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I can’t choose one. I want to wish ALL of us Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!!!! 😘😘🥰🥰🥰🥰🎄🎄🎄👯‍♀️👯‍♀️

I’ll wish @Greenteal a very happy holidays and look forward to more debates with you in the new year.

Thank you handsome! It means a ton. I will send that nomination right back at you. Thanks for being a smile for me when I couldn't find mine. ❤️ @lydiahardwood I know you can't be nominated but I still want to say thank you for all the positive life you put forth into Lyla, on twitter and all the support you give every single one of us here!

Shoutout to @StephanieMystique because I know she could use a little extra holiday cheer! She's always been a sweetheart, and I think always will be.

You said share positivity and this was the biggest I could come up with. Sharing a warm wish with someone who is usually on the opposite side of the table with you. We may have different opinions but we have respect for each other and this was a way to show it. Besides, we all know, I like a little Shock factor. LOL.

@JAYMIEMAESPARX because she has gone through a lot this year and has also been a good friend to me.

Awwww thank-you so much @waterat and @Cheeky.char means so much ❤️ I would like to nominate them both and @Sharpe as well for being so supportive and kind Sorry I couldn't pick just one

@Exotic Touch Danielle because she has been so kind to me and chatting through things with me, I really appreciate it ♥️

I'm thinking of @Exotic Touch Danielle and sending holiday best wishes. I haven't met her (yet, begone Covid!) but I have a heart-on for her.

Happy holidays. Wrap your presents as good as your dick!

Seconded! Happy Holidays to all!💚💚💚

I would like to take the time to wish everyone (especially @SashaMayFields) a joyous and merry holiday season. As her latest post implies ... I am already on Santa's "naughty list". 😢 But it was certainly fun getting there !!! 🤣 Only a few day left and we can put the year that was 2020 behind us. Looking forward to a new and safer 2021 when we can give everyone the hugs that they have needed.

Let's get naughty together and save Santa the trip Text 613*876*1415 Twitter@sashamayox Website sashamayfields.ca Happy Holidays 💋 XO

I would like to wish @Allie Zeon a happy holiday and hopefully adventure filled New year. Here’s to 2021!

Same to you ❤️

Thank you!!!! Same with you dear

I would like to give some love to @Daysha Love for having the courage to share her thoughts with us on what I feel is a very important issue in our industry 💋

SJ isn’t too far away from you. Hopefully we’ll see you in January. I’m sure the dog will be with me. We can test the theory that he’ll get more attention than me.

Just teasing about the painting. I find it a chore personally but it’s nice when it’s all finished. I don’t think I could have done any more stupid things my first time if I visited a lady I went to the wrong room. I wandered around the hotel parking lot like a total idiot. had to call her three times to get the instructions straight (not like they were hard instructions- park in front of my door and come in when I open it] I kissed her on the lips. Still not sure if was keen on that or was too polite to tell me to knock it off. I know cowboys ride angry bulls longer than I lasted So talk about nerves that needed to be calmed! Thank God she was a kind soul. Anyway that was a few years ago. A different story these days. Of course I’m amazing now! Ha!

I want to wish @JessyCeleste an amazing day filled with joy and happiness !

Good to know that we share the same feeling my dear. To create a great session, both parties have to put an effort and respect, open and trust each other. Providers are not goddesses. We are not a mind reader either nor that we can create a miracle of a fantastic session if the clients do nothing or don’t put any effort into it. Therefore If someone tells me he is a first timer, I’m actually not that thrilled. With first timers, I have to do more mental preparation, making sure I’m 100 per cent ready to soothe their nerves and deliver the best service that they deserve. It’s not easy. Tips are expected lol 😊 btw, I am excited that my dear regular will teach me how to paint the walls of my house correctly in few days. Never done it before. I hope my house will be brighter in color and shinier in time for Christmas and New Year🎄🎵

i visited with her. 100% fake pics, session was surprisingly not free. PM me if you want more info.

Another great interview! Thanks 🙏

Screening and safety is serious business. Knowing it has differential impacts and sight lines, depending on our positions of power and privilege in this industry (which can fluctuate alot even in one life)... and, more, acknowledging that we do perform a certain drag of acceptability to be considered professional or in the know; that those problems are themselves sights of meaningful intervention, (social class, racial consciousness), I think of a few things. Consumerism, respectability politics affects us in the ways we relate about safety, especially in spaces where we know our patrons see what we’re saying. Social justice takes precedence over optics, always. Each bleeding through the cracks and crevices and self-consciousness of it all. Very few of us would be able to effectively run our businesses in the ways described above. But it does signal to an idea of exclusivity that can bolster our images while playing into a void where practices that stand outside of that are people who are imagined as inviting violence upon themselves. Infantilizing and, in the least, portraying people as not doing enough. We don’t have to say it directly. It just becomes invisible, inferred... the issues of power, those imbalances and that legal violence which remain. practical strategies, varied approaches, sharing community resources and wisdom take us outside of ourselves. What we desire and what is happening are not one in the same. In this way, when we do interviews that attempt to represent not only our business practices but also broader understandings of workers and clients it’s good to make sure we know what we mean when we say this or that is essential. That is, especially in a racist settler culture where GFE and or companion work often involves swallowing other peoples’ anxieties about being caught seeing a companion while being pert and sweet, all the while trying to keep ourselves in a good way. There’s a coded ness to those relations that permeate between and beyond rigid client/worker identities. I sure as hell hope so. I see that humanity every day. How do we activate it? How do we to find ways to communicate across the strictures of entertainment, pleasure and encourage deeper truth telling? Is it ok to say that part of safety is also speaking truth for what it means to do this really meaningful work (my assertion) while taking the greatest hits as it pertains to surveillance, isolation and comforting people who themselves actively benefit from our restrained conditions of work? What is the consequence of appearing well adjusted to such notions of gentility to maintain composure? How much if that is the healer is us working with what we have?... seeing through the fluff to run our game in the face of challenges. Seeing our fullness and receiving that of others should not mean omitting some of these troubles of mutual recognition. How can I stop colluding with power to allow a way of thinking through what it means to be safer? I can become unwittingly complicit in those fascinations because those power relations have currency and we need currency/value to exist in relationships. I do not say this to over center myself or to attack either you Lydia or Emily. It’s not about individuals. It’s more a drop in the pond of dialogue to encourage community responsiveness (making Lyla receptive to a range of experiences and street smarts) and making sure we are centering efforts rooted in community when we are talking about pressing issues of how to keep ourselves safer. Screening and even after the screening. Empathy for what it looks like on the ground. I struggle through the myopia of these problems and am encouraged by community constantly. They are civic issues as much as they are couched as professional ones. Being raped, robbed, assaulted are things all of us share concern in. Many who would give their full name and have references enact violence against us on regular basis (overstepping boundaries, micro aggressions, stalking). Just as much of concern. I wonder, how, we on Lyla could help encourage topical interviews that do this centering work? Rooted in collaborative/justice oriented views of safety. Without this I fear we will confuse personal celebrity culture (rugged individualism) with justice and equity. The only way MFs are going to stop raping, robbing or otherwise messing with us is if we can mobilize strength of insight to know the difference.

That really sucks when you don’t end up with the girl you wanted, been there, unfortunately it’s part of this hobby. Just make sure if you do end up walking, do it politely and with class. I was at another AMP not long ago, not mentioning a name, and there was indeed a mix up and another hobbyist wasn’t able to see the girl he booked and made a huge scene. Started yelling at the attendants going on and on arguing with them for 5 plus mins. Not only did it ruin my nice relaxing massage, but this type of behaviour attracts unwanted attention, both of which can be detrimental to the business and fellow hobbyists. Im not implying that you personally would do something like this, just using this as an opportunity to remind others who are new to the hobby that this is not how you handle a bait and switch or any other “mix-up”