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Thank-you so much for you kind words and support especially through this tough time You are always a delight and and i enjoyed our sexy chat today as well... Cannot wait to see you again in person ❤️

It’s a perfect date for us, but only if we get along well. If you come to my place or any other girls’ private home who don’t mind to share and show their home, 2 hours will fly so quick. Starting from having a tea, beer or wine together to get to know each other...followed by massage or jacuzzi or...and etc. Lots of fun stuff. For new clients, 90 minutes or longer are the one I also prefer, especially if you come to my house. Greanteal and Notch have different opinions and I get that. But for me, I need at least 15-20 minutes to be fully comfortable. I can’t do 30 minutes 😌 So happy to hear more opinions with some details this time! Lyla allows us to share both opinions equally. Our opinion is equally important here. Thanks for that. By having this discussion we both can minimize misunderstanding and hopefully we will get along for 2 hours session or even longer 🥰

Allie, Reading all the comments (and have already commented myself) I want to further add. When first meeting with a lady, I suspect both are a little nervous - to be suspected. If the client has done their homework and does what the provider expects without being "reminded", the encounter should move along smoothly. Getting comfortable with each other with some general conversation goes a long way to setting the mode for the encounter. To me a good client respects the boundaries of the lady and should (must) ask what is "out of bounds" during the encounter. That will make things move along at a comfortable level. I will add, that the first encounter in my opinion should be a minimum of 2 hours - I know some will disagree with me, but I personally feel strongly about this. During follow on encounters, the level of comfort and trust will build and make each encounter and enjoyable experience. Most of all take time to talk and enjoy each others company. It is not a race to the finish.

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@Allie Zeon, if you want my honest truth my favorite date would have to be between 5'10" and 6'1" tall, I don't really care for the ethnicity and between 35 and 55 years of age, but she has to be average weight because I don't like skinny girls(sorry to the ones that are). I'm not much of a breasts man but I do love them so B-C or D cup is perfect for me. The one thing that I love are legs and bum so if she has a beautiful curvy bum I will melt. As for tats they do nothing for me and often will not notice them because I'm so used to seeing them. I prefer long dark hair or a redhead, blondes are alright as well but my preference goes to the previous two. I really like a good conversation before or after or throughout the date if we are sharing are likes and dislikes in the bedroom. I like having her take control if she is a strong woman and knows what she wants and I will let her abuse of me(don't leave marks please) and if she knows how to play around a man's neck( I love having nibbles around my ears and her sucking on my Adams apple(this will bring me very close to orgasm) and have her hand there when she is using her mouth elsewhere). I hope that these are good details for you dear Allie?

I’m a big fan of Danielle’s so I thought I would try some online/long distance options. I wasn’t sure what to expect from a sexting date. I poured myself some coffee and got myself ready for a casual sexy chat. That coffee got left behind pretty fast. That was one hell of a hot session. If I was a smoker I would have lit up afterwards. Had a nap instead Danielle’s aura of sensuality and sexiness shone through even over texting. Her online content through Onlyfans and the videos she provides directly are also captivating. It may not be the preferred way to meet but during these COVID times these are good options and a great way to show support.

I would be open to this too. It would be cool to have someone to talk to about this hobby in person instead of just online. Also before I got into this, I didn't know that SPs helped each other screen clients. I'm glad you do. It's steps like this that will help ensure the safety and wellbeing of clients and escorts alike.

Screening doesn't have to compromise your anonymity. A lot of screening is simply done on the basis of your behaviour during the booking process. Did you contact the lady using the method of contact she specifies, or did you call her text-only number? Did you use complete sentences, or did you just say, "Rates? Location?" Did you give her reasonable length of time to reply, or did you get abusive after a whole two minutes of waiting? Did you ask questions that are clearly answered on her website? Are you carrying on the conversation and tire-kicking without ever actually booking? If she asks you to confirm the day before, did you do that? All of this (and more) matters, and none of it identifies you in any way other than "not an idiot or an asshole", which you can hopefully live with. When it comes to references, that still doesn't *have* to compromise your anonymity. Admittedly, this bit is harder if you're new to all this and don't have a track record... but there are quite a few providers out there who don't ask for references (although they still screen, as above) and who will give you references in turn later on. And references can be given without real names being attached... if your handles/email address/phone number line up then the people giving and receiving the reference know they're talking about the same person, which is what matters.

Hey @Mod_Cat! Thanks for posting this. ❤️ I am also happy to see the "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all" back on the header of the site. I was a bit worried when the site changed and the tagline was removed. Yay! ❤️

Just to make it clear to Mark, Allie is a joy to be with and I will agree that even 2 hours might be cutting it short, you should book a 4 hour with her if you want the full GFE, I know I should have with her when I met her last year but like I said I only book the full hour on my first date. You were a blast Allie and I'll book you for longer the next time I see you. XOXO

I have learned a lot from our discussion, thanks for those who have shared their input. Effective communication is so important! And for you boys...as a client, please please tell us what you like in the session and also tell us what you don’t like. By being open, we can achieve that stimulating, intimate and relaxing session and we might even become friends over time. I have made few friends in this industry and I would like to have more. Being open and mutual respect are one of the key, right?

I do enjoy a petite women and I was engaged with one (she was 5 foot nothing) too many years ago, she drove me wild and gave me so many great head(aches) lol. It is nice to be with one once in a while. Your height and physique is also perfect Allie, don't get me wrong, all I'll say is that the tall drink of water are few and far in between. If you were to try this kissing and sucking on the Adam's apple with the next few guys you might see them go into ecstasy like I do and that is because I experiment a lot with all the fine ladies of Lyla that I meet(if they let me experiment with them). You need to spend almost as much time as you would on the other part of the body. Do me a favor and do share with us all how it went.

Omg...what an eye opener! I thought every guy loves petite woman. I’m 171 cm, pretty tall although not 5’10 😎. Escorts are not mind reader, glad you mentioned kissing and sucking your Adam’s apple. How do we know if you don’t tell us this lol. Remind me if you meet me next time dear. Thanks for sharing

@NotchJohnson Whoa, you look much different than I expected, and so many different styles, you change it up often I see

More Christmas trees and sexy ladies. PS: I tried to find more Christmas tree picture but there was always a woman in front of it. Sorry.

Although I do agree with most of what you are saying here Mark, I will have to disagree with the 2 hour minimum. I have met some ladies that the first thing that they want to do is get you right back out the door or there is absolutely no chemistry so there goes your $$$$ out the window. As for repeat yes do go out and book as long as you wish because you already have the idea of what it will look like for that time frame.

Hehehehe. Tight.

Sorry @Jackrlx9691 I prefer the first statement that you said about joining them, I did this before and for them it was time for me to do it. I waited about 15 minutes to join because it was so sensual and they seemed to have fun, I didn't want to ruin that for them but when I did they took off my clothes real fast and I thought they were going to eat me alive. Luckily I'm still around to tell the story and would love to live it again. I do understand your point of view of just watching because women are so soft with each other and they love touching each other softly and firmly with lots of kissing of body parts, it's like they want to compare their own body to the partner that they are with. You understand what I mean?

oh what an amazing afternoon at her "home suite" everything needed to relax into another world of pleasure!

Thanks! I actually try to dig out more specific and honest opinion rather than a general consensus. Based on a research, White and Asian escorts are preferable btw. Im pretty technical, I did a thorough research few years back before becoming one lol

Be more specific please. So you like brown skinned/tanned Latina or Asian?

🥰 thanks dear. Let’s get back to the topic. There are several reasons, one has become an escort. Some of us do it because of necessity to support ourselves and family. Other like myself, do it because I personally have fun doing it to some extents. I give two thumbs up for those girls who literally spend so much time in preparation and during the session with the clients. Some even cook for their clients during a session. So sweet, truly GFE. Too bad, some girls are hesitating to share their secret of success after years of doing this profession. But Stefanie has mentioned integrity and reliability which I totally agree. Some clients have mentioned the importance of sense of humour, communication as well as attire. I have learned something a lot! Thanks. My initial thoughts were the more attractive the girls and the more skilled they are in bed, the more popular they are. Now, I know there are more or at least equally important aspects to be a great escort. How about ethnicity guys? Although I’m mostly Asian, but I feel different compared to the cute, innocent, feminine, slim and tiny Asian girls stereotype. Do most of you prefer certain type? I know some have mentioned variation is a spice of life but I personally have my own preference if I have to see a male companion 😜 Please mention your age group. I believe younger clients in their 20s 30s are mostly into their own age group. I would say 50 per cent guys in their 40s and 50s also prefer 20s to 30s something companion. White and/or Asian preferably? Slim or and athletic are the the best choice? be honest 😎

Omg...😎 lol

Most important? That is a hard question to answer - I think it will vary from provider/client - We all have criteria for what attracts us physically. Then there is the intellectual connection. One can be physically attracted to a person, but it the person doesn't provide good conversation, then for me, it is difficult to connect. I will point out I don't have one specific type of physical appearance that I "must" have. If I feel comfortable with another person that goes along way, also how they respond to me. As for the topic of dress, time of day, season, type of encounter all factor in. But for me casual, relaxed works the best.

A bit late posting this recco, sorry. 😉 I've had the extreme pleasure of meeting Kimmy. She is a remarkably beautiful lady. Tall, amazing figure and an exceptionally pretty face. She is also friendly and fairly easy to talk to. The research I did seemed to turn up a common theme. "Pics do not do her justice". I have to agree with this whole heartedly. As attractive as the photos are, I was still surprised by how pretty she is in person. Thank you @East Coast Kimmy for a wonderful time! I will definitely be repeating.

I think what we can all aim for is an opportunity for chemistry to take place. And this happens with these conversations on Lyla, booking a longer time so we can chat, both client and SP looking good, that all helps to set the stage. And being attentive to details...a dog room @Allie Zeon? You don’t know how many times I was tempted to jokingly ask if I could bring the dog. But then I know the cute dog would get more attention than me!

Do you know what helps @Allie Zeon it's when you interact with folks on this site and one of us meets with you. It's like you already know a bit about the other person and not only what she looks like(I know you can't see what the gentleman looks like unless he sends you a picture of himself). I will often send a small description of myself to the lady I want to meet and what I expect to see or have in our meeting.

Agree 100 per cent, especially for me. It’s challenging though. How to break the ice perfectly and can be not only intimate but also strongly connected within that 60-90 minutes. In my own experience, those who book me longer has much more chance to repeat compared to those who come for 45 min. I need some time to be relax as well with a client, so it goes both way

Its two fold. A lot of gents engage is this practice seeking anonymity. While I do understand the dangers and benefits of screening. I also do not think its wrong for a gent to seek anonymity as that's really the whole point of this for some. As a John how do I know the information used in the screening process won't be used against me in the future. I'm also trusting that the provider is an honest trustworthy individual which history would suggest especially locally here is not always true as we have seen extortion cases. When a lady posts I am almost 99.9% sure its not under her real name so why should I be complicit in revealing my full identity. Just my two cents I don't think there is any right or wrong and I will always believe that as a provider you have the right to run you buisness as YOU want. But as a John I also think we have a right to pursue an encounter of anonymity as well. Never a blanket solution for all unfortunately.

Great interview! Thanks for doing it, Emily! One other thing... I get where you're coming from, but really, it's fine. Nobody expects exclusivity here - you know that she sees other clients, and she knows that you see other ladies. I've never encountered a provider who had issues with anyone else I'd seen. And most ladies are quite happy to give a reference - just make sure you're asking someone who you've seen relatively recently (that person you saw once, three years ago, isn't going to remember you)... and I think it's polite to give the person you're asking a reference from a heads-up first.

Screening and safety is serious business. Knowing it has differential impacts and sight lines, depending on our positions of power and privilege in this industry (which can fluctuate alot even in one life)... and, more, acknowledging that we do perform a certain drag of acceptability to be considered professional or in the know; that those problems are themselves sights of meaningful intervention, (social class, racial consciousness), I think of a few things. Consumerism, respectability politics affects us in the ways we relate about safety, especially in spaces where we know our patrons see what we’re saying. Social justice takes precedence over optics, always. Each bleeding through the cracks and crevices and self-consciousness of it all. Very few of us would be able to effectively run our businesses in the ways described above. But it does signal to an idea of exclusivity that can bolster our images while playing into a void where practices that stand outside of that are people who are imagined as inviting violence upon themselves. Infantilizing and, in the least, portraying people as not doing enough. We don’t have to say it directly. It just becomes invisible, inferred... the issues of power, those imbalances and that legal violence which remain. practical strategies, varied approaches, sharing community resources and wisdom take us outside of ourselves. What we desire and what is happening are not one in the same. In this way, when we do interviews that attempt to represent not only our business practices but also broader understandings of workers and clients it’s good to make sure we know what we mean when we say this or that is essential. That is, especially in a racist settler culture where GFE and or companion work often involves swallowing other peoples’ anxieties about being caught seeing a companion while being pert and sweet, all the while trying to keep ourselves in a good way. There’s a coded ness to those relations that permeate between and beyond rigid client/worker identities. I sure as hell hope so. I see that humanity every day. How do we activate it? How do we to find ways to communicate across the strictures of entertainment, pleasure and encourage deeper truth telling? Is it ok to say that part of safety is also speaking truth for what it means to do this really meaningful work (my assertion) while taking the greatest hits as it pertains to surveillance, isolation and comforting people who themselves actively benefit from our restrained conditions of work? What is the consequence of appearing well adjusted to such notions of gentility to maintain composure? How much if that is the healer is us working with what we have?... seeing through the fluff to run our game in the face of challenges. Seeing our fullness and receiving that of others should not mean omitting some of these troubles of mutual recognition. How can I stop colluding with power to allow a way of thinking through what it means to be safer? I can become unwittingly complicit in those fascinations because those power relations have currency and we need currency/value to exist in relationships. I do not say this to over center myself or to attack either you Lydia or Emily. It’s not about individuals. It’s more a drop in the pond of dialogue to encourage community responsiveness (making Lyla receptive to a range of experiences and street smarts) and making sure we are centering efforts rooted in community when we are talking about pressing issues of how to keep ourselves safer. Screening and even after the screening. Empathy for what it looks like on the ground. I struggle through the myopia of these problems and am encouraged by community constantly. They are civic issues as much as they are couched as professional ones. Being raped, robbed, assaulted are things all of us share concern in. Many who would give their full name and have references enact violence against us on regular basis (overstepping boundaries, micro aggressions, stalking). Just as much of concern. I wonder, how, we on Lyla could help encourage topical interviews that do this centering work? Rooted in collaborative/justice oriented views of safety. Without this I fear we will confuse personal celebrity culture (rugged individualism) with justice and equity. The only way MFs are going to stop raping, robbing or otherwise messing with us is if we can mobilize strength of insight to know the difference.

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Has anyone seen her yet?I’m interested in setting something up.

At the end of the day its as simple as this.... We have the right to offer and refuse whatever services we want And YOU have that right to accept it or move on and contact a lady that provided a service you are looking for This is my body and my choice ... and i work how i feel comfortable I'm not going to lay out an explicit menu or engage in explicit conversations through text or on the phone If you contact me asking in a respectful mature manner about my dates I will respond in a way that makes sense 😉

I never give my apartment number out until I see who at my building entrance. Even then it’s not guaranteed they Will actually make it to my door but more often than not they will but it’s still the unfortunate risk I take which is not pleasant.

I've been asked (not on here but elsewhere) those 3. I never, ever give out any of that info. Services and rates are in the ad or on the website or if not, she will tell you. And that is up to the provider's discretion. As for what hotel she is staying at or anything of that nature, major red flag. Don't ever ask and don't ever offer. If anyone asked me, I would immediately report them to admin.

Omg girl! I am so sorry that this has happened to you! That is absolutely freaking ridiculous, SO NOT OKAY! Like discretion is one of the the utmost number one rules about being in this industry. That is a safety concern, not only if you in fact didn't want to see this gentleman but it is one thing to get a great review from a client(s) but for the gentlemen who gave your personal info out to another guy, is not only an invasion of privacy but also how would they feel if you went on a outcall and then informed another woman a specific area or exactly where a potential client lives and if the client didn't want to book her, there would be an outrage of negative comments and reviews about the female. I would be super pissed if that happened to me , which it has a couple of times in the past...I'm really sorry that this has happened to you!! I strongly hope that clients can understand that our privacy is just as important as theirs! Sincerely, Arianna Baby

So sorry about that. Let me make that up to you with a kiss. xoxox

It was my absolute pleasure to see Danielle again tonight on her first visit back to Moncton in a while. As with the first time, she was fun, intelligent, beautiful, and we had a VERY fun time together. Again, she comes highly recommended gents, she's a really dedicated professional and made me very happy!

True. I feel sorry for the ladies who are exploited. Sex trafficking exists. I have witnessed seeing plenty of young Chinese girls in their teens being picked up by their pimp at certain hours at night in Fort St John while touring there😔