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Well I started maybe 15 years ago as a massage lady with happy returns. Then one day very long ago in the forest of Cathy I was pointed to then CERB. I opened an account and was Charmaine of Halifax. I was hit with so many inquires I had not idea what to do. So I closed my account . I didn't feel as pretty as some of the ladies and after reading many threads thought ,"No for sure this isn't for me " who would want me any with all these pretty younger . I can't compete . Soo, I came out again as a light domme. This was lots of fun but I soon realized it wasn't for me . So take 2, now I'm simply Katherine of Halifax. I knew I had much to learn .I chose a few ladies that seemed to have it going on and just learned my listening. Then I made an ad one day and Katherine of Halifax was born. There were lots of suitors , more than I imagined . in the beginning I knew one thing . Do your best and give the best service you can . Keep your word and try to be inventive . I offered various options , I never rush folks out the door and showed my appreciation for the visit . I learned most by working ladies doing duos. They all had different way and outlooks . Thank you Mariana, Lady Sophia , Emma A., The beautiful but short time with us Kylie Rose of PEI. Melanie Myes .I'm sorry if imisseds anyone . Special treats, a 2 hour date or more I serve some sort of small tray of food according to time of day . Late or evening guests are offered a glass of wine for the social part of the visit . AHEM . My selection of fine reds are fit for the Queen or Pope. Bet now you want to visit. 😉 Now to the fun . I take each date one person at a time . No cookie cutter here . I usually get requests before hand and hope its fun for both of us . I'm for sure a switch with a vivid imagination . These days Katherine is vintage chick but still open minded and like new adventures . I'm mostly your girlfriends who loves you . ( as much as permitted ) ha ha . If I am entertaining at home I am generous with my time you will never be rushed in my home. If you are really nice I will let you see my fabulous Siamese family . I'm not telling how many until you visit. ;0 That is long .Do your absolute best for your guest. have a spic and span home . he needs to be comfortable . Have an open mind to meet fantasies . As long as its a no pain game I am in . I also love role playing . Over the years I have several well developed characters . They can come out by request . I easily slide into character and am good at adapting to one of your favorite people in your fantasy . To finish , your guests are important . Remember they picked you from the sea of beauties . Be straight , this is who I am, my restrictions are not ever going to change . ( most respect you for this ) Weed the rule pushers , they serve you no good and may get worse . Be on time , treat your guest every time the best . I feel its better to cancel at least a day ahead if you are ill . If I can't do my best I don't offer myself. Your in call. Must be spotless , I mean hotel clean. You don't need fancy but clean is of paramount. Clean your cat litter every day . Guests hate the smell of a dirty box. No clutter , our guests don't want to see our stuff laying about . Its their time , make sure everything is perfect or as perfect as possible. No cats or dogs in site unless they are welcome . Clean and clean . always fresh clean towels soap, I have razers in case and mens deodorant, Clean your furniture . if a guy doesn't not have a cat he can't go home with a hairy butt. Have a lint roller just in case . This is important . I had trouble in my location but I cleared this up fast . Less is unacceptable . i guaranteed i was clean but it did take time . This is not for everyone I'm sure . I treat my guests the same way as I treat anyone else. I speak my mind , and can be considered too direct . You know exactly where you stand with me . This attracts the type who are seeking, playful conversation , longer dates and people with certain needs they may be shy in conveying . I'm non judgmental and tend to flow easily . But oh, if you make me cross I may give you a wife experience . 🙂 Seriously , be yourself , treat your gents with respect . it will come back to you many times over . You will get the odd one that is not right . He won't be back and hope that he finds someone more suitable . I don't advertise much unless I am going somewhere . People who really want you and are top shelf clients will hunt you down .I had someone recently that went away for 7 years and he came to visit . Hopefully this makes sense . Anyone who likes a part see if it works End of a long story, Katherine

I've learned that life is short, and sometimes you find out its even shorter than you once thought, so regardless of what's happening in your life, in the lives of those around you and in the world in general that you need to stop procrastinating, stop saying "one day I'll... " , and get out there and live, do that thing you wanted to do forever, go to that place you've always dreamed of, and learn that thing you've always wanted to learn. You may think you have all the time in the world, but the world may have other ideas.

Thank you! @Deanna Delight is such a darling ❤️ I had the pleasure of connecting with them a little more as well recently. I wish travelling was a little easier at the moment I'd love to go out and have a drink! Another thing to fix in the near future... Today I would love to send some positivity over to @Andee who has also not been shy to share tips and tricks she may has. I cannot get enough of those sexy boots in that photo 💋

Just helping out @rykky to ensure his nomination of @Sugar Kayne makes it into the draw!

Merry Christmas to all. A special wish to Sugar Kane. The sweetest thing under any tree. 😉

Yes...yes...and yes!!! Thanks Katherine. I can’t wait to see your Siamese family girl. Merry Christmas 🥰

Exactly , leave all your trouble in the car . TIme for you to be a King .

If someone can't take a moment to introduce themselves I know its not likely to work. Or first question could be what are your rates and services ? When I ask for either a proper introduction or to call 80 percent don't call , end of story . I have been targeted on other boards for not answering each inquiry. One prince suggested I did not answer in a certain province because I was so busy getting slammed with c---. and I didn't have the manners to do so. I guess he didn't think about his one word or short one liner as the way to approach me . This is in spite that when I travel i have very easy contact guidelines. One person said i was a high flutten Ho , over the hill and too much trouble to see. Anyway..... he had seen me less than the year before 🙂 I'm sure it never occurred to him that his Hey, How much , I want to book now or do you do this or that is a delete. . Also I make no guarantees until we have met . Every person is different . I do promise this, inquiry nicely , tell me something about you , such as employment , perhaps a reference and a phone number I can call at an agreed time . If you try and follow my simple requests you will be treated as a Royal King . Its easy as pie and i will do my best to ensure you are a very happy man . 🙂 Long ago I would answer the heys, sup and other one word addresses. I tried to explain being nice and more forthcoming is the way to get a date. It never once helped so...... I gave up .

Emily, as a same day booker, I have minimal screening requirements which some clients still refuse to go along with. So, I wholeheartedly agree with you, that if someone is not willing to meet us where we are at, they are welcome to move on. It is not up to us to jump through hoops to prove our worthyness to anyone.

It's not as funny as yours James but here it goes. In my younger years I had a date with this gorgeous girl, she was older then me and way more experienced as well. First date the drive in and I thought we would just play nice by kissing and using our hands on each other but this girl had other plans. Our clothes were off and we started playing around until she asked if I had a rubber...being the nerd that I was back then I open my wallet and find the one that I had for over 5 years in it. I take it out and the wrapper is torn up but the rubber is intact, she goes to unroll it and it doesn't work well. Don't worry she says, I have one in my purse. She uses that one, puts it on me and as she is unrolling this one I explode in it(don't nobody laugh now), I was very young and never done this before(that's my excuse). She is disappointed but me more then her I bet. My friends seen that I was there wanted to surprise me and showed up at the truck, knocked on the window that were all foggy, she rolled down the window(I know manual windows, you don't see that anymore) and I have that rubber in my hands with my pecker out still. To make matters worst, after the movie I bring this girl home and she never called me again or returned my calls. This truck was my dads and the next day when he decides to go somewhere he notices the 2 wrappers and rubbers on the floor, I got the high 5 from him but a speech from my mom. So besides getting caught from my friends after the act I was embarrassed by my parents.

FYI, There are a ton of "deposit scam" ads on LL. For some reason they often seem to pick Sydney as a location. Maybe it's a computer algorithm? I don't know. Be particularly careful there. They often also have the same ad running in other cities across the country. The goal is to engage you in texts and convince you to send an e-transfer for a deposit. Then they will ghost you. Basically don't send deposits unless you can verify they are legit first. (Web site, recommendations, social media presence, etc.). Also, there are many ways to search images. They easiest for me is to simply right click on the image (using Google Chrome) and click "search google for image". It will show you other places that photo is being used. Good luck @Sea-bug-guy! Mikey

Get y'all in the Christmas spirit

I would like to offer holiday greetings to @East Coast Kimmy. I hope Santa finds you this heard. Happy holidays!

I used to get clothing , dress, lingerie requests and I kind of liked it . It was a small thing I could do and usually I had the requested item. These days I have noticed much less of that and am told to wear what is comfortable. I like dressing up , it makes me feel like I tried and also I feel a little sexier. Deep down I'm a Tomboy Betty and I embrace that side as well . Lots of visitors like the look so its a nice change. These guests like the casual look as it is more authentic for them . Makes sense . We don't spend a lot of time at home in high heels, stockings and garter belts. 🙂 I agree with Mark , conservation and a few laughs get the chemistry brewing and without conversation and some banter it can be a dull date. When I entertain at home I'm not busy and would far prefer some chat on the couch, I'm not concerned about being over time . Hey my overhead is low . 🙂 My way may not be for everyone but it works best for me . If I'm happy it means my guest is happy . We all approach our dates different and I am sure everyone has their special way to make the most of the time .

I nominate @frednorth470 He's a good dude.

I agree although that I’m not saying the reco is fake. It’s actually not difficult at all to be verified by LL and every provider should do that in order to ease the mind of clients. the clients can be avoid being scammed as well. However, not every verified provider is honest and reliable. Unfortunately, some took the deposit from clients and never get back to them. Recos from verified, senior clients are important. Although I’m not saying those who just join or never post a reco before it’s fake. But if you keep getting replies or recos from those who just join the board, it’s indeed questionable. we just need to have one reco from a man like waterat, NotchJohnson, sharpe, letsplay, greenteal, roamingguy, Moza, clear bluesky and some others active members in here to truly verify this provider

I've learned that Covid is affecting peoples heads. I have coworkers that are going crazy and doing dumb things, not sure if it's an act or real. Also it's looking like I'll spend a beautiful Christmas meal with my wife only. no inlaws coming over at my place this year and that is a huge positive for me.

It's like quitting smoking. "just one puff and I'll be good..." lol. A co-worker's mother is in the ICU. Doesn't look like she's coming out. I think I can do without for another month.

Allie, Reading all the comments (and have already commented myself) I want to further add. When first meeting with a lady, I suspect both are a little nervous - to be suspected. If the client has done their homework and does what the provider expects without being "reminded", the encounter should move along smoothly. Getting comfortable with each other with some general conversation goes a long way to setting the mode for the encounter. To me a good client respects the boundaries of the lady and should (must) ask what is "out of bounds" during the encounter. That will make things move along at a comfortable level. I will add, that the first encounter in my opinion should be a minimum of 2 hours - I know some will disagree with me, but I personally feel strongly about this. During follow on encounters, the level of comfort and trust will build and make each encounter and enjoyable experience. Most of all take time to talk and enjoy each others company. It is not a race to the finish.

From a slightly different perspective, articulation is often a key factor for me. While I’m not dismissing or putting anyone down, if you have 14 different emojis in your ad, or repeatedly use urban slang, I’m probably not your target customer and the odds of chemistry between us aren’t as high. A well written ad will catch my attention as quick as photos. To reiterate what Allie said, being able to talk intelligently with someone and connect with them makes a huge difference.

I look for ladies who represent themselves truthfully. I’m not interested in those who perform online to attract me as a client. I prefer authenticity. Age is irrelevant really as youth can be misinterpreted since some age better than others. So a number is less important than other characteristics. At least from my perspective. I also enjoy ladies who are independent and don’t rely on others for their success. Perhaps that is why I pay little attention to reviews.Although I appreciate this forum for threads like this.