do it. And gents, respect that as well. No means no.

Hahahahah! Yeah. Some are gunna hate it. But I do donate to the movement. So, be aware... 10% of every session booked in November, goes back into Prostate Cancer Awareness. 😉

Well, the summer has wound down, we have fallen well into Autumn, with All Hallows Eve approaching, yet here on the east coast the weather has turned beautiful so I'm able to enjoy one of my favourite things, just hanging out, with the big fluff nugget, enjoying the shade on what feels like an early summer day. What are some of your favourite things to do, whether or not they are season dependant?

I completely agree and support every ounce of this post. Well said.

Both Daysha and Greenteal are right. It's not worth either parties time. It's more headaches than it's worth and it's filled with spam. I got kicked off last year and haven't bothered going back on. I'd rather find a connection through fs sw and come to terms of an arrangement from that. That way we both know what is happening and boundaries can be very clearly made.

thank u for ur kind words! Your a real gentleman! I wish more men were as open and understanding as you! hopefully one day as a collective we can all get there 😃

I'm going to second @lydiahardwood! @clearbluesky15 has been my number one supporter for over a year now. He has become such a wonderful ally and companion (teehee). Some of my most memorable moments in this industry has been with CBS. He has had my back so many times. His insight and open mindedness has lead us to an amazing path. Im actually so excited to see him again! It's been too long and every time I open the door, its like seeing my best friend again. 10/10 would smash. 😉

Thanks so much babe! So glad we've had this chance to grow and learn together. ♡

Even when we do say SAFE dates only... some guys still ask do we offer unsafe services 🤔 Most dont read what we write ...so anyways ya can only blame yourself lololol

Newly a member on here guys " hope to meet old and new commers.

You never know what you will read or learn on this website forum. There's a lot of information in this post. Things I never knew about. It is somehow related to thoughts I've thought about recently which is coming to an agreement with an SP that I enjoy being with, but then I think I enjoy variety. So i am confused on which i like better. i am new to this type of dating and so i have alot to learn first. I do know a connection with an SP is important to me and up til now I have seen alot of different ways SPs relate, they run their business how they feel is best and I like to enjoy my dates the way i like to enjoy them. There are so mant factors for me to experience before i consider either agreement or variety. From this post i have learned alot and I dont think these sugardaddy sites are for me.

You can't help yourself on any post let alone this one.

Very articulate and solid point!

Not when it's A cup or less and these double to triple D's have no where to go. It was like binding them in.

"I'll be your everything, your ultimate fantasy" Times available and location Monday Oct 19 Off Tuesday Oct 20 Off Wednesday Oct 21 In/out 1230pm-12am Thursday Oct 22 In/out 8am-7pm Friday Oct 23 Outcalls available Saturday Oct 24 Off Incalls are in Halifax at a central, discreet location with plenty of free parking. Outcalls are Halifax and surrounding areas and require 6hr notice for preparation. Open to men, women and couples. How to contact me Text or call: 902-456-2898 (text preferred) Email: [email protected] Twitter: @Elitekylie Website: https://www.kyliejane.net 'private' or 'unknown' callers will not be answered. Rates 30min... $140 1 Hour... $220 90min... $320 2 hours..$420 Additional hrs $200/hr Pics on site $25 each Videos on site $50/15min Pics and videos are for established clients only and are at my discretion. Overnights available, please contact me for rates and details. Special requests can be discussed and may be subject to additional rates. Outcall rates are location based and may be subject to a $50/hr travel fee.  About Me I am a 5'6 beautiful blonde with soft pleasing features, engaging blue eyes that will captivate you and luscious fill lips that will more than please you all over. My small waist, perfect hips, tight booty and perky breasts gives me amazing curves(36d-28-36) and an hourglass shape. With soft silky skin that is ready for your touch and firm strong legs that will easily wrap around you, I know I have a body that you will enjoy and take pleasure in. I'm open-minded, fetish and role-play friendly and look forward to bringing your fantasies to life. My attire allows me to satisfy many wishes, whether you desire the girl-next-door, the bad girl your mother warned you about or the exotic Porn star I can be anything you need and want. I have a very outgoing and cheerful personality. When I greet you at the door with the perfect kiss and you look into my alluring blue eyes any concerns and nervousness will just melt away. I am genuinely interested in your day, learning about you, your likes and dislikes, anything that will make our time together comfortable and enjoyable. I am smoke free, and expect you to be clean and drug and disease free as I am. This is a confidential, and discreet encounter that is held in respect. Donations are exchange for time and time only. Anything that happens within that time is mutually agreed upon as consenting adults. Yours always, Kylie Jane xo

So I have now been a paid member of SA for about a month now. To be honest I am not sure what to make of it. I haven't had any luck yet. Lots of conversation and offers for online stuff, but no luck for in person yet. I think I will let my 3 month sub run out and move on...

I have recently been spending time on Seeking arrangements as well. And I think this is a thing on there. Lots of ladies offering financial domination. I am very much a to each their own type of guy, but I scratch my head at this one... But meah if it makes you happy... it cant be that bad lol

Welcome! I know this will be a good site for you!

Will send photos per your request in my PM’s. Must love BBW’s. twitter: thealexshannon

Hello there everyone, I will be spending two days in New Glasgow and then four days in Sydney. I am so looking forward to playtime! I always aim to pamper and please. I want to put a big smile on your face for days to come. I am a sweet and sexy curvy beauty that wants to please you. StacieXX 902-440-3939

I have had an incident here in Halifax with a woman who took a few of my photos, edited them a bit and reposted an ad where she was robbing and scamming people (there is a post on here warning people about “me” which was actually the scam post) Luckily gentlemen have met me and could back me up a little, but even still it did effect my business quite a bit! So it does suck to have ur pics taken and especially for someone to abuse clients with those pictures!

I thought the no room for boobs was what made lingerie fun 😉

DATY is another perfect example of that grey area of safe services only. Some advertisements state safe only but when you politely ask they say, "oh, I'm fine with that, just no kissing." Since there doesn't seem to be any consistent "standard" to any abbreviation in this industry I hope the ladies will continue to humor polite, respectful questions from potential clients as we are curious by nature and some of us seek certain pleasures. Some of us read the ladies full ad, research their website and no matter how hard we try, some simple answers cannot be found. It's a bit too late to keep your mouth shut, pay hundreds of dollars to show up only to fund out it wasn't the encounter you were hoping for. Now after saying all of that, I do understand that ladies deal with endless questions everyday that never lead to a booking, it's unfortunate that the respectful men can sometimes get lumped into this category while they are trying to actually set up a date by asking a few questions.

I’d like to nominate @SarahAlexxx for the month of October. I’ve been spending time with Sarah since August and every date is better than the last. Sarah and I recently went on a social date. She knew I had been having a tough time lately for personal reasons, and seeing her was exactly what I needed. It was entirely different than when we had seen each other in the past. Yes, spending an evening with her in the bedroom is nothing short of mind blowing, but just sitting next to her and talking brought things to a whole other level. I feel like I got to know her a little bit more and learned things about her I wouldn’t have necessarily known while spending time under the covers. It makes me smile knowing I have spending time with Sarah to look forward to.

I just finished the "Bly Manor" series thats on Netflix. It's a follow up to the "Hill House" one from last year, with a lot of the same cast, but a different "scary story" . I enjoyed it, but it wasn't terribly scary, more of a very sad series of love stories, with a supernatural theme to them, but all interwoven.

@rykky and @Mikeyboy I see both of your points from your first posts, then....... so I'll first acknowledge that this is a comment from Ottawa so I don't attempt to interpret, nor view, ads placed in NS but I think this issue is a general problem. The term GFE migrated from SPs to MAs and many people have identified their confusion with it. I think the same seems to apply to 'safe'. Hygiene is important too. The phrase YMMV, always pertinent. It used to be primarily backpage but now it's leolist that is the sources of most request for information, comments and service menus and accordingly the uncertainty over what 'safe' applies to - see the op. I hope that we're able to capitalize on making lyla a reliable source of advice, discussion, information and respect by visiting, supporting and promoting the providers who advertise here. They'll need to earn that confidence and we'll need to offer it, always understanding that chemistry dictates the lasting impressions. I rely on lyla to keep me feeling sexy, safe and satiated (sss - I would have preferred to use an xxx mnemonic but I couldn't find the words :). My two cents, which is more than Donald tRump has!.....

Now I remember why I don't comment often. Always someone posting a reply that really doesn't add to the discussion only criticizes one's opinion. I will state my opinion clearly for you. If you like blondes or brunettes search for blondes or brunettes. If you want BB service don't search for providers that specify safe service. I doubt the provider makes that claim so you can ask for something else.

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Hey folks, So this is something that's been discussed in multiple threads, but given recent discussions I figured I'd do a bit of a compilation in a single thread. If you're new to this, or have been having trouble making connections, please read through this - it will take a few minutes, but there's lots of tips included Tips for finding a provider - Decide what you are looking for in an experience - Search on Lyla in your local regional forums in the Schedule forums - Look on the various provider advertising sites, such as Leolist, Massage Republic, VIPFavours & many more - Visit the provider's website, Twitter, IG or whatever and actually read the text, don't just look at the photo gallery. There are more than likely answers to most of your questions there, including an up to date schedule, how to contact them, what they offer, etc. Make notes if you need to. Choose a provider - Make a short list, or a single entry list for someone who offers something that matches what you are looking for - Look in the recco threads on Lyla for mentions of this provider to help guide your decision - Use the Lyla search feature to find relevant threads if you are having trouble deciding if someone is "real" or not. (If you are looking at private provider owned websites, social media etc - it's a good indicator that the provider is probably legit) - If you can't find any web or social media presence, and the photos on the ad seem "too good to be true", try using a site such as Yandex and do a reverse image search - if you find hits on porn sites, or "photo sharing forums", or find concurrent ads in multiple cities for the same time frame - you might want to consider someone else - If the ad you are looking at uses some hinky words or phrases - you might want to consider someone else Client etiquette - Now that you've made a choice, it's time to make contact - Treat this like an application or an interview - both of you are now going to make a choice on whether this seems like a good idea - BE RESPECTFUL - Use their preferred contact method - it is definitely listed somewhere, and you should have made note of it previously - Be prepared to offer some sort of verification - it was probably mentioned when you were looking at their ad/social media/website, but even if it wasn't and comes up after you make contact, be prepared to provide the info, or respectfully decline. - Make contact - Use a greeting, even as simple as "Hi!". Follow it up with details on what you are looking for, such as date/time, a name that you can be referred to as, and perhaps questions that you have about general location (this is not an address!) or something else that IS NOT ALREADY DOCUMENTED ON THE INTERNET - Patiently wait for a reply - you are interacting with a human being, not a bot or a machine. People are sometimes unavailable immediately. Often providers will note on their sites their reply etiquette, follow that. If you don't hear anything back the same day, try again the next day. If you don't hear back then, respectfully move on. - Once they reply, continue the conversation and work out the details. Don't ask for something that is obviously not going to be provided. Don't expect an exact location until right before the appointment. Follow their screening process. Dont haggle - you knew the cost going into this. - Remember that you are paying for an experience/time - not a person. - If at any time you arent comfortable, it's ok to stop. Be polite, say thank you, Date time! - Show up on time not especially early or late - Keep in communication - shit happens and sometimes we can't help being a bit late - COMMUNICATE! - If you do need to cancel your appointment, give as much notice as possible. Think of this like a specialist appointment - if you can't give at least 24 hours notice, then you might want to consider paying for their time. - Don't approach the location until you confirm its ok to do so - Have payment ready - you will more than likely already know their etiquette around this. Follow it - Act like a human being interacting with another human being - Prepare to leave at the agreed upon time Afterwards - If you had a good time, consider leaving a recco on Lyla. This helps the provider out a lot. - If you didnt have a good time, don't go bashing them online. That helps nobody, including yourself. Just move on. Often you have to visit a few providers before you find that compatibility - Human interactions don't always work out. Don't blame them and don't blame yourself - sometimes people just aren't compatible and THAT'S OK Congrats!! You made it!! This was a lot of reading I know, but this will help save everyone time and energy in the long run! Here's a 🍩 for your perseverance

Pretty much covered it all. The only thing I could see being added is not to expect a right now appointment. If it's short notice the SP will try to accomodate but they may already be booked for the day and they also have to prep for you. Plan ahead if you can but be prepared to hear they may be unavailable if it's short notice and don't be disappointed if they are.

This an an awesome read and everyone should read this to have a better understanding on how to find and approach a lady of your choice *Do your research on the lady/READ the ad/website *Be respectful and courteous when contacting her Chemistry is key in having a great time and enjoying each other Thank you for posting this😊

Who's John?? 🤔 I'm Sorry "Backcrack" but, I don't "Refer to my Special Friends/Clients... As ""John's""" St.George Street, "Streef Walkers" ....uses the Name "Johns"'.. Im Sorry but I have more Respect for Hobbyiest and Myself to use the "Word".. Just saying 😉.... Katie xoxo's 💋

Hi Raquel, Do they ask selfies because they want to know how you look like, or because they want confirmation that you are "real", that they're actually texting the woman they're going to see and not some random dude that might or might not be dangerous, or someone that looks nothing like the pics posted online? Because I understand the concern about being scammed, or being put in a risky situation. If a pic is requested for that reason, surely there are alternate ways of reassuring the guy, while protecting your privacy. Like a selfie (not face selfie) with a note, or a short video of your hand waving. And they might not understand that. Of course, it could just be good old entitlement and they don't understand privacy/safety simply because they don't want to understand. Selfie age or not, I don't think you should be expected to send one on request. I sure wouldn't send one if asked by a provider, even if the risks are considerably lower for me.

I also do not post face pics for discretion and will never feel pressured to send any ... we dont ask to see their face lol But if its that important then perhaps they should contact a lady that is comfortable posting face pics Its about having respect for each other