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Screening doesn't have to compromise your anonymity. A lot of screening is simply done on the basis of your behaviour during the booking process. Did you contact the lady using the method of contact she specifies, or did you call her text-only number? Did you use complete sentences, or did you just say, "Rates? Location?" Did you give her reasonable length of time to reply, or did you get abusive after a whole two minutes of waiting? Did you ask questions that are clearly answered on her website? Are you carrying on the conversation and tire-kicking without ever actually booking? If she asks you to confirm the day before, did you do that? All of this (and more) matters, and none of it identifies you in any way other than "not an idiot or an asshole", which you can hopefully live with. When it comes to references, that still doesn't *have* to compromise your anonymity. Admittedly, this bit is harder if you're new to all this and don't have a track record... but there are quite a few providers out there who don't ask for references (although they still screen, as above) and who will give you references in turn later on. And references can be given without real names being attached... if your handles/email address/phone number line up then the people giving and receiving the reference know they're talking about the same person, which is what matters.

For me it’s important to understand that the time we spend is an escape for me from outside worries. I love to be loved & caressed, give & receive respect. Conversation plays such an important role. Thanks

Sexy is important too for sure. But so is chemistry. I’ve met several ladies who were beautiful, sexy and easy to talk to but without that sense of connection it’s not the same. So I would say that beauty and sexiness might get you through the door the first time, but the sense of connection keeps bringing people back.

Mine too! But I hadn't found anyone who wasn't into it until a couple of years ago, which is when I found out just how important it was to me that my partner actually enjoys pleasure. In fact the more pleasure I can give the more I enjoy myself.

Do you have a fetish that you can't satisfy? What are you secret fetishes? I have a fetish of seeing a woman squirt, also like to see a woman get dressed up. Ok maybe not the weirdest of fetishes but that is what makes me happy. What about you? Here are some fetishes that are a bit unusual... Does one or more of these fetishes describes you?

Not to mention they prefer you to stay off the roads when driving LOL...(OK just sometimes) To add to this though it took what seemed like forever to get my Veterans Card, last night and this morning tried applying for my CF One card but my phone wouldn't process a PDF doc. So I emailed and expected to wait forever. Almost immediately got a response and within an hour my CF One card is now in the mail Delivery time up to Canada Post now But I was very impressed by the customer service received A Happy Rambling RG

Mine is quite common. Spanking, giving and getting.

You had to post just after I bought a jar (big jar) of Strubs Full Sour Pickles as a treat A Unsure Rambling Since I Don't Know What To Do With Them Now RG🤢

Hello there, I am going to be in Sydney this week. I look forward to seeing my friends and maybe making some new ones 🙂 I always aim to please and put a big smile on your face for days and days to come! Let me be that special treat just for you! 😉 You deserve it! Stacie 902-440-3939

Ok thanks for the input. I’m still working on my clothing attire and hopefully someday I can be all dolled up. I totally get it that variation is a spice of life 😎

Yeah, the Canadian Army.... drive with your lights on during the day, your lights off at night and they take away your watch after 30 years...

The most important criteria for me is genuineness and a flirtatious, fun attitude. My girl always dresses in lingerie, has candles and music going.....and I appreciate her effort.

Seconded! Great choice and a wonderful lady.

I'm likely the exception to the rule... I'm perfectly happy with literally whatever. Some ladies are more comfortable in lingerie as it sets the mood, but I'd just as happy with jeans/sweats and a teeshirt if that's what they prefer. In some ways, more so. Really, whatever makes my companion happy and most comfortable. If I'm getting a playstation 5 for christmas, I'm not going to be the one complaining about the wrapping paper! I do get that others are more sexually turned on by clothing, it's just not particularly me. For pictures in an ad, however, I'd probably expect a bit more "sexy" for lack of a better term. I don't expect a full carnal display, but something tasteful and with effort/thought put in. A semi-professional or tasteful photoshoot shows more effort (and dare I say professionalism?) than a mirror selfie, which in turn suggests something about the lady in question to me. I do admit to being a sucker for a woman with a pony tail, though 🙂

James, I love your input. I have a concentration deficit and can’t read long sentences but this time, I’m able to read it all:) I love that you mentioned sex appeal and the ability to be a cameleon. I still have to learn a lot to become a good cameleon for sure lol. Yes, life’s experience and the ability to carry a conversation are definitely crucial especially for older clients

Reviews are critical in choosing...as is a nice ad with honest pictures. To cultivate repeat clients though seems to require a little novelty or changes in the encounters. People say they want the same thing but marketers have know for decades that a little novelty increases interest.

Thank you @Allie Zeon for this interesting post. I am in my mid 30s and while I can definitely agree various ages expect very different outcomes in their sessions. Sex appeal was very important in my early 20s with the expectation of pornstar looks but with more maturity, perspectives change. Now I find it more appealing when a lady, whatever the age, expresses herself with confidence and elegance, yet humble and kind with a good sense of humor. I have always admired the light touch of fingertips, soft spoken words and especially the chemistry when locking eyes. Chemistry is not always instant nor as @StephanieMystique mentioned "garunteed" but it is powerful turn-on when it happens. As there is many wonderful ladies I have yet to meet, respect and appreciation to you all!

Yes! Thank you. “To escape from outside worries”. In other words, you expect a great stimulating session, relaxing and warmth with a nice conversation and sensual, mutual touch where you feel refreshed and rejuvenated, till the next visit:)

I look for ladies who represent themselves truthfully. I’m not interested in those who perform online to attract me as a client. I prefer authenticity. Age is irrelevant really as youth can be misinterpreted since some age better than others. So a number is less important than other characteristics. At least from my perspective. I also enjoy ladies who are independent and don’t rely on others for their success. Perhaps that is why I pay little attention to reviews.Although I appreciate this forum for threads like this.

Sometimes youth may seem to have advantages, however many of us would prefer the strengths of the more mature experienced ladies! It’s the sharing of life’s experiences and caring for each other, that’s so important when spending time together! It is for me!

I get it. Let me assume: you both are 50 plus? younger men might want different things from an escort. I think the younger ones will value physical attributes more?

I’ve met people both in and outside of the industry who practically radiate charisma. They have a caring spirit and can make you feel like you’re the most fascinating person on the planet. You just want to be around them. I’m probably not describing very well, but I’m sure the lady in TO that you mentioned, Allie has that quality. Had that impression from Lydia Hardwood as well. You can tell even just from her online postings that she is a caring person. Besides Allie I think you just have to look at yourself to answer your own question!

I'd like to nominate @OldandNerdy Hes such a sweet gem and always stays open minded and honest. So glad to have him as a member of this lovely community.

I do appreciate nicely shaped feet. Some ladies are ticklish here, most ladies will tolerate this, but when you find that rare lady who loves their feet handled as much as I love doing the handling....now that is incredible.

I have a fetish of watching a man explode in my hand til he can't take no more😆 it's a dominate thing I guess i like to be in control

Well, I like vanilla. Vanilla extract. Used to make and sell the stuff. Hundreds of liters of the stuff over the years. The smell still lingers in my basement and it gives me the shivers sometimes. Not in a sexual way, but in a very memorable and pleasurable way. I've been told that my love of black women is a fetish. I've just always thought of it as a preference. It isn't an all-consuming lust, nor an exclusion of others. I see it as similar to liking partners with red hair or beards or kilts. Oh. Those are all me. Shit. Now I don't know what to think.

You are not vanilla RG, you simply like what you like and as long as it makes you happy then you are good ! Just saying...

Damn guess if I was ice cream I'd be.....LOL Yes I'm vanilla, or in other words boring RG

Here are some more fetishes that I find interesting, tell me what you think? I know some people (I won't say names) that love to be bitten, not like the vampire but close ! Do some of you gentlemen like to wear the ladies underwear? Let me be clear on this, you love the feeling of its fabric on your skin ! Footjobs, I just want to say that as long as you touch my junk with any part of your body I'm happy with that ! Milking breasts, do you like having her boobs in your mouth and sucking the milk out of them? This one is weird and it creeps me out but it's a fetish so here it goes. "Come and F*** me daddy". So the daddy/daughter roleplay could be hot for some but not for me. Are you into armpits? Some people out there are and it's real ! Roughing it out. Some like to be thrown around, abused, deny orgasms etc... Public nudity, strip in front of people or crowd. Don't mind the mess, cumshot all over her/his body ! Pegging, some guys like it in the ____ ! Playing doctor, personally I enjoy finding out about the body of the other sex. Let me explore. Exhibisionist/voyeur, that one is easy for me I am a lot of both. Reading about sex stories, does it turn you on?

I wont go into details about my personal fetishes as I dont do everything during my encounters than I do in my privvate life But tattoos. I love tattoos on other so.much. Makes me weak in the knees

Mine is something very common but yet so difficult to get from providers. Its dry adult nursing/breast feeding.

I've just acquired all of the above......, lol!

The reason why I don't like dill pickles...