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That was a very interesting reflection you put out there. Thank you for that. You were fortunate in that you picked @KylieJane, @StephanieMystique and @charlottequinn123 for companions although it appears as if Kylie picked the other two for you. I have been fortunate enough to have met all three of these ladies and I totally agree with you, they are all classy, respectful and wonderful people. Again, thanks for your thoughts and I hope things work out for you in a very positive way. Have a great 2021.

Hello friends. It’s been a long time, but I want to reconnect with my community and to wish everyone a Happy New Year! I’d like to be back in touch. See you!

Not sure if this is the right place but I will be discussing escorts so this is where I write it! It is hard to believe that in a few days it will be two years since I became a hobbyist. I came into this knowing nothing having been married for 45 year's total, spanning two marriages. And I never cheated. So I came into this with so many misconceptions. My only experience with escort was when I was in Germany where you went to this house, paid and picked a girl and did your thing. Whether it took ten minutes or an hour you did your thing and got out. Purely physical! So I was kind of expecting similar when I contacted @KylieJane for my first modern day experience. What a surprise I got. I met a beautiful blonde lady, impeccably dressed, with a gorgeous smile. My education started. I credit Kylie Jane for bringing me out of the rock I had been under for so long. She accepted me for who I was and treated me with respect, never ridiculed my naivety(?). She taught me about etiquette, encouraged me to learn all I could. She directed me to site like this one where much information can be found. When she felt I was ready she talked about duo with another lady. Only issue I had was I never was a man to share the woman I am with with anyone. I gave it some thought and decided that I was ready for new experiences. So it came that I was introduced to @StephanieMystique. I have to admit that I was distant at first. Kylie and Stephanie were wonderful at loosening the tension and making feel at ease. There followed more duos for longer time. Then I was introduced to @charlottequinn123. Again a great lady. That first year was such a learning time. Kylie taught me so many things. One thing I really liked is that our visits were not just sexual but involved so many nice moments with great conversations. Then the pandemic struck. Being a mature man in a high risk condition, cleanliness and good hygiene became very important to me. We managed to navigate the lock downs, restrictions and limited contacts and we able to continue some contact. Then when things got better as far as being able to visit, my personal life took a thimble. I now had to fight for my grandkids, support them financially. That and taking care of my house which needed work done. It became overwhelming and I decided to sell my house. My activity as hobbyist had almost stopped. Then the car accident came. Just at a time when I finally had an appointment with Kylie Jane. I did not think she would want to see me with a disfigured face, broken tooth and a sore acky body. But she did and she was so gentle with me. I also found out during scans after the accident that I have lung cancer. Again, she did not pity but very encouraging and understanding. Finally at the end of November I was able to pick up my activities again and try to make up for loss time. When I look back I am so thankful to @KylieJanefor never giving up on me. I have learned a lot from her about this life. Also Stephanie and Charlotte have been there also. I hope to see more of them this year. At the beginning some have rebuked me for praising this lady. Too bad. If I feel that someone deserves praise I will not hesitate to give it. Kylie Jane does indeed. She has shown me how far showing respect and appreciation can go. I am proud to say she is my companion and my friend. I have no hesitation in being public with it also. Thank you @KylieJane and Stephanie and Charlotte. Maybe this year will bring the four of together again! .PS:I am alone, so I talk and write a lot!!!

Thank you! I wish you well also! Yes indeed @KylieJanedid pick @StephanieMystique and @charlottequinn123 for me. I think that she realized that, having been a one woman man, I was not likely to do more looking as I was content with her. She also appreciated the need for diversity in this and felt that they would be compatible. You are right also. They can be fun and naughty but are very classy and with decorum!

Definitely! It's great to have some light shed on this. Thanks for doing it, Char!

My donation rates will remain the same for the start of 2021. I will evaluate this on June 1st. My availability Monday Jan 4 Off Tuesday Jan 5 In/out 12pm-11pm Wednesday Jan 6 Off Thursday Jan 7 In/out 1230pm-12am Friday Jan 8 Off Saturday Jan 9 Off Incalls are in Halifax at a central, discreet location with plenty of free parking. Outcalls are Halifax and surrounding areas and require 6hr notice for preparation. Open to men, women and couples. Connect with me Text or call: 902-456-2898 (text preferred) Email: [email protected] Twitter: @Elitekylie Website: https://www.kyliejane.net 'private' or 'unknown' callers will not be answered. Donation Rates 30min... $140 Hour... $220 90min... $320 2 hours..$420 Additional hrs $200/hr Pics on site $25 each Videos on site $50/15min Pics and videos are for established clients only and are at my discretion. Overnights available, please contact me for rates and details. Special requests can be discussed and may be subject to additional rates. Duos available with @dirtyblondesteph, please contact either one of us for details. Outcall rates are location based and may be subject to a $50/hr travel fee.  About Me I am a 5'6 beautiful blonde with soft pleasing features, engaging blue eyes that will captivate you and luscious fill lips that will more than please you all over. My small waist, perfect hips, tight booty and perky breasts gives me amazing curves(36d-28-36) and an hourglass shape. With soft silky skin that is ready for your touch and firm strong legs that will easily wrap around you, I know I have a body that you will enjoy and take pleasure in. I'm open-minded, fetish and role-play friendly and look forward to bringing your fantasies to life. My attire allows me to satisfy many wishes, whether you desire the girl-next-door, the bad girl your mother warned you about or the exotic Porn star I can be anything you need and want. I have a very outgoing and cheerful personality. When I greet you at the door with the perfect kiss and you look into my alluring blue eyes any concerns and nervousness will just melt away. I am genuinely interested in your day, learning about you, your likes and dislikes, anything that will make our time together comfortable and enjoyable. I am smoke free, and expect you to be clean and drug and disease free as I am. This is a confidential, and discreet encounter that is held in respect. Donations are exchange for time and time only. Anything that happens within that time is mutually agreed upon as consenting adults. Yours always, Kylie Jane xo

Another amazing and insightful interview. Thank you both for doing this.

Thanks Lydia. Much more than I expected. I’m sure Ms Manda has a lot to say about online work and is a good person to talk to. I’m also glad to learn more about @Cheeky.char and her story. Thank you for sharing Char! Hope you’ll be able to travel in the near future.

Locked down, spending a lot of time trying new things, tonight it's some white rice and to accompany it a coconut curry chickpea dish.

Happy New year to you too my friend Cato; I really miss all your contributions here but so happy to still hear from you once in a while.

Happy New Year to all lyla members. It has been a very good year and experience for me. I appreciate the support I have received here and intend to continue my support of everyone here. Last year has been a great learning experience as a new SW and will continue my endeavours with the help and support of all you wonderful people. Thank you all. Welcome to 2021. ❤️

Good to see you, Cato! Happy New Year to all!

Not really relevant to the rest of the lyrics in the song, but just the title... Given my Covid-Smart Sessions (linked for those who don't know so you can get the humor behind it) and just my daily practices, the song that describes how this pandemic has effected my lifestyle HAS to be ..... 🥁 Like a Surgeon by Weird Al Yanchovich

A little late but I hope everyone on Lyla had a wonderful Christmas full of love and happiness. And really good food. I know I gained 20lbs yesterday. LOL A little late but I hope everyone on Lyla had a wonderful Christmas full of love and happiness. And really good food. I know I gained 20lbs yesterday. LOL

m.youtube.com/watch?v=nD3FmNxACqM Another Musical Rambling RG

I would like to read an interview from the legend like Victoria Jolie who used to be popular in the US and here in Canada

Happy New Year!

Rod Phillips He sucks because while Minister Of Finance in the Ford government he completely disregarded his own government's policies on Covid and traveled to St Barts for a Christmas vacation. He also attempted to deceive the public by sending tweets leaving the impression he was at home in Ontario over Christmas. He knew what he was doing was wrong, he did it anyway He's resigned as minister...hardly a punishment befitting what he did...yes I'm thinking of all the hardships faced by Ontarians as life has become very difficult and restrictive since coronavirus. Frankly imo the party should boot him out...that would be a start A Ranting Rambling or is it a Rambling Rant RG

I would like to see an interview with @JAYMIEMAESPARX

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year to you Cato! And it's good to see you back. It was great to meet you as we celebrated our memories of Barb's at the club.

This is a very good post. You are 100% correct. We should be saying something if you aee a girl you suspect might be being forced. I also would have no issue going to the police however if some of you would maybe at least post it in the warning section so someone else can. Personally i would like to see this legalized and regulated. Safer for everyone and we should do our part too. Also stop sending deposits! I have never had a legitimate girl require a deposit.

Sensuality At It’s Finest ~ Lacy Rose ~ Visiting Ottawa Soon I will be visiting Ottawa in the New Year. I have never been to Ottawa so as you can imagine, I am super excited! I can be found on Twitter: @LacyRosexo My website is where you can find all of my information: Lacy Rose I hope to see you when I visit Ottawa!! Much Love & Respect Lacy Rose xoxo

Personally, I made a porn site which is pretty cool esp as I did it completely by myself, no middle man nothing which I think is positive for the industry, feminism and independence as a whole.. but thats just me and its not like its going to change the world but Im not the only one and given how Only Fans has repeatedly screwed girls over by simply telling them to shove it on pay day, content creators like myself may one day become the norm. Would this have happened without covid? Probably but not for me and likely not for many therefore not for a long time. On a much larger scale I think the silver lining of 2020 is that we no longer take things for granted. As much as we complain, I think we even now should remember to be grateful for the fact this happened in 2020 rather than 1990... not only without video calls but a time without SMS, without personal emails AND where a long distances phone call cost an arm and a leg. We may feel isolated but honestly, we really aren't. Those who have contacted me and asked how I;m doing, my answer this year has been, "I'm great and grateful" and because of viewing things this way, I haven;t been miserable in the least. Another thing is I think we Canadians got a real reminder of just how amazing this country truly is. Yay Canada! Sending all of you love

Thank you for your input dear @anon30s! I have leant one thing that i did not pay attention before that clients are actually can be divided into 2 main groups: The first group is the one who prioritize communication....interpersonal human touch...an ultimate GFE experience . the look and age are not their first priority, although everyone says, it's definitely the bonus. The second group is the one who pay a particular attention to a certain act or certain type and even certain age group.a girl For example, someone who searches for those who can give him an oral stimulation for an hour long, golden shower, domination, etc. Or someone who is looking for petite, slimmer type in her 20s only. GFE has become secondary since the service is geared towards, either certain look, body type and age group or a lady with a specialty service. As a provider, it is simply impossible to meet everyone's needs, wants, fetishes and fantasy. Based on the comments in here, what we can do as a provider is simply be ourselves and do the best we can do and do what we like to make sure that everybody is happy, including us, as a provider. Personally, all comments have given me the assurance that it is ok being me and that is ok that i will not be everybody's type. Therefore, Just be excellent of what we have been given for and keep maintaining our excellent service to our clients ...be punctual and have integrity (input from @StephanieMystique, cleanliness and hygiene @Katherine of Halifax, and I would add to be always fit, healthy, happy and attentive, all are the key to a longevity in this profession. Price is also important and i agree with that. I personally give some discounts and special offer5 from time to time, if you pay enough attention lol (wink!). merry Christmas and happy new year!!!

Age 52 and in a smaller isolated city in Canada. Not that much experience in seeing providers but some of the same principles could carry over from those I get massage from (legit massage - unfortunately no massage parlors in my city) or exotic dancers that give lap dances. While my historical "go to" for being attracted to women is "short and stacked" leaning toward or is a BBW type, when I visit my only local strip bar the dancer than I most want to see when she comes into town is slim and tall and bit older than the average. When she gives a lap dance it is a sensual experience with her running her fingers down your back and slowing doing a light grinding and sometime just giving a nice long hug along with the dances. Unlike some dancers she is always touching you with her body in some way during pretty well the entirety of the dances. The average dancer that does lap dances and comes to my city isn't that impressive - you either get someone who treats most of the dance like a table dance and is a distance away from you for much of the dance, or once in a while someone that seems to want to grind your meat into hamburger. If I were to find a semi regular service provider that was in my price range (I'm certainly no high roller) and availability I'd be looking for someone that gave more of the GFE I've heard about - but seems rare and elusive in my area. Conversation, looks, piv sex, are all secondary or tertiary to me. I'd like someone that would kiss and make out for a while, along with ending things with a blowjob or piv sex. Someone who teases to please and isn't trying to get me off very quickly. She could be young or on her way to collecting old age pension, bbw or a "spinner", dressed up or not (prefer her to be clean and her place not a disaster area). While it is not important, I'd rather she said little or just some casual conversation than trying to hard to give me unconvincing lines on how attractive I am, big my penis is, how fascinating some aspect of life is or anything else along those lines.

Well I started maybe 15 years ago as a massage lady with happy returns. Then one day very long ago in the forest of Cathy I was pointed to then CERB. I opened an account and was Charmaine of Halifax. I was hit with so many inquires I had not idea what to do. So I closed my account . I didn't feel as pretty as some of the ladies and after reading many threads thought ,"No for sure this isn't for me " who would want me any with all these pretty younger . I can't compete . Soo, I came out again as a light domme. This was lots of fun but I soon realized it wasn't for me . So take 2, now I'm simply Katherine of Halifax. I knew I had much to learn .I chose a few ladies that seemed to have it going on and just learned my listening. Then I made an ad one day and Katherine of Halifax was born. There were lots of suitors , more than I imagined . in the beginning I knew one thing . Do your best and give the best service you can . Keep your word and try to be inventive . I offered various options , I never rush folks out the door and showed my appreciation for the visit . I learned most by working ladies doing duos. They all had different way and outlooks . Thank you Mariana, Lady Sophia , Emma A., The beautiful but short time with us Kylie Rose of PEI. Melanie Myes .I'm sorry if imisseds anyone . Special treats, a 2 hour date or more I serve some sort of small tray of food according to time of day . Late or evening guests are offered a glass of wine for the social part of the visit . AHEM . My selection of fine reds are fit for the Queen or Pope. Bet now you want to visit. 😉 Now to the fun . I take each date one person at a time . No cookie cutter here . I usually get requests before hand and hope its fun for both of us . I'm for sure a switch with a vivid imagination . These days Katherine is vintage chick but still open minded and like new adventures . I'm mostly your girlfriends who loves you . ( as much as permitted ) ha ha . If I am entertaining at home I am generous with my time you will never be rushed in my home. If you are really nice I will let you see my fabulous Siamese family . I'm not telling how many until you visit. ;0 That is long .Do your absolute best for your guest. have a spic and span home . he needs to be comfortable . Have an open mind to meet fantasies . As long as its a no pain game I am in . I also love role playing . Over the years I have several well developed characters . They can come out by request . I easily slide into character and am good at adapting to one of your favorite people in your fantasy . To finish , your guests are important . Remember they picked you from the sea of beauties . Be straight , this is who I am, my restrictions are not ever going to change . ( most respect you for this ) Weed the rule pushers , they serve you no good and may get worse . Be on time , treat your guest every time the best . I feel its better to cancel at least a day ahead if you are ill . If I can't do my best I don't offer myself. Your in call. Must be spotless , I mean hotel clean. You don't need fancy but clean is of paramount. Clean your cat litter every day . Guests hate the smell of a dirty box. No clutter , our guests don't want to see our stuff laying about . Its their time , make sure everything is perfect or as perfect as possible. No cats or dogs in site unless they are welcome . Clean and clean . always fresh clean towels soap, I have razers in case and mens deodorant, Clean your furniture . if a guy doesn't not have a cat he can't go home with a hairy butt. Have a lint roller just in case . This is important . I had trouble in my location but I cleared this up fast . Less is unacceptable . i guaranteed i was clean but it did take time . This is not for everyone I'm sure . I treat my guests the same way as I treat anyone else. I speak my mind , and can be considered too direct . You know exactly where you stand with me . This attracts the type who are seeking, playful conversation , longer dates and people with certain needs they may be shy in conveying . I'm non judgmental and tend to flow easily . But oh, if you make me cross I may give you a wife experience . 🙂 Seriously , be yourself , treat your gents with respect . it will come back to you many times over . You will get the odd one that is not right . He won't be back and hope that he finds someone more suitable . I don't advertise much unless I am going somewhere . People who really want you and are top shelf clients will hunt you down .I had someone recently that went away for 7 years and he came to visit . Hopefully this makes sense . Anyone who likes a part see if it works End of a long story, Katherine

But starting a new thread for a more specific subject is also absolutely fine.

I am another who’d also support that decision. We need more people here who speak truthfully about this community and who aren’t two faced.

Another great Lyla lady that would be awesome for people to know about is @JessyCeleste. I have known her for quite some time now and she is a very sexy lady between the ears(smart) and from head to toe.

Aww thankyou sweetheart