Ottawa here and the no shows are still a real thing. Since Covid I limited who I would see at first only to those I already knew and trusted and only lately started to post again and as soon as I do the no shows begin again and the saddest part is they aren't kids these are also long time members of lyla as well . My theory is this , they are legit and something terrible came up and could not show (ok) Some agree birds other girls are having guys book and not show and YES its a thing though I so do not understand why OR the men are just slowly becoming losers>? My bday that just past kinda got ruined thanks to this and I suppose I am still a bit peeved about it but what can we do. I mind my own business, I stay clean and safe I don't talk crap and I don't socialize with most others ladies to limit the weird catty thing that seems to go on some times. So best wishes to all the other ladies that are also just trying to make a living and mind their own and Gents try to remember what it means to BE a Gentleman.Rant Over heheh. Luvs and Kisses .