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This can be frustrating for sure. Especially when you are an understanding gentleman who doesn’t want to push or pry. Something we appreciate. So how do you navigate this? Very carefully. First, reviews are your friend. Search for them. Second, put out ISOs. Asking others if they have seen the person. Sometimes you won’t find a review but a guy will tell you if he has seen her. Remember when posting an ISO, to be respectful with what you are looking for. Which I don’t think will be a problem for you. Third, politely ask the lady. “I see you say safe services only, can I respectfully confirm this with you? I’m against BBFS and don’t want that, but I do like ****. Is that something on your safe services list as in CBJ only or is this something you provide? Again, I mean you no disrespect, I am just hoping for clarification. Thank you for your time, looking forward to your response.” Something like that would not bother me. If it bothers the provider, you simply apologize and move on. It would not be a match anyway. Lastly, and it sucks. Trail and error. And when you find a good girl who does the services you like, then show some loyalty and stick with her. You can change it up as well of course but making your own list of go-to girls will help in the future. Keep up with their ads as some may have to change numbers or names like I did. Hopefully these tips will help. It is not foolproof but it is something. LOL. Also remember what some of these girls have said. Because you will find some ladies who will refuse to see you, some who will not reply, some who may tell you off. You can only do what is best for you while being as respectful as possible. That is really the only thing any of us can do. Goodluck.

THIS IS AWESOME!! YOU'RE AMAZING GIRL!❤️

Thank you Allie, your story is very enlightening. I admire and respect what you have done in your life and what your dreams and desires are. You look more beautiful everytime i see your pictures. I hopefully look forward to seeing your beautiful smile in person in a future date, thanks again Allie, take care 😃

Will send photos per your request in my PM’s. Must love BBW’s. twitter: thealexshannon

Hi Lydia, Thank you. I'm verified and am not able to delete my photos using the manage album button. There used to be a delete option included in the manage image button. Now you can only edit. That button is available under the image on the right hand side. Is this temporary and due to changes being made by the developers? There also used to be an option to move photos from one album to another. This feature has been gone for some time now. As well, anytime I post new images, they need to be approved. I will take a look at my settings to see if there are any other options I am missing. As an update. I sent a pm to Lydia and she was prompt in deleting the image for me. Thanks so much. 🙂

Thank you dear and I look forward to it. Beauty is only skin deep, I’m more interesting deeper, ready to be explored 😎

😍 Well I could get there in less than a hour... I adore you both too. Looking forward to seeing you individually in future visits xo. Although if you ever want to team up again...

These are nice and curvy.

I agree she is very sexy I enjoyed my time with her😆😈 wish you was here with us we both adore you Sharpe😘

Allie you are one of a kind! Love everything about you and proud to have met you! You are a dream come true to any man that had met you! Thank-you for sharing your story!

I'm definitely a sarcastic ass, it's why I have no friends and nobody can stand to be around me.

Hello Gentlemen, I am Ms. Styles, a mature yet youthful looking Caucasian Lady with long dark hair and dark brown eyes. I am a playful seductress with a passion for er0tic expression, causing extreme pleasure all through your session. I offer you my full attention as you relax and receive my loving affection. Mutual touching, light teasing with slippery body slides I can not forget to mention. Offering Sexy massage, Fetish/Kink or Romantic Companionship. I am down to earth, open minded and enjoy spending quality time with nice mature, respectful Gentlemen. My location is always clean with a Shower, fresh towels, warm oils. If you are serious about booking with me... Please help speed up our communication to set up a date by mentioning your; name and age, when you’d like to meet and for how long, some info about yourself and the kind of experience you’re seeking. Mature Gentlemen Only Thank you for your consideration, Ms. Styles 506-588-0397 I now have onlyfans.com/msbxxx where you can see more of me and keep in touch.

Yes Daysha is very beautiful. And doing duos with Exotic Touch Danielle...that’s almost too much beauty and hotness in one place. Ah to be Freddy right now...

Hello my lyla lovers, I will be hosting in Saint John Tuesday the 27 to Thursday the 29. I book only through text with verifiable numbers, no text apps. I’m excited to hear from you and let’s make some amazing memories this beautiful fall week in NB.... can’t wait to hear from you 😘😘😘 Cassie text at: (506) 238-9020 email: [email protected] http://twitter.com/cassiesteelecan

I'm sure that posting this every few days will definitely help you find someone.

My pleasure dear ! It’s so nice if everyone involved in this industry respects and helps each other, between a client and a provider, among providers, among clients... WE are all connected! Instead of fighting with each other’s, let’s embrace (and respect) our differences and make this industry a better place Lastly, Two thumbs up for Lydia and Lyla.ch who give all of us the opportunity to contribute 🙏

That sucks. It happens. Still, frustrating and can be concerning. I insist on voice confirmation for new clients. I stopped giving out my location without it. I ask the client to confirm as many times as I need, including the day before, the day of and 2 hours before (I need to speak to a person at this point or Im not putting my make up on 😌) and again 20 minutes before, which is how long travel time takes here. I explain its only because theyre new and they won't always have as many steps to get through to see me, its just for the initial encounter I let the client know its simply bc of 'no shows' and that I appreciate the steps they're taking. I assure them I am legitimate and not wasting their time and state that I have to hold the same standard for myself. I really like the suggestion about a pic with street details & a specific hand gesture for verification. I send new visitors to a nearby locale before giving my address, so I will probably start to implement that while I am still actively working. Great topic! I'm happy I had something to contribute and I hope the suggestions help the OP🙏🏻 many blessings to all you lovely lyla'ers ❤

Maybe just a little rough patch we are having our here due to everything going on!!! Come back out!!

Jazz is new but she is only part time. Wish she works evenings. Maybe mid 20s east indian a nice mix of deep and relaxation strokes. I would repeat often if she worked evenings.

Discretion is required on both sides in this industry. Ladies, take that into your hands and maintain control. If you aren't comfortable dont do it. And gents, respect that as well. No means no.

She was definitely one of my favourites. I think I met with her more times than anyone else around here. Please post if you find out that she's available. I would love to meet up with her again.

I think this covid-19 situation has exacerbated a pre-existing problem for the industry. @Allie Zeon's suggestion for tweaking your screening may help. The first time I met Allie she had recently been dealing with no-shows and requested I send her a pic with a specific hand gesture and location to confirm my bona fides. Worked fine and I always try to see her when she passes through Ottawa. win-win. While I recognize @newfy 's reminder that we're dealing with people I believe this industry doesn't quite parallel the automotive industry - the mechanics don't have to clean the grease off their face and a double booking doesn't mean both clients can't be served, although perhaps not in the expected timely manner. I have concern for the stress having revealed a room number causes. I would discourage that. Maybe meet a client in the lobby or meet them at the bar and then escort them to the room? I'll defer to the advice of SP's who have suggestions and maybe that advice is best shared in the private SP area available on this board. A selfie, showing clothing, texted from the lobby of a hotel (or even from home hours earlier) would make a client readily identifiable for a preliminary rendezvous. I realize this doesn't eliminate the issue of having prepared for the session and possibly having turned down other suitors for that time slot - yet still a step in a better direction. As @NotchJohnson noted above, this problem affects both sides of this industry, though for the SP's, much more so. Ladies and gents: leolist is rarely our friend. Lyla usually is. (apologies for the comma splices :) )

This is what I told a client the other day! These so called “clients” are ruined it for everyone. We’ll never be able to make sense of this? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Distractingly beautiful. Dangerous curves. Easy to talk to and a really nice person. Definitely very sexy.

Hey everyone, I haven't posted in a long while but thought I'd share my experiences about sugar-dating as I have used the SA site for several years with great success. I have enjoyed about 30-40 incredible sugar baby relationships and the women were (for the most part) amazing, sweet, classy and some were ridiculously good looking. 80% of the time it was a hot fling that lasted 2-3 months and we end it on friendly terms. I never get upset or give someone a hard time. 20% of the time, we became long-term frisky friends, and more importantly, friends. Some of these ladies still keep in touch with me even though we are no longer intimate/moved away and just want to catch up. No money or gifts involved. Others will contact me from time to time looking to hook up and need a bit of help with expenses. I also have 3 occasional frisky friend relationships that have been ongoing for 2-3 years. The fun thing is that over time you can develop a black book of ladies that come back to you. You get to know the ladies well. Yes, there a flakes and fakes on the SA site and you have to weed them out. Many of your messages go without a response. What I have seen is that 10-20% of young women in my City become members at one point or another in their 18-27 stage. So many come and go. Most of them go on there for a week, see guys are idiots and move on. I suspect that many men don't know how to talk to women and just try to "buy" them (like property) and send them inappropriate vulgar messages offering sex for money. DON'T DO THAT!! I suspect these are the same fools that get blocked by MA/SP. Many of these ladies on SA are not MA, SP or seeking multiple partners. These are often students or ladies with full-time office or government jobs. Most of them close their SA accounts after we start an arrangement. I've had hundreds of them tell me they are just tired of young broke guys that are rude and cheat on them so they give up on traditional dating. If you can catch them in their first week online and show them you have class and will treat them well they often will accept to meet you for a drink. After that, it's about your skills, appearance and ability to connect. Also, this site works best for those aged 35-50 (unless you are older but have a youthful appearance and style). It's the honest truth. Many ladies have an age cutoff and you have competition. If a younger, more attractive, more generous guy comes along, you may lose out sometimes. I did my homework and operated a free female account on SA for a week before joining just to size-up my competition Usually, I buy a 3 month SA membership. I ask for a number & pics from all the ladies I am interested in and start texting within 48 hours or dump them as flakes. I get 20+ phone numbers and start to narrow down. I would end up meeting 8-10 ladies and choose 5, keeping a constant rotation. When I dropped to 2-3 women, I would open a new SA membership with different username and pics (**because some sugar babies get jealous and monitor your old account to see if you're active) and start the process again. If you are meeting a lot of ladies and not closing I think it's on you. I have a 50% success rate, which suits me fine. This site is worth it if you have time to engage women and can spare $2,000-$3,000+ a month. It is not like MA or SP where you just go for an hour. Most of the ladies would meet up for 2-6 hours and want both social (dates) and intimacy. Sometimes it can be a weekend away or even a week vacation together. Many ladies are willing to be your girlfriend for a week if you pay their way to a nice vacation in the sun or to Europe. Costs you $1000-$2,500 for a week of their time. Considering gifts and financial support, I operated in the average range of $200-$400 per meet. I don't pay or go for platonic; I have lots of friends. Usually, it takes 2-3 dates before we become frisky friends. It's a different approach though. It's not like giving cash in an envelope. Sometimes, it's cash. Sometimes, you hook up without any donations. Sometimes, it's overnight. Sometimes you make their car payment, you buy them gift cards, a laptop, new phone. Sometimes, you'll give them a ride or send them an Uber. These ladies often tell me they don't want to feel like an escort. Personally, I think it's BS because I like the MA/SP ladies too and I don't judge. But many of these SA girls are from different backgrounds and see it that way. I dated 2 ladies who were from wealthy families and their real-life daddies were lawyer/doctor/executive types. They were used to their dads giving them cash allowances and gift cards. Lol. If anyone here has had some luck on the SA site, PM me and perhaps we can bounce off some ideas. **P.S. These are simply my observations and experiences. Please... no haters or thread hijackers. The Wealthy Cowboy