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Well I started maybe 15 years ago as a massage lady with happy returns. Then one day very long ago in the forest of Cathy I was pointed to then CERB. I opened an account and was Charmaine of Halifax. I was hit with so many inquires I had not idea what to do. So I closed my account . I didn't feel as pretty as some of the ladies and after reading many threads thought ,"No for sure this isn't for me " who would want me any with all these pretty younger . I can't compete . Soo, I came out again as a light domme. This was lots of fun but I soon realized it wasn't for me . So take 2, now I'm simply Katherine of Halifax. I knew I had much to learn .I chose a few ladies that seemed to have it going on and just learned my listening. Then I made an ad one day and Katherine of Halifax was born. There were lots of suitors , more than I imagined . in the beginning I knew one thing . Do your best and give the best service you can . Keep your word and try to be inventive . I offered various options , I never rush folks out the door and showed my appreciation for the visit . I learned most by working ladies doing duos. They all had different way and outlooks . Thank you Mariana, Lady Sophia , Emma A., The beautiful but short time with us Kylie Rose of PEI. Melanie Myes .I'm sorry if imisseds anyone . Special treats, a 2 hour date or more I serve some sort of small tray of food according to time of day . Late or evening guests are offered a glass of wine for the social part of the visit . AHEM . My selection of fine reds are fit for the Queen or Pope. Bet now you want to visit. 😉 Now to the fun . I take each date one person at a time . No cookie cutter here . I usually get requests before hand and hope its fun for both of us . I'm for sure a switch with a vivid imagination . These days Katherine is vintage chick but still open minded and like new adventures . I'm mostly your girlfriends who loves you . ( as much as permitted ) ha ha . If I am entertaining at home I am generous with my time you will never be rushed in my home. If you are really nice I will let you see my fabulous Siamese family . I'm not telling how many until you visit. ;0 That is long .Do your absolute best for your guest. have a spic and span home . he needs to be comfortable . Have an open mind to meet fantasies . As long as its a no pain game I am in . I also love role playing . Over the years I have several well developed characters . They can come out by request . I easily slide into character and am good at adapting to one of your favorite people in your fantasy . To finish , your guests are important . Remember they picked you from the sea of beauties . Be straight , this is who I am, my restrictions are not ever going to change . ( most respect you for this ) Weed the rule pushers , they serve you no good and may get worse . Be on time , treat your guest every time the best . I feel its better to cancel at least a day ahead if you are ill . If I can't do my best I don't offer myself. Your in call. Must be spotless , I mean hotel clean. You don't need fancy but clean is of paramount. Clean your cat litter every day . Guests hate the smell of a dirty box. No clutter , our guests don't want to see our stuff laying about . Its their time , make sure everything is perfect or as perfect as possible. No cats or dogs in site unless they are welcome . Clean and clean . always fresh clean towels soap, I have razers in case and mens deodorant, Clean your furniture . if a guy doesn't not have a cat he can't go home with a hairy butt. Have a lint roller just in case . This is important . I had trouble in my location but I cleared this up fast . Less is unacceptable . i guaranteed i was clean but it did take time . This is not for everyone I'm sure . I treat my guests the same way as I treat anyone else. I speak my mind , and can be considered too direct . You know exactly where you stand with me . This attracts the type who are seeking, playful conversation , longer dates and people with certain needs they may be shy in conveying . I'm non judgmental and tend to flow easily . But oh, if you make me cross I may give you a wife experience . 🙂 Seriously , be yourself , treat your gents with respect . it will come back to you many times over . You will get the odd one that is not right . He won't be back and hope that he finds someone more suitable . I don't advertise much unless I am going somewhere . People who really want you and are top shelf clients will hunt you down .I had someone recently that went away for 7 years and he came to visit . Hopefully this makes sense . Anyone who likes a part see if it works End of a long story, Katherine

I've learned that life is short, and sometimes you find out its even shorter than you once thought, so regardless of what's happening in your life, in the lives of those around you and in the world in general that you need to stop procrastinating, stop saying "one day I'll... " , and get out there and live, do that thing you wanted to do forever, go to that place you've always dreamed of, and learn that thing you've always wanted to learn. You may think you have all the time in the world, but the world may have other ideas.

Thank you! @Deanna Delight is such a darling ❤️ I had the pleasure of connecting with them a little more as well recently. I wish travelling was a little easier at the moment I'd love to go out and have a drink! Another thing to fix in the near future... Today I would love to send some positivity over to @Andee who has also not been shy to share tips and tricks she may has. I cannot get enough of those sexy boots in that photo 💋

Just helping out @rykky to ensure his nomination of @Sugar Kayne makes it into the draw!

Merry Christmas to all. A special wish to Sugar Kane. The sweetest thing under any tree. 😉

Yes...yes...and yes!!! Thanks Katherine. I can’t wait to see your Siamese family girl. Merry Christmas 🥰

Exactly , leave all your trouble in the car . TIme for you to be a King .

If someone can't take a moment to introduce themselves I know its not likely to work. Or first question could be what are your rates and services ? When I ask for either a proper introduction or to call 80 percent don't call , end of story . I have been targeted on other boards for not answering each inquiry. One prince suggested I did not answer in a certain province because I was so busy getting slammed with c---. and I didn't have the manners to do so. I guess he didn't think about his one word or short one liner as the way to approach me . This is in spite that when I travel i have very easy contact guidelines. One person said i was a high flutten Ho , over the hill and too much trouble to see. Anyway..... he had seen me less than the year before 🙂 I'm sure it never occurred to him that his Hey, How much , I want to book now or do you do this or that is a delete. . Also I make no guarantees until we have met . Every person is different . I do promise this, inquiry nicely , tell me something about you , such as employment , perhaps a reference and a phone number I can call at an agreed time . If you try and follow my simple requests you will be treated as a Royal King . Its easy as pie and i will do my best to ensure you are a very happy man . 🙂 Long ago I would answer the heys, sup and other one word addresses. I tried to explain being nice and more forthcoming is the way to get a date. It never once helped so...... I gave up .

Emily, as a same day booker, I have minimal screening requirements which some clients still refuse to go along with. So, I wholeheartedly agree with you, that if someone is not willing to meet us where we are at, they are welcome to move on. It is not up to us to jump through hoops to prove our worthyness to anyone.

It's not as funny as yours James but here it goes. In my younger years I had a date with this gorgeous girl, she was older then me and way more experienced as well. First date the drive in and I thought we would just play nice by kissing and using our hands on each other but this girl had other plans. Our clothes were off and we started playing around until she asked if I had a rubber...being the nerd that I was back then I open my wallet and find the one that I had for over 5 years in it. I take it out and the wrapper is torn up but the rubber is intact, she goes to unroll it and it doesn't work well. Don't worry she says, I have one in my purse. She uses that one, puts it on me and as she is unrolling this one I explode in it(don't nobody laugh now), I was very young and never done this before(that's my excuse). She is disappointed but me more then her I bet. My friends seen that I was there wanted to surprise me and showed up at the truck, knocked on the window that were all foggy, she rolled down the window(I know manual windows, you don't see that anymore) and I have that rubber in my hands with my pecker out still. To make matters worst, after the movie I bring this girl home and she never called me again or returned my calls. This truck was my dads and the next day when he decides to go somewhere he notices the 2 wrappers and rubbers on the floor, I got the high 5 from him but a speech from my mom. So besides getting caught from my friends after the act I was embarrassed by my parents.

FYI, There are a ton of "deposit scam" ads on LL. For some reason they often seem to pick Sydney as a location. Maybe it's a computer algorithm? I don't know. Be particularly careful there. They often also have the same ad running in other cities across the country. The goal is to engage you in texts and convince you to send an e-transfer for a deposit. Then they will ghost you. Basically don't send deposits unless you can verify they are legit first. (Web site, recommendations, social media presence, etc.). Also, there are many ways to search images. They easiest for me is to simply right click on the image (using Google Chrome) and click "search google for image". It will show you other places that photo is being used. Good luck @Sea-bug-guy! Mikey

Thank you so much @rykky! 🤗🤗😘 Happy Christmas everyone! 6 more sleeps!🥳

Katherine! Thanks for chiming in girl. Do you mind telling me, how long have you been doing this? Some girls have some regulars and they even don’t need to advertise anymore . How about you? Any recipe of your success ? thanks 🙏

I nominate @frednorth470 He's a good dude.

Yes. Merry Christmas to all. So excited for white Christmas 😍

I have learned through this crazy year that I have become far more relaxed and able to let trivial things go better. I'm starting to see the big picture in all of this and can now truly say that I no longer worry or stress myself over that which I have no control over. Only some of that has to do with "the vid" as Kevin Hart called it. Probably just as much has to do with my 2018- early 2019 being awful and sending me into a downward spiral. But the second half of 19, I was able to pull myself up with some help from friends and now have found some wisdom and inner strength. This crisis we are in has only strengthened me more and I have become a voice of reason and a mentor to many of those around me. Now I am looking forward to 2021 more than any new year in recent memory. I hope we can all turn a corner and get this craziness over with. I really hope humanity, in general has learned something but my only concern is that we, as a species, will simply revert back to what we always have been.

After nearly 10 years of seeing SPs the number 1 factor in me enjoying my time with a girl is whether they seem engaged and seem like they are enjoying what they are doing! There is nothing sexier than when a woman is enjoying sexy time with her partner. Make me feel wanted and sexy please! Its what I am missing at home and why I hobby. There is also a marked difference in making your client feel they are sexy and wanted and acting like you are sexy and doing sexy things for them. I mean its best with both but it comes through big time when you are 'performing' and not 'enjoying'

I think letting the session flow naturally is the best thing that can happen. While I understand the challenge of keeping things interesting, there’s also the fact that when you get to know an SP there’s also a level of comfort that develops and you can focus on each other’s mutual pleasure. Whereas meeting someone new, while thrilling, involves a lot of awkwardness and stumbling around to get acquainted.

Most important? That is a hard question to answer - I think it will vary from provider/client - We all have criteria for what attracts us physically. Then there is the intellectual connection. One can be physically attracted to a person, but it the person doesn't provide good conversation, then for me, it is difficult to connect. I will point out I don't have one specific type of physical appearance that I "must" have. If I feel comfortable with another person that goes along way, also how they respond to me. As for the topic of dress, time of day, season, type of encounter all factor in. But for me casual, relaxed works the best.

I'm likely the exception to the rule... I'm perfectly happy with literally whatever. Some ladies are more comfortable in lingerie as it sets the mood, but I'd just as happy with jeans/sweats and a teeshirt if that's what they prefer. In some ways, more so. Really, whatever makes my companion happy and most comfortable. If I'm getting a playstation 5 for christmas, I'm not going to be the one complaining about the wrapping paper! I do get that others are more sexually turned on by clothing, it's just not particularly me. For pictures in an ad, however, I'd probably expect a bit more "sexy" for lack of a better term. I don't expect a full carnal display, but something tasteful and with effort/thought put in. A semi-professional or tasteful photoshoot shows more effort (and dare I say professionalism?) than a mirror selfie, which in turn suggests something about the lady in question to me. I do admit to being a sucker for a woman with a pony tail, though 🙂

We can't always guarantee chemistry. We can do our very best, but there will people we never jive with and that's okay. I think that's goes along the lines of respect and being able as two adults have that conversation to say 'I am not your person.' I have done this a couple of times and if I think someone might be a better fit for them, I would offer that information to them to go inquire. If there is chemistry! We know how much more both of us look forward to the date and the time we have together. We also have to consider, we don't know the clients story and why they are seeing us. It could be a one time thing, their regular provider wasn't available, it is a moment of convenience, or whatever it is. I always try my best to make it a moment they wont forget. Even if I never see them again, they have the fond memories to look back on.

For me it’s important to understand that the time we spend is an escape for me from outside worries. I love to be loved & caressed, give & receive respect. Conversation plays such an important role. Thanks

I love a lady, with a bubbly, personality who sees me as a person and not just a source of income. I would rate "skills"😉 as the second most important attribute. In third would be looks.

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